GKS Posted January 16, 2022 Author Report Share Posted January 16, 2022 (edited) 韩剧探讨人夫与第三者以及原配，还有家人与社会关系十分细致。 Edited May 16, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pistachio Posted January 27, 2022 Report Share Posted January 27, 2022 (edited) 我卻為我愛的人甘心一生傷悲 Edited January 27, 2022 by pistachio Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted January 28, 2022 Author Report Share Posted January 28, 2022 On 1/28/2022 at 12:19 AM, pistachio said: 我卻為我愛的人甘心一生傷悲 解放自己。重看世界与人生。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted March 17, 2022 Author Report Share Posted March 17, 2022 On 7/18/2015 at 9:31 PM, GKS said: 亲爱的，你还记得这部片子吗？ 2005年，我决定离开你后，繁复的工作与我在人前须极度压抑的伤痛，我真不知我还有气力生存下来吗？ 几乎有三个月不见。 那时，我觉得我付出的那么真，才会那么痛。 由于真，才会像被温暖得阳光拥抱下那般地幸福，也以为世界是瑰丽绚烂的！但你罕见地背叛了我对你的信任，使到所有的诺言都变成谎言。你，知道我有多痛吗？ 一夜之间，我整个世界分崩离析了。难道要向家人、朋友求救吗？但你是已婚者，我得保护你。但你得狠心，是在保护我吗？那一瞬间，是谁在保护谁？ 我一直未离开“吹风”(Blowing wind )是因为许多读者一起陪我走过这么痛的心路，也感谢Oral B 及Henry (按：这里太多henry ,手机遗失，也不知其下落）的来电安慰。 我依然极力面对生平至大的危机。即使我考哈佛也都没这么辛苦。但，这一次，我几乎窒息了！ 在宗教的力量，与个人理智的探索下，我看清我还是深爱着他的这一点，才渐渐抽出痛楚，不会再难过！但我始终保持缄默。希望我的缄默会让他在流逝的时光中了然这次我是执意离开他的讯号。 2个月后，他捎来一个电话。 “走！今晚陪我去看蓝宇！”电话那端依然俨然是那位“楚霸王”。 “……”一言不发，我真想挂断电话。 “就这么说定！今晚我到你办公室接你！没事！你什么都别说，好久都没与你吃顿晚餐！就这样！“多热情的邀约、多强势的口吻、多俐落的手段。这些不都是我喜欢他的原委吗？ 是的，在生活中，在床上，这是他一贯的作风。 但这次低头向人认错，似乎不是他的习性，他驰骋商场，向来都是强悍不让步。而我不见他那看似钢铁般坚固的决心，在他强攻下，似乎也动摇了，一如当日他要初次暴我菊花的那一幕，也是温柔与强悍兼而有之，那一次初体验，诱使我一发不可收拾的自喷；这一次，语言强暴，我又让步了！ 他放下身段邀约我。我谦卑地接受他的邀约。这一来一往完全是双方都感到彼此心中有爱吧！ 那晚，我身穿一袭黑衣，一如我的忧伤。晚餐，除了点菜，我几乎都不出声，只是微笑、点头。 丽都戏院中，他一直把身体挨得很紧。当陈捍东知悉蓝宇为他而死却来不及表白对蓝宇得深爱时，他紧紧握着我得手。我的手不痛，但，心却痛了。回想这些日子，我何尝不是处处为他想，他怎会让我如斯难过？ 归途中，我依然静默。他一手握着方向盘，一手紧拉着我的左手。 车灯、街灯、浮光掠影。 分开这两个月以来，不要说拥抱、造爱，连牵手都成回忆。 他放下尊严，我也放下偏执，原来没有拥抱也可以感觉到爱，只因为我们都舍不得让对方难过。 今晚，重看了一遍，明白拥抱寂寞不等于不爱，相反地，是爱得更深。 其实今天，刚刚又抱怨他陪我的时间越来越短，他还光火了！ 亲爱的！为什么爱你爱得这么辛苦！ 已婚者，你们的时间真的这么紧吗？ earth_tone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendchat Posted March 17, 2022 Report Share Posted March 17, 2022 On 3/17/2022 at 10:38 PM, GKS said: 👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted March 22, 2022 Author Report Share Posted March 22, 2022 那年，我与他看的一部影片。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted March 25, 2022 Author Report Share Posted March 25, 2022 (edited) 我们沟通的方式好像在吹风。 两天前，我接到他的来电。相信是一位我上载有关“蓝宇”一片的消息，牵动他的回忆。 他告知我要去动膝盖改造手术，并要我介绍身边的医生给他。 他也与公司沟通，将有2个月的住院假期。 Edited March 25, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted March 27, 2022 Author Report Share Posted March 27, 2022 I am very tired. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted May 14, 2022 Author Report Share Posted May 14, 2022 (edited) 思念，像潺潺流水，自空山溪涧自在地捏碎一片宁静，嗅到了宁静的香气。 思念，似白白浮云，在蔚蓝天际悠悠地邂逅一道曙光，轻吻了遥远的拥抱。 思念，如暖暖春风，不经意间猛然地摔破守候的记忆，掏空了岁月的绚烂。 我驻足。 对着美丽的流金岁月莞尔。 Edited May 14, 2022 by GKS kwin 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted May 23, 2022 Author Report Share Posted May 23, 2022 云，怎么会与风遇上? 2019年，我在佛罗伦斯广场顶楼露天餐馆用过午餐后，本想坐马车浏览市景，无奈失之交臂，先前停驻商场前的骏马，才一顿饭的时间，已不见踪影。如风，才一转眼，就不见了。 但却邂逅了街头艺人的音乐。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted June 11, 2022 Author Report Share Posted June 11, 2022 不知各位感受得到原配的感受吗？ 这些曲子就把他们内心的痛楚与交战淋漓地流露出来。 这只是我聆听了这些乐曲后个人的浅见与感受。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted June 11, 2022 Author Report Share Posted June 11, 2022 每一曲都牵动我。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted July 3, 2022 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2022 我正在考虑将这个版块淡出。 除了是中文读者少，A也少见面了。