Is He A Con Man? Need Advise.

[Guest Victim]

Im 20+. Met a 40 guy in Fridae. First date, told me he like me very much. Told me his bf of 12 years died in a car accident 3 years ago. Told me something abt his secretary and he likes to fly first class.

Oh, how pity, i thought. but this dude must be damn rich.

Bring me to his 2 rooms hdb. He said the other room he rent to a couple. Ask me to move in, cos he love me. I said no, too early. Then we have sex and i stay over.

Think abt it now, that is not even his place, maybe he just rent a room from the couple?

Second date. told me he left his wallet on the cab. I ask him did he called the cab and bank to cancel all the cards. He said yes. I say lets not watch movie and go to the police station together. He said will go himself tomoro. He insist on watching movie because he dont want to think abt the sad incident. Also said that he need to go to a shop to cancel something that he ordered. I offer to pay for the items. Request me to talk abt other stuff to distract him from thinking of the incident.

Shouldnt one when lost wallet go to the police immediately? Lost wallet still got mood to watch movie? Its his plan cos he dont want me to ask so many things on the incident.

Keep showing the sad and worry face. So i offer to borrow him money. Lunch and taxi money i thought. But he ask for $few hundreds.

I borrow him anyway cos i thought he is rich.

After few days, he told me he is in the police station with bank staffs. Cos JB got someone withdraw his money and buy stuff with his credit card. Said police suspects him of selling his ICs and cards. Said police took his passport for investigation. I keep asking him questions, but he keep crying when reluctant to answer my question, and said he is confused and worry.

When already report to the bank, shouldnt his card and atm cant be use already? Even if can be used in JB, theres certain amount limit to witdraw a day right? How they know abt the password?

We meet eventhough i suspect him a conman, because im trying to find a way to get back my money, and because i love him too. Then he said bank now want him to pay for all the purchases from JB that he didnt purchase. Think he want me to help.

Just like what i predicted.

I fed up. I confront him. He twist and turn but denied he is lying. Then he ask follow him home so he can show me his police report. In his room, he took out a stack of paper. Just when i wanted to reach for the paper with my hands, he said no matter what he said or show me i wont believe him, then whats the point of showing me the report. then he keep the papers in his bag.

I didnt insist on seeing the report, because its very awkard that time and he already crying.

Then he ask me to touch his head. Can feel a soft lump on his head. He said its a tumor. Going for operation this Wednesday. I ask how serious, he said he only know after operation. For some reason i believe him that time, because of the lump.

Desperate attempt to change topic? How dramatic, i thought, from bf dying to lost wallet and suspected by police, owning bank money and now dying from tumor.

Dunno abt the tumor is it a lie or not. Not only he cheated my money, he cheated my love as well. I want to know did he ever love me. Or am i being too suspicious? maybe all the things he said was true, he just having a very bad luck moment?

He thinks that i believe him. i wish to believe him too. he said he will contact me after the operation. I still care for him eventhough he is a con man. what should i do?

[beef4beef]

'Keep showing the sad and worry face. So i offer to borrow him money. Lunch and taxi money i thought. But he ask for $few hundreds. ..... He thinks that i believe him. i wish to believe him too. he said he will contact me after the operation. I still care for him eventhough he is a con man. what should i do?

If you had an account here I'm sure people would send you more personal notes. So please set one up.

My verdict based just on what's written: Conman

p/s: and it is 'lend' not 'borrow', you might want to amend the error.

Edited March 14, 2009 by beef4beef

[Guest victim]

If you had an account here I'm sure people would send you more personal notes. So please set one up.

My verdict based just on what's written: Conman

p/s: and it is 'lend' not 'borrow', you might want to amend the error.

Who are u, the new moderator? I have an account. I just dont want to be identified. Bcos i think this is sensitive.

I know the difference between lend and borrow, i got mix up when typing the long topics. No need to show off your good english skills here.

PS 1: Dont u get the memo? Dont need to quote the entire long post if u just gonna reply 3 lines.

