Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[NSA chinese]

On 8/20/2021 at 7:30 PM, Aldari said:

Trying my luck here so here goes. 

Hello all! I am still quite new here. I never had a relationship (with a guy or a girl) and the only interest I have had was with a guy that was in Secondary School and a girl in my Poly years but I was too introverted and shy in expressing my feelings. I am a straight acting person as well and could camouflage and blend in perfectly into the society. 

In terms of sexuality, I believe I am a bisexual however I am a virgin so I am unable to confirm or deny and could potentially be gay as I have spent my whole life with the one and only dick that I have. I am unable to have sex with anyone nor do I intend on saving my virginity either. Not even a blowjob or a handjob was given or taken. I've always tried to act upon the banality of carnal desire but there's something at the back of my mind that tugs me away. The thing I desire more is companionship and raw exchange of emotion instead of physical pleasure. 

Sure I might die a virgin and I do not mind of being that way either for I firmly believe sex is a joyous occasion when the brain chemistry has factored in with emotion. Truthfully, even now, I am still unsure if this is the right path for me. 

 

 

 

Be comfortable with yourself. Everyone one is made differently and only we will know what we need. Whether we are straight, gay, bi, transsexual etc, no one can tell us who we are or where we want to go in our lives. 
 

in this day and age, there’s less social stigma and there’s a greater acceptance of different sexualities and minorities, so I encourage you to just be yourself. Yes, I have heard of people who don’t have sex and are perfectly comfortable that way. You just need to find someone who’s similar to you for a perfect match of expectations. 
 

i hope we can all spread love and not war. 

[tanwla]

On 8/5/2021 at 3:17 PM, tanwla said:

Hi everyone!

 

Below is a description of me:

I am 31 yrs old

i am 170cm tall and 50kg

local chinese

currently working

Enjoys swimming, movies, watch dramas

am versatile btm

 

looking for:

anyone below 40yrs old

chinese or white

slim/muscular/average

Versatile / top

 

pm me at telegram @algint

 

thanks and see you!  

Bump

[kdran]

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Edited February 5, 2022 by kdran

[Sian boy]

27 176 63 Chinese btm seek ltr. Prefer Chinese top below 35. 

[30yochinese]

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Edited August 26, 2021 by 30yochinese
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[lemonfizzy]

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Edited December 6, 2021 by lemonfizzy

[Devil815]

On 8/15/2021 at 11:46 AM, kidster said:

 

Posting since 2010

Can know you better thru Telegram? 

[Enforcer]

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Edited September 14, 2021 by Enforcer

[bfcs77]

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Edited August 26, 2021 by bfcs77

[NSA chinese]

On 8/11/2021 at 10:12 PM, karl said:

Hello, 

37/Chinese/above 180/90?(sorry, have not measured my mass for awhile)

Not sure if I am looking for LTR, have read through some of the posts here, not sure how I should start, so here I am posting this.

Have not really tried looking for anyone in the past, not sure why I am starting now too.

I am not really sure how I would describe my looks....... normal maybe? 

Oh well, if anyone wants to chat, drop me a message.

 

I don’t mean to be critical here but am curious to know the reasons why you never felt the need to be in a relationship all these years. Even at 37, you are not certain why you are starting now too? Have you engaged in M2M sex only to satisfy physical needs?

 

To be fair to the other party, I hope you are in this for the right reasons because once feelings are invested, people can get hurt, yourself included. So it may be best if you try to search within yourself your reasons for doing this and come clean with the other party about your uncertainties too to manage expectations. If both are on the same page and don’t give each other any pressure, then perhaps it can work. 
 

It could be you are one of those who doesn’t have a strong emotional need for coupling and are ok to go through life solo without any strings attached. 
 

all the best. 😄

Edited August 26, 2021 by NSA chinese

[geekie89]

<Me>

- Local
- 32c 176 74
- Straight acting
- Top 
- Average build

- Works out once a week

- Financially Independent/Stable Career

- Not a party person but prefers one-to-one or small group interactions

- May be quiet at the start but warms up eventually

 

<Likes>
- Gaming
- Hiking/Walking/Exploring Places
- Movies (Anything but horror)
- Food Hunting (Jap/Hotpots/Western/pretty much anything)
- Traveling (1-2 times a year pre-covid)
- Cats (do not own one currrently)
- Netflix (Kdramas, BL)
- Photography (Interested to pick it up proper, any senpais?)

