Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[nip_fun]

On 11/3/2024 at 7:47 PM, dam81 said:

Updates: based on Boditrax, I’m from obèse to solid build 😂

 

1. Name: Dyson Lee

2. Age: 43

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: top / side

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜

 

7. Self-description: was happily dating for 6 months, till the ex date told me “we are not living similar lives and I shouldn’t just always give in to him” after we came back on a trip.I got thrown off the bus. Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the precious date but I guess it takes two hands to clap. In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work

On that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age.

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets me, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible.

 

I would love to know U 😌 

[kalel]

8 minutes ago, Korporal said:

I have been looking for a long term buddy for a while now with no success, not sure if this thread is the best place to search for one. Going to give it one more try to see if anyone is interested!

 

I am 29, 188cm, 85kg, top. I have a place to host at Lakeside. Some of my preferences (not mandatory - just some things I like 😞

-close to my age

-smooth, feminine and submissive

-if you CD (even if it just lingerie) or identify as sissy or femboy

-if you like getting massages, blowjobs and rimjobs

-willing to hang out, watch TV, go swimming at my condo, game together and go out for dinner/drinks

-if you are willing to stay overnight to cuddle and sleep together

-safe, clean, respectful and chill to hang out with and talk to

 

I dont expect anything in return, I just like to give pleasure! If anyone is interested, you can send me a msg, I will try to get back to you as soon as I can!

 

You are right, you are not going to get any success in this thread!

Did you read the title of this thread - Long Term Relationship???

Not long term buddy for you to seek fun yeah!

 

If you do it again, you will see warning point(s) coming your way, take note!

 

[Donic]

seeking nice guys to connect and hopefully something more meaningful, am 47, chinese, 1.77 m 71 kg, if keen can add me in telegram which is @wiltany , prefer to know chinese dudes 

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 38

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Donic]

seeking nice guys to connect and hopefully something more meaningful, am 47, chinese, 1.77 m 71 kg, if keen can add me in telegram which is @wiltany , prefer to know chinese dudes 

[BeKind21Another]

Hi! I'm seeking to date (for LTR) and to expand my social circle.

Me: SG'an, Malay vers btm, 41yo, 172cm, 90+kg, average stocky chub.  

Enjoys mutual sensible conversation, spend time with persons of interest, chill to Netflix, movies, music, some outdoor/indoor activities, planned getaways. 

Pref: Personable, friendly, financially/mentally stable, communicative, masculine, active, committed, enjoys hugs/cuddles, +/-5 years age difference, local/PR.

If you think there is a chance of match, dm me and let's talk. 🙂 

[kevin]

Harlow, wish to know more people. Ultimately LTR?  
About me:
31 yrs old, 176cm, 88kg, local mly, vers. 

Daily activity: working, gym, running. 

Likes to watch movies, nua, ML. Can DM me if wanna connect!  

[Can_berry80]

Local side/top Chinese 44. 170/75. Looking for same or younger str8 acting chinese with stable job to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel. .. Staying North area. Get to know more....  b4 into LTR. 

[tanwla]

Hello trying again…

I am

- 34 yrs

- local Chinese

- 170 cm

- 58 kg

- working

- like to swim, listen music, sing, weight lifting, push ups, watch dramas, shopping

 

look for

- below 60 yrs

- Chinese / white

- around 170cm or taller

- vers / top

- average / fit / twink / muscle

Can add me on tele @algin2 as I hardly login here… thanks and cheers! 

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besides my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Vers or top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[dam81]

 

1. Name: Dyson Lee

2. Age: 43

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: top / side

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜

 

7. Self-description: was happily dating for 6 months from Jan to July, till the ex date told me “we are not living similar lives and I shouldn’t just always give in to him” after we came back on a trip.I got thrown off the bus. Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the precious date but I guess it takes two hands to clap. In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work

On that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible.

[Derren]

Believe in Love (for Singles)
Telegram Chat Group

 

Dear fellow Believer in Love

 

Our chat group is created for single gay men who are sincerely and actively looking for friendship with a view towards a serious relationship. With more than 200 members, we have had the privilege to give our blessings to several couples! 

 

We are a welcoming and friendly community of genuine people who want to get to know to each other better. Participants will be required to post a profile of themselves as a starting point for genuine conversations to begin. From time to time, we organize activities for singles to get to know each other and create opportunities for friendship and romance to blossom. Activities include makan, boardgames, ktv, pet cafe visits, chit-chat sessions and many more! But of course, you must take a pro-active role to message and get to know other singles.