PS 2: Oh and please dont create any new topics that have been discussed heavily recently. Like the fetish and autocum topic. Use the search function and ull see there are already several threads on them. Read the memo!

[beef4beef]

Who are u, the new moderator? I have an account. I just dont want to be identified. Bcos i think this is sensitive.

I know the difference between lend and borrow, i got mix up when typing the long topics. No need to show off your good english skills here.

PS 1: Dont u get the memo? Dont need to quote the entire long post if u just gonna reply 3 lines.

PS 2: Oh and please dont create any new topics that have been discussed heavily recently. Like the fetish and autocum topic. Use the search function and ull see there are already several threads on them. Read the memo!

You seem to be a highly sensitive individual ... if you post in public, be prepared to get responses, whether you agree with them or not.

With a response like that from you, don't expect any compassion from me. Good luck to you.

[Guest Victim]

You seem to be a highly sensitive individual ... if you post in public, be prepared to get responses, whether you agree with them or not.

With a response like that from you, don't expect any compassion from me. Good luck to you.

Im sorry beefy, i was just too agigated just now when u dont have any advise, but u choose to advise me on english lesson instead.

My story doesnt serve as the purpose of needing advise alone, it serves as a warning to all of u of con man as well, since the guy is popular on Fridae.

Huggies for u... cheers.

[Guest Guest]

Yeah, totally unexpected bite back response to what I thought was helpful response so no, I wont be adding my say here - cos I am sure I will get a slap for trying to help.

[Guest Psychologist]

It takes two hands to clap.

A con man needs a victim.

You are clearly psychologically disposed to be victimised.

The signals are out so clear and yet you allowed yourself to be conned, eg the lost wallet and yet go see movie and go shopping thingy ...

For unless you have deluded yourself - perhaps thinking about investments and risks/returns, anchoring to the too good an idea of making a rich catch, etc etc - that you have blinded yourself, and not see even when it is so obvious ....

There is nothing more to say, except, again, it takes two hands to clap.

[cock brand]

He thinks that i believe him. i wish to believe him too. he said he will contact me after the operation. I still care for him eventhough he is a con man. what should i do?

So you care for him, how sweet.

Then you should go all the way man.

Operation to remove tumour in the head is not like going to the dentist.

Lend all the money he need for this major operation; hes such a poor chap, everyone he knows forsaking him at this very critical moment. You are his only saviour, I'm sure he will be so touched by your gestures.

You should also visit him everyday in the hospital, make him homemade tonic soup, take care of him all the way till he fully recover.

But then, with your true love, heaven may be so touched that the tumour may suddenly disappear miraculously.

And you both will walk hand in hand into the sunset and live happily ever after.

So romantic.

I'm going to cry.

Edited March 15, 2009 by cock brand

[fortysumthing]

If u think it helps, please post his photo or fridae nick here for us to make more meaningful contribution to your predicament

Edited March 15, 2009 by fortysumthing

[browncow]

And what exactly about him that made you LOVE and CARE for him?

A soft lump on the head could be self-implicated. Besides, it doesnt grow overnight. So basically he should have told you about his condition prior to knowing him earlier.

Contact you after the operation?

Yeah, that pseudo-op that wasnt successful causing his pseudo-death which probably explains to his disappearance on earth.

Sure, wait for him to contact you.

Like that would ever happen.

Just totally agree with Psychologist and cock brand.

Just wake up. Seriously.

[Guest Victim]

Thanks for the advises. although u guys r mocking me and being sarcastic, but i believe u r trying to help me.

Im very clear whatss happening. I knew he is conman. I realized his motives before he manage to to make the big moves. I already woke up. If i havent woke up, by now i have already lost few thousands.

Actually, why i still seeing him now is because im only trying to figure out how to get back the few hundreds. The more i think abt it, i dont have any feeling on him, i only have feeling for my money. Im just playing along with him, and pretend to fall for his tactics.