- Kisses and cuddles
 

<Looking For>

- Local Chinese
- Aged 25-34

- Average/Lean/Healthy BMI
- Straight acting
- Boyish
- Down to earth
- Able to hold conversations
- Wholesome & Genuine
- An overlap in interests would be a plus but not a must, because sometimes, opposites attract

[bfcs77]

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Edited August 28, 2021 by bfcs77

[NSA chinese]

On 8/24/2021 at 12:45 PM, lemonfizzy said:

 

26yo, local Chinese, 175cm 69kg, vers bottom 

 

Fun fact about me: I can disguise as an 18year old boy.

 

Face and body value? Haha, I haven't got blocked on Grindr yet, that's all I have to say.

I'm not handsome in any way, but definitely not an ugly duckling 

 

When I'm selecting my meat, I like it to be aged. However, I do like the taste of young blood. (horny obviously, haha) 

18 - 40 years old 

 

I'm a giver so I probably am the submissive one in the relationship, but who knows what's going under the bed right? I only dated once and it's with a Caucasian. We broke off as I can't fulfill his sexual desire. His dick was too huge, and my hole rejected him. 

 

I like talking about life in general and nonsense. Like, what would you change differently if you could turn back in time? Would you rather have bad breath or bad gas? Something like that. 

 

I like it if you are confident and ambitious. Independent, caring, and just a chill guy. 

 

I owned a house.... in Minecraft HAHAHAHA, does my value go up a bit? 

 

You forgot to mention you have a great sense of humor. 😄

[NSA chinese]

On 8/20/2021 at 7:30 PM, Aldari said:

Trying my luck here so here goes. 

Hello all! I am still quite new here. I never had a relationship (with a guy or a girl) and the only interest I have had was with a guy that was in Secondary School and a girl in my Poly years but I was too introverted and shy in expressing my feelings. I am a straight acting person as well and could camouflage and blend in perfectly into the society. 

In terms of sexuality, I believe I am a bisexual however I am a virgin so I am unable to confirm or deny and could potentially be gay as I have spent my whole life with the one and only dick that I have. I am unable to have sex with anyone nor do I intend on saving my virginity either. Not even a blowjob or a handjob was given or taken. I've always tried to act upon the banality of carnal desire but there's something at the back of my mind that tugs me away. The thing I desire more is companionship and raw exchange of emotion instead of physical pleasure. 

Sure I might die a virgin and I do not mind of being that way either for I firmly believe sex is a joyous occasion when the brain chemistry has factored in with emotion. Truthfully, even now, I am still unsure if this is the right path for me. 

You didn’t state your age, but it seems you have limited exposure to this circle. There are many different types of sexualities and you could be asexual if sex doesn’t appeal to you. 
 

Emotionally, do you think you can fall in love with a guy or a girl or both genders? And the question is, have you ever fallen for any? I don’t mean the puppy kind of love but adult love. 
 

as for sex, do you get off watching male or female bodies or both? Or you don’t feel any physical attraction to both sexes?

 

understand yourself and your own needs before going into a relationship. If you know what you want, then it’s easier to find like minded people of your same orientation and interests. That will save yourself and others any unnecessary heartbreaks in the future. 
 

I wish you all the best!

[zzzzzzzz]

33 local Chinese. 179 66. Decent looking. 

 

Gym, 3-4 times, yoga, 1-2 times, swim 1-2 times a week.

 

financially stable. Love sports, MLBB, traveling, walking, current affairs. Varied interests. 
 

looking for fit, decent looking guy, financially independent to chat, hang out

[G_M]

On 8/27/2021 at 10:20 AM, header69 said:

Married btm Chinese uncle 56 seek regular sex partner hopefully around same age. Not handsome. Line id phone3x Thks 

 

Idiot!

Can't you see the topic title is Long Term Relationship?

 

1 warning point for posting ad for sex in the wrong folder.

 

The next ad you post soliciting for sex in the wrong folder again and you will be banned!

[echoss63]

 

I am Chinese. 58 years old. Looking for friends who like to gym and swim. Hopefully can get to know friends who are in theirs 59s or late 49s. Cheers.

[bfcs77]

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Edited August 30, 2021 by bfcs77

[bananaboat]

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Edited August 31, 2021 by bananaboat

[sgind]

30 175 70 local, corporate professional looking for a beau (read: LTR). Someone amiable, with a chipper personality desired. Be there any winsome chinese guys with no hangups on race? Let’s jive

[alex15533]

Hi,

 

I am looking for relationship I am 29 Chinese, 168, 68, average. I like to dance, gym, play games/board games and go out with friends. I am bottom.