Join us if you want to meet other singles who also truly believe in love. Judgmental people with toxic attitudes and lurkers, please find another group!

 

Believe in Love Chat Group Link: https://t.me/+oER0k9479Yk1MDdl

[marinaland]

32 173 80 local chinese looking for friends.

 

What I am looking for:

Age: < 35 years old

Race: must be Chinese

Friendly

Optimistic 

Energetic 

 

If you have the above traits, pm me here thanks!

 

[pusheenpika]

On 10/20/2024 at 8:04 AM, pusheenpika said:

Been posting here for years, always holding on to a glimmer of hope. Giving this another try, even though this community is quite savage to bigger-sized chaps.

 

Hitting the big four zero next year. Never really been in a very stable relationship, always hung out with red flags that treated me like a disposable utensil. 

 

I gym a few times a week, but I still look like I overeat at buffets many times a week. Admittedly a foodie here - lives to eat, loves to explore cafes. At the gym, I spin quite a bit. Would love to become a pro at the free weights section, but keeping to the smith machines for now. 

 

Don't have deep pockets, but I love home improvement projects. Not good with tools, even my own. Hence I choose to be screwed mostly (wait, what? how did we get here?).

 

Loves communicative individuals who can hold a proper conversation in comprehensible English (sorry my mother tongue isn't fab, I use my tongue for other things). I cannot tahan humans who can't differentiate "than" from "then" - irks the hell out of me. 

 

Have a couple of purrkid siblings that keep me busy, so 65.78% of my convo revolves around them, so would be good if you're an animal lurver.

 

That's it for now. Slide into my DMs (and me) please. Don't want to be single when I hit four zero. 

 

 

 

 

Bump bump bump! 

[hotsun]

Fit friendly guy here for friendship and LTR add me LCK_LCK

Preferably above 35-55yrs old. Importantly is seeking to settle down.

Edited December 7 by hotsun

[sgind]

Looking for a beau with wit, humour, confidence, and a sense of adventure & romance - a grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Local professional, Singaporean, 33, 175 77 here into socials, travel and soulful conversations.

 

PM to connect.

 

 

Don’t let the world break us apart.

We’ve come too far to lose the spark.

I’ll be your hope, your fire, your dream—

Love’s not perfect, but it’s everything we need.

 

 

[Open_Btm]

Hi, I'm looking for friends and hopefully LTR, to hang out and work out together (super beginner), exploring places together. Have inrerests in current affairs, gaming, investments.

 

I'm local, 33 171 76 chi btm, staying in the East. PM me if you are keen @Yanderubert

[junyuan]

28,170,67,chn,btm

 

here for connections. 

[Kaki74]

Me:

1. 174/70/50yo chinese

2. Discreet, straight-acting, easygoing

3. Gym, swim, tan and massages

 

You:

1. 30s or 40s discreet chinese

2. Into workout such as gym and swim

3. Easygoing and with humour

4. Singles only

 

Do on weekends:

1. Meet up to exercise 

2. Food (buffet or hotpot)

3. Catch home movies

Edited December 16 by Kaki74

[Donic]

seeking nice guys to connect and hopefully something more meaningful, am 47, chinese, 1.77 m 71 kg, if keen can add me in telegram which is @wiltany , prefer to know chinese dudes 

[ironsquirrel]

SG malay here hoping to connect and to be in an LTR w SG/MY Chi around similar age +/- 35. Idm a lil older. 

 

A lil bout me:

Gyms 3-4 times weekly at AF. I have a pt kit fetish. Used to have 50 over potted plants (aroids) in my bedroom. The only computer games I play is dota2. I play the sax and flute.

 

I don’t club but I do drink. not-in-the-scene. I’m discreet and straight-acting and looking for similar. I’m a flex when comes to bed activities. Love kissing.

 

 

 

 

 

[Can_berry80]

Local side/top Chinese 44. 170/75. Looking for same or younger str8 acting chinese to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel. .. Staying North area. Hope Get to know more....  b4 into LTR. 

[warnarat]

1. Name: EY

2. Age: 33

3. Height: 173

4. Weight: 70

5. Role: Btm

 

6. Interests/hobbies:

Netflix, YouTube, Singing, Swimming, Travel

 

7. Self-description:

Works in the banking sector. Average, non-scene guy, prefers no crazy drama in a LTR, earnestly looking.

