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On 4/18/2024 at 8:02 PM, smart88 said:

Left with 2 more months is 1yr anniversary for me in this bw forum. I had tried of searching for the person who is younger than me (around 29-40), clean, safe, discreet and wants to become my bro. Well, I have to admit that it is not easy and sometimes I just think of give up browsing in bw and closing the account. 

 

Anyway, I want to give myself a last chance again and see that I have the luck to look for this special person in the universe. Perhaps none and I am wasting my time? Well, I am opened for anyone to make friends with me but would prefer the person to be Chinese, Iess than 40yrs old, average/decent looking, slim/fit, discreet, safe, clean and likes to chat. As for me, I am 45yrs, also decent good looking person, discreet, married chi, have professional job. I love to travel, enjoy great food, listen to music and others.

 

I am living in Penang, don't mind for long distance relationship. We can figure out something that may works for us later. Lastly, I will respect your privacy, so do you.

 

If you fit the bill, you can telegram me at id : smart8898

Pm . From Penang too

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On 4/18/2024 at 8:40 AM, lancestars said:

Hi, I'm 35/177/83 stocky Top Chinese. Looking for long term relation who shares common interests like enjoying food, travel around, go café just to sit down enjoy the aircon and to go swimming or even hiking. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other. anyone can just message me

Count on me

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I'm 29 162 65 (stocky) .. looking for men above my age who are keen to meet, dates, and travelling together. From penang here and in a professional jobs. And who are with sense of humour. Swim or hike together. Love nature. Do pm me...

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4 hours ago, LeanToneSgChinese said:

Hey guys ! 

 

Thanks for spending your time reading my post in advance. 

 

I'm local Chinese average looking , standing at 169cm/60kg lean and toned due to 5x cycling a week, jogging and nature/ beach walk too. I'm also into staycation and short trips to neighbouring countries too. Movies , music, Netflix which I like to do when at home relaxing. I trying to practice my massage skill if you like to try too. 

I am easy going , friendly and loving person. 

For my preference, I do not mind about race, age , looks , build and hopefully someone who loves nature/beach , sincere and serious in LTR . 

Write to me if you are interested to know me further and we can chat on telegram if you like.

Thanks again for your time reading my post . Cheers & have a great day ahead ! 😊 😃 

thanks for posting/sharing, If you don't mind me being frank, the only thing that I CAN RELATE WITH, is i paid $300 at massage school to do a "CERTIFICATE IN OIL MASSAGE" & able to practice the skill is a bonus for me, BUT WHEN I PRACTICE MASSAGE FOR THIRTY MINUTES ITS DAMN TIRING for my arm muscles & i can only do it for 20min, haha

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Trying my luck here.

 

Hi,

 

I’m 31 171 70 local chinese bottom looking for LTR. My hobbies include video games, gym, mahjong, listening to political/historical podcasts. I also enjoy just cuddling on the bed, feeling each others warmth in the silence.  Looking for someone passionate, knowledgeable and intellectual where we can discuss opinions and topics about the world. Also looking for someone sincere and willing to commit. 

 

In terms of physical attributes, would prefer someone around my height or taller, and someone that keeps himself decently fit.

 

Can PM me if interested. Cheers and all the best to everyone else looking for a LTR!

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Discreet 45/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies with me.

 

DIslike:
X People that like's to Dominate others
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy

X No Fwb
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy


Looking for:  Fem Boy, Sissy, Ladyboy for LTR

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese, Malay
Slim, Skinny ,Average - Flex,Versatile, Top, Btm

46yrs old and Below 

 

Hit me up if we have lost contact before.

If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You!

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@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

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Hi all,

 

I m Bob, 32/185/80/0.5, Chi from Perak, Malaysia. I am staying at centre area. Want to find a stable long term relationship 

 

Body in progress. Hope to have some one can gym and travel together, accompany each other when free time.

 

Preferrance:

Top, around my age, work professionally, willing to spend time with each other. 

 

My tele is Bobl992. 

 

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On 4/20/2024 at 4:55 PM, Rain168 said:

Trying my luck here.

 

Hi,

 

I’m 31 171 70 local chinese bottom looking for LTR. My hobbies include video games, gym, mahjong, listening to political/historical podcasts. I also enjoy just cuddling on the bed, feeling each others warmth in the silence.  Looking for someone passionate, knowledgeable and intellectual where we can discuss opinions and topics about the world. Also looking for someone sincere and willing to commit. 

 

In terms of physical attributes, would prefer someone around my height or taller, and someone that keeps himself decently fit.

 

Can PM me if interested. Cheers and all the best to everyone else looking for a LTR!

Hi

Same for me> luv listening to podcasts

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6 hours ago, BobbyL said:

Hi all,

 

I m Bob, 32/185/80/0.5, Chi from Perak, Malaysia. I am staying at centre area. Want to find a stable long term relationship 

 

Body in progress. Hope to have some one can gym and travel together, accompany each other when free time.

