Singapore Local Gay News [LGBT Related News] (Compiled)

[CKW]

1 minute ago, FluteGuan said:

I was big and tall for my age... so I can imagine how paedos wd view thise bigger sized chinaboibois as targets.

 

But, i came out of the ordeal quite unscathed. Just tt I am aware tt such things happen, and as a young person, the attention can be quite flattering yet confusing.

 

They not nice right? Tts y u act blur lol much

 

 

 

Yeah. For me it was also cos I didn't want my other coursemates to feel that I was treated specially or differently. 

 

So when I sensed that a male lecturer was over-friendly or intimate with me, I will act blur  

[CKW]

2 minutes ago, YELLOW BIRD said:

The Charboh also don't mind the mouth that suck a d*** before to kiss her. 

 

Yeah

 

Cos she knows that the guy will be quite wealthy once he starts working so never mind that his body used to belong to another guy.

[FluteGuan]

5 minutes ago, CKW said:

 

Yeah man.

I fully agree. Cos she knows that she has found her 金龟, so even though he has been f**ked by a guy before, she doesn't mind. In fact, she will teach him how to use his situation to fleece the VP!

 

I feel that most S'porean girls are so picky and fussy with guys that if they know that their BF's cock has entered another guy's mouth before, they will reject that guy.

 

Unless that guy is damn rich.

And for 6 months she already won his heart...  tt chinaboiboi might be a broken man,.. who leapt at the first bgr to prove his manliness, and heterosexuality...

 

I wish tiong kok ah ge well... but i feel saddened by all concerned.

 

The lao tiko, for his misguided faith tt his love, which has no lawful name, will somehow be reciprocated

the chinaboiboi who has to resort to blatant blackmailing on a past tt has haunted him and may soil his reputation

the Sgn charboh who would be the token wife of a man who wants to have his heterosexuality affirmed by a ring and $200 000.

 

Edited March 27, 2018 by FluteGuan

[Guest Concern]

Look into the mirror! Try to love yourself! This girl is also a victim of the society. 

[CKW]

4 minutes ago, YELLOW BIRD said:

and yet Mediacock cannot think of such a plot! Those scriptwriters need to read more!

 

Sigh

If an alien watches our Mediacorp dramas, they would think that there are no gay people in S'pore at all - every S'porean guy is straight and nobody has ever heard of homosexuality before.

[G_M]

Get back to the topic or this post will be locked!

[Guest Whatever]

The entire saga is still entirely the VP's fault. Had the boy been a full grown adult, i would have more sympathy on the VP and agree that the matter was consensual.  It is so despicable for the VP to target the young impressionable boy (who may not have reached maturity  and was in a vulnerable position) to satisfy his sexual appetite. So what if the doctor asked for compensation now, that doesn't make him a greater evil. He is entitled. It's all the VP's fault.  He should see it coming and bear the karma for his misdeeds. It's so flawed to say the boy/ doc should be grateful to the VP. Just because he provided for the boy doesn't mean he can get away for his crime. It's like saying i killed your parents but i took you in, provided and raised you.  You should be grateful to me and not seek justice for their deaths. Gosh !! Wonder if the perception would be different if the boy is locally born Singaporean. 

[Guest yodashima]

 

 

Talk so much for what .

 

 

rape punishment for hardcore rapist.

[Guest Gado]

Now that the boy has become a member of a highly regarded profession, he is asking for a respectable sum of money to make up for the humiliation suffered as a young boy. 

 

$200,000 does seem like a reasonable compensation for his elevated status now.

 

So to the old guys out there, be careful how you treat others. The victim may someday become SOMEBODY great.

[Guest Concern]

Our country protects our babe! Sexual assault is not a joke! Outrage of modesty must not be tolerated especially to the underage whom are still under their parent guidance. No matter how stupid or traditional their parent can be, its the law to protect the child. Need no explanation from and to you.

[Guest Wa Lau Eh]

6 hours ago, Guest Gado said:

Now that the boy has become a member of a highly regarded profession, he is asking for a respectable sum of money to make up for the humiliation suffered as a young boy. 

 

$200,000 does seem like a reasonable compensation for his elevated status now.

 

 

It is called blackmailing by the boy now, the VP now became the victim.  Wa Lau Eh!! more drama coming. Both will eventually ended up in jail.

[Guest Guest]

13 hours ago, G_M said:

Get back to the topic or this post will be locked!

 

What topic?

