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1. Name: Joel
2. Age: 44
3. Height: 185cm
4. Weight: 94kg
5. Role: Bottom
6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 
7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 
8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

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@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

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5 hours ago, chris0452 said:

Chris here looking for someone long term for NSA. Don't Wana play anymore in the wild le. 😛

 

40c 175 78 discreet bi. top or side is my role. DM me if U wan a non committed fun buddy. 

 

Please read the title of this thread - Long Term Relationship, not No-Strings-Attached fun yeah!

Any more such wrong post(s) in the wrong thread(s), warning points will be served to you, take note!

 

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On 9/28/2024 at 7:06 AM, JoeTanJoeTan said:

 

 

Hello All, 

 

Allow me to introduce myself hor. 
I am 36chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and fair normal-avg look, straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

Love your stat…I’m also looking for ltr and date. Pm me and we can chat more :)

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On 7/8/2024 at 8:56 PM, tanwla said:

Hello,

 Me

- 34yrs

- 170cm

- 55kg

- chn

- vers

- enjoys swim, lift weights, push ups, watch dramas/movies, play mobile games

 

Look for

- not older than 50yrs

- slim/fit/muscular

- chn/white

- vers/top


can add me on telegram @algin2

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Hi there.

I'm 45, a straight-acting bottom. 1.81m. 87Kg. Local Chinese.

 

I'm seeking out respectful, manly, intelligent, and discreet gentlemen for friendship or companionship.

 

Discreet married men are welcome.

 

Pls PM me if you like to know/date me .

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@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Vers or top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

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Hey there! I'm 30/170/70 Chinese. Boyish look. I speak Chinese, love drinking coffee, and I'm a big fan of plants, pets, and staying active. My days are spent at the gym(no six packs. only one pack), cinema or makan places. 
 

I'm here in search of a partner who's:

- Flex Top

- Manly, mature, and dependable
- 35 years old or above

 

I'm looking for someone who loves quality home time as much as I do. Whether it's travelling to new places, shopping for groceries, cooking together, or even just taking a leisurely stroll near our home, I believe the beauty of a relationship lies in sharing these moments. If you're the kind of guy who appreciates these things, then let's chat and see where it goes. 
 

I have to admit- I often struggle with making conversation. Chatting doesn't come naturally to me.

愿得一心人 白首不相离

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Hi there.

 

I'm 45, a straight-acting looking. 1.81m. 87Kg. Local Chinese.Seeking out respectful, manly, intelligent, and discreet gentlemen for friendship or companionship.

 

I'm seeking to expand my circle of friends. 

Pls PM me if you like to know me

 

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Believe in Love (for Singles)
Telegram Chat Group

 

Dear fellow Believer in Love

 

Our chat group is created for single gay men who are sincerely and actively looking for friendship with a view towards a serious relationship. Currently with 200 members, we have had the privilege to give our blessings to several couples! 

 

We are a welcoming and friendly community of genuine people who want to get to know to each other better. Participants will be required to post a profile of themselves as a starting point for genuine conversations to begin. We  organize activities for singles to get to know each other and create opportunities for friendship and romance to blossom. Activities include makan, boardgames, ktv, pet cafe visits, chit-chat sessions and many more!

Join us if you want to meet other singles who also believe in love. Judgmental people with toxic attitudes and lurkers, please find another group!

 

Believe in Love Chat Group Link: https://t.me/+oER0k9479Yk1MDdl

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Been posting here for years, always holding on to a glimmer of hope. Giving this another try, even though this community is quite savage to bigger-sized chaps.

 

Hitting the big four zero next year. Never really been in a very stable relationship, always hung out with red flags that treated me like a disposable utensil. 

 

I gym a few times a week, but I still look like I overeat at buffets many times a week. Admittedly a foodie here - lives to eat, loves to explore cafes. At the gym, I spin quite a bit. Would love to become a pro at the free weights section, but keeping to the smith machines for now. 

 

Don't have deep pockets, but I love home improvement projects. Not good with tools, even my own. Hence I choose to be screwed mostly (wait, what? how did we get here?).

