Orca888 And His 'straight' Boy

[orca888]

This is so true.

And I would like to provide a different perspective C.Marv has been giving, although I admit, getting rejected by straight guys, or by anyone, is ugly as fxxk -- no one wants to get rejected.

But if you can recall the great times of optimism you would have had while trying to stay close to this special person, and great blissful moments you must have experienced while chasing after this straight guy, or just.. guy, of yours, wouldn't you say that that was the most exciting part to the relationship?

I've never been in a relationship before, but I honestly believe the chase is the most exciting part to any relationship.

So Orca, whether or not you would like to take the big step to opening up to your 'boy', it's really up to you.

Enjoy the chase though, while you can, or want, or must...

We're all enjoying it too (okay enjoying is a very sadistic-sounding word) but yeah.

Well, some people say that the journey can be more fun than the destination itself...hahah

Jokes aside, I tend to agree - the journey is where we build up all those memories for us to share again once we reached our destination

Anyway, I am working towards opening up to my boy - just don't know when and how I can bring the issue out into the open (no pun intended)...hahah

And thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts...beats hearing the echoes in my closet

[orca888]

bisexuals will normally experiment with dating guys in their dating phase but most will ultimately choose to settle down with girls and start their families. dun get confused with gays in denial and bisexuals. some gays in denial call themselves bisexuals but will come to realise they are really gays eventually. bisexuals are those who can get emotionally and sexually attached with both sex.

but u are only 18, maybe just listen to your heart and go experience yourself.

If I may chime in with my 2-cents...

I think I am also "bisexual" rather than 100% gay...

But it's a matter of choice - when I met my ex, I made the choice to be with him...

So not every bisexual will choose to go the straight route - of course, I am also hoping that my boy is the same as me

Just day dreaming and hoping...hahah

Jokes aside, I have already mentally prepared myself that he will not choose the same path as I have - but then again, he's still young - I don't mind letting him find his own way cos I will still be there for him

[Guest Guest]

If I may chime in with my 2-cents...

I think I am also "bisexual" rather than 100% gay...

But it's a matter of choice - when I met my ex, I made the choice to be with him...

So not every bisexual will choose to go the straight route - of course, I am also hoping that my boy is the same as me

Just day dreaming and hoping...hahah

Jokes aside, I have already mentally prepared myself that he will not choose the same path as I have - but then again, he's still young - I don't mind letting him find his own way cos I will still be there for him

not everyone is like u, most bisexuals are undecisive and do not know what they want. i sympathize with their 'internal conflict' which is difficult to understand but some just conveniently use this as an excuse when they got confronted with matters of the heart from either sex. ultimately most choose to settle down with women and have families either due to parental and societal pressure or coming to a decision. the worst is the other half (male) who have committed all but is now left with a broken heart. why waste his time in the first place. and then both sides blame each other for being selfish.

for those who are now committed to their wives, blessings for them. for those who continue to play around (incl r/s) behind their wives' back, they deserve no respect.

i have seen many cases from my friends. i myself have dated a bisexual guy in the past. the indecisiveness can be a turn off and it is all very tiring. that is why for me and alot i know of, we stay away from bisexuals. if u wanna have fun, better dun let the strings get attached.

love is complicated, but u always have a choice .

[orca888]

Taurus (Apr 20 - May 20)

Tuesday, May 1st, 2012 -- You have an air of magic about you today and others will likely notice your sparkle. Don't make any sudden changes if things are already going your way. But stirring up the status quo in a relationship can be a smart move if you're feeling stuck romantically. Be certain that you know what you want before you make a move that cannot be undone

Cuts rather close to the bone doesn't it?

But does it sound very ominous as well?

Scorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 21)

Monday, Apr 30th, 2012 -- Your sensual needs can be the source of sadness now, but it is this very same emotional hurt that brings about spiritual transformation. Don't try to deny any feelings of inadequacy or disappointment. Instead, explore the idea that you may have set unrealistic expectations when it comes to love and relationships. However, accepting the irrefutable fact that to be human is to be imperfect enables you to enjoy yourself without worrying about what anyone else thinks.