[Guest ...]

13 hours ago, Guest Wa Lau Eh said:

It is called blackmailing by the boy now, the VP now became the victim.  Wa Lau Eh!! more drama coming. Both will eventually ended up in jail.

 

I dun understand this. Why the boy who is a successful doctor now with bright future need to resort to blackmailing? 

 

Money No Enough?

[CKW]

1 hour ago, Guest ... said:

 

I dun understand this. Why the boy who is a successful doctor now with bright future need to resort to blackmailing? 

 

Money No Enough?

 

Partly.

 

He wanted to settle it privately so that the VP need not go to jail and therefore can still take care of his elderly parents, as he (VP) is the breadwinner. In this way, the VP can make compensation for what he did, preserve his own reputation, continue to care for his parents, and the guy can also keep the matter from his own parents.

 

Secondly, he needed money as he had just bought a condo for $595,000. The guy's mother paid $120,000 as downpayment, and he is using his salary to pay the rest by monthly installments. So you can imagine how useful $200,000 from the VP would have been.

 

So the guy felt that getting the VP to pay $200,000 would be killing two birds with one stone.

 

But the guy said that he regrets now trying to settle the matter out-of-court privately.

 

(I got all this information from the Chinese press. I don't personally know either party.   )

 

My personal take is that had he asked for a smaller sum, say $20,000, it's possible the VP might have been willing to fork it out. Cos $200,000 would surely drain out his (VP) life savings, so confirm he would panic and respond by sending lawyer's letter to the guy.

[CKW]

15 hours ago, Guest Wa Lau Eh said:

It is called blackmailing by the boy now, the VP now became the victim.  Wa Lau Eh!! more drama coming. Both will eventually ended up in jail.

 

No lah, the boy (now a man  ) won't go to jail because there was no criminal force or extortion on his part.

 

He asked for $200,000; VP agreed; VP went back on his word; man reports VP to the police regarding the sexual abuse, not about the loss of the $200,000.

 

The guy thereafter did not pursue the VP regarding the $200,000. In fact, he said in court that on hindsight, he regretted giving the VP that option in the first place. 

 

So no crime can be attributed to the guy.

Edited March 29, 2018 by CKW

[Guest ...]

1 hour ago, CKW said:

 

Partly.

 

He wanted to settle it privately so that the VP need not go to jail and therefore can still take care of his elderly parents, as he (VP) is the breadwinner. In this way, the VP can make compensation for what he did, preserve his own reputation, continue to care for his parents, and the guy can also keep the matter from his own parents.

 

Secondly, he needed money as he had just bought a condo for $595,000. The guy's mother paid $120,000 as downpayment, and he is using his salary to pay the rest by monthly installments. So you can imagine how useful $200,000 from the VP would have been.

 

So the guy felt that getting the VP to pay $200,000 would be killing two birds with one stone.

 

But the guy said that he regrets now trying to settle the matter out-of-court privately.

 

(I got all this information from the Chinese press. I don't personally know either party.   )

 

My personal take is that had he asked for a smaller sum, say $20,000, it's possible the VP might have been willing to fork it out. Cos $200,000 would surely drain out his (VP) life savings, so confirm he would panic and respond by sending lawyer's letter to the guy.

 

Few years ago he just graduated already buy condo? Doctor starting pay must be very high. He is a smart and ambitious boy with big appetite. Poor VP!

[CKW]

4 minutes ago, Guest ... said:

 

Few years ago he just graduated already buy condo? Doctor starting pay must be very high. He is a smart and ambitious boy with big appetite. Poor VP!

 

I wondered the same also 

 

But then I remembered a few years ago, a primary school friend of mine also had to buy a condo because his doctor salary was too high to qualify for a HDB flat.

 

That friend of mine is very thrifty almost to the point of being frugal (cos he didn't have a lot when he was young) so I know he would not buy a condo if he can help it  

 

So it may not be that the China guy's appetite is big.    In fact, I suspect he would have got a HDB flat if he could but his salary did not allow him to. 

[Guest Guest]

4 hours ago, CKW said:

 

No lah, the boy (now a man  ) won't go to jail because there was no criminal force or extortion on his part.

 

He asked for $200,000; VP agreed; VP went back on his word; man reports VP to the police regarding the sexual abuse, not about the loss of the $200,000.

 

The guy thereafter did not pursue the VP regarding the $200,000. In fact, he said in court that on hindsight, he regretted giving the VP that option in the first place. 