 

Loves communicative individuals who can hold a proper conversation in comprehensible English (sorry my mother tongue isn't fab, I use my tongue for other things). I cannot tahan humans who can't differentiate "than" from "then" - irks the hell out of me. 

 

Have a couple of purrkid siblings that keep me busy, so 65.78% of my convo revolves around them, so would be good if you're an animal lurver.

 

That's it for now. Slide into my DMs (and me) please. Don't want to be single when I hit four zero. 

 

 

 

 

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6 hours ago, EC1974 said:

Seeking old to very old Uncle man (old is gold, hehe), to have fun (nsa). 

I’m into chinese man who is flex/btm/top with age more than 55yo and above! I am top, not necessary must have anal. Both tops can still have fun!

I am 46yo tall and stocky local chinese at 183 tall, 95kg)married

If keen, pm me.

TQ, Cheers!

 

Did you read the title of this thread - Long Term Relationship???

Not No-Strings-Attached fun yeah!

 

This is also NOT the first time you did it in this thread!!!

You are hereby awarded 1 warning point, earning more warning points may result in the banning of your account, take note!

 

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19c 165 55. I love animals, pets, trekking, cycling, long strolls and trying out new hobbies (not necessarily adopting them into life). I spend most of mt time at home but would go out to get good food or a nice date/hangout with friends. love travelling and marveling over sights. 

 

my music taste is very diverse, i listen to anything from early 2000s mandopop to 2020 pop songs, rock, metal etc. lately new songs hasn't been much of a hit... 

 

I'm definitely an intimate person once we get horniness out of the way. love spending time with people. offering a listening ear and cuddling is my love language. 

 

I am looking for people with similar interest. i honestly have no preference on looks once we get past the first few dates... but ofc muscular and handsome people are always easy to on eyes. not into ons, also im flex.

 

text me if you are keen to go for a dinner date

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Hello!

 

I am 42/176/68 Chn thai mix.. looking for companion to hang-out, travel, coffee, listening-ear, mutual support..

 

Prefers 35yrs old onwards & independent.. straight acting & also a top. Please reach me at tele: Rainbowfountain & compulsory to intro before we go into conversation.

 

I don't pin high hope on this group as i have various approach, but willing to try out another opportunity since the topic matches my intention. No sissy, feminine, cross-dresser & trans please.

 

Photo exchange can be accede & discreet is highly respected. 

 

 

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I'm 38/170/61 chi vers bottom from KL.

But I look younger though.

 

  • Looking for a committed boyfriend preferably Top or VersTop.
  • I like fit to average guy.
  • Around my age
  • Handsome is a plus, but I'm average thus looking for the same
  • While I'm just average, I promise to work out and be fit.
  • am I very attached? Maybe, as I like to meet every week

 

my telegram wen_vers, or inbox me here.

NPNC

 

 

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On 10/22/2024 at 9:07 AM, Rainbowspear said:

Hello!

 

I am 42/176/68 Chn thai mix.. looking for companion to hang-out, travel, coffee, listening-ear, mutual support..

 

Prefers 35yrs old onwards & independent.. straight acting & also a top. Please reach me at tele: Rainbowfountain & compulsory to intro before we go into conversation.

 

I don't pin high hope on this group as i have various approach, but willing to try out another opportunity since the topic matches my intention. No sissy, feminine, cross-dresser & trans please.

 

Photo exchange can be accede & discreet is highly respected. 

 

 

Please approach only with a open acceptance heart & not a preference upon exchange of picture.  No chub pls too. Thanks

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@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Vers or top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

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Seeking a witty, charming and gregarious bf. Local professional, 33 175 77 here. I enjoy socializing, travelling, and seeking out adventure and new experiences.

 

PM to connect.

 

When the evening shadows and the stars appear
And there is no one there to dry your tears
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love

 

I know you haven't made your mind up yet
But I would never do you wrong
I've known it from the moment that we met
No doubt in my mind where you belong

 

I could make you happy, make your dreams come true
Nothing that I wouldn't do
Go to the ends of the Earth for you
To make you feel my love.

