Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[GabGabriel]

Hi 37 chn 168 fat and chub looking for someone to settle down. If u dun mind fat and chub pm me 

[shawn_m]

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Edited December 11, 2021 by shawn_m

[tanwla]

On 9/25/2021 at 12:20 AM, tanwla said:

Hello! Trying my luck here once again.

 

I am:

- 31 yrs old

- local chinese

- 170cm / 50kg (building in progress) but I am generally lean fit

- currently working

- enjoys swimming, dramas, movies and gaming

 

looking for:

- Chinese

- older or slight younger is fine

- slim / muscle / average just not chubby

- looking for taller or same height

- more extrovert than introvert

 

pls feel free to chat with me on telegram @algint

Bump

[ivan91navi]

 

Wah like independent and clingy at the same time…

 

 

[ivan91navi]

On 10/22/2021 at 11:38 AM, shawn_m said:

Hi Im 28/173/63 Chn Lean Fit Top working in uniform group, looking for a discreet relationship someone who is btm in his 20s, seek similar lean guy, not into bulky, chub or bear sorry. I stay at my own place, like independent and clingy guy at the same time, someone who is sincere, decent and easy going. PM me if u keen  

urgh I wanted to reply to this post but somehow didn’t managed to quote it hello 矛盾

 

 

[leglenn23]

Hi Local Chinese Here. 
 

28 C 170 75. Looking for someone around my age. Into anime, game, Netflix.

 

Pm me if you are keen to know me. 

[geekie89]

<Me>

- Local
- 32c 176 74
- Straight acting
- Top 
- Average build

- Works out once a week

- Financially Independent/Stable Career

- Not a party person but prefers one-to-one or small group interactions

- May be quiet at the start but warms up eventually

 

<Likes>
- Gaming
- Hiking/Walking/Exploring Places
- Movies (Anything but horror)
- Food Hunting (Jap/Hotpots/Western/pretty much anything)
- Traveling (1-2 times a year pre-covid)
- Cats (do not own one currrently)
- Netflix (Kdramas, BL)
- Photography (Interested to pick it up proper, any senpais?)

- Kisses and cuddles
 

<Looking For>

- Local Chinese
- Aged 25-34

- Average/Lean/Healthy BMI
- Straight acting
- Boyish
- Down to earth
- Able to hold conversations
- Wholesome & Genuine
- An overlap in interests would be a plus but not a must, because sometimes, opposites attract

[Guest DuskerZombie]

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Edited October 27, 2021 by DuskerZombie

[Kenny1234]

Hi!

Looking to meet sincere guys as friends and dates to see where things could progress, ideally long term. 

 

Me: 

Friendly, talk active, Chinese chub, 

29 175 90, from Malaysia, recently busy to run my own biz, motivate and hardworking guy here. 

My English sibeh jialat, sincere and royal guy here. 

 

Him:

Sincere, personable, communicative, non judgemental, committed.,only okay with chinese coz i cant speal well, age doesn't matter, prefer lean fit, masculine traits, enjoys being busy as well indoors. 

So, if you okay with my unreasonable request, welcome to text me. 

 

Yes i smoke.

[Roxas]

Hi, my stat is 34c 174 83. Looking for someone who is down to earth and not into anal sex. Thanks.

[hssne]

 

    -Me-

- Local Chinese
- 25 185 80
- Bottom(?) in the relationship but wish to find someone that has the same ideology as me which is *no anal sex at all*. **(other couple stuff is ok since after all we're in a relationship, something must be done if needs and situation arises.)**
- Average build not fat not skinny legend just working out from time to time and a bit thicc at some areas

- Currently a year 3 student doing his internship.

- May be quiet at the start but if you're not awkward or quiet it I wont be, I'm a mirror that reflects ones behaviour.

- Can be quite clingy at times(?)

 

    -Likes-
- Gaming (Identity V <3)
- Hiking/Walking/Exploring Places ( But now covid and all, i prefer to hangout in the house like netflix or just talk)
- Movies (Loves horror sometime watching through my fingers)

- Kisses and cuddles
 

    -Looking For-

- Local Chinese preferred but love comes in all forms so who knows
- Aged 23-30

- Average/Lean/Healthy BMI
- Emotionally well and stable
- Boyish
- Down to earth
- Able to hold conversations
- Wholesome & Genuine & Sincere
- An overlap in interests would be a plus but not a must, because sometimes, opposites attract

- Able to communicate well and not run from problems or let the problem dies down itself. (This can kill a relationship)

 

PM me your IG ill follow and say hi to you there

[chntall54]

Hi. I’m 61 chn 187 104. Seeking chn chubs or supers for friendship, fun and more. Will Live alone starting late November and can host. 
if interested .. pls respond with your stats and let me know what you’re seeking. 
Thanks

Edited October 30, 2021 by chntall54

[Vinc]

Hi 44/168/88 chinese seeking non-slim 40 to 65 yo guy for friendship to see if can become long term relationship. 