 

So no crime can be attributed to the guy.

 

The extortion was done. Just that the extortion failed because the VP refused to pay.

 

We don't know if the VP actually agreed or not to pay the $200,000. He MIGHT not have done so. And even if he has, it might just be for the purpose of stalling for time so  that he can send the cease and desist letter to the doctor.

 

Just because the doctor regretted his extortion attempt in hindsight doesn't mean the extortion was not committed.

 

This seems simple to me. The VP can simply deny any sexual harassment towards the doctor, and nobody can prove the VP's wrongdoings. The doctor has blatantly admitted his extortion attempts. And the VP can argue that the reason why the doctor filed a police report is because the doctor was worried that he might be sued after getting the cease and desist letter from the VP's lawyer. Further doubts is cast on the doctor's word because the abuse supposedly took place over a period of more than a decade. And of all the timing he took to file the report, he did it when he was in dire needs of money to pay for his condo.

 

Once a PRC, forever a PRC.

[CKW]

19 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

 

The extortion was done. Just that the extortion failed because the VP refused to pay.

 

We don't know if the VP actually agreed or not to pay the $200,000. He MIGHT not have done so. And even if he has, it might just be for the purpose of stalling for time so  that he can send the cease and desist letter to the doctor.

 

Just because the doctor regretted his extortion attempt in hindsight doesn't mean the extortion was not committed.

 

This seems simple to me. The VP can simply deny any sexual harassment towards the doctor, and nobody can prove the VP's wrongdoings. The doctor has blatantly admitted his extortion attempts. And the VP can argue that the reason why the doctor filed a police report is because the doctor was worried that he might be sued after getting the cease and desist letter from the VP's lawyer. Further doubts is cast on the doctor's word because the abuse supposedly took place over a period of more than a decade. And of all the timing he took to file the report, he did it when he was in dire needs of money to pay for his condo.

 

Once a PRC, forever a PRC.

 

I prefer not to be too severe in my judgement on this matter, as I am also a very flawed person. 

  

PRCs are human too, my friend.  

 

So let's see how the case continues to develop.  

[Guest MMM]

8 hours ago, Guest ... said:

 

I dun understand this. Why the boy who is a successful doctor now with bright future need to resort to blackmailing? 

 

Money No Enough?

To quote LKY:  What's wrong with collecting more money?

[Guest Obigood]

1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

 

The extortion was done. Just that the extortion failed because the VP refused to pay.

 

The money boy's career is ruined by himself.  He should just quietly sue or move on with his life since he is a doctor. Don't tell me it was his wife's idea to blackmail the VP?  Now he is caught between a rock and hard place. 

[CKW]

12 hours ago, Guest Obigood said:

The money boy's career is ruined by himself.  He should just quietly sue or move on with his life since he is a doctor. Don't tell me it was his wife's idea to blackmail the VP?  Now he is caught between a rock and hard place. 

 

You are right.

 

Today's ST mentioned that the $200k idea came from the wife, as I suspected also. Because it seemed out of character that the China guy would suddenly ask for so much money from the VP after making so much effort to sever all ties and contact with the VP and his family when he moved out from the VP's house.

 

Actually, from the time he moved out of the VP's house, to the time the wife started to psycho him to ask the VP for money, was a lapse of a few years. During that time, I am sure the guy had already resolved to move on and get on with his life. 

 

Then his greedy wife had to spoil everything by nagging at him to re-establish contact with the VP and to ask for the $200k.

 

Really too much, that woman. Trying to profit from her husband's sexual abuse. Now the guy looks bad because of this 'extortion' factor. 

 

Also, by insisting that the VP pay the $200k, she is prolonging her husband's agony. She should have advised him to either just forget the whole thing, or go straight to the police, without asking for any monetary compensation.

 

Sigh . . . This is not the first time I have seen how the greed of women ruined things.

[West93]

Zero sympathy for the PRC doctor here. There should be something written into the law regarding sexual assault that says nothing can be done about complaints or lawsuits after a period of 10 years for example. The law deals with facts and evidence. Not simply "he said she said" accusations that happen so far past the actual possible crime committed that there is no longer any way to gather evidence to support either side. All this nonsense about reporting misdemeanours years after they happened do nothing but weaken the law and detract from the more important point of law impartiality and credibility.

 

Like they say during weddings, if anyone wants to object they can either do so immediately or forever hold their peace. 

