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Looking for that special someone to hunker down with. He be the one to laugh through those B-grade horror movies with, the one to slow dance to some mellow tunes with and the one to steal a kiss under the stars with. Am 31 175 70, local professional attracted by wit and charm. Flick me a PM to connect. Waiting to make memories together one experience at a time.

 

Lookin' in your eyes
I see a paradise
This world that I've found is too good to be true
Standin' here beside you
Want so much to give you
This love in my heart that I'm feeling for you

Let 'em say we're crazy
I don't care about that
Put your hand in my hand
Baby, don't ever look back

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On 4/1/2022 at 12:59 AM, EC1974 said:

Seeking Uncle or mature daddy type of guy for fun (nsa). I’m into chinese man who is vers/btm, age must be over 50yo, old is gold (hehe)

I’m top, married local chinese (44yo, 183/97).

If keen, pls add me at wechat cocky2017

TQ, Cheers!

 

Did you read the title? Why are you here then?

This thread is not for NSA fun.

1 warning point for spamming in the wrong thread.

 

 

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On 2/5/2022 at 12:20 AM, geekie89 said:

...Trying again despite the overwhelming odds. 

 

Local chinese here, top if it matters. 32c 176 75. Looking to make friends with and date someone with one or more common interests (see below), and LTR if we click. Ideally, that someone should be around my age (around 25-35 years old) with similar stats, be sincere, be real, be able to hold conversations and does not have a short attention span. I'm also discreet, and not out to my family and most of my friends and colleagues, if it matters. 

 

Abit more about myself -- Currently attending gym classes thrice a week at VA. Plays genshin impact and pokemon legend arceus. Enjoys walks in both nature and urban areas, cycling at parks too. Enjoys travelling. Up for good food and desserts anytime. Recently hooked to All of Us are Dead on Netflix. Interested in landscape photography too. 

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Hi ,

 

I'm in early 40. Tall Decent looking chn.. stocky built.

 

Consider myself good-natured with soft spoken personality.

 

Hope to form discreet relationship/ friendship, with straight act and manly individuals (top Chinese).

 

While I'm still single, I'm looking for someone whom can feel comfortable with and that can have deep intellectual conversation with. 

 

I may not be good at talking but i can be a good listener to You.

 

Seek for straight acting, discreet and decent looking chn. PM for more if u r in 40 and 50s .

 

 

 
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Hi ,

 

I'm local Chinese, in early 40s.

Tall, STR acting looking.. stocky built. Consider myself good-natured person.

 

To keep things less complicated, I hope to find a discreet relationship with straight acting/discreet individuals (top Chinese), preferably a rather long term arrangement. Someone who is intellectual is plus point ;)

 

Someone who share the same sediments so we can satisfy each other's needs, while going back to our families feeling physically and emotionally satisfied.

 

I know it's hard but it is worth the shot.

 

If you r looking for the same, we can meet up for coffee or a meal, and see where chemistry leads us ;)

 

Married, bi curious tops are welcome.

 

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Hello!

 

32 Chinese, tall and big to describe me.

Standing at 184cm and weighting 103kg.

 

still believe in happy ever after, ideal relationship doesn’t need to see each other 24/7 or texting good morning or sending photos of lunches. 
 

Cafe hopping is too over, companionship wins over IG worthy photos of food. Like nature, trying to start exercising.

 

Super adaptive and empathetic, able to accustomed to people’s feeling. Loves dogs (literally). 
 

if you’re find that such description of a person is someone you don’t mind, PM me. 

Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best.

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Not sure if I'm anyone's type but why not 😄

 

Me:

1. 34 year old, turning 35 this year

2. Chinese

3. Not particularly handsome or good looking, have a "dad" body 

4. Not particularly active physically

5. 169cm, 84kg, on the meaty/chubby side

6. stable software engineering job

7. Discreet

8. Interest in science fiction

9. Spend most of my free time on Netflix, YouTube and games

10. bottom

 

You:

1. Chinese (strong preference)

2. same age or slightly older than me +1 or +2 years

3. same height/taller than me

4. Mature and not an emotional wreck

5. not clingy

6. slim/average body and looks. Not interested in those with tons of muscles or expecting gym type body. 