 

Games I like to play:-

- Genshin Impact

- Dead by Daylight

- Rainbow Siege 

- Mobile Legends

and etc

 

I prefer my other half to be:

- No Chub
- Like to work out

- Take care of me (pretty new in relationship)

- Financially stable

 

 

Pm me or so~ Thank you. Stay safe~ 

[bananaboat]

On 8/15/2021 at 11:46 AM, kidster said:

 

Posting since 2010

well good luck

[SAKnight93]

Hey Everyone. This is my first post. Sorry if it is too long or if I am not suppose to be posting it here. 

 

I am local indian. June 15, Gemini, if that matters. 28 years old. 173cm. 130Kg. Bi.

 

I am doing my final year psychology and criminology degree now. My interests are netflix and video games. I am generally a shy person until I get to know you. Sorta Introvert but mostly a homebody. I spent all my life just watching shows and school. I have not yet started working because I did not want to split my focus from school and work. 

 

Since secondary school, I knew that I was attracted to both men and women. However at that time I had no idea that a man could be with a man. I have never even heard of PINKDOT back then even though it existed and never really had any friends who shared the same interests. So I assumed I had one option. Men-Women. 

 

Only two months back did I decide to explore the other side of my bisexuality. I probably spent weeks reading on the different labels and terms and I still find it overwhelming. I often found myself alternating between being Bi-Curious and Bisexual. I have never been in a relationship before. So you may ask how sure I am that I am attracted to both Men and Women. Honestly, all I know is that I don't care if you are a Men or a Women. Love has no Gender. Hope I am quoting that correctly. Anyways, all I know is that when I finally have a relationship, I will work hard at it and cherish it and fight for it all the way. Especially in a country that is not yet fully welcoming. 

 

For women, I always thought my friendly personality alone would be enough but for men, I feel like looks plays a huge part too. I am obese right now and I am slowly trying to start exercising and be better for the person who I eventually end up with. Other than the men who I seldom match with on apps, no one in my family or friends know about my bisexuality. I feel like before actually telling them I need to figure out myself first. Right now, with all these information I read on the forums and goggle, I feel like I need more friends who can relate or understand what I am saying and help me navigate though my bisexuality.  If anyone have watched Love Victor, I need a Simon to help me out. Hahaha. 

 

Anyways, I am someone who is also looking to be in a relationship. Long term one if everything goes well. I just need someone who I can count on, who is loyal, patient with me since I am new to the relationship and everything else and I will try to do the same. Trust and Communication is very important to me. I rather you tell me that you cheated or do not like me and we can either work things out, go back to being friends (Depends) or leave mutually instead of prolonging the hurt and pain. I am a little slow when it comes to emotions so if you are mad or angry, I will prefer if you are straight forward and be honest with me on why you are angry or how I hurt you rather than making me guess. Since I am 28, I prefer around the age from 27 to I don't know 32? We will just figure the age range when it comes to that. Personal Preference, sorry if it offends anyone, I don't really fancy a smoker as a boyfriend. I do not smoke nor drink so I feel it would be easier to be with someone who is similar to that. Social drinkers are alright as long as they don't mind me not drinking. They are free to drink with their friends if they like. Hahaha. I am not keen on pets too. I love them but I do not want to own them. This is still debatable so pet owners, fret not. Hahaha. 

 

 

As for friends, I am okay with any age but I find it easier to connect to people around the same age or the same age as me. I have been living in my room for ages anyways so I will probably be learning more from you than you learn from me. Hahaha. For people who wants to become friends and wouldn't mind joining me for walks or something, I live in Woodlands. I am a morning person so feel free to join me before the sun rises. I do not mind if you prefer the evenings too.  

 

That is about it. If I miss anything feel free to ask me or DM me? I still figuring out this forum. If there is a private message option, feel free to do that if you like and I will get back to you. Thank You for reading all the way and Sorry for making it so long. Just getting it off my chest. Good Night. 

 

 

 

 

[NSA chinese]

Welcome to the forum and the posting is a good start to your own self-exploration of what you want. 
 

It takes time to figure out what you want, so take it easy and don’t dive headlong into it. Whatever it is, be comfortable with your choice and accept yourself for who you are at the end of the day because there is only one life and little time for regrets.

 

whether you are 130 kg, 100 kg or 70 kg etc, lose weight for health reasons to keep fit. The physical appearance is the first impression but what’s inside / the personality is what seals a relationship.

