orca888 Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 Unker reply: I will respect him But unker do you have time when u really need someone to hug u and give u some love what would you do? Yup, that's my line - there can be no love without respect...That would be nice I guess but I don't think I crave such affection...There's always my two dogs - they give unconditional love and my girl knows how to snuggle up to me to share her warmth... Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest greaselove Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 reading these posts, i can say that u such a sweet unker and a good man. hope everything works well for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 uncle i salute u for maintaining ur previous relationship for 18 years. it is definitely not easy. how do u sustain it? do u guys fight often?and u are really forgiving when he strays. were u not angry and hurt?what attracted u to ur ex? ur ex is the bottom? how did u feel when u hv to let it go? is ur ex current bf ard ur age?uncle pls continue to post abt u and ur boy. this thread is my current must read everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 reading these posts, i can say that u such a sweet unker and a good man. hope everything works well for you. yah man if everything he post is true, orca888 is a good man which is hard to find in the gay circle. or maybe the good men are all in the closet yet . no one is perfect but the qualities uncle has (and physical attributes ) will make a gd boyfriend. it is ur ex's loss! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest m Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 have you ever considered the possibility that what you are pursuing is companionship and your boy just came along, not only younger but possibly swinging both ways?sexuality aside, even if he is able to develop feelings for you, age gap always has its complications. i'm sure you understand them since you're already aware of the basic fact that both of you are at different stages of life.your boy is a young man, at the age of 20. he has a possibly adventurous journey ahead of him. while you may want to be at each stage of his life with him, you have to perhaps question the necessity of it. to put it blatantly, what impact could you bring to him, small or big, be it short-run or long-run?to cut it short, my point is that you are definitely in a better position than your boy to think and manage this relationship. you may think your boy is matured for his age but there could always be blind-spots that he misses out, simply because he's not there yet at that point of his life. call it age-bias, sadly, you have to be the more responsible one with a clearer mind. that extra 20 years is not for nothing, haha.at the end of the day, if companionship is what that you are perhaps enjoying, maybe you have to relook into this. not all chances are the right ones. we fight hard to keep our chances while for some, we learn to slip it.two cents' worth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 reading these posts, i can say that u such a sweet unker and a good man. hope everything works well for you. Thanks for your compliments...hahahI am only human and I have many flaws too I am hoping too...the ball is really in my boy's court The decision is up to him to make - whether he accepts me as more than his bro... Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 yah man if everything he post is true, orca888 is a good man which is hard to find in the gay circle. or maybe the good men are all in the closet yet . no one is perfect but the qualities uncle has (and physical attributes ) will make a gd boyfriend. it is ur ex's loss!LOL - I am not in the circle...And I am really very boring in real life I am a Taurus and we are boring by nature while my ex is a Gemini - he's always looking for interesting stuff...hahahDon't make me blush...I am only human...hahahI am good boyfriend material? Then my ex wouldn't have strayed...Then again, am I barking up the wrong tree since my boy is straight? Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 uncle i salute u for maintaining ur previous relationship for 18 years. it is definitely not easy. how do u sustain it? do u guys fight often?and u are really forgiving when he strays. were u not angry and hurt?what attracted u to ur ex? ur ex is the bottom? how did u feel when u hv to let it go? is ur ex current bf ard ur age?uncle pls continue to post abt u and ur boy. this thread is my current must read everyday. First off, thanks - it was quite a journey and we had our ups and downs...unfortunately, like any old couple, we started to take each other for granted...I guess I got complacent and he was still looking for more...We did have our share of tiffs but we always kiss up and make out...still, the cracks are always there Well, I guess that's love - we try to forgive (usually not forget) about our partner's transgressions...Strangely enough, just disappointed...I guess there's the physical attraction - my ex was good looking too...hahahYes, my ex is the bottom...Disappointment but I guess that's just life and fate too...we had shared 18 years together and we had our share of good and great times...My ex is about 10 years younger than me Hmm...thanks for following this thread - not sure why though cos it's not explicit and doesn't quite fit into the usual BW hot threads Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest greaselove Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 i too been following this thread for a while. it's...interesting to read about your experience, and wondering the come out of your journey with your boy.i am Taurus as well, and my bf is Gemini. i do agree with you that the witty, chatty and lively aspect of Gemini that makes me fall for him and yah,,i think i am boring too haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XmasMint Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 Lol...This thread is very interesting...unlike the others. Reading it everyday . Seem like a book that has chapters being released every so often or a tv show sia. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowingember Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 I find touching the waist band of the briefs extremely sexy.It's a thin layer that separates the finger from the skin.The same layer that withholds intimate secrets.Nah, I was just kidding...hahahWhat I am saying that he doesn't mind being in close physical contact with me...But do you know why? Because there was nothing sexual in our contacts...hahah After all, tomorrow is another day. ~ S O'Hara Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 LOL - I am not in the circle... And I am really very boring in real life I am a Taurus and we are boring by nature while my ex is a Gemini - he's always looking for interesting stuff...hahah Don't make me blush...I am only human...hahah I am good boyfriend material? Then my ex wouldn't have strayed... Then again, am I barking up the wrong tree since my boy is straight? uncle i know u are not in the circle. but not many gay men are as good as u.are u a believer of astrology?u must be good boyfriend material to some extent, if not ur bf wouldn't hv been with u for 18 years. like u said, i think he must hv been longing for something new. so u hv seen him thru NS, army life, uni and then to work life?u hv decided to leave things as status quo, i guess u are just contented with the current arrangement. if not, dun worry, u will attract many suitors in this forum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyboy88 Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 im a tau LOL - I am not in the circle... And I am really very boring in real life I am a Taurus and we are boring by nature while my ex is a Gemini - he's always looking for interesting stuff...hahah Don't make me blush...I am only human...hahah I am good boyfriend material? Then my ex wouldn't have strayed... Then again, am I barking up the wrong tree since my boy is straight? im a taurus too and i also realise i am boring too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 i too been following this thread for a while. it's...interesting to read about your experience, and wondering the come out of your journey with your boy.i am Taurus as well, and my bf is Gemini. i do agree with you that the witty, chatty and lively aspect of Gemini that makes me fall for him and yah,,i think i am boring too haha.Thanks for following - making unker blush...hahahThought my story would be boring as mud Anyway, I am still working on the outcome but I appreciate his company and am definitely enjoying the journey...Sometimes, the journey is more interesting than the destination no? hahahGood to know another Taurus - bulls unite Oh, your BF is a Gemini too? They are certainly a handful and would keep us poor Tauruses entertained But their mood changes are just too sudden - confuses the hell out of the stability-loving Taurus Sometimes, my ex would purposely rile me up just for the fun of it - sighOh, my present boy is a Scorpio - yes, I know, the direct opposite sign...But according to most horoscopes, Taurus and Scorpio either hit it off very well or are mortal enemies...Think you should be able to guess what was our initial meeting like Anyway, I don't think I am the typical Taurus though - my moon sign is Scorpio too - maybe that's why I can connect so well with my boy (his moon sign should be Pisces)...hahah Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 Lol...This thread is very interesting...unlike the others. Reading it everyday . Seem like a book that has chapters being released every so often or a tv show sia. . LOL - suddenly my sad life is a soap opera Just kidding...think it's more like a comedy Anyway, the chapters are still be written...hopefully there will be more joy than heartache Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 uncle i know u are not in the circle. but not many gay men are as good as u. are u a believer of astrology? u must be good boyfriend material to some extent, if not ur bf wouldn't hv been with u for 18 years. like u said, i think he must hv been longing for something new. so u hv seen him thru NS, army life, uni and then to work life? u hv decided to leave things as status quo, i guess u are just contented with the current arrangement. if not, dun worry, u will attract many suitors in this forum. I think I am hardly "good" - I am just human and being one, am full of flaws too I am sure there are a lot of guys out there who're 100x better than me...at least not as sad as me - falling for a straight boy...hahahI won't say I believe in astrology totally but somethings just hit too close to the core...Well, blame it on my star sign then - Taurus are dependent and treasure our relationships (we usually choose a partner for life and focus all our energies on him/her)....Unfortunately, it was not to be - or maybe fate has other arrangements for us...Yes, I have seen my ex through NS, uni (he went overseas and I flew to see him quite often) and of course, work life...Then there were our holidays together and we have been to lots of places - some as exotic as Egypt...Anyway, that chapter has closed and it's probably time to start