Actually, u guys might think that im so dumb to borrow him money the first place, i used to think the same too for the victims. but i can tell u this, once u encounter yourself an experienced con man, even the smartest person might fall for his tricks and oscar winning performance.

How do i get the money back?

Even if im sure i cant get back the money which only a few hundreds that i can let go, i wont let him go so easily, i want to show him he picked the wrong target. How should i destroy him? I wanna destroy him to take revenge for all the victims that he had cheated money and love. TIPS FOR TAKING REVENGE?

Anyone with the same experienced? Like date losing wallet on second date?

Can anyone tell me how to do a background check on him? Based on his phone number? I think he used a fake name.

[Guest crying game]

Hi victim, please do not change from a victim to a victimiser. Just move on and take it as a lesson learned. Do not go on with your life with a vengeful heart and bent on to 'destroy' people even with people who have wronged you. The bitterness inside you will eat you up.

Tips for taking revenge? None.

[cock brand]

How do i get the money back?

Even if im sure i cant get back the money which only a few hundreds that i can let go, i wont let him go so easily, i want to show him he picked the wrong target. How should i destroy him? I wanna destroy him to take revenge for all the victims that he had cheated money and love. TIPS FOR TAKING REVENGE?

One moment, you said you still care for him.

Next, you said you are just playing along, continuing pretending to be a victim.

Then now you are seeking revenge, to destroy him.

You must have been watching too much of those lousy TCS drama serials.

In between, you got yourself busy bombarding fellow forumer for correcting your english and bitch about his previous postings.

Heh, are you real?

If you are, I sincerely feel sorry for you.

[Guest Victim]

One moment, you said you still care for him.

Next, you said you are just playing along, continuing pretending to be a victim.

Then now you are seeking revenge, to destroy him.

You must have been watching too much of those lousy TCS drama serials.

In between, you got yourself busy bombarding fellow forumer for correcting your english and bitch about his previous postings.

Heh, are you real?

If you are, I sincerely feel sorry for you.

This event happens now, i cant stop how i feel few days ago, yesterday and today that keeps changing. Like today i wake up suddenly feeling very angry with the whole scenario. Cock brand, if u dont have anything good to say, then dont i begging u. Dont try to pick a fight. U can keep your sarcastic remarks to yourself the next time u get conned.

[jazz]

... ... ...Actually, why i still seeing him now is because im only trying to figure out how to get back the few hundreds. The more i think abt it, i dont have any feeling on him, i only have feeling for my money. Im just playing along with him, and pretend to fall for his tactics. ... ... ...

How do i get the money back?

Even if im sure i cant get back the money which only a few hundreds that i can let go, i wont let him go so easily, i want to show him he picked the wrong target. How should i destroy him? I wanna destroy him to take revenge for all the victims that he had cheated money and love. TIPS FOR TAKING REVENGE?... ... ...

Like I have always adviced, neither a lender nor a borrower! When u first decided to LEND out the money, u should already be prepared to forgo amount. Only when you are able to forgo the money, then you dish out the loan. And when the borrower returns, it become a bonus to you.

You contradict yourself by saying "... only a few hundreds that (you) can let go..." however u are still so sore about it and now plots a "revenge"!

[Guest -raymond-]

victim, by writing in this forum, you have already exposed him ( i am sure he is reading this and maybe laughing....). You have also state your plans to get back your few hundred dollars...etc Don't tell me he doesn't know about this?... So r u writing for e sake of writing or what???? I think it is best leave it and move on...If he planned to pay back , he would have done so... Keeping the relationship going won't help if he planned to con you in the first place.. Otherwise, he won't be a conman won't he?? So just move on...etc

[Lungker]

Victim, after reading at all the advices initially given to you and your replies, I am adding a remark to your title to better reflect what you are looking for.

A conman has a legal definition to it. You can report a conman to the police. However, in this case, you willingly lend money to someone, regardless of the fact that you and him had a sexual relationship, or the bullshit he fed to you. Can you report him to the police? Sure you can but will they take action? I am not too sure they will.