寻找40至65岁。身材略胖的男士做朋友。如若可能发展成伴侣。本人44岁，168公分，88公斤。谢绝玩弄。

Edited November 4, 2021 by Vinc

[Eli]

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Edited November 1, 2021 by Eli

[GWTW]

Shall try again~
 

Hello guys.

 

I am 38 (soon 39). Local Chn at 168cm and weighting around 60 to 61 kg.

 

Average body and a top.

 

I am average looking and some said cute (own preference).

 

I like to go for a nice Japanese meal and chit over a cuppa. Movie goer. Gym around 3-4 times a week cos to build a bit of mass. I like to play console games. Used to travel at least once a year pre-covid and fav country is Japan… photography as a hobby but still newbie and mostly into scenic shots. I love a good massage.

 

I would like to look for someone who’s around my age +/-5. Around the same built. Someone who’s independent and not too stinky. Straight acting. 
 

i know it’s a lot to ask, but do drop me a DM if you are interested in knowing as a friend first. Thank you~~

Edited October 31, 2021 by GWTW

[ux876]

On 10/6/2021 at 6:34 PM, GabGabriel said:

Hi 37 chi chub looking for long term anyone 

hi can i pm u?

 

[ux876]

hi, chinese 51yo 95kg here. looking for chinese chubs, stocky chubs for ltr, friendship, fun

[steelwings]

找走出衣柜的有缘人 😎

 

择偶主要条件：诚实

避开主要理由：懒––渣––婊––烟赌酒毒🖕 

I'll leave the rest to Chemistry. 

 

Slide into my DM tell me which book you're currently reading 😉

Edited November 6, 2021 by steelwings

[gboyz]

Hi, guys. I'm 33, 173, 68 btm chi here. Looking for any skinny, thin, lanky or petite guy as friend to start with and eventually partner if clicks. Haha. Do pm me if keen. Thanks!

[sgind]

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Edited November 13, 2021 by sgind

[Kwinny]

Hi! I'd like to give this a shot and see if anyone's interested. Drop me a DM if you're one of them! Maybe we can go out for a drink and get to know one another or something. 😉

 

I'm a Local Chinese in my Mid to Late 20s that often gets mistaken for other ethnicities. I prefer communicating in English over Mandarin. Think of my latter's standard as one even worst than even the basic Chinese level in schools.

 

My stats are currently 175cm / ~90kg, and I'm much more of a Side than a Bottom. I go to the gym 3 times a week to work on my body image, mainly to build muscles and lose fats. I have and in the midst of growing out a ponytail.

In my free time, I like to game on my PC for the most part. I also enjoy going out for drinks from time to time. Social outings are fine, but my introvertedness dictates that I spend some moments on myself afterwards. I like to surf the web and read as well, often for the purpose of expanding my knowledge and/or vocabulary.

 

I'm looking for someone around the ages of 24 - 35 to spend time with. Not exactly into the twink / chub archetypes, unfortunately. Otherwise, anything goes!

Edited November 2, 2021 by Kwinny

[strangefeelings]

Hi all,

Local Ch.

Over 30 now, Lanky, hopes to keep it that way.

Into design stuff, techy stuff, is there anyone like-minded?

 

Cheers all

 

 

[Jxb]

Hi,

 

33yo, 188, 76. Local Chinese, Slim. Looking for a guy to settle down with and be happy! 

 

Loves nature, hiking and travelling overseas and photography.

 

Preferences

- above 1.75m

- age around 28 to 38

- average to fit body

- chn

- down to earth, sincere

 

Tele: jxbak

Edited November 3, 2021 by Jxb

[Kay9900]

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Edited December 17, 2021 by Kay9900

[Wanderlustbuddy]

Oh, the recent regulation limiting the number of people hanging out to only 2 people at a time, got me here and is kinda killing me. I am jelly about others hanging out with his/her bf/gf/sibei close buddy. Can't help it but FOMO. LOL. HAHA. Are you guys not? 