Same for my boy - does it mean that he's not straight as I think (or he thinks)...hahah

Taken with a large dose of salt

[orca888]

not everyone is like u, most bisexuals are undecisive and do not know what they want. i sympathize with their 'internal conflict' which is difficult to understand but some just conveniently use this as an excuse when they got confronted with matters of the heart from either sex. ultimately most choose to settle down with women and have families either due to parental and societal pressure or coming to a decision. the worst is the other half (male) who have committed all but is now left with a broken heart. why waste his time in the first place. and then both sides blame each other for being selfish.

for those who are now committed to their wives, blessings for them. for those who continue to play around (incl r/s) behind their wives' back, they deserve no respect.

i have seen many cases from my friends. i myself have dated a bisexual guy in the past. the indecisiveness can be a turn off and it is all very tiring. that is why for me and alot i know of, we stay away from bisexuals. if u wanna have fun, better dun let the strings get attached.

love is complicated, but u always have a choice .

It's all about making a choice and sticking with it...

Maybe some bisexuals think that they have the best of both worlds and hence can afford to "experiment"...

Yes, you are right - some may continue to hold on to the traditional thinking - maybe due to upbringing, pressure from parents, from peers etc...

At the end of the day, getting into a relationship with a bisexual is also a choice as you rightly pointed out again

But it's easier said than done - we sometimes can't dictate who our hearts will love...

[Exynos]

maybe it's my bad experience... but i don't even remember the journey i had with my crush. remembering even a snippet of it makes me feel really embarrassed for myself. if only i knew i'd feel this way now, i would stay away from him then

[orca888]

maybe it's my bad experience... but i don't even remember the journey i had with my crush. remembering even a snippet of it makes me feel really embarrassed for myself. if only i knew i'd feel this way now, i would stay away from him then

LOL - you are very cute...hahah

Not even a pleasant memory with him?

That's why hindsight is always 20/20...if we only knew

But that's life - some say it's like a box of chocolates while others liken it to a jar of jalapenos - they can bite back with a nasty burn...hahah

[Guest Guest]

LOL - you are very cute...hahah

literally or metaphorically?

feel like pinching his face

[Exynos]

LOL - you are very cute...hahah

*fills up application form to be "uncle" orca's next "boy"

no, but, really, any fond memories were destroyed the day he called me his dog. and anything else... i don't really remember anymore

[Guest StR8guys NOT like that one]

If I may chime in with my 2-cents...

I think I am also "bisexual" rather than 100% gay...

But it's a matter of choice - when I met my ex, I made the choice to be with him...

So not every bisexual will choose to go the straight route - of course, I am also hoping that my boy is the same as me

Just day dreaming and hoping...hahah

Jokes aside, I have already mentally prepared myself that he will not choose the same path as I have - but then again, he's still young - I don't mind letting him find his own way cos I will still be there for him

Oh PLEEEEASE..... U are so obviously gay. Why go through the masquerade of thinking or "making" yourself bisexual.

Str8 guys DO NOT spend months whining and writing abt so little details like the way you do. Nonly little girls fantasizing do!

Cannot tahan.

[Guest Str8guys not like that one]

Sorry, typo, I mean....

Str8 guys DO NOT spend months whining and writing abt small things in such minute details like the way u did. Only girls fantasizing and immersed in fantasies do!

[orca888]

*fills up application form to be "uncle" orca's next "boy"

no, but, really, any fond memories were destroyed the day he called me his dog. and anything else... i don't really remember anymore

LOL - think my boy will be my only and last one

Erm, dog - I love dogs woah...hahah

Just kidding - that's really mean bah...

Oh well, guess it's not meant to be...

[Exynos]

LOL - think my boy will be my only and last one

Erm, dog - I love dogs woah...hahah

Just kidding - that's really mean bah...

Oh well, guess it's not meant to be...

oh well, i guess, just enjoy and cherish every second with him. this is something u can never have again in the future

[Guest Guest]

Oh PLEEEEASE..... U are so obviously gay. Why go through the masquerade of thinking or "making" yourself bisexual.

Str8 guys DO NOT spend months whining and writing abt so little details like the way you do. Nonly little girls fantasizing do!.

Cannot tahan.

I think ORCA means OLD GAL now lah. hehe

[orca888]

I think ORCA means OLD GAL now lah. hehe

Sure, if that makes you happy

Do I care? LOL

[orca888]

oh well, i guess, just enjoy and cherish every second with him. this is something u can never have again in the future

Thanks

I do intend to - hopefully he's the last (good for another 18 years at the very least)...hahah

The chemistry between us is a lot better than with my ex - this I have to admit...

It's so easy to make each other laugh and we can talk about just about anything under the sun...what I don't know, he would explain and vice versa

Always have something to talk about

[Guest i am your ex]

The chemistry between us is a lot better than with my ex - this I have to admit...

it's too early to say so. u hv only known him for a few months?!

[Guest Few mths vs 18 yrs]

it's too early to say so. u hv only known him for a few months?!