Money lending between private individuals are like commercial contracts. When disputes occurs in a commercial contract, the only redress is to sue in a civil court. Since the amount is so small, you can try suing him in the small claims court. I warn you. It is both troublesome and potentially very embarrassing.

I would personally not advise you to take revenge in a manner that will criminally incriminates you. Maybe you should take it as a lesson learnt and move on with your life.

Something else. That man may be a good fuxk so perhaps that is why you are still bothered with the whole thing. In that case, continue to have a sexual relationship with him but don't lend him anymore money.

One last thing, brain tumour occurs in the brain underneath the skull. A person with brain tumour do not have a lump on his head. I know cause my best friend had a brain tumour back in 2007 and I had accompanied him on numerous trips to his oncologists and brain surgeon before his op. We spoke at length to them. A lump on the head may be serious but it is often due to something else. Not brain tumour.

[Guest Guest]

victim, why don't you be a kind soul and just name the location and hdb block why your "con friend" lives.

the block nr can served as a warning signel to fellow bwers if they ever cross path with him.

[Asyrus]

Sorry to hear about your predicament...

but if your interest is only with your money, then you shouldn't have played along with him...

I won't say you are psychologically inclined to be conned...but seriously, when too many things happen in a string...

you need to stay 'pokerface' and see where your situation takes you...

sometimes its just better to react 1/2 a beat slower...

as with most con cases....the money is goners (for good)

time to move on...

Edited March 15, 2009 by Asyrus

[CrazyBrain]

well... Like the rest said - move on.

spend another hundred or two to get a nice handsome fit big dick. Get yourself fxxked hard and forget about it.

Of course not totally forgetting this mistake you have just made.

Alternatively....

If you really want revenge, try to 'accidentally' drop his handphone or anything valuable down from his HDB window (make sure is high enough) then make yourself disappear a day after. However must make sure he can't haunt you back in any ways and ruin your life. hahaha....Although you can't steal his money to compensate your loss but you can deepen his loss to compensate your anger. This idea go against profit maximization!

For loss minimization, leave him now! The few hundreds is already a sunk cost. You shouldn't take it into your decision making process.

Hope this helps

Edited March 15, 2009 by CrazyBrain

[Guest Victim]

victim, by writing in this forum, you have already exposed him ( i am sure he is reading this and maybe laughing....).

I believe he is not reading this forum, cos he claimed he just came back from HK after like ten years there. Well probably he is a Hongkie now thinking abt it.

Something else. That man may be a good fuxk so perhaps that is why you are still bothered with the whole thing. In that case, continue to have a sexual relationship with him but don't lend him anymore money.

One last thing, brain tumour occurs in the brain underneath the skull. A person with brain tumour do not have a lump on his head.

Thanks Lungker very much, u gave the best advise.

Probably u want to change the title again, to: I felt in love with a conman.

Because, u guys will be pissed at me, but when i wake up this morning, i realized i miss him and love him. Well not financially, but want to understand his motive and reason behind all the things he did. Really wanna help him, and protect him. I dunno, maybe tmr is different story. Love is blind. Look at Rihanna.

I know what u guys thinking, i must very ugly and he is very handsome and great at sex. Not true, im more handsome and cuter than him. Im those that turns heads at Delta pools. And the sex was not even that great.

He still swearing he tells the truth and love me very much. He request me to believe him so he can go to the "fake" operation which is this Wed with ease of heart just in case anything happen. I say i believe him. Oh dear, this extremely dramatic.

victim, why don't you be a kind soul and just name the location and hdb block why your "con friend" lives.

I dont think the moderators allow this. and, frankly speaking, i want to help him to walk the correct path more than i wanna destroy him. For now.

I won't say you are psychologically inclined to be conned...but seriously, when too many things happen in a string...

you need to stay 'pokerface' and see where your situation takes you...

sometimes its just better to react 1/2 a beat slower...

U wont believe how hard i try to act in front of him, that day i met him i dont even dare to go shower or fall asleep. God knows what he will do. Its like Sleeping with the enemy or something.