照理应该开始新的版块来写新的一章。 A于昨天刚动完手术出院，这几天我回上他家探望他。无奈疫情尚未完全平复，我的办公室也出现爆发传染的情况，即使探望他都必须三思而行。 On 7/3/2022 at 7:28 AM, Since u r here said: why is this 爱上人夫 ? 许多于我心情相同的歌词与我爱上人夫的万般情怀是雷同的，因此就贴上。 对不起，也许我应该补上一两句来交代一下，不然，连你这名铁粉也感到诧异。再次致歉。 你是一名成熟的吹风成员，你提出的看法是一种成熟的意见，我应从善如流，加以改善。 我们都是处于另一个不同人生阶层的熟男，看世界自成一格，对于成熟意见与任性的噪音一眼就看穿了，自有我们的差异性的处理方式。其实，当我刚加入吹风时，当时网上还有一个老年版的吹风论坛。也许，创办人的远见十分独到，预见年龄层差距太大也许会发生摩擦，但最后也许运作资金与资源的考量，还是全都集中在一块了。对于一些成员对你的不敬，希望你能宽容他们。毕竟，能坦诚自己同志身份已经不容易了，更何况都是同道中人，更应显示包容的胸襟。 On 7/3/2022 at 7:28 AM, Since u r here said: is this a new film? 你见笑了！可以的话，我都想把我的经历拍出来。 香港回归前，曾想找张艾嘉来执行这一构想，但考虑到人夫的处境，就作罢了。不过后来也有许多与爱上人夫的影片相继问世。 足见，爱上人夫会是同志圈的一大议题，无论中外都找到“爱上人夫”主题的影片。 谢谢你. 毕竟中文读者少，而你留言了，希望我的澄清会让你释怀与包涵我的盲点。你的大头照中的白色内裤是经典作品，希望有一日，能与你见面，喝喝茶。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted July 4, 2022 Author Report Share Posted July 4, 2022 On 7/3/2022 at 9:24 AM, Since u r here said: "A也少见面了" A 是您爱上的人夫？？？？？？？？ Yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted July 4, 2022 Author Report Share Posted July 4, 2022 (edited) On 7/4/2022 at 4:39 AM, Since u r here said: Hope u will get over it fast! I embrace my life. I have my family love, colleagues are nice to me, all aquatints whom I have met are nice to me. Edited July 4, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted July 4, 2022 Author Report Share Posted July 4, 2022 something interesting to share with you. This mindset will shape your outlook towards life, including the love with married men. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted July 4, 2022 Author Report Share Posted July 4, 2022 I always look at the world with love and respect. Thank you for your candid reply, @Since u r here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted July 5, 2022 Author Report Share Posted July 5, 2022 The scene of this movie reminds me the days I have spent in Italy. This soundtrack is one of my favorite for the past 6 months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted July 11, 2022 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2022 (edited) 看见了周杰伦与朗朗的双钢琴演奏片段，正好是同学会聚会后。 同学会最后一幕，我是紧紧拥抱了恩师一下。 同学会上，我的初恋女友亮相了，我们都很少出席。这回却齐齐亮相了。连情敌也出现了。 初恋女友与我还是有默契，穿的衣服色调还是搭配得形同情侣，连我都惊讶！ 我与她曾在多个场合演奏四手钢琴演奏、或双钢琴演奏。之后，女友朝古典乐发展去了。我没追随。 完全明白周杰伦为什么在影片中一直出现钢琴演奏。 乐声依旧。旧情依旧。但都逾越半个世纪多了！ Edited July 11, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted July 11, 2022 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2022 (edited) 此刻的心情。 谢谢生命给我体验这些无法承担的轻。 往事如轻烟。 但多少生离死别，累计起来，我几乎被碾碎了。 你们，了解那种痛吗？ Edited July 11, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted July 16, 2022 Author Report Share Posted July 16, 2022 (edited) @Beach boy你喜欢他，他呢？先解决这个基本问题。 Edited July 16, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendchat Posted July 18, 2022 Report Share Posted July 18, 2022 On 7/16/2022 at 9:04 PM, Beach boy said: 他应该对我没有好感。所以，这是单方面的恋情而最终残生不到任何的链接。我在坚持下去的话只会越陷越深。没有机会在和他会面了应为不需要检查。 嗨!单方面的恋情是没有结果的，见议你放弃。快刀斩乱麻，才有机会结识真正喜欢彼此的人。祝福您! kwin and Beach boy 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted August 1, 2022 Author Report Share Posted August 1, 2022 (edited) On 7/19/2022 at 12:04 PM, Beach boy said: 谢谢。我开始放手了。希望能尽快恢复回情绪。做得到的，就需要一点时间忘记。 给自己一点时间去看看世界。原来不是世界遗弃了你。是你忘记自己的存在。 每次我听到这首乐曲，我就想到在意大利游走的画面。 给自己多一点这么美丽的感动力量吧！ Edited August 2, 2022 by GKS Beach boy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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