a new one...Hopefully, it's not a comedy this time but a love story I am definitely enjoying my time with my boy - hopefully I won't repeat the same mistakes with him as I did with my ex...Me attract suitors? Nah...surely you jest...hahahBut jokes aside, I only have eyes for my boy and he's all that matters to me right now Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 im a tauim a taurus too and i also realise i am boring tooI do a lot of boring too - opps Jokes aside, I think Taurus are not boring - we just enjoy the simple pleasures of life...hahahJust got to find someone who appreciates us and the stability that we offer Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 Okay, a quick update...Sent my boy to school this morning - what a wonderful way to start the day...hahahAfter his classes, we met again for gym...Had a great time again as usual Then we went for a nice dinner at Taka - think we over ordered (well, he's still a growing boy and I was contented to sit and watch him eat)...hahahAnyway, I really appreciate him for setting aside time to be with me Like I said, I can't really complain...got to appreciate the little things in life - they do add up sometimes...hahah Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ahpa Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 Okay, a quick update...Sent my boy to school this morning - what a wonderful way to start the day...hahahAfter his classes, we met again for gym...Had a great time again as usual Then we went for a nice dinner at Taka - think we over ordered (well, he's still a growing boy and I was contented to sit and watch him eat)...hahahAnyway, I really appreciate him for setting aside time to be with me Like I said, I can't really complain...got to appreciate the little things in life - they do add up sometimes...hahahHi unker,have u met ahboy's parents?Is his father the same age as u? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 Hi unker, have u met ahboy's parents? Is his father the same age as u? Nope - no idea nor am I interested in finding out Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 First off, thanks - it was quite a journey and we had our ups and downs...unfortunately, like any old couple, we started to take each other for granted... I guess I got complacent and he was still looking for more... We did have our share of tiffs but we always kiss up and make out...still, the cracks are always there Well, I guess that's love - we try to forgive (usually not forget) about our partner's transgressions... Strangely enough, just disappointed... I guess there's the physical attraction - my ex was good looking too...hahah Yes, my ex is the bottom... Disappointment but I guess that's just life and fate too...we had shared 18 years together and we had our share of good and great times... My ex is about 10 years younger than me Hmm...thanks for following this thread - not sure why though cos it's not explicit and doesn't quite fit into the usual BW hot threads other than physical attraction, what attracted you to ur ex initially? do u still miss him? do u guys still contact?so why did u decide to end the relationship eventually other than him straying? i just think that to let go an 18 years relationship takes alot of courage. oops i mean how old is ur ex current bf since u said u hv seen him.is ur current boy like ur ex? if ur current boy becomes ur next bf, u will hv to see him thru NS, uni and work life again. it is an interesting thread simply bcos it's not explicit. its like reality tv! and thank you uncle for being truthful and willing to reply spontaneously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest greaselove Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 Thanks for following - making unker blush...hahah Thought my story would be boring as mud Anyway, I am still working on the outcome but I appreciate his company and am definitely enjoying the journey... Sometimes, the journey is more interesting than the destination no? hahah Good to know another Taurus - bulls unite Oh, your BF is a Gemini too? They are certainly a handful and would keep us poor Tauruses entertained But their mood changes are just too sudden - confuses the hell out of the stability-loving Taurus Sometimes, my ex would purposely rile me up just for the fun of it - sigh Oh, my present boy is a Scorpio - yes, I know, the direct opposite sign... But according to most horoscopes, Taurus and Scorpio either hit it off very well or are mortal enemies... Think you should be able to guess what was our initial meeting like Anyway, I don't think I am the typical Taurus though - my moon sign is Scorpio too - maybe that's why I can connect so well with my boy (his moon sign should be Pisces)...hahah YES I KNOW RIGHT! The mood changes are freaking me out! Oh god. Haha.But I bet unker must be quite stubborn too, no? Prominent quality of Taurean. Ahh, Scorpio. Most Scorpion are good in bed, right, hhehe, hope everything goes well for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 I am definitely enjoying my time with my boy - hopefully I won't repeat the same mistakes with him as I did with my ex... Me attract suitors? Nah...surely you jest...hahah But jokes aside, I only have eyes for my boy and he's all that matters to me right now do u mean u guys taking each other for granted? i think it happens for most relationships. the fire is barely burning and if u guys still love each other, u need to ignite it again.since u are in the closet, who do u turn to or what do u do when u hv relationship problems with ur ex?taurus are known to be very devoted and loyal beings, unker u certainly are. taurus are also known to be disciplined, are u unker? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lct Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 Thanks for following - making unker blush...hahah Thought my story would be boring as mud Anyway, I am still working on the outcome but I appreciate his company and am definitely enjoying the journey... Sometimes, the journey is more interesting than the destination no? hahah Good to know another Taurus - bulls unite Oh, your BF is a Gemini too? They are certainly a handful and would keep us poor Tauruses entertained But their mood changes are just too sudden - confuses the hell out of the stability-loving Taurus Sometimes, my ex would purposely rile me up just for the fun of it - sigh Oh, my present boy is a Scorpio - yes, I know, the direct opposite sign... But according to most horoscopes, Taurus and Scorpio either hit it off very well or are mortal enemies... Think you should be able to guess what was our initial meeting like Anyway, I don't think I am the typical Taurus though - my moon sign is Scorpio too - maybe that's why I can connect so well with my boy (his moon sign should be Pisces)...hahah It's quite interesting -- you got me off to discover my own moon and even rising signs. I am a Taurean like you for the sun sign. I am amazed you even got the time of his birth and his birthplace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 YES I KNOW RIGHT! The mood changes are freaking me out! Oh god. Haha. But I bet unker must be quite stubborn too, no? Prominent quality of Taurean. Ahh, Scorpio. Most Scorpion are good in bed, right, hhehe, hope everything goes well for you. Yup, they are not called the Twins for nothing...sometimes we don't know which twin we are dealing with...hahaA little bit bah - my ex can also be quite stubborn - so sometimes tiffs can happen just because of that Anyway, my boy can also be quite stubborn but guess I now have plenty of experience Not sure about Scorpios being good in bed - our bedtimes are all very innocent...Must be the stupid Taurean trait about righteousness and all that sort of crap Just kidding - I respect him too much to ever take advantage of him Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted April 17, 2012 Report Share Posted April 17, 2012 Yup, they are not called the Twins for nothing...sometimes we don't know which twin we are dealing with...hahaA little bit bah - my ex can also be quite stubborn - so sometimes tiffs can happen just because of that Anyway, my boy can also be quite stubborn but guess I now have plenty of experience Not sure about Scorpios being good in bed - our bedtimes are all very innocent...Must be the stupid Taurean trait about righteousness and all that sort of crap Just kidding - I respect him too much to ever take advantage of him I hope you are kidding!Righteousness is not "crap", even if it is rare nowadays. You seem gifted with it. About Scorpios in bed, yes, some people say they are good... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest StraightnCurious Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 This tread is a tremendously interesting read hence can't stop myself from sharing my views. I hope you dont mind.Orca888, (we are almost same age I pressume), I am jealous of the kind of affection or love that you give to your Boy and the kind of Bro-romance the two of you share. Enjoy every moment while it last.Your story here remind me of a 1994 German Gay theme movie (not a pxxn) called "The Most Desired Man" ("Maybe Maybe not") which star Til Schweiger as the straight handsome guy with another Gay man just after he was dumped by his girlfriend. Although you are anywhere close to the Gay character in the movie, but the "affection" the Gay Character give to this handsome straight guy is almost similar, I think. Anyway, If the relationship doesnt work out, you have Adele's song,"Someone like you", to listen to. ".... I will find someone like you, I hope nothing but the best for you. Please do not forget about me......" PS: I apologize for my poor English, obviously English is not my first language. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 other than physical attraction, what attracted you to ur ex initially? do u still miss him? do u guys still contact?so why did u decide to end the relationship eventually other than him straying? i just think that to let go an 18 years relationship takes alot of courage. oops i mean how old is ur ex current bf since u said u hv seen him.is ur current boy like ur ex? if ur current boy becomes ur next bf, u will hv to see him thru NS, uni and work life again. it is an interesting thread simply bcos it's not explicit. its like reality tv! and thank you uncle for being truthful and willing to reply spontaneously. Besides physical attraction, I guess character bah...my ex's character is not badOf course - we were together for 18 years - but guess we have to move on - whatever we had won't be coming back...Sometimes, he would randomly message or call me but the frequency has slowed since he knew I was going out with my boy...guess he's also busy with his new boyfriendI think straying is bad enough - and it's for the second time - plus it's not a ONS but he's developing some form of relationship with the other guy...Trust me, I did try to salvage the relationship but in the end, you could guess who he chose in the end...Yes, it does take courage but I guess it's better for both of us - his boyfriend probably works in the same company and I don't want to be second guessing them all the time...Anyway, nothing is permanent in life (except death and taxes) I think his new boyfriend