If you really want revenge, try to 'accidentally' drop his handphone or anything valuable down from his HDB window.

Thanks for the tips, i actually wanted to steal his handphone before and checked his sms, but i didnt cos that will makes me same class as him. Somemore, theres nothing valuable in his room.

Pleasse tell me, is it silly of me to tell him that in future where ever he is, if he ready to tell the truths or need a real friend when he is really lonely, ill be waiting with open arms for him to come back? Is it silly?

Warning to all of u,

Persons of any level of intelligence are vulnerable to deception by experienced con artists. Confidence tricks exploit human weaknesses like greed, dishonesty, vanity, but also virtues like honesty, compassion, or a naïve expectation of good faith on the part of the con artist.

Ill update u guys what happens... like after the operation did he died of got memory lost or how many more months he left.

[Guest Victim]

Tell u one of his top notch tactics that he used to makes me believe he did indeed lost his wallet.

that day that he lost his wallet, we still go for the movie. After the credit rolls, we stand up, and starts walking of our seats. Being behind him, usual reflects was to check our seat to see if we left behind anything. There, he purposely left his HP on the seat for me to discover, to further proof that he is indeed a careless person. Silly me thought that no wonder he lost his wallet, cos he is so careless.

Lets say that if i dont check the seat, probably he will suddenly walk back and say he left his HP there.

Tell me, is this experienced tricks or not? From choosing the seats location and position to psychologically input thoughts on your mind.

[Guest Guest]

I was also cheated by a photographer. Few thousands.

I feel the same anger and sort. Sometimes, when I woke up I feel very angry. Other time, it's okay I say let god punish him.

I guess after awhile, I realised that I'm actually angry with myself for being stupid and let him cheated.

So I told myself not to be so stupid next time. =)

And I wished that he gets a deserving end. Like get into an accident, get HIV or what not. =)

Those who never been cheated just like to judge. It's like when someone doesn't have HIV, they will like judge those with HIV but once u suddenly get HIV. Things began to change. =)

Don't know about you guys. Gay gay la. Happy can already. Suck cock. fxxk ass. So nice.

[rayner]

Tell u one of his top notch tactics that he used to makes me believe he did indeed lost his wallet.

that day that he lost his wallet, we still go for the movie. After the credit rolls, we stand up, and starts walking of our seats. Being behind him, usual reflects was to check our seat to see if we left behind anything. There, he purposely left his HP on the seat for me to discover, to further proof that he is indeed a careless person. Silly me thought that no wonder he lost his wallet, cos he is so careless.

Lets say that if i dont check the seat, probably he will suddenly walk back and say he left his HP there.

Tell me, is this experienced tricks or not? From choosing the seats location and position to psychologically input thoughts on your mind.

Having skimmed through, read what you've written and shared, I would strongly urge you to disclose this person's username on Fridae or provide any slightest clue that leads to him, cause public wariness about this conman.

Few years back, I was fell victim for someone from Fridae myself. However, due to my good contacts, ability to source for information and slight knowledge in law, I managed to claim back what was almost cheated of me. I further met another conman, whom I hunted for years before my monies came back to me also.

Hmm... Talking about revenge, ask me? Perhaps?? I think I can deal with that pretty well ya?!

Good Luck victim.

Do brace up enough courage to bring this conman to justice soon!!

Regards...

[Guest Awaken]

Was in a similir situation where and when i thought i was victimized. The again was love n lust in married in the picture, things got confusing. Like my ex always taught e never mix finaical matters with love. Once the line is crossed, things will be compromised. My ex also taught me evenycents and dollar you lend are considered as money/item not getting back. Once u have that in check I guess all will be well. ne cant be cheated if he doesnt wanted to be. There a certain amount of fantacy we desire and we cling to wanting something in rturn by doing something. Its really a butter tread out there, so really whos the victim here?