[CKW]

26 minutes ago, West93 said:

Zero sympathy for the PRC doctor here. There should be something written into the law regarding sexual assault that says nothing can be done about complaints or lawsuits after a period of 10 years for example. The law deals with facts and evidence. Not simply "he said she said" accusations that happen so far past the actual possible crime committed that there is no longer any way to gather evidence to support either side. All this nonsense about reporting misdemeanours years after they happened do nothing but weaken the law and detract from the more important point of law impartiality and credibility.

 

Like they say during weddings, if anyone wants to object they can either do so immediately or forever hold their peace. 

 

I know what you are saying.

 

He had actually already put the whole thing behind him and had cut off all ties with the VP for several years since he moved out of the latter's house during his uni days.

 

Only the wife had to spoil it by making him re-contact the VP years later to ask for money.

 

 

Remember a while back, there was another case of molest, ironically also with a Malay prison warden and a male China inmate.

 

The court convicted and jailed the prison warden based on the testimony of the China guy alone. It was also a case of 'his word against my word', since nobody ever saw the molest taking place.

 

But the judge felt that the surrounding factors did prove sufficiently that the molest incidents had taken place.

 

For this case, the way I see it, the defence's argument is very weak, while the circumstantial evidence against the VP is very incriminating.

 

I'm quite eager to see what happens next. Meanwhile, the case has been adjourned to 9 Apr.

Edited March 30, 2018 by CKW

[Guest Guest]

I hope all PRCs students will be deported back to their own country the moment they no longer have a parent here to watch over them. I really don't want to see a repeat of such cases here in Singapore, with the foreigners biting the hands feeding them regardless if what the foreigner claim is a real factual  truth, or a groundless accusation. 

[Guest Guest Guest]

1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

I hope all PRCs students will be deported back to their own country the moment they no longer have a parent here to watch over them. I really don't want to see a repeat of such cases here in Singapore, with the foreigners biting the hands feeding them regardless if what the foreigner claim is a real factual  truth, or a groundless accusation. 

 

Well it would be best if a ban on PRC students be placed in Singapore. Still remember years ago when importing PRC student talent was all the rage in SG's education system, particularly SAP and elite schools. The truth of the matter was that they weren't better than local students and caused more problems than they are worth. 

[LeanMature]

On ‎30‎/‎3‎/‎2018 at 11:08 AM, CKW said:

 

I know what you are saying.

 

He had actually already put the whole thing behind him and had cut off all ties with the VP for several years since he moved out of the latter's house during his uni days.

 

Only the wife had to spoil it by making him re-contact the VP years later to ask for money.

 

 

Remember a while back, there was another case of molest, ironically also with a Malay prison warden and a male China inmate.

 

The court convicted and jailed the prison warden based on the testimony of the China guy alone. It was also a case of 'his word against my word', since nobody ever saw the molest taking place.

 

But the judge felt that the surrounding factors did prove sufficiently that the molest incidents had taken place.

 

For this case, the way I see it, the defence's argument is very weak, while the circumstantial evidence against the VP is very incriminating.

 

I'm quite eager to see what happens next. Meanwhile, the case has been adjourned to 9 Apr.

 

The VP should have collect evidence and file charges for extortion, which is a serious offence in Singapore.

[TwoChnBTMs]

6 minutes ago, LeanMature said:

 

The VP should have collect evidence and file charges for extortion, which is a serious offence in Singapore.

 

 

any pictures of the china guy

[CKW]

4 hours ago, Guest Guest Guest said:

 

Well it would be best if a ban on PRC students be placed in Singapore. Still remember years ago when importing PRC student talent was all the rage in SG's education system, particularly SAP and elite schools. The truth of the matter was that they weren't better than local students and caused more problems than they are worth. 

 

What kind of problems did they cause? Can share?

 

'Cos my schooling years were in the 80s and 90s so I didn't have many foreigner classmates except for a few Indonesians and Malaysians.

 

I remember a lot of them always topped their repective classes so I think it may have generated some degree of resentment among the local students  

[Guest Guest]

On 3/31/2018 at 2:02 PM, CKW said:

 

What kind of problems did they cause? Can share?

 

'Cos my schooling years were in the 80s and 90s so I didn't have many foreigner classmates except for a few Indonesians and Malaysians.

 

I remember a lot of them always topped their repective classes so I think it may have generated some degree of resentment among the local students  

 

Can you share what good have they done that locals cannot do?