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On 10/23/2024 at 11:35 AM, Rainbowspear said:

Please approach only with a open acceptance heart & not a preference upon exchange of picture.  No chub pls too. Thanks

Thank you to those whom have touched up with me thus far. My status is complicated but i would wish to explore a new relationship on possibilities.

 

I am quite tired of exchanging picture & not your type or not my type, i don't possess a bad look too. If you are looking into a selective preference, i would like to re-emphasize that please do NOT approach at all! 

 

I prefer no chub, older or younger is totally fine and of what i indicate in my earlier post. Please also be engaging and don't waste time of introducing with a few messages & just leave it like that. I enter this platform not of this wasting of time purpose.

 

Seriously, do approach with a open & receiving heart with genuine thoughts. Am not looking into extreme handsome or charming. Juz possess an average look and built will do. 

 

Appreciate to read through the above before sending me a hello. Please don't waste time once again if you have a certain criteria and i don't meet them upon your approach. Sincere & genuine guys with open heart to explore, i warmly welcome & expect you soon.

 

Thanks.

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Me:

 

1. 174/70/50yo chinese

2. White collar, discreet, straight-acting, easygoing

3. Gym, swim, tan and massages

 

You:

1. 30s or 40s discreet chinese

2. Into workout such as gym and swim

3. Easygoing

 

Activity: Gym, swim and go for good food together. 

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On 10/29/2024 at 8:27 AM, Rainbowspear said:

Thank you to those whom have touched up with me thus far. My status is complicated but i would wish to explore a new relationship on possibilities.

 

I am quite tired of exchanging picture & not your type or not my type, i don't possess a bad look too. If you are looking into a selective preference, i would like to re-emphasize that please do NOT approach at all! 

 

I prefer no chub, older or younger is totally fine and of what i indicate in my earlier post. Please also be engaging and don't waste time of introducing with a few messages & just leave it like that. I enter this platform not of this wasting of time purpose.

 

Seriously, do approach with a open & receiving heart with genuine thoughts. Am not looking into extreme handsome or charming. Juz possess an average look and built will do. 

 

Appreciate to read through the above before sending me a hello. Please don't waste time once again if you have a certain criteria and i don't meet them upon your approach. Sincere & genuine guys with open heart to explore, i warmly welcome & expect you soon.

 

Thanks.

Thanks to some approach that reached me.. guess i have decide to close up this and move on.. am working out the best with a few options from few genuine approach.

 

Honestly, this platform is for exploring of LTR but some intention or rather approach weren't what i expected and it kinda wasting time.. i am not seeking friendship here as i have a handful of close bunch but somehow or rather point to what the topic is intended for.

 

After much experience touching up here, guess somehow the approaches are a waste of time & focus ending to no where. I am a person who knows what i seek and would rather focus to make it work instead. Hope no further approach with intention of wasting time with introduction and not touching on to what i am seeking for.

 

To conclude all, still a thank you for all the approaches.. may this dreams of wonder journey continues and best of luck in turning this dreams of imagination to reality.

 

☘️☘️☘️

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Hi all! Gonna try my luck again.

 

28 Malaysian Chinese 176 73

Vers

Bi, but more inclined to guys

Straight-acting, boyish look

ESFP if that matters, bubbly personality

Job: In technical sales/marketing

Got pretty good feedback on my tool from the others lol

Interests: PC gaming, travelling, socialising, movies, Korean stuff, and lots of other things

 

You: Ideally <38

Straight-acting/masculine

Bi, but not a must

Gym fit (I don’t need you to be ripped but I’m quite particular about this)

Around a similar height or taller than me

No tattoos of piercings please

Multilingual (+points if you can speak Korean but it’s not a must)

Take good care of your skin

Be able to take my nonsensical humour

 

Do text me if you think you fit the criteria above. Telegram @tofuyaki88

 

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Hi, Duck here. 35/164/54kg Indo

 

Status                     never in relationship

Location                 : Jakarta

Role                         : never have sex, so I don't know. but fantasizing doing both.

skin and features   : brown with facial hair and smooth body, cut. 