 

Preferrance:

Top, around my age, work professionally, willing to spend time with each other. 

 

My tele is Bobl992. 

 

Pm

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3 minutes ago, pgnewbie1 said:

Hi, all. I am 40+, married chi, discreet, safe, clean and new to this scene. If you are 27-35yrs old, slim/lean, average/decent looking, single or married wants to find discreet person to get along with, you can pm me. Occasionally we can meet up for lunch, yamcha and chat.

Location 

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45 minutes ago, blueduck said:

Hi, Duck here. 35/164/54kg Indo

 

Status                     never in relationship

Role                         : never have sex, so I don't know. but fantasizing doing both.

skin and features   : brown with facial hair and smooth body, cut. 

Body shape             : lean muscle Bod

smoke and alcohol : No

hobby                      : animating, gardening and cooking

Interest                    : animation, tech, gaming, movie

Fav movie                : BB mountain, Wall-E, anything Ghibli

Fav food                   : fruits, pizza, sea food, rendang, and durian (I have durian tree)

Fav activity              : hiking, camping and snorkeling

Sports                       : Calisthenics. I was doing run, but stopped due to risk of joint ache. now I am doing Kpop dance.

Skills                         : animating, acting and massage (I think this is family inherit skill)

Languages                : Bahasa, English, Korean and Chinese (basic, can't read and write)

 

The world is getting old resources are limited but creativity unlimited. hoping to make relationship and sustainable living. 

 

like      : nerds, introvert, skinny, muscle, bushy, facial hair, glasses.

dislike : fat, sissy, drama queen, bad breath, smoke.

 

note: I am in jakarta, and willing to stay together wherever you are.

I like your NOTE because then maybe I got chance.. hehe. But if you prefer spring chicken then I am out 😉

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On 3/26/2024 at 10:45 AM, Soulmates said:

Been lurking here for ancients and I finally have the courage to post something.

 

I am 32c 172 67. I love anime, animals, Pokemon, some gaming, Neopets, K-pop and 2000s Taiwan Chinese songs. I am a homebody but love going out to find nice food and a day trip to JB most days. I am also a dogs owner. I personally am not in the best of health though, a head up! Love languages including cooking food for you and being absolutely there. 

 

I am more into intimacy and being there for each other over sex, but the latter is of course normal and fine too and we can explore on that. 

 

I am looking for people with similar interest and stats. I do not care what you look like as long as you’re close to similar stats to me and Chinese. I don’t know what else to type but hmu wi the your contact details (Tele etc.)? Players and time wasters, keep away I am not looking for ONS.


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Looking for a guy who...

 

1. Has his own place, lives by himself. For privacy reasons.

2. In his 40s-60s.

3. Is a homely person.

 

I am:

 

1. 38 y/o, 1.71, 98kg.

2. Malay.

3. Enjoys cuddling.

4. Enjoys sleepovers.

5. Cooking, eating.

6. Movies at home.

7. Playing video games, Switch, Steam Deck.

8. Prefers either Malay or Chinese.

 

Mostly am a very homely person. If you fit, PM me.

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On 4/25/2024 at 2:02 AM, AdTan said:

I’m 41 Chi 172 70 gymtone manly verB staying in the west. 

I have been out of a long termed relationship for about 2-3 years. I’m straight acting and rather top-ish in behaviour but taking the btm role due to fear of disappointing the btms (older guys will probably know what I mean haha)
 

Trying out my luck here and tired of all those online dating apps. Too many catfishes, too much talks. 
 

Call me old fashioned but I kinda miss the times when we can only meet up in person and invest time in getting to know one another over a meal and a real date rather than just texting ‘how are you’ and ‘how’s your day’. 
 

Seeking guys around my age or younger. Preferably lean/fit top.


You have to be a dog-lover too btw 

 

My ideal man 🤩 

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@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

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Seeking Monogamous LTR Dad-Son cum BFF cum BF cum Regular 

 

Me:

 

Local SG chinese 55 180 66

top position 

Slim smooth bod with slight daddy belly

Enjoy walking exercise (freeballing)

decent looking / straight acting / very discreet 

non-smoker

Not a good drinker

Residing in East SG

 

Into:

Netflix (mystery, thriller, horror, korean), travelling, cooking, nature

A day in at home over weekends is perfectly fine to me

NOT into ONS Fun

 

 

My preference:

Local SG chinese below 32

shorter / similar height 

Weight average BUT NO CHUB..

NO SISSY / CD 

Average to fit so we can go for exercise together

Decent looking / discreet 

(For working Boy: Be financially comfortable as we can travel at least once annually)

Have a sense of humour but can be serious if need be

Btm / vers / top / curious / straight 

Caring and not emotionally unavailable

Filial and respectful - respectable 

Knows what he wants and not afraid to call the shots in the relationship

 

If interested, please DM me with some brief introductions why you think we match. We can exchange telegram and take it from there!