7. maybe same line of work. Not a hard requirement. But I do want to engage in intellectual discussions and conversations. 

8. top (I do have a mild fetish about being fucked by an "elder brother", thus the age requirement)

9. Non-smoker. Just hate the smell and smoke always make me sick.

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Hi ,

 

I'm local Chinese, in early 40s.181. chn 90kg. STR acting looking..

 

To keep things less complicated, I would like to know more discreet straight acting individuals (top Chinese).

 

If u r in 40s and 50s Chinese tops, and are keen to know me., Do PM me.  We can meet up for coffee or a meal, and see where chemistry leads us 

 

Married, bi curious tops are welcome.

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On 3/6/2022 at 8:24 PM, moonchild said:

Since it's 2022, maybe it's time to give this place a try to find my other half .

 

About myself

 

Age: 37

Height: 163

Weight: 80 ( dad's bod perhaps)

Race: Chinese

 

Position :

-Flex Btm,  possible to top if we work something out. 

-I'm fine without it all together.

 

Interest

-Culture , traveling, experimental cooking, photography, craft & arts.

-I am not sporty but I am doing some weight lifting and all. Slowly working my way back to shape.

 

Looking for

-Plus -Minus 5 yrs of my age (perfably but who knows)

-preferably chi, others are fine too as long as we can click

-Preferably a non-smoker, non-chub

-str8 acting, non loud

-Stable job, good sense of humour.

-Someone who is looking to doing simple things as a couple together. 

 

Drop me a PM if you like to chat and let's get to know each other.

Please start with a self introduction when you PM me. Thank you.

 

 

Refresh my post.

Reading through before texting will be appreciated.

 

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Hi, I'm 26 this year 2022 and im chinese :)

My Height: 180cm & My weight: 88kg (with belly).

My position for anal sex is TOP. (about 5.4inch long, 14cm and is thick)

Fact is that I have feet fetish and it consist me videoing ur sole feet, sniff, lick and i could easily ease my sexual needs with your feet by jerking off and cum at your feet. I don't cum easily too!

 

Who i'm finding?

Slim guy who is near my age or younger and I'm really attracted to passive & obedient type of boy!

You definitely have to be vers or btm. Pleasent looking to me of course! (like who doesn't go for this now a day? 😁)

Able to commit to the relationship in terms of traveling if we live far apart but you got to be in Singapore.

Best if you are out of the closet cause it's kinda tiring to have secret relationship as i will love to let the whole world know that you are my boy! 🥰 If possible, able to wear same pair of socks for days as the smells will make me even hard on! (Theory similar to pops).

 

Firend + FWB as a trial period before going into official relationship first!

 

What we will be doing most likely?

Create a home for both of us.

Cuddling at my place or your place.

Date like every other normal couple.

You gonna start infesting my tiktok account and makes people jealous!

Go to malysia, JB, to have eating spree and get away 1 night stays!

Go to other country together like Thailand or Taiwan together!

 

Last but not least, I'm out to my family and they are cool with it.

Interested parties do feel free to contact me via telegram @lovehandsomefeet

Please make sure you are slim and near my age or younger to avoid wasting of time thanks!

 

Someone who is kinda fat with bellys... 😆

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On 4/17/2022 at 12:48 PM, Boiboi2001 said:

Hey all , happy weekends :)

I'm turning 21st this year and seeking LTR

I'm someone that's pretty chill and easy going 😌  

 

Open to making friends as well ☺️ 

CONGRATS Boiboi2001 on your 21st bdae!!!
                                                                                                     
TBH,
This is the wrong platform to find friends,
Why? Most men who P.M. u parade as Twinks but they are actually Hunters, hunting for "Fresh meat".
                                                                                                                    