[Lungker]

All I can say brother is to take care. Love is rather tricky. At this moment, at your age, love is pretty confusing as well. I am dedicating the song below for you and those who had been hurt by people they think they are in love with. Although they had been hurt by them and yet still love them. I can empathise with you guys cause once, long ago, I was like that myself.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6kFWhSK1Exs

Glenn Frey - The One You Love

I know you need a friend, someone you can talk to

Who will understand what you're going through

When it comes to love, there's no easy answer

Only you can say what you're gonna do

I heard you on the phone, you took his number

Said you weren't alone, but you'd call him soon

Isn't he the guy, the guy who left you cryin'?

Isn't he the one who made you blue?

When you remember those nights in his arms

You know you gotta make up your mind

Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you

Or are you goin' back to the one you love?

Someone's gonna cry when they know they've lost you

Someone's gonna thank the stars above

What you gonna say when he comes over?

There's no easy way to see this through

All the broken dreams, all the disappointment

Oh girl, what you gonna do?

Your heart keeps sayin' it's just not fair

But still you gotta make up your mind

Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you

Or are you goin' back to the one you love?

Someone's gonna cry when they know they've lost you

Someone's gonna thank the stars above

[cock brand]

Conman and his most common ploy, reference for you guys out here:

1. I was just retrenched, a bit short of cash (play poor chap role)

2. My dad is sick and need to be warded and I'm short of cash (playing filial son role)

3. I'm sick and needed an operation soon. (ditto #1)

4. My best friend need me to help and I'm short of cash (playing best of buddy role)

5. My mother lost money gambling and I need to help or ahlong will splash red paint (ditto #2)

6. My pet dog need an operation and I'm short of cash (play animal lover role)

7. My formal bf borrowed money from me but did not return in time, but never mind lah ( play sweet guy role)

8. Some guys cheated me of my money and I'm short of cash (play innocent guy role)

9. Forgot to take my wallet out (play absent minded guy role)

10. My insurance premium due next week, kinda short of cash (play I-plan-for-my-future role)

11. My landlady wants the house back and I need to pay 3 months deposit for new place (play poor chap role)

12. You don't mind to pay first, I'm (reason #1 to #11, pick one) ,I'll pay you back later?

Don't trust me? you can keep my watch until I pay you back, dun mind to sign IOU (play honest guy role)

Sound familar?

Yes, because it does happen to people here.

But then, you probably see them more often commonly written into those lousy TCS plots.

[koolkai]

Although they had been hurt by them and yet still love them. I can empathise with you guys cause once, long ago, I was like that myself.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6kFWhSK1Exs

Glenn Frey - The One You Love

I like this song. I find it very melancholic and romantic at the same time

[Guest Victim]

LATEST NEWS! I need help and advise urgent! URGENT URGENT!

We have been exchanging sms yesterday and today. Somehow, i pretend to said i believe him.

NOW, just receive sms from him. Said he is in Tan Tock Seng Hospital now. Doctor wants $450 deposit. He ask can i pay for him.

Why he ask for money eventhough he knows i suspect him before? is he doing a physhology thing to me? Like try to pissed me off so ill ask him to fxxk off, then he will win already?

If i borrow him, then he wins and dissapear. Of cos im not that stupid.

If i dont borrow him, he will use that excuse to be angry and wont contact me after the "fake" operation and dissapear.

Either way, he wins.

Just to play along, i fakely say "ill borrow you money, because i trust you". Although im fuming right now. I already fed up. No more love feeling. I wanna torture him now.

Ok, fellow experts, what shoulld i do to fxxk him up? Singayporean, whats your revenge tips? Everyone please help.

I dont wanna lose this game! Meeting him 8pm later at Tan Tock Seng.

[Guest thickcock]

Can't help noticing "borrow" when it should be "lend".... too distracting, my mind is full of "borrow" so cant think of any good suggestion to help you..

[Guest VICTIM]

Can't help noticing "borrow" when it should be "lend".... too distracting, my mind is full of "borrow" so cant think of any good suggestion to help you..