 

So all the best in your search and journey.

[bfcs77]

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Edited September 4, 2021 by bfcs77

[kidster]

Mission: 

Hope to find my boy and grow old together.

 

Vision:

Buy a house and stay together. Play catching around the house naked and blindfolded 

 

Me:
Age: Late 20s

Race: Local Chinese

Stats: 177cm, 65kg

Appearance: Slightly above average I think.

Hobbies: Swim, gym, run, sleep, work

Body type: Lean and toned. Not the hunky type. 

Role: Pure top but willing to btm for my boy whenever he wants.

My other half: 
Age: 28 and below
Appearance: Cute to me can already. My friends always say my exs are ugly but I think they are cute.

Character: No attitude, must be straight acting

Preference: Chinese from Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Indonesia. 

Body type: Lean will be great, baby fats is fine too but not adult fats. LOL

Role: Non pure top

Location: Residing in Singapore. I'm not into long distance relationship.

 

Above is my personal preferences. Don't judge.

 

Pm me your Telegram username. If you're so reluctant in exchanging pic, please don't message me. #LifeIsShort Don't waste your time and mine. Thanks.

[AbusedBtm]

This might be a long shot but I'm gonna give it a try. I truly missed being in a relationship. Hope u wud read through.

 

I'm 37yr old, malay 178 79 btm. Above average looks, stocky built (not fat) with a lil tummy. Working in corporate line (office hrs). Staying in choa chu kang.

 

I'm seeking a mature (late 30s and above) top for LTR. Weirdly, I prefer someone who is sexually abusive/high sex drive. Preferred malays and Indians in a corporate line but not a necessity. 

 

Dates, sleepovers, hang outs, constant communication would be ideal. 

 

Pls do drop me a pm or telegram me @devilsgarden666. Hoping to find that someone soon coz im tired of being lonely.

[bfcs77]

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Edited September 6, 2021 by bfcs77

[Flexiguy]

Discreet 42/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies with me.

 

DIslike:
X People that like's to Dominate others
X No Fun
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy

Looking for: 

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese
Slim/Skinny/Average Flex/Versatile/Btm

Fem Boy/Sissy/Crossdresser & Ladyboy for LTR

42yrs old and Below 

[oceantky]

Hi, I am new to this forum and seeking for friends and hopefully a life partner here.

I am 26 years old ，167，54

Malaysian Chinese

 

looking for chn guys，below 40years

Don't add if you are not interested

Edited September 29, 2021 by oceantky

[Derren]

Hoping to find sincere friends and eventually a life partner. Really want to share life with someone compatible. 

 

About Me:

48, Chinese 173, 71, .B

Straight acting, decent, easy-going and supportive, if I may say so.

 

Interests include gym, hiking and singing. But I am game to try out new activities, so hmu.

 

 

 

 

Edited September 11, 2021 by Derren

[will7z]

Hi guys, hope to meet someone here to settle down.

 

I am 34/173/63 flex bottom, decent looking Chinese. Financially stable. Love life, enjoy companionship and conversation in an intimate relationship. 

Besides working, I like spending time in reading, movie, exercises, and hanging out with friends.

 

Looking for someone to share the life journey, can live and grow together. My ideal partner is about 30-40 yo, at least taller than me, has average or fit body shape. Mental maturity of the person is more important to me.

 

If interested, don’t hesitate to pm me with your intro.

[EQUINOXx]

Looking for someone to be my boyfriend 

[Enforcer]

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Edited October 6, 2021 by Enforcer

[geekie89]

On 8/28/2021 at 9:36 AM, geekie89 said:

<Me>

- Local
- 32c 176 74
- Straight acting
- Top 
- Average build

- Works out once a week

- Financially Independent/Stable Career

- Not a party person but prefers one-to-one or small group interactions

- May be quiet at the start but warms up eventually

 

<Likes>
- Gaming
- Hiking/Walking/Exploring Places
- Movies (Anything but horror)
- Food Hunting (Jap/Hotpots/Western/pretty much anything)
- Traveling (1-2 times a year pre-covid)
- Cats (do not own one currrently)
- Netflix (Kdramas, BL)
- Photography (Interested to pick it up proper, any senpais?)

- Kisses and cuddles
 

<Looking For>

- Local Chinese
- Aged 25-34

- Average/Lean/Healthy BMI
- Straight acting
- Boyish
- Down to earth
- Able to hold conversations
- Wholesome & Genuine
- An overlap in interests would be a plus but not a must, because sometimes, opposites attract

Up

[friends]

34c 166 62 here flex b ..boyish

 

Looking for someone who is older than me.. maturity in mind..