[koganei83]

regardless whether the doctor was really molested or not, the fact that he thinks if he is given 200k, he can 'forget' about it shows how f**ked up this tiong is

 

i mean if he is really doing it for justice, will report regardless given 200k or not, the fact he asked for it means it is all about the money and never abt the fact he was sexually abused 

 

the VP will give until bankrupt, might as well go court, if lose, go jail for 10 years or what, come out still got retirement nest egg

 

if not, give until bankrupt, the f**ker go n report him still, then is lose everything

 

Edited April 1, 2018 by koganei83

[CKW]

10 hours ago, koganei83 said:

regardless whether the doctor was really molested or not, the fact that he thinks if he is given 200k, he can 'forget' about it shows how f**ked up this tiong is

 

i mean if he is really doing it for justice, will report regardless given 200k or not, the fact he asked for it means it is all about the money and never abt the fact he was sexually abused 

 

the VP will give until bankrupt, might as well go court, if lose, go jail for 10 years or what, come out still got retirement nest egg

 

if not, give until bankrupt, the f**ker go n report him still, then is lose everything

 

 

I agree. The moment the $200k factor entered the picture, the China guy immediately looked bad.

 

Also in theory, had the VP given the $200k, there is nothing to stop the guy and his wife from approaching the VP years later to ask for more money, since they got it so easily the first time.

 

They will get greedy, and then they will convince themselves that they are fully justified in demanding money from the VP because of what he did.

 

I think the China guy should have been more firm and not allow the wife to influence him so easily in asking for the money.

 

Then again, it takes a lot of principles and morals to resist the temptation to obtain easy but unethical money.

[Guest Guest]

I used to think that only the best and brightest get into medicine. Is it still true these days? Is such a character fit to be a member of a highly esteemed profession? What do you guys think?

[CKW]

19 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

I used to think that only the best and brightest get into medicine. Is it still true these days? Is such a character fit to be a member of a highly esteemed profession? What do you guys think?

 

Academically, it's true that law and medicine are one of the hardest to get into.

 

But as with every profession, you can screen the academic qualifications, but you can't screen the person's behaviour, character or future actions.

 

With every person you hire, there's always a risk that you'll be hiring a bad person, but also a chance that you've discovered an unpolished diamond.

 

For this case, the hospital will probably side the doc (hospitals always do that) by saying that he was the victim in the first place, and also, that what he does outside the hospital is not their concern, so long as it doesn't involve any unprofessional behaviour on his part as a doctor e.g. medical malpractice.

 

[LeanMature]

My earlier post on exhortion by the doctor was wrong.  The doctor gave the VP an option, either out of court settlement or go to court.  Apparently, the VP preferred to go to jail than parting with $200k.  

[YELLOW BIRD]

偷 鸡 不 成 蚀 把 米

If a wife can sacrifice your happiness (when you already put it behind you for years), life is gonna be very tough now that this Tiong Kok Lang told the whole world that it was her idea to ask for that sum (true or not never mind, you made her malu in front of her family and friends!) 

 

She prefer money and honey!

 

The VP should thanks the Tiong Kok Lang for reporting the matter so late too. If not, his butt will blossom!

[CKW]

54 minutes ago, YELLOW BIRD said:

If a wife can sacrifice your happiness (when you already put it behind you for years),

 

She prefer money and honey!

 

From my casual analysis, it seems very likely that the $200k thing is genuinely the wife's idea, not his. Even before he said it, I already suspected it was her idea.

 

But yeah - kind of hilarious that he mentioned that in court. I don't think it was intentional but it sure made her lose face!  LOL

 

That's why I feel that the wife is a greedy b**ch, by forcing the guy to re-visit his painful past, and by putting a price tag on his sexual abuse.

 

Imagine if I rape a girl (I will never but just pretend  ), then I tell her:

 

"Ah 妹, I give you $200,000, you keep quiet about the whole thing. Don't go to the police, and don't ever find me again."

 

I think she will throw the money back at my face.  

 

 

Or if I make my wife re-contact her sexual abuser whom she has understandably avoided seeing for years, and tell her to ask him for $200,000 as compensation for the sexual abuse that she endured, because we just got married and need money for our condo.

What a bast**d that would make me.