I advise you,
to go the old fashioned route,
joining OUT-IN-SG & gtg exposed to the circuit, I know its a long road ahead, & u mite end up like me...a 38yo openly gay... disillusioned & recently dumped by an older guy after dating him from 17th to 31st March... 
                                                                                                                                                  ...but this is a better outcome than my gay-friend who got to know a guy, dated, & ended up with genital warts/an S.T.D. & gtg infected, so pls take care!!!
                                                                

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Looking for that special someone to have and to hold innamorare. He be the one to laugh through those B-grade horror movies with, the one to slow dance to some mellow tunes with and the one to steal a kiss under the stars with. Am 31 175 70; a local professional attracted to wit and character. Slide into my DM to connect. Waiting to make memories together one experience at a time.

 

You could give me chills
On a summer day, yeah
When we're laying still
But you make my heart race
Gonna keep me young
When we're old and grey
I know that time moves on
But some things don't change

I won't stop getting butterflies
I get 'em every time
I look into your eyes
You won't stop running through my mind
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Hey everyone! I am looking for someone to call mine. I am open to a lot of stuff as I didnt do it much when I was early 20's. I am Indian, 26, 170cm, 55kg and vers. Bare in mind that I am still a virgin cause didnt focus much on sex back then. I am from Malaysia currently staying in SG cause i got transferred here. 

 

Who do I prefer?

Someone who can speak english cause that is the only language I am good at. Someone who is stable in most aspect and also it is a MUST to be chubby/cub/stocky as I like my man to be big size :3

 

About me?

I am into dogs, video games, going out to the bars. I am also a social butterfly but dont worry I wont go around sleeping with other people hahaha. I work in the IT department. 

 

Unfortunately I am no longer on any social media but you can text me on telegram: regan1310.

 

P.S. We dont have to jump into a relationship str8 away. We can always start slow cause I dont want to make the mistake I made in my previous relationship. 

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On 4/9/2022 at 12:59 AM, Im-Who-Im said:

Hello all

 

Looking to get into a LTR

- I am 30, 173, 65, local, Chinese, working in a bank.

- Btm, looking for a top, who’s not sassy and not an emotional wreck - no drama.

We can drama in bed all we want but that’s besides the point. 
- Looking for someone who’s willing to understand and accept me for who I am and I vice-versa will make the effort to do the same.

X open relationship

X fun

X drugs

X fwb 

Y humble, not arrogant

Y well-mannered
 

Age isn’t a major factor but preferably between 27 and 40. Have a stable job, mature in character, behaviour and disposition. 

- You should have moderate to high sex drive where possible LOL (but it’s not everything!)


Ok sorry, I’m making this sound like a job description, but HEY hit me up if you’re interested?

 

I believe that being polite and courteous doesn’t cost alot of your time. Pm-ed but left the conversation is a very rude way. Glad u left as this shows clearly ur personalities. 

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On 4/22/2022 at 9:30 PM, boyboy24 said:

I believe that being polite and courteous doesn’t cost alot of your time. Pm-ed but left the conversation is a very rude way. Glad u left as this shows clearly ur personalities. 

Hey, thanks for dropping the note. But, we have crossed paths before so I’m sorry if me leaving the conversation disturbs you. Wishing you the very best.

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On 4/23/2022 at 12:01 AM, Im-Who-Im said:

Hey, thanks for dropping the note. But, we have crossed paths before so I’m sorry if me leaving the conversation disturbs you. Wishing you the very best.

Well. Even we crossed paths before u could at least inform me. So I wun be texting or pm u again. Its not a very pleasant move. 

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I'm going along the lines of why not. 

 

Me:

1. 34 year old, turning 35 this year

2. Chinese

3. Not particularly handsome or good looking, have a "dad" body 

4. Not particularly active physically. Goes for run on weekends.

5. 169cm, 84kg, on the meaty/chubby side

6. stable software engineering job

7. Discreet, not out to many. 

8. Interest in science fiction, tech and engineering and european history

9. Spend most of my free time on Netflix, YouTube and games

10. bottom

11. Drinks alcohol quite often but always stop before complete incapacitation

12. Not clingy, aloof at times. Introvert.

 

You:

1. Chinese (strong preference)

2. same age or slightly older than me by no more than 5 years. 