Body shape             : lean muscle Bod

smoke and alcohol : No

hobby                      : animating, gardening and cooking

Interest                    : animation, tech, gaming, movie

Fav movie                : BB mountain, Wall-E, anything Ghibli

Fav food                   : fruits, pizza, sea food, rendang, and durian (I have durian tree)

Fav activity              : hiking, camping and snorkeling

Sports                       : Calisthenics. I was doing run, but stopped due to risk of joint ache. 

Skills                         : animating, acting and massage (I think this is family inherit skill)

Languages                : Bahasa, English, Korean and Chinese (basic, can't read and write)

 

The world is getting old resources are limited but creativity unlimited. hoping to make relationship and sustainable living. 

 

like      : nerds, introvert, skinny, muscle, bushy, facial hair, glasses.

dislike : fat, sissy, drama queen, bad breath, smoke.

traveling around Greater Jakarta

Traditional Massage

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On 10/31/2024 at 10:00 AM, Rainbowspear said:

Thanks to some approach that reached me.. guess i have decide to close up this and move on.. am working out the best with a few options from few genuine approach.

 

Honestly, this platform is for exploring of LTR but some intention or rather approach weren't what i expected and it kinda wasting time.. i am not seeking friendship here as i have a handful of close bunch but somehow or rather point to what the topic is intended for.

 

After much experience touching up here, guess somehow the approaches are a waste of time & focus ending to no where. I am a person who knows what i seek and would rather focus to make it work instead. Hope no further approach with intention of wasting time with introduction and not touching on to what i am seeking for.

 

To conclude all, still a thank you for all the approaches.. may this dreams of wonder journey continues and best of luck in turning this dreams of imagination to reality.

 

☘️☘️☘️

Reminder that i have intended to close-up this platform that is not working out for me, further approach can be considered with preferred of no Malay or Mixed Malay Chinese & "No Chub" please. Thank you with no offence as personal preference.

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Hello, just trying my luck here:

 

Me:

- 34 yrs old

- 170cm

- 58kg

- chn

- working

- hobbies: swim, weight lift, push ups, mobile gaming, watch dramas/movies, listen music, sing, shopping

- vers

 

can add me @algin2 on tele

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Hi I am 32/173/80. Local chinese looking for chinese friends/LTR.

 

What I am looking for: 

Age: Preferably <35 years old

Race: Chinese

Someone whom likes to chat 

Good chemistry.

 

If interested, do private message me. Thanks.

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Hello All, 

 

Trying my luck again.
Allow me to introduce myself hor. 


I am 36chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

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@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besides my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Vers or top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

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On 11/2/2024 at 1:13 PM, tanwla said:

Hello, just trying my luck here:

 

Me:

- 34 yrs old

- 170cm

- 58kg

- chn

- working

- hobbies: swim, weight lift, push ups, mobile gaming, watch dramas/movies, listen music, sing, shopping

- vers

 

can add me @algin2 on tele

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Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 44

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 94kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

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Last yr i was lucky to meet a guy on Blowing Wind & we had the same disease, sadly after 6mths of chatting on Telegram, he went missing. I am reaching out coz:

                                               

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my current support system comprises 1guy from Church, 1 BFF from out-in-sg, & the 3rd guy was my sec school classmate. From 2020 to now i have depended on them when i am emotionally unstable. 

                       

>i have stage 5 C.K.D.

 

>due for dialysis 6mths from now.

 

>anyone out there who genuinely is sick/striken with a *INCURABLE DISEASE...

 

>hope we can friends/confidante @sgpinkdot

                                                    

*if u message me for NON-LTR, i will block u😤😡🤬

                          

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Me:

 

1. 174/72/50yo chinese

2. White collar, discreet, straight-acting, easygoing

3. Gym, swim, tan and massages

 

You:

1. 30s or 40s discreet chinese

2. Into workout such as gym and swim

3. Easygoing

 

Activity: Gym, swim and go for good food together.

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