 

Thank you for reading!

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Seeking a bf who's witty, charming and gregarious. Someone who can be my partner in crime, my confidante, and my biggest cheerleader. 
 

I’m a local professional, 32 175 76 who enjoys socializing, travelling, and seeking out adventure and new experiences.

 

Slide into my DM to connect.

 

Oh, you'rе something like a sunrise
Pretty to my mind
Soothing to my soul
Watching the world spin one more time

And I hope (I hope) you know (you know)


Even when it doesn't show, mm-mmh

I'll run through fire for you (for you)
Whatever I gotta do
Give you my heart while it beats
'Cause with you's where I wanna be

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On 5/1/2024 at 5:47 PM, EastSgDad said:

Seeking Monogamous LTR Dad-Son cum BFF cum BF cum Regular 

 

Me:

 

Local SG chinese 55 180 66

top position 

Slim smooth bod with slight daddy belly

Enjoy walking exercise (freeballing)

decent looking / straight acting / very discreet 

non-smoker

Not a good drinker

Residing in East SG

 

Into:

Netflix (mystery, thriller, horror, korean), travelling, cooking, nature

A day in at home over weekends is perfectly fine to me

NOT into ONS Fun

 

 

My preference:

Local SG chinese below 30 

shorter / similar height 

Weight average BUT NO CHUB.. NO SISSY / CD 

Average to fit so we can go for exercise together

Decent looking / discreet 

Be financially comfortable as we can travel at least once annually 

Have a sense of humour but can be serious if need be

Btm / vers

Caring and not emotionally unavailable

Filial and respectful - respectable 

Knows what he wants and not afraid to call the shots in the relationship

 

If interested, please DM me with some brief introductions why you think we match. We can exchange telegram and take it from there!

 

Thank you for reading!

🙏 Praying and hoping that I have a SON (by then) who will celebrate Father's Day (this June) with Me 🙏

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13 hours ago, blueduck said:

Hi, Duck here. 35/164/54kg Indo

 

Status                     never in relationship

Role                         : never have sex, so I don't know. but fantasizing doing both.

skin and features   : brown with facial hair and smooth body, cut. 

Body shape             : lean muscle Bod

smoke and alcohol : No

hobby                      : animating, gardening and cooking

Interest                    : animation, tech, gaming, movie

Fav movie                : BB mountain, Wall-E, anything Ghibli

Fav food                   : fruits, pizza, sea food, rendang, and durian (I have durian tree)

Fav activity              : hiking, camping and snorkeling

Sports                       : Calisthenics. I was doing run, but stopped due to risk of joint ache. now I am doing Kpop dance.

Skills                         : animating, acting and massage (I think this is family inherit skill)

Languages                : Bahasa, English, Korean and Chinese (basic, can't read and write)

 

The world is getting old resources are limited but creativity unlimited. hoping to make relationship and sustainable living. 

 

like      : nerds, introvert, skinny, muscle, bushy, facial hair, glasses.

dislike : fat, sissy, drama queen, bad breath, smoke.

 

note: I am in jakarta, and willing to stay together wherever you are.

Thx for your detailed sharing, wish U luck coz> i tried LONG DISTANCE R'ship before & failed =0(

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Hello everyone. I am local Chinese 35/176/75 vers bottom and hope to find someone to settle down. I like to travel (as I'm from the aviation industry), sightsee, jog and foods.  

 

Do DM me if you are also looking for settling down. 

 

1) Looking for straight acting (top), gym-tone and like to travel.
2) Someone who is around the same age (slightly +/-). 
3) Financially independent and well-presentable guy.

4) Preferably white-collar. 

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Age: 30

 

Height: 187

Weight: 124

Role: Top

Interests/hobbies: Singing, Travelling, Cooking, Eating

 

Self-description: 

I am a str8 acting and very straight forward person that can be quite spontaneous if i have the time.

Also, i am a very protective person by nature.

 

My time is mainly spent on work and friends, and hopefully a partner in the equation in the near future.

 

Currently going to gym and hopefully cut down my weight.

 

P.s. i am a planner. I plan for things. And have a calendar filled with things that matters.

 

The kind of guy I envision to be with: 

A str8 acting, kind and self driven person.

Body wise, anything except chub (sorry just a preference)

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Hiya!

 

About Me:
- 31, 170, 75 Local Indian
- Working Professional in the Social Services 
- ⁠Middle Child amongst a family of testosterone

 

What I'm Looking For:
- A genuine connection built on trust, respect, and communication
- Someone who is into my dark humour and weirdness at times
- ⁠Someone who enjoys travelling and also staying home, doing nothing and anything
- ⁠Someone who values himself as well as his morals and values

 

Let's see where this journey takes us so DM me:)

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- Chinese 

- 26 

- 172cm, 53kg, slim/lean 

- Vers depending on chemistry and mood ;)

- had one relationship before. 

