kidster Posted March 16 Report Share Posted March 16 (edited) Have you ever loved someone deeply but ended up hating him? At the same time, you can't bring yourself to hate him for too long, and end up caring for him again. Till one day, you realise it's not going to anywhere no matter how hard you try. It's one sided since the beginning after all. You have been living in denial all this while. That's the day you finally come to your senses and say to yourself. "Goodbye. Thanks for the beautiful memories of us together even though it's short-lived. It's not that I don't love you anymore. I need to pull myself to avoid falling too deep and hurt too badly" Edited March 18 by kidster Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted March 16 Report Share Posted March 16 I don't see in your post the "despair" in the title. And... where is the need for HATE?? Isn't it better if it goes: "from-love-to-disillusion"? Because TRUE love should become a barrier for any hate thereafter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted March 18 Report Share Posted March 18 If you start hating someone so much, then probably you missed the point to break the relationship. However, in any relationship scenario, it will always come to certain conflicts where you end up being disgusted by the other partner. the question then would be: is he worth to continue the relationship and what does he do for me to overcome my disgust. If it refers to dishonesty by playing around, I guess, being more realistic that sexual desires on the other partner vane off after some years, is just a natural factor in every relationship (straight or gay). therefore, you just need to be ready for the point where the relationship grew on other bonding matters instead of just sex (and getting to be more understanding that the other part may stray around to find his sexual pleasure...). Steve5380 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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