Edited April 2, 2018 by CKW

[abang]

那个心机婊子就是这样把医生的过往一一摊开来。。

爱他。。就包容他的过去。。

爱钱。。就毁掉别人的过去。。

 

女人心， 海底针。。

[tomcat]

On 3/30/2018 at 10:54 AM, West93 said:

There should be something written into the law regarding sexual assault that says nothing can be done about complaints or lawsuits after a period of 10 years for example. The law deals with facts and evidence.

In the US, there is such a thing, it's called Statute of Limitation. The period varies from state to state, but basically, the idea is that the victim can no longer press charges after a certain amount of time has passed.

This is to prevent cases of complex human dynamics, such as these. It also exposes some of the motives why the crime is dredged up after many many years.
 

I find it curious myself, why now?

Why disrupt your life now to seek revenge/justice after so many many years?

[CKW]

18 minutes ago, tomcat said:

In the US, there is such a thing, it's called Statute of Limitation. The period varies from state to state, but basically, the idea is that the victim can no longer press charges after a certain amount of time has passed.

This is to prevent cases of complex human dynamics, such as these. It also exposes some of the motives why the crime is dredged up after many many years.
 

I find it curious myself, why now?

Why disrupt your life now to seek revenge/justice after so many many years?

 

You are right in that the guy had already closed that chapter of his life and had moved on when he moved out of the abuser's home during his uni days.

 

He even went to the extent of blocking the VP and all his family members on his FB and changing his phone number. At one point when he started working, he even slept in his office (clinic/hospital?) rather than go on staying with the VP.

 

At that time, he decided not to report the matter to the police as he took pity on the VP needing to look after his aged parents, and also, to some extent, as a token of gratitude for taking care of him over the years, the sexual incidents notwithstanding.  

 

So why did he suddenly re-contact the VP after several years to ask for such a big sum?

 

Ans: His greedy, selfish wife made him do it. He himself admitted to that in court. 

 

And it was when the VP did not want to pay that likely his wife made him report the matter to the police. He didn't say that but I am sure that was her idea also.

 

Cos all the while, the guy was reluctant to blow up the matter as apart from the forementioned reasons, he also wished to keep it from his parents, so that they wouldn't feel guilty for what had happened to him.

Edited April 2, 2018 by CKW

[Guest Guest]

Is this doctor a hen pecked husband or what?

 

If he is good enough to get into the competitive medicine faculty which many top local born students can’t get into, he should be more than smart enough to handle a woman. 

 

Dun blame the wife. 

[Guest Justice done]

This tell us that no one can escape justice. It's a matter of time before it ripen.  It's very clear right from the beginning the ulterior motive of the VP was not to take care and be the guardian but to abuse the young boy sexually.  He was given the chance to settle matter out of court but he didn't,  never mind the wife is greedy or not, the case needs closure.  How can any sex predator and paedophile go scot free?

[CKW]

Was just revisiting this case recently, cos I was bored  

 

I realised that the abuse lasted 3 years, with the first incident in the school gym/hall when the boy was in primary 5.

 

Which means if I calculated correctly, by the time the boy was in sec 2/3, the VP did not continue doing it. Maybe because the boy was already 17 years old so he was more able to resist the VP's advances.

 

And probably the boy had figured out by then that what the VP made him do was not normal behaviour between guys. Previously, the VP had managed to convince him that guys jerked each other off all the time  

 

As the boy got older, the risk of him reporting the VP was greater, so maybe the VP thought it best not to force himself on the boy like he used to when the boy was still 14. Not sure. Just my guesses.

 

Anyway, from Sec 3 to Sec 4, JC 1 to JC 2, to NS (the Chinese press mentioned that the boy did serve NS), to part of his uni years, the boy continued to stay with the VP.

 

Apparently, there was no significant psychological damage suffered by the boy because of the sex acts (he himself said so in court, the Chinese press mentioned.)

 

In fact, I am guessing that the VP's home environment was fairly conducive, enough for the boy to excel in his studies and get into NUS Medicine*.

 

(*the media did not mention NUS but it's my conclusion, based on the facts presented to the court    )

 

So then, it makes the $200,000 demand seem all the more unreasonable and dishonest.

Edited April 4, 2018 by CKW

[Guest Concern]

Oh my goodness! This topic should be considered to at least putting a stop! There are so many child abused out there not in stated only, putting blame on this vp is just so primary! You guys should go to the mental institute to look at those crazy. As they are the ones who are really the victims, who can t cope with life after sexual abuse! Rapist!