- Working in White Collar job. 

 

Things I like to do: 

- I am a foodie so let's go to places

- Gyms, Runs, swims (being more active recently)

- Musically inclined (singer/songwriter)

- Loves travelling esp cruising. 

- Loves walking in nature, going to the beach etc.

- Netflix, TV, BL.

- Social drinking, partying, i don't smoke 

 

I'm looking for someone whose: 

- in between - 5 years my age and +7 years my age.

- mature and average intelligence

- Someone Chinese preferably

- slim lean/average gym built

- someone with open communication 

- someone caring and loyal and emotionally available.

- loves to travel

 

In bed: 

- T vers

- More sub recently

- No open RS

- Flipfuck would be a bonus

 

If you think we'd hit it off drop me a PM or for more instant replies tele me @wang6317

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On 5/6/2024 at 11:12 AM, Xal said:

Age: 30

 

Height: 187

Weight: 124

Role: Top

Interests/hobbies: Singing, Travelling, Cooking, Eating

 

Self-description: 

I am a str8 acting and very straight forward person that can be quite spontaneous if i have the time.

Also, i am very protective person by nature.

 

My time is mainly spent on work and friends, and hopefully a partner in the equation in the near future.

 

Currently going to gym and hopefully cut down my weight.

 

P.s. i am a planner. I plan for things. And have a calendar filled with things that matters.

 

The kind of guy I envision to be with: 

A str8 acting, kind and self driven person.

Body wise, anything except chub (sorry just a preference)

Thx for sharing =0) i am A PLANNER TOO, 

              

but i have too many events planned =0(

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On 4/29/2024 at 11:32 PM, ImBiCurious said:

28 discreet local chinese looking for a LTR

 

About me:

- Height 177cm

- Weight 55kg

- Simple & easy-going guy

- Discreet

- Loves Cafes

 

Looking for :

- Someone around 21 - 30

- Chinese 

- Average/ Tone / lean

- Professional & Financially stable

- Fun-loving & cheerful

- Discreet

- Have your own place
- Grooms & takes good care of himself

i own/bought a 4 ROOM H.D.B. using my savings & taking a $80,000 LOAN from H.D.B.

                         

"having my own place" but i won't host for a year*** coz too many times i hosted> then the guy goes M.I.A.

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On 4/20/2024 at 4:55 PM, Rain168 said:

Trying my luck here.

 

Hi,

 

I’m 31 171 70 local chinese bottom looking for LTR. My hobbies include video games, gym, mahjong, listening to political/historical podcasts. I also enjoy just cuddling on the bed, feeling each others warmth in the silence.  Looking for someone passionate, knowledgeable and intellectual where we can discuss opinions and topics about the world. Also looking for someone sincere and willing to commit. 

 

In terms of physical attributes, would prefer someone around my height or taller, and someone that keeps himself decently fit.

 

Can PM me if interested. Cheers and all the best to everyone else looking for a LTR!

i am 167.20cm

                  

'

Wish i was taller than i meet ur Requirments! 

           

LOL

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On 4/6/2024 at 10:03 PM, ctrl said:

Hello, looking for connections

 

Me:

-28 Chinese, btm

-175cm, 67kg, lean

-IT/Finance 

-Financially independent 

-Introvert 

-replies but not long replies 

-Things I love include manga, stocks, puzzle, gym, hypothesis conversation 

-Love language: quality time, physical touch

-Enjoys intimacy 

 

Looking for: 

-Someone older but < 36 

-Smell nice (Good hygiene) 

-Work out 

-Mature

-Take effort in relationship 

-Traditional values 

 

Let's chat in the forum chatbox before moving to telegram. 

I wanna connect with u, but I'm 40yo       =0(

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Met and dated several guys here,

So here to try again.

 

About myself

Age: 39/166/75/Chinese

 

Role :

-Flex Btm, do top sometimes

-Fine without anal as well

-Side is fine 

 

Interest

-Culture , traveling, experimental cooking, photography, arts.

-I am not sporty but I am doing some weight lifting and all. Slowly working my way back to shape. 

 

 

Looking for:

-Plus /Minus 5 yrs of my age (preferably but who knows)

-preferably chi, others are fine too as long as we can click.

-old fashion dating (movies/ meal)

 

-Preferably a non-smoker, non-chub

-str8 acting, non loud, non scene

-Stable job, good sense of humour.

-Someone who is looking to doing simple things as a couple together. 

 

 

If we reach the stage when we exchange our contact :

- telegram only, not using "line"

- don't send me any of your pic with mask/shades etc. 

 

Drop me a PM if you like to chat and let's get to know each other.

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