should be around his age or plus 5 I think...Nope, my current boy is nothing like my ex - firstly, he's straight or so I am assuming...hahahThey look different - both of them are very good looking but in their own way (then again, I am allowed to be biased)...hahahCharacter-wise, they are also very different; but one thing is for sure, both of them have a very good heart...Actually, I am looking forward to that - seeing my current boy through school, through NS, uni and work life - being able to share and be part of his life...how great is that? How many of us can say we did that? LOL - so we must all thank GM for creating this thread...otherwise, none of this would have been possible...hahahNah, thanks for taking the time to read about this old unker and his misadventures I honestly don't know how it will end - of course, I do have my "dream" ending but we all know that life is not a fairy tale...But whatever it is, I have already gained a lot from this and I won't deny that I enjoy the company of my boy very much...even if we could only be brothers, I am thankful to have met him Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 do u mean u guys taking each other for granted? i think it happens for most relationships. the fire is barely burning and if u guys still love each other, u need to ignite it again.since u are in the closet, who do u turn to or what do u do when u hv relationship problems with ur ex?taurus are known to be very devoted and loyal beings, unker u certainly are. taurus are also known to be disciplined, are u unker? Well, I guess I was wrong to assume that our love was strong enough...Anyway, while the spark may still be there (humans are sentimental creatures after all), i doubt it would do both of us any good to be back together...separating after 18 years is a very big decision and not made lightly...Nobody? Maybe that's my problem - I have a very independent streak and being stoic is also part of the Taurean makeup Most people think that I am still together with my "girlfriend", including my colleagues...My parents are also in the dark about our break up - I only told them that my ex has moved back to his mom's place to accompany her...which is a half-truth...Thanks for your compliments...not sure if being so devoted and loyal is a good thing these days...hahahDisciplined? Depends on how you define it...hahahBut yes, all my thoughts and focus are on my boy - even if he doesn't accept me as his partner, he's still my brother, which I would continue to cherish him...Is this the unconditional love that Tauruses are known for as well? Sucks doesn't it sometimes? hahah Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 It's quite interesting -- you got me off to discover my own moon and even rising signs. I am a Taurean like you for the sun sign. I am amazed you even got the time of his birth and his birthplace.Interesting read right? It did spook me to find out how the readings can be so accurate, both about me and my boy...hahahAnyway, I did say that we are close...hahahMaybe a bit too close and hence the "mixed signals" from him...hahahAnyway, I mean my boy no harm and he knows it... Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 I hope you are kidding!Righteousness is not "crap", even if it is rare nowadays. You seem gifted with it. About Scorpios in bed, yes, some people say they are good... Of course I jest mon cher Phil...You know me - all bark and no bite Now if only someone would tell me how much righteousness is worth Gifted or cursed? I am still unsure...sighThe bit about Scorpios, I will take your word for it...hahahPS - I do have a bit of Scorpio in me (it's my moon sign)...hahah Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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orca888 Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 This tread is a tremendously interesting read hence can't stop myself from sharing my views. I hope you dont mind.Orca888, (we are almost same age I pressume), I am jealous of the kind of affection or love that you give to your Boy and the kind of Bro-romance the two of you share. Enjoy every moment while it last.Your story here remind me of a 1994 German Gay theme movie (not a pxxn) called "The Most Desired Man" ("Maybe Maybe not") which star Til Schweiger as the straight handsome guy with another Gay man just after he was dumped by his girlfriend. Although you are anywhere close to the Gay character in the movie, but the "affection" the Gay Character give to this handsome straight guy is almost similar, I think. Anyway, If the relationship doesnt work out, you have Adele's song,"Someone like you", to listen to. ".... I will find someone like you, I hope nothing but the best for you. Please do not forget about me......" PS: I apologize for my poor English, obviously English is not my first language.Not at all - you are more than welcome to share your view And thanks for finding the thread interesting...hahahI was just lucky to have met my boy - it was a chance meeting and fortunately that we hit off so well from the start...otherwise, this thread probably won't be here I started off treating my boy like my brother and my feelings just developed from there - maybe I am over-reading the signs and thought (wished) that there could be more...Can't say I have seen the movie - maybe you like to elaborate on it, especially about the ending? I don't suppose it's good But I am a realist - that possibility that we can only remain as friends or brothers is always there and to be honest, I would already be very thankful...Now I must go and listen to that song - can't say I am a fan of hers...hahahBut I