 

About me

Age: 28

Height: 167

Weight: 62

Race: Local Chinese

Preference: Bottom or vers (maybe, not very sure about it)

Interests: Generally, prefer traveling, workout, outdoors (climb peaks, I still have many peaks in my to-go list). I am up for easy chat over a tub of ice-cream as well. 

 

Looking for

Age: 25 to 35

Race: Chinese 

Traits: Mature, exercise regularly (let's stay fit together), top or vers, career-driven (let's work hard together) and good moral value LOL. 

 

Share with me your telegram if we share the same interests and you fit the descriptions above. Let's connect!

Edited November 5, 2021 by Wanderlustbuddy

[ivan91navi]

On 11/5/2021 at 5:39 PM, Wanderlustbuddy said:

Oh, the recent regulation limiting the number of people hanging out to only 2 people at a time, got me here and is kinda killing me. I am jelly about others hanging out with his/her bf/gf/sibei close buddy. Can't help it but FOMO. LOL. HAHA. Are you guys not? 

 

About me

Age: 28

Height: 167

Weight: 62

Race: Local Chinese

Preference: Bottom or vers (maybe, not very sure about it)

Interests: Generally, prefer traveling, workout, outdoors (climb peaks, I still have many peaks in my to-go list). I am up for easy chat over a tub of ice-cream as well. 

 

Looking for

Age: 25 to 35

Race: Chinese 

Traits: Mature, exercise regularly (let's stay fit together), top or vers, career-driven (let's work hard together) and good moral value LOL. 

 

Share with me your telegram if we share the same interests and you fit the descriptions above. Let's connect!

 
hey! Same interests! Lemme pm you now 😊😊

[soulmate_365]

 

Age : 19

Stats : 171cm 68kg local chn

Open-minded, emotionally stable, non-smoker, social drinker, extroverted, super honest and down-to-earth. Looking for someone that is loyal, caring and is a good conversationalist.

 

Looking for someone below 28, for a long term relationship lasting for a few years or longer. Must be non-smoking. Not into super chubby or super slim sry.

 

Im currently in ns but still am willing to meet on the weekends!

 

My love language is physical touch and quality time. 

 

Interests : Music, Gaming, Cafe Hopping, Trekking in nature, KTV, Food!!!, Gaming, cuddling in bed

 

Those interested do HMU

Edited November 5, 2021 by soulmate_365

[tanwla]

Hello! Trying my luck again…

 

I am:

- 31 years old

- 170cm tall and 50kg

- chinese

- working

- vers btm

Looking for:

- Chinese

- same height or close or taller

- slim/muscular/average (not chub)

- vers / top

- age below 50

can add me on telegram @algint

[boyastro]

Hi All. I am in my early 40s, medium small build. Swim, read and gym. Enjoy coffee and occasionally wine and liquor. Enjoy jazz too. Like travelling. 

Financially stable. More of a homey person. Friendly. Pm me to explore further. Thanks! 

[kinkienips]

Hi there, I am in my early thirty this year. I am Malaysian Chinese and currently working in Singapore. Still trying my luck to find the one. 🤪
 

-I am not gym built and I have a small tummy atm 🥲(165cm and 65kg) and looking for someone to train and get fit together. 
-I am decent looking and homey guy. I like to watch Netflix, café hopping, explore new places. 

-I am a social drinker and I hope someone to train me how to swim too lol

-I enjoy cuddle a lot

 

I am looking for someone who is:

- >28<40, buffed than me as I like to squeeze chest and butt a lot lol

- Homey and kind

- Enjoy cuddle and Netflix kind of person

 

Chat me up to find out more. I don’t bite unless you want me to lol

 

[Bape40]

Hi there all. 42 Chinese local here looking for friends or a stable relationship. Leanfit here and definitely discreet. Looking for someone to spend my life with. 
Looking for someone of the same race and aged around 18-25 years of age. In my free time, I enjoy cycling, jogging, hiking and working out in the gym. Love eating and finding places where’s there nice food:) hit me up if you think you r the one:) thanks for reading guys. Have a great weekend!

[fabulouslittlethings]

Hey all! I've been loitering around the forum (and especially this thread) for wayyyy too long! Finally mustered up all the courage I had to create an account and dedicate my first post to this thread. Here you go, and everything begins as friends first, right?