Im sorry i speak and write broken English! Just replace Borrow with Lend. Sorry im very confuse now. 2 hours and 15 minutes to 8.

[Guest Expat]

Im sorry i speak and write broken English! Just replace Borrow with Lend. Sorry im very confuse now. 2 hours and 15 minutes to 8.

Victim, you are a complete joker. You have no clue what advise you want from this group. You seem to have answers for every question that you ask. So, why do you bother to create this melodramatic session here :-)

PS: BTW, i am not going to comment about your broken english, that calls for a totally new thread here .... lol !!

[Guest Guest]

Im sorry i speak and write broken English! Just replace Borrow with Lend. Sorry im very confuse now. 2 hours and 15 minutes to 8.

end the game. the more you mess with him the more you are going to lose. firstly, if you know how to deal with him you wouldn't be asking for help here. secondly, i don't think you can get sensible advice in this forum judging by the responses you got.

[Lungker]

Every government hospital has a social worker that people who cannot afford treatment can go to. Tell the counter girl you cannot afford to pay, and they will direct you to this person.

However, if you still insist on paying the $450, you must pay it to the counter girl, not him. If you give the money to him, then you are letting him con you again.

Sooner or later, you will wake up and realised just how foolish you are behaving. Start life afresh then.

Cheers.

[gc0805]

YOU HAVE TO GROW UP EMOTIONALLY. YOU ARE A COMPLETE MESS WITH EQ OF ZERO.

HEED EVERYONE'S ADVICE.

STOP YOUR CHILDISH GAMES.

MOVE ON.

[oralb]

The more I read your posting, the more uncanny i felt.

Are you playing with him or playing with US?

my suggestion, go home and sleep, avoid him totally.

[Guest Victim]

Lungker, thanks for your advise. All these while i already wake up and of cos i wont LEND him money! I just dunno how to handle the situation with him. I wanted to tell him off, then that would also mean that i do according to what he expect.

Something scaary just happen, he called, and ask me if he can put my name in the "just in case of emergency, called..." section in the form...

I told him calmly, thats not a good idea. I say no. I dunno what he will do with my name.

And it seems people are more interested on giving advise on my engrish and EQ than help a helpless confused young and innocent guy from an experienced con man. If its u who got cheated, ill happily offer advise. Im very dissapointed with all of u who blast me.

Im on the verge to do according to what he expect. tell him to fxxk off, forget abt the 250, and forget abt everything.

I just wanna know is there other way to handle the situation.

[Guest Victim]

45 minutes and counting... I still dunno which step should i take... please help me out:

A: Go to the gym, have sex in the shower, and forget abt everything. Stop picking up his call since its been emotionally drainning me.

B: Appear infront of his house tmr, and ask him to return my money. Create a drama there.

C: Say i cant help him with the money, but still pretending that i care and love him, just that i dont have money thats all. See what happen next.

D: Expose him face to face later and give him tips on how i knew abt his lies and ask force him to admit it.

E: Do a background check on him, following him around, haunting him, findout abt his family members, ex bf and stuff.

F: Give him $4.50, and then pretend that i thought he said $4.50

G: Give him Monopoly money amount $450

H: _______ u fill in the blanks here _________

[Guest Victim]

This is me again, sorry if the above sounds like a joke for u, im not creating any stories and play with all of u. Im serious.

I know F and G are silly choices, but i will only do it when im ready to threat the whole thing with him as a joke and decided to laugh abt it for being so silly at the first place.

[Guest good luck]

GO FOR SOLUTION A!!! :thumb:

[cock brand]

Its so simple.

Go and meet him in the hospital.

Sit with him with the hospital administrator or MO and ask the most important questions.

Not asking him, but the administrator about his case.

Is he going to be operated, when, days to be warded, what is his problem etc., show you are concerned.

Why $450 and not $4500 for such a major operation?

All the lies will surface if there are any.

So why are you not doing this?

Are you afraid that he is really sick then you cant get your money back?