Yah lah..... Agree.

I can just picture a scene of a typical "char-bor" giggling with excitement over each and every small thing her boyboy does..... And her eagerness to share with her girl mates. Not that I am not enjoying the show

[orca888]

it's too early to say so. u hv only known him for a few months?!

For chemistry, it's either you have it or not...

How can I explain this...have you ever had that feeling that even though you just met someone, both of you can relate to each other so well that it felt like you guys have known each other for years? hahah

Well, that was the case when I first met my guy...

[orca888]

Yah lah..... Agree.

I can just picture a scene of a typical "char-bor" giggling with excitement over each and every small thing her boyboy does..... And her eagerness to share with her girl mates. Not that I am not enjoying the show

Sorry to disappoint but I definitely don't fit your picture...

Then again, you are seeing things from your perspective LOL

[Guest Dad of 2]

Sorry to disappoint but I definitely don't fit your picture...

Then again, you are seeing things from your perspective LOL

Lao CHarboh giggling.. Worse is... he was after a 13 yo.. and then pretend to cover up with mixed up lies tsk tsk

For a married gay with kids, i dont feel good reading this... No offence...

[orca888]

Lao CHarboh giggling.. Worse is... he was after a 13 yo.. and then pretend to cover up with mixed up lies tsk tsk

For a married gay with kids, i dont feel good reading this... No offence...

Not offended - you take it whatever way you want...hahah

Who knows what real and make believe online...LOL

Anyway, if I were really a sexual predator - I won't have stuck with the same guy for 18 years...

Maybe you need to really do some of your own soul search

Edited May 3, 2012 by orca888

[Guest Online]

Not offended - you take it whatever way you want...hahah

Who knows what real and make believe online...LOL

Anyway, if I were really a sexual predator - I won't have stuck with the same guy for 18 years...

Maybe you need to really do some of your own soul search

Who knows what real and make believe online...LOL

So who knows if u really STUCK to him for 18 yeas, which makes his 13 when u SUCK him DUH

I don't think paedophilia shd be encouraged on this website.

[orca888]

Who knows what real and make believe online...LOL

So who knows if u really STUCK to him for 18 yeas, which makes his 13 when u SUCK him DUH

I don't think paedophilia shd be encouraged on this website.

Nope, you are quite right - paedophilia should never be encouraged anywhere...period

I don't know about you but I do adhere to higher standards...

As far as I am concerned, my ex was 18 when we got physical - that was my condition for us being together

Whether you choose to believe or not, that's your prerogative but my conscience is clear...

[Guest Guest]

OMG UNCLE WHY DID YOU REMOVE YOUR SEXY PICTURE ?!

[Guest Load of Crap!]

As far as I am concerned, my ex was 18 when we got physical - that was my condition for us being together

Whether you choose to believe or not, that's your prerogative but my conscience is clear...

I do not believe you. U are right, it is my belief. But I just want to let u know that I think I am not alone in disbelieving you. U know your ex when he was 13. But u laid a condition and only got physical when he reached legal age ie 5 years later? So during that 5 years, you were in your prime hormone raging years but u stayed faithful (recall u stating that somewhere) and waited for 5 years.

There.... As u mentioned, the prerogative is mine and I exercised it. I absolutely find it a load of BS!

[Phil]

I do not know Orca personnally, but he seems to be a nice and correct guy.

We have no reason not to believe what he says, even if there might be differences between "internet avatar" and the real human being.

[orca888]

I do not believe you. U are right, it is my belief. But I just want to let u know that I think I am not alone in disbelieving you. U know your ex when he was 13. But u laid a condition and only got physical when he reached legal age ie 5 years later? So during that 5 years, you were in your prime hormone raging years but u stayed faithful (recall u stating that somewhere) and waited for 5 years.

There.... As u mentioned, the prerogative is mine and I exercised it. I absolutely find it a load of BS!

Of course you can - and you can think whatever you want...

If you can't comprehend that some people do operate at a much higher level than you do - too bad...hahah

If you think it's a load of BS, by all means, you live with it, not me

[orca888]

I do not know Orca personnally, but he seems to be a nice and correct guy.

We have no reason not to believe what he says, even if there might be differences between "internet avatar" and the real human being.

Thanks Phil...

But I will not comment further

[Guest Guest]

With all the recent news surrounding underage sex, I can understand why one would be extra careful, or even lie to protect oneself. It is understandable. Itis human nature, a survival instinct.

[GachiMuchi]

Ok. This topic will be closed as I think the direction the posting is heading is something that I do not want to see.