 

Me:
Stats: 28/167/70 (if it matters)
Race: Chinese
Interests: I know I'm slightly heavier than the average guys here, but I've been working hard on cutting fats. Running/trekking/cycling are still my favourite outdoor activities, and I would think I'm relatively open to try out something new (rock-climbing, muay thai etc.)! Otherwise, current affairs etc. interest me as well. Love food too! And rest assured, I'm sane and sorted :)

 

You:
Age/Race preference: Would prefer guys older than me, but no older than 35? And preferably Chinese? Anyways, no hard-and-fuss rule here. More importantly...
Personality traits: 
1) Someone who is mature/sensitive and emotionally stable. Hopefully you could be someone I can share my happiness + problems with when I really need a listening ear. Of course, I will always try my best to be "hear" for you too!
2) Honesty. I understand some guys would want to remain discreet, and choose to adopt a pseudo-identity when it comes to knowing someone of the net. But if someone put in his best effort in forging connections with you, please be honest and upfront alright? It's fair that way, in my opinion.
3) Communicate well. To be frank, I could be quite shy and awkward at first because it takes time for me to warm up. So would need your help in carrying our conversations sometimes!
4) Similar interests. Well, this is not really that important because the key is to explore our differences together and learn new things, right? But if you have similar interest then it will be a big yay!

 

If the above interest you, do feel free to DM me and hit me up! Thanks for taking your time to read my virgin post. Stay sane, and stay safe! :)
 

[bananaboat]

im 35 chn local. 

 

 im trying to know more people and maybe dates and see how it goes.

Not sure if we can click, but no harm trying right? if you are also serious about making connection.

 

Pm me

[alex15533]

Hi, I am looking for relationship I am 29 Chinese, 168, 68, average.

 

I like to dance, gym, play games/board games and go out with friends. I am bottom.

 

Games I like to play:-

 

- Genshin Impact

- Dead by Daylight

- Rainbow Siege

- Mobile Legends and etc

 

I prefer my other half to be:

 

- No Chub

- Like to work out

- Take care of me (pretty new in relationship)

- Financially stable

 

Pm me or so~ Thank you. Stay safe~

 

I might take a while to reply. Busy gaming or so. haha. But i will try to pop in as often. XD

[soulmate_365]

 

Age : 19

Stats : 171cm 68kg local chn

Open-minded, emotionally stable, non-smoker, social drinker, extroverted, super honest and down-to-earth. Looking for someone that is loyal, caring and is a good conversationalist.

 

Looking for someone below 28, for a long term relationship lasting for a few years or longer. Must be non-smoking. Not into super chubby or super slim sry.

 

Im currently in ns but still am willing to meet on the weekends!

 

My love language is physical touch and quality time. 

 

Interests : Music, Gaming, Cafe Hopping, Trekking in nature, KTV, Food!!!, Gaming, cuddling in bed

 

Those interested do HMU

[skybabylister]

Hi guys,

32 Chinese, 170, 86, average meaty

 

I like to swimming, gym, open-minded, emotionally stable, non-smoker, social drinker, extroverted, super honest and down-to-earth. Looking for someone that is loyal, caring and go out with friends.

 

Interests : Music, Cafe Hopping, Trekking in nature, KTV, Food!!!,cuddling in bed

 

I prefer my other half to be:

 

- Not super chubby

- Like to work out

- Take care of me (pretty new in relationship)

- Financially stable

 

Pm me ur tele or line. Thank you.

[ShyCuriousBoy95]

[buddy4life]

Hi,

 

46/170/65 chn local here. Am keen to find someone to spend time with and hopefully more. Enjoys movies, keeping fit, travelling and nature. Hope to find someone who is also chn, small build and enjoys the same activities. PM me if keen. 

[sgind]

Prospecting a beau (read: LTR). Someone amiable with a chipper personality desired. Am 30 175 70, a local, corporate professional. Be there any winsome chinese guy with no hangups on race? PM me. Let’s jive

 

P.S. Dont “Like” the post if you’ve no interest to connect via PM. Thanks

[JoeTanJoeTan]

Hi guys, 

 

I am looking a LTR and ready to settle down. Hope that I am lucky to find the special one here. 
 

Myself:

I am 35chinese, 165,57kg, gymfit. I like to gym a lot, jog, travel, movies and spend time with family. I am straight acting and I am Top. 
 

Looking for the other half:

- No chub pls. Just a preference and no offense pls. 
- Not more than 38yrs old. 
- Straight acting. 
- Hopefully Boyish or cute lor. 
- Nice to be fit and someone who likes to gym also or similar hobbies. 
 