think I prefer this song - "I won't give up" by Jason Mraz... And don't worry about it - your English is perfectly fine Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 Sometimes, he would randomly message or call me but the frequency has slowed since he knew I was going out with my boy...guess he's also busy with his new boyfriend. I think straying is bad enough - and it's for the second time - plus it's not a ONS but he's developing some form of relationship with the other guy... Anyway, nothing is permanent in life (except death and taxes) I think his new boyfriend should be around his age or plus 5 I think... i guess ur ex misses u too. ppl said it is impossible to forget ur first love. but moving on is definitely the way. so u told ur ex about ur boy?did u find out about ur ex straying or he told u truthfully? i guess ur ex has been attracted to someone who can relate to him better at his current stage of life; people do change, that is one problem of a big age-gap relationship - hope u dun mind i say this, we all learn from one another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 My parents are also in the dark about our break up - I only told them that my ex has moved back to his mom's place to accompany her...which is a half-truth... Thanks for your compliments...not sure if being so devoted and loyal is a good thing these days...how did ur parents and family members react to ur 'other half' being a guy?i know what u mean - these are good qualities that's lacking in ppl nowadays. but if one is not faking it, others will definitely appreciate and admire. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 Of course I jest mon cher Phil...You know me - all bark and no bite Now if only someone would tell me how much righteousness is worth Gifted or cursed? I am still unsure...sighThe bit about Scorpios, I will take your word for it...hahahPS - I do have a bit of Scorpio in me (it's my moon sign)...hahahI knew you were joking mon cher Orca...I am unable to tell you the price of righteousness; but I can tell you that it allows you to look at yourself in a mirror.And it is definitely not a curse.Thanks for taking my word about Scorpios; would you like some independant testimony? :oops:And I am sure that you will have an excellent sample soon... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 18, 2012 Report Share Posted April 18, 2012 I knew you were joking mon cher Orca...I am unable to tell you the price of righteousness; but I can tell you that it allows you to look at yourself in a mirror.And it is definitely not a curse.Thanks for taking my word about Scorpios; would you like some independant testimony? :oops:And I am sure that you will have an excellent sample soon...Maybe I should not jest too much - else people don't take me seriously (not if anyone would take me )Thanks, now to find a mirror that's strong enough to cast my reflection without shattering...hahahAnyway, I will reserve my judgement on righteousness Nice - I would love an independent and first hand experience...hahahBut not like it's going to happen anytime soon or even at all Better to keep thinking with the proper head no? hahah Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 (edited) Dear OrcaI'm not surprised at all you are gaining an immense popularity faster than the speed of a shooting star.You placed such a tiltilating picture of your sexy bod that oozes total masculinity that it is almost impossible for anyone not to take a second look or more.I've been an admirer of your bod since I chanced upon your picture here. I didn't think I was doing anything wrong as you have a beautiful body and I'm just admiring it. I couldn't be that wrong!Once you started writing and sharing how you are as a person, and how you go out all the way in pursuing the interest of your heart and taking care of his needs. You melt me.I'm not a young punk but a mature guy who's totally in love with you. The strong caring and considerate personality of yours shines out from the way you write and from the way you treat matters and people in your life.I'm in love with you.Stop belittling yourself. You're no ugly uncle and regardless how you look in real life, your personality has already won you many admirers or at least, one who loves you the way you are and who have been dreaming or had been wishing to have someone like you as a partner.All my suitors have never fallen short of being charming and suave but if there is only one who could be average in look(if that's the take away) but with your personality, I would have been the luckiest man alive.I wish you and your friend to find love blossoming soon and staying true and beautiful. Edited April 19, 2012 by deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 You are very right DEDM. He is so popular that 7 pages of him and his boy had been discussed. His admirers plus you, couldn't hv enough of him. He is the most popular member so far, period. http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 It's nice to see a thread on "pure" love gaining as much attention as those on lust. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 Lust takes care of your need for one moment.Love takes care of you for life. orca888 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 Dear OrcaI'm not surprised at all you are gaining an immense popularity faster than the speed of a shooting star.You placed such a tiltilating picture of your sexy bod that oozes total masculinity that it is almost impossible for anyone not to take a second look or more.I've been an admirer of your bod since I chanced upon your picture here. I didn't think I was doing anything wrong as you have a beautiful body and I'm just admiring it. I couldn't be that wrong!Once you started writing and sharing how you are as a person, and how you go out all the way in pursuing the interest of your heart and taking care of his needs. You melt me.I'm not a young punk but a mature guy who's totally in love with you. The strong caring and considerate personality of yours shines out from the way you write and from the way you treat matters and people in your life.I'm in love with you.Stop belittling yourself. You're no ugly uncle and regardless how you look in real life, your personality has already won you many admirers or at least, one who loves you the way you are and who have been dreaming or had been wishing to have someone like you as a partner.All my suitors have never fallen short of being charming and suave but if there is only one who could be average in look(if that's the take away) but with your personality, I would have been the luckiest man alive.I wish you and your friend to find love blossoming soon and staying true and beautiful.First off, thanks for your well wishes really I am also wishing the same thing - can't be more obvious than that in my postings...hahahAnyway, I think you give me a lot more credit than I deserve - I am a mere mortal (old unker to boot) who's chasing a seemingly impossible dream...Erm, I thought my pix was very innocent...I am sure there are guys with much better and hotter bodies than me - and I am definitely not trying to fish for compliments Honestly, I think I am very "selfish" - I only show such affection to my boy and not anyone else Because he's all that matters to me right now LOL - would it be better if I said that I am actually very presentable in real life? Would it make a difference? Guess my boy isn't complaining so I must be quite pleasing to his eye If I I made myself sound a lot better than I actually am, I apologise...hahahOnce again, thanks for your kind words - you really made my day Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 You are very right DEDM. He is so popular that 7 pages of him and his boy had been discussed. His admirers plus you, couldn't hv enough of him. He is the most popular member so far, period.Thanks for helping me create this thread...hahahAll these wouldn't have been possible without your help Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 It's nice to see a thread on "pure" love gaining as much attention as those on lust. Well, I hope there's definitely love between us, even if it's brotherly love, I am already blessed We just had gym with my boy earlier - had a quick dinner and then waited for him to finish work before sending him home...Just gotten a good night SMS from him - it's our daily ritual - call me old fashion but I think it's very sweet Would any straight guy do that to another guy? Hmm...don't answer that Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 "LOL - would it be better if I said that I am actually very presentable in real life? Would it make a difference? "Don't push your luck. I have walked away from enough good men you would never be able to imagine simply because their personalities suck! A "Thank you" would have been enough. I'm still your biggest fan. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 "LOL - would it be better if I said that I am actually very presentable in real life? Would it make a difference? "Don't push your luck. I have walked away from enough good men you would never be able to imagine simply because their personalities suck! A "Thank you" would have been enough. I'm still your biggest fan. LOL - I have my flaws as I said earlier - getting my foot in my mouth is just one of them...of course getting another appendage inside is still a pipe dream Okay, I guess I better lay off the bad humor before someone sends me a letter bomb...hahahBut yes, it's a very BIG thank you...Really - thanks for reading and giving your support Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 Very Good.. knows how to salvage a failing situation and turning it into another point scoring act! How can I not love you? Orca, I can never be your boy nor would I ever fit into the type you like but if you ever need a listening ear, I'll always be here for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 What I meant was more about how you love your boy... I think many here desire to have someone love them like the way you do. It seems to be so complete and unwavering. Hence there is a hope that your love story will continue.But then...how many gays or bi in Singapore don't visit blowingwind? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 Thanks for helping me create this thread...hahahAll these wouldn't have been possible without your help Don't thank me. I split your post because all your admirers had gone out of topic to talk about you and your boy. http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orca888 Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 Very Good.. knows how to salvage a failing situation and turning it into another point scoring act! How can I not love you? Orca, I can never be your boy nor would I ever fit into the type you like but if you ever need a listening ear, I'll always be here for you.Thanks - I think Must be the Gemini in me (just found out that my Mercury and Mars are both Gemini)...hahahLOL - I don't think i have a "type" that I like - my boy just came along and he's very easy to like and love...And thanks, I will definitely take a rain check on that listening ear Am I falling for a bi? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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