 

8. The kind of guy I envision to be with:

Prefer guys same age or older than me (32-45), want to commit monogamously, not overtly discreet since we need to go out and date or travel. Care for little kinks and sex.

I don’t care for abs or muscles so long as the chemistry is there and visually acceptable.

 

9. Other remarks:

Might have connected with some before, but hope see how it goes since we were at different stages in life previously.

 

Things I detest:

Hi and then you keep quiet as though it’s my job to continue to conversation AND trying to converse but unwilling to share any photos.

[lancestars]

Hi, I'm 35/177/83 stocky Top Chinese. Looking for long term relation who shares common interests like enjoying food, travel around, go café just to sit down enjoy the aircon and to go swimming or even hiking. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other. anyone can just message me.

[Dogma]

Hey, trying out my luck:

 

About Me:-

*Age: 23 (Gen Z)

*Height / Weight: 158cm (5’2) / 52 KG

*Race: Chi (Local Malaysian)

*Status: Graduated with a Job
*Study Field: Multimedia + Digital Marketing

*Interest: Body building, Swimming, and Drawing

*Role: Pure Bottom 

 

Ideal Type:

- Average to Muscular

- Caring and Empathetic

- Some Negative Emotions is acceptable

- Taller than me (175-x cm)

- Age is just a number to me if you’re not looking old to chubby in person (sorry no offense, take care of your appearance)

Lastly, to be frank it’s almost the end of 2024 and it’s almost 2 am when I post this I just feel lonely and wish 2025 will be filled with someone around me doesn’t have to be a relationship but if could would be great. Having a “People like us” friend is not bad I guess? I have not much friend and my relationship is clean.

 

(P/S: Complicated relationship is not in my dictionary.)

 

sooooooo Hit Me Up  

T: bb200101

Cheers!
 

Edited December 18 by Dogma

[EastSgDad]

55 chi here

Visit my profile 

Pm me

[innocentperson]

I am local Chinese 35/176/75 vers bottom and hope to find someone to settle down. I like to travel (as I'm from the aviation industry), sightsee, jog and foods.  

 

Do DM me if you are also looking for settling down. 

 

1) Looking for straight acting (top), gym-tone and like to travel.
2) Someone who is around the same age (slightly +/-). 
3) Financially independent and well-presentable guy.

4) Preferably white-collar. 

[Donic]

seeking nice guys to connect and hopefully something more meaningful, am 47, chinese, 1.77 m 71 kg, if keen can add me in telegram which is @wiltany , prefer to know lean chinese dudes 

[Dave Konaka]

Hi all,

I'm local chi, 31, 182, 104 Side, Bear Build (Big chest and biceps), Handsome-Boyish looking, been told I look way younger than my actual age. Looking for a LTR, with someone around my age, smaller size than me.

I like to explore food options, both hawker foods and fine-dining. I like cooking / baking. I play videos games to kill time, love to travel whenever possible.

HMU if you want to chill over a meal, dessert, or chat + cuddle during this holiday season !

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 38

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[anotherboop]

Hewo!

 

I'm 24, 172cm, 102kg, chinese bottom chub can never host (if it matters) Currently studying in a local uni

 

No I don't like to gym, please don't force me to... if it's your thing yay, good for you! It's not mine unfortunately.

 

I probably lean feminine (I've got shoulder length hair)

 

I love food and just chilling in cafes or playing casual games. Music and crafts are a few hobbies I dabble in.

 

Looking for anyone probably close to my age? North side would be good but open. I prefer cuddles over doing the nasty... but I'm also pretty kinky if we ever get to that. 

Edited Saturday at 02:28 PM by anotherboop

[GayNomad]

I am local Chinese 45/172/60. Looking for friends and activity partners and to eventually settle down with the right person. I am a homely person, enjoying watching Netflix, drama, gaming, cooking and baking  I also like to travel, sightsee, swim and go for walks.

 

1) Looking for straight acting guys of similar body size. I am quite skinny hence prefer someone similar

2) Someone who is around the same age

3) Can engage in conversations

4) Homely but also enjoys some sports and outdoors activities

5) Loves travelling 

😊

Do drop me a PM if you are keen to connect.

Edited 2 hours ago by GayNomad

[JoeTanJoeTan]

Hello All, 

 

Trying my luck again.
Allow me to introduce myself hor. 

I am 36chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