I am just exploring and trying my luck here. Cheers. 😊

[Relationship]

Hi there,

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 35

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[shawn_m]

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Edited December 11, 2021 by shawn_m

[Yinhongchan]

Hey guys,

 

Looking for friends to hang out. I’m 31 this year, 164/54.

Interested in many things as long as it’s not against the rule 

Insta: viviwawa90

[Junichi07]

Looking for top boyfriend. I am new to this circle and keen to find new friends first before moving forward to another level. 

 

About myself

Age: 29

Height: 175.6

Weight: 52.2

Race: Local Malay (but look like chinese) 

Position : Bottom 

Interests: Playing games, console like switch eg. Pokémon brilliant diamond, workout to motivate each other (too many to list). I am up for easy chat and willing meet up once comfortable. 

 

Looking for

Age: not over 40 

Race: Chinese or Malay 

Traits: exercise regularly (let's stay fit together), topa and non-smoker.

 

Share with me your tele if we share the same interest. 

[sgfreedom]

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Edited January 2, 2022 by sgfreedom

[30yochinese]

If u are a current or ex choir member from S.M.C..... i am looking for a serious bf or bff

I sing Baritone.

                                  

I auditioned in March this year, passed the Choir audition but Gregory, the conductor, declined to admit me as a new member due to covid. 

                               

Pls don't Private Message me for fun, a blowing wind Member did that to me on 9th November & he stays 5 minutes from Eunos M.R.T. & i am thinking of lodging a police report against him for verbally assaulting me many times. Pls P.M. me if u are looking a guy or something long-term... Someone who can jam with u vocally, & hopefully make meaningful music together. Thx. 

                                 

Edited November 21, 2021 by 30yochinese
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[No Frills Factory Outlet]

I am back on this forum and ready to mingle.

 

I am 48 chn, 176 70 top

 

Preference for a younger fit, faithful bottom who is into mature. 

 

Hope to find someone who can spend time together, dine , travel etc.
 

I try to stay healthy by going to True Fitness . If u are a TF member even better

 

Anyways do hit me up if keen.

[mambo1980]

On 9/26/2021 at 1:00 AM, mambo1980 said:

Not sure if this works but giving it a try anyway. 
 

im 41 yo chn dude, 170cm tall and weigh 65kg. Looking to make more frens and hopefully settle down with some one who can take my flaws. (Warning: I don’t look at my age though and pple can mistaken me for a 20+ kid). My hobbies include gym and run (5km) on weekdays and movies, mj, coffee or lazing around at home watching Netflix on weekends. 
 

oh and btw, I am a sucker for horror movies and I love Thai food. It would be good if u share the same interests and likes as me but definitely not a pre-requisite as frens or future partner. 
 

let’s connect over IG. IG: alanistical

Bump bump!!!

[mambo1980]

On 9/26/2021 at 1:00 AM, mambo1980 said:

Not sure if this works but giving it a try anyway. 
 

im 41 yo chn dude, 170cm tall and weigh 65kg. Looking to make more frens and hopefully settle down with some one who can take my flaws. (Warning: I don’t look at my age though and pple can mistaken me for a 20+ kid). My hobbies include gym and run (5km) on weekdays and movies, mj, coffee or lazing around at home watching Netflix on weekends. 
 

oh and btw, I am a sucker for horror movies and I love Thai food. It would be good if u share the same interests and likes as me but definitely not a pre-requisite as frens or future partner. 
 

let’s connect over IG. IG: alanistical

Bump ! Bump! 

[Jason Chua]

Local Chinese staying in Queenstown area~

175/90/28

I know stat is not good but currently i'm doing my best to cut down weights and exercise alot.

 

My interest include :

- Watching anime/ movies.

- Reading comics (Jap and chinese more)

- Singing K

- Drumming (Recently pick up and addicted to it)

- Gymming and Swimming (Swimming also just pick up ^^)

- Drawing

- Good food

 

Looking for someone that is:

- Friendly and funny (A smile is always what charms me)

- kind and sincere

- Someone to keep me motivated in exercising

- Age wise +/- 5yrs is better. (Preferably Chinese.)

- Not in a rush to be in a relationship, can start as friends (Chemistry needs to be built up throughout the time, no point rushing into things and shotgun.)

- Who makes an effort in chatting ~  

 

Do chat me up if you are looking to make friends as well or you want to know me more ~ I am out and open~