 

Best if he gym if not we can gym together lol

 

The rest of the criteria if meet the right one all doesn't count..lol

[yogateacher]

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Edited July 16, 2022 by yogateacher

[Relationship]

Hi there,

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 35

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[ahboy]

42 yo chn 178/83 top if it matters looking for companionship and dates. Prefer younger than me. HMU

[pusheenpika]

Not sure if I've ever posted here. Probably did. But here goes again.

 

Looking for that special someone who (hopefully) doesn't define me by my stats because I'm way (x5) off today's beauty standards. If anything, I'm taller than the average Singaporean male, heavier than most too, and almost blind without my glasses. Have been trying my best at the gym to beat whatever gravitational challenges I’m facing. 

 

Into guys who are around my age (mid 30s) and smart but not too full of themselves. Be financially stable, humourous (I love dad jokes), happy and confident. 

 

Plus points if you love cafe hopping, photography, walks (because my knee is injured), crystals (collector here), gaming (boardgames or on the console), hitting group fitness classes at the gym (rpm and bodypump!), and cuddles (while catching shows on Netflix, Disney+, etc). I love gadgets too!

 

Hmu if this catches your gaze. 

Edited July 9, 2022 by pusheenpika

[burb]

Hi, I am 21 173 75, Chinese, uni student. Bounce between studying and Netflix. Not a sexually active person. I don't do hookup and play games. Looking for ltr. I don't have a particular type for guys. Hopefully can find a partner that is committed and within twice of my age. 

 

Drop me a message if interested and see how it goes.

 

 

 

 

 

[bfcs77]

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Edited September 19, 2021 by bfcs77

[TehSi]

On 9/19/2021 at 12:14 AM, bfcs77 said:

Another night. Still not giving up.

Sincere to look for someone which willing spare the time and proceed for further if click.

Know that every relationship is not easy but just wish to keep trying.

 

About me is local Chinese and simple no much demand. 

My Stats is 168cm, 70kg with average looks.

Sports like to swim and run.

 

Just my preference, would love to be together with married/bi top who is aged 40 & above with average tools. Good that he is not smoke or drinks so am I. Only small request can meet meet once a week. Do not need to have close contact, meet for drink will be ok too.

 

是否 冥冥之中 你我注定 没有结果

也许 缘分注定 你我只能 擦肩而过
 

 

Pm me if you viewed or by chance interested in chat with me.

 

Good luck, catfish

[Firday]

On 9/19/2021 at 8:12 AM, TehSi said:

 

Good luck, catfish

yupe, kenna from him too !

 

[LostSheep]

30, 177, 62. Local Chinese. Decent and nerdy guy. Stable career in banking industry. Gym and run 2-3 times a week.

 

What I look for in a partner:

- Fit, mature and dependable

- 30 year old and above

- prefer someone who is bigger built than me (don't have to taller =p)

 

Hope to find someone who enjoys simple things in life - from staying at home to going on treks and eventually travelling the world together!

 

Please drop me a PM if you are interested. Thanks =D

[sgbb]

I am 29/168/65 plus minus about there. Hehe. 

I like good food, good company, good coffee, good dessert, good movie and basically anything GOOD! 

I also enjoy attending concerts (performing arts), looking at arts and exibitions, bowling, climbing, nature walks, hikes and cycling. 

 

I am looking for someone that can take care of me, someone that is a good listener, someone who can make both of us laugh, someone that can comfort me, and most importantly, someone who I can trust. 

 

Do hit me up.

[Foureyes]

Anyone almost the same stats as mine: 180 70. Hmu if u r!

[kkennyy]

34 local 170 67 chn..looking for companionship and friends…

 

Hobbies- Loves cycling,gym and hiking.Singing occasionally.

Telegram-ykenny123

Edited September 20, 2021 by kkennyy

[DerekTan1970]

Me: 51yo local Chinese 180cm 85kg stocky working professional, discreet, flex btm. caring personality. movies, dinners, gym at TF.

 

You: 42-50yo local Chinese independent discreet working professional, top or flex

 

Seeking soulmate, companion and more. Maturity is a must-have.

 

 

Edited September 24, 2021 by DerekTan1970
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[bananaboat]

im 35 chn working professional. Im not fit or hunk or handsome.

 

I just hope to make friend and have dates.