[calv]

cock brand,

I think your advice came a little too late for our fren here. It's way passed 8pm.... anyway, I would have done what you proposed too.

Good luck, victim...

[cock brand]

cock brand,

I think your advice came a little too late for our fren here. It's way passed 8pm.... anyway, I would have done what you proposed too.

Good luck, victim...

Haha.

Doesn't really matter anyway, its not a life and death situation.

If this "victim" is real, then he is really quite dumb.

I'm actually more inclined to agree with OralB about this fella.

[Guest Victim]

Are u guys treating me as a joke? U guys think that this is dramatic comedy dont u?

The strange thing is, reflect back what happen, and reading all the stuff i wrote and some of u wrote, i start to see the whole thing as a joke myself...

I guess thats good, i mean its not like i lost thousands of dollars. The amount of money i got cheated doesnt even worth the mind games im playing with him, its drainning me.

I know u guys will be pissed off at me if i tell u the amount i lost: $250. Yeah, only 250. Sorry to waste all your time reading all the tragic drama that happen to me for that little amount of money.

The conclusion is, he want me to tell him off and forget abt the 250. I did what he expected me to do.

Consider the 250 is an English lesson i learned from all of u professor here. Haha.

Please give me your comments. Im a more happy person now. I think i wanna go cruising later. Hopefully, wont bump into a con man. Haha.

[Guest Victim]

Haha.

Doesn't really matter anyway, its not a life and death situation.

If this "victim" is real, then he is really quite dumb.

I'm actually more inclined to agree with OralB about this fella.

Give me a break COck Brand! What do u want from me? Just when im in a happy mood to go cruising, u have to spoilt it dont u? I read in the other thread u were cheated few thousands last time, no? So who is more dumb? U or me? Dumbass.

[Life Searcher]

Dear Victim,

Although he sounded really like a con man or person who is trying to cheat your $$ or love, if you really love him or have some sympathy for him, just go the hospital and accompany to see his doctor. I am sure the doctor won't play along with him. Also, if he is really sick... (regardless what the illness are) I am sure you can pay him the $450. Is a life.... (remember??). Moreover, he is the person you love before.... Anyway, this is purely a simple suggestion. Don't change your love to hatral ... If you really feel he is a con man, just ignore him and move on to your life... treat it as a lesson and go ahead to move on with your life to search for new love... new hope... True love never comes easy.... Good luck!!

[cock brand]

Give me a break COck Brand! What do u want from me? Just when im in a happy mood to go cruising, u have to spoilt it dont u? I read in the other thread u were cheated few thousands last time, no? So who is more dumb? U or me? Dumbass.

Oooo, so sorry for spoiling your game.

Calv

Don't worry, while you guys were trying to provide solutions, he was still busy online, probably in some chatroom looking for sex.

8pm dateline is all rubbish.

OralB

Fully agree with you now, we have a 2-dollar bill here.

[Guest Victim]

Dear Victim,

Although he sounded really like a con man or person who is trying to cheat your $$ or love, if you really love him or have some sympathy for him, just go the hospital and accompany to see his doctor. ...........

Why, why all the advices come after 8 pm... too late... but thanks Life Searcher, u gave the best and sensible advises here. I can tell u r a good hearted and great guy. Unlike some.....

[Guest Victim]

Calv

Don't worry, while you guys were trying to provide solutions, he was still busy online, probably in some chatroom looking for sex.

8pm dateline is all rubbish.

I mentioned 8pm dateline few hours ago, shortly before 8pm, ive already decided not to see him face to face and hear his explanation, so i decided not to go. I confront him over the phone. Please be sensible....

And I read in the other thread u were cheated few thousands last time, no? So as a victim yourself, please dont be so cocky.

[Life Searcher]

Why, why all the advices come after 8 pm... too late... but thanks Life Searcher, u gave the best and sensible advises here. I can tell u r a good hearted and great guy. Unlike some.....

I am really not sure what the ending becomes but I am sure if you still loves him, help him... else.. move on.. Good luck!