[CKW]

1 hour ago, Guest Concern said:

Oh my goodness! This topic should be considered to at least putting a stop! There are so many child abused out there not in stated only, putting blame on this vp is just so primary! You guys should go to the mental institute to look at those crazy. As they are the ones who are really the victims, who can t cope with life after sexual abuse! Rapist!

 

Pray, what shall we talk about then?

Your standard of written English?

[Guest Concern]

So what! You give me wages!

[LeanMature]

1 hour ago, CKW said:

Was just revisiting this case recently, cos I was bored  

 

I realised that the abuse lasted 3 years, with the first incident in the school gym/hall when the boy was in primary 5.

 

Which means if I calculated correctly, by the time the boy was in sec 2/3, the VP did not continue doing it. Maybe because the boy was already 17 years old so he was more able to resist the VP's advances.

 

And probably the boy had figured out by then that what the VP made him do was not normal behaviour between guys. Previously, the VP had managed to convince him that guys jerked each other off all the time  

 

As the boy got older, the risk of him reporting the VP was greater, so maybe the VP thought it best not to force himself on the boy like he used to when the boy was still 14. Not sure. Just my guesses.

 

Anyway, from Sec 3 to Sec 4, JC 1 to JC 2, to NS (the Chinese press mentioned that the boy did serve NS), to part of his uni years, the boy continued to stay with the VP.

 

Apparently, there was no significant psychological damage suffered by the boy because of the sex acts (he himself said so in court, the Chinese press mentioned.)

 

In fact, I am guessing that the VP's home environment was fairly conducive, enough for the boy to excel in his studies and get into NUS Medicine*.

 

(*the media did not mention NUS but it's my conclusion, based on the facts presented to the court    )

 

So then, it makes the $200,000 demand seem all the more unreasonable and dishonest.

 

All said and done, the VP cannot go unpunished for sexually abusing a juvenile.  In fact, he should be thankful that the offence was not reported earlier. He escaped mandatory caning (24 strokes) as he is already above 50 now.

Edited April 4, 2018 by LeanMature

[CKW]

1 hour ago, LeanMature said:

 

All said and done, the VP cannot go unpunished for sexually abusing a juvenile.  In fact, he should be thankful that the offence was not reported earlier. He escaped mandatory caning (24 strokes) as he is already above 50 now.

 

Yeah, man. Gay or straight, what he did was definitely not right. See how next Monday (9 Apr) when they will meet in court again.

 

If I were the VP, I will just plead guilty sooner. Might get a lighter sentence rather than to keep fighting. Cos the evidence against the VP is quite damning. If it drags on it will only be a case of 夜长梦多.

[Guest Hauwzeabau it]

3 hours ago, Guest Concern said:

Oh my goodness! This topic should be considered to at least putting a stop! There are so many child abused out there not in stated only, putting blame on this vp is just so primary! You guys should go to the mental institute to look at those crazy. As they are the ones who are really the victims, who can t cope with life after sexual abuse! Rapist!

 

So, a trip to  psycho-therapy to see the psycho-the-rapist to really get it off his manly  hairy chest, would certainly help.

 

 

Psycho the-rapist can psycho-anal-yse  the trauma and if there is none , can go backdoor to check if there were childhood abuses by parents like sitting on a traffic cone back in China when he was a child and was caught being naughty.

 

Psycho-anal-yst can also probe with permission and consent, if back in China, same sex sexual grabbing and horse play are common in the often cramped student housing and hostels.

 

These are pertinent research that may shed light in the dark corners of the relaxed sexual attitudes of great people's republic.

 

There are evidence to show that generally PRC people are relaxed about genital play among males , isn't it  true?

 

[Guest Guest]

6 hours ago, LeanMature said:

 

All said and done, the VP cannot go unpunished for sexually abusing a juvenile.  In fact, he should be thankful that the offence was not reported earlier. He escaped mandatory caning (24 strokes) as he is already above 50 now.

 

Did the VP admit to abusing the doctor? How do you know if the supposed abuse isn't a fabrication cooked up by the wife? So far, the only admission of guilt is the doctor's confession of extortion. 

 

5 hours ago, CKW said:

 

Yeah, man. Gay or straight, what he did was definitely not right. See how next Monday (9 Apr) when they will meet in court again.

 

If I were the VP, I will just plead guilty sooner. Might get a lighter sentence rather than to keep fighting. Cos the evidence against the VP is quite damning. If it drags on it will only be a case of 夜长梦多.

 

You would rather believe an extortionist, then an educator.