3. same height/taller than me. 

4. Mature and not an emotional wreck. But, I WILL not judge or reject if you need time to sort out some emotional trauma or have some mental health issue. Just be honest about it and willing to work together to help you get better.

5. not clingy

6. slim/average body and looks. Not interested in those with tons of muscles nor am i expecting gym type body. If you do gym from time to time, it's fine. I'm neutral about it.

7. maybe same line of work. Not a hard requirement. But I do want to engage in intellectual discussions and conversations with you. 

8. top (I do have a mild fetish about being fucked by an "elder brother", thus the age requirement)

9. Non-smoker. Just hate the smell and smoke always make me sick.

10. If you don't mind someone who is chubby/meaty in their 30s. In other words, the average guy who blends into the crowd.

11. High integrity and honest. 

 

 

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On 9/3/2021 at 12:41 AM, SAKnight93 said:

Hey Everyone. This is my first post. Sorry if it is too long or if I am not suppose to be posting it here. 

 

I am local indian. June 15, Gemini, if that matters. 28 years old. 173cm. 130Kg. Bi.

 

I am doing my final year psychology and criminology degree now. My interests are netflix and video games. I am generally a shy person until I get to know you. Sorta Introvert but mostly a homebody. I spent all my life just watching shows and school. I have not yet started working because I did not want to split my focus from school and work. 

 

Since secondary school, I knew that I was attracted to both men and women. However at that time I had no idea that a man could be with a man. I have never even heard of PINKDOT back then even though it existed and never really had any friends who shared the same interests. So I assumed I had one option. Men-Women. 

 

Only two months back did I decide to explore the other side of my bisexuality. I probably spent weeks reading on the different labels and terms and I still find it overwhelming. I often found myself alternating between being Bi-Curious and Bisexual. I have never been in a relationship before. So you may ask how sure I am that I am attracted to both Men and Women. Honestly, all I know is that I don't care if you are a Men or a Women. Love has no Gender. Hope I am quoting that correctly. Anyways, all I know is that when I finally have a relationship, I will work hard at it and cherish it and fight for it all the way. Especially in a country that is not yet fully welcoming. 

 

For women, I always thought my friendly personality alone would be enough but for men, I feel like looks plays a huge part too. I am obese right now and I am slowly trying to start exercising and be better for the person who I eventually end up with. Other than the men who I seldom match with on apps, no one in my family or friends know about my bisexuality. I feel like before actually telling them I need to figure out myself first. Right now, with all these information I read on the forums and goggle, I feel like I need more friends who can relate or understand what I am saying and help me navigate though my bisexuality.  If anyone have watched Love Victor, I need a Simon to help me out. Hahaha. 

 

Anyways, I am someone who is also looking to be in a relationship. Long term one if everything goes well. I just need someone who I can count on, who is loyal, patient with me since I am new to the relationship and everything else and I will try to do the same. Trust and Communication is very important to me. I rather you tell me that you cheated or do not like me and we can either work things out, go back to being friends (Depends) or leave mutually instead of prolonging the hurt and pain. I am a little slow when it comes to emotions so if you are mad or angry, I will prefer if you are straight forward and be honest with me on why you are angry or how I hurt you rather than making me guess. Since I am 28, I prefer around the age from 27 to I don't know 32? We will just figure the age range when it comes to that. Personal Preference, sorry if it offends anyone, I don't really fancy a smoker as a boyfriend. I do not smoke nor drink so I feel it would be easier to be with someone who is similar to that. Social drinkers are alright as long as they don't mind me not drinking. They are free to drink with their friends if they like. Hahaha. I am not keen on pets too. I love them but I do not want to own them. This is still debatable so pet owners, fret not. Hahaha. 

 

 

As for friends, I am okay with any age but I find it easier to connect to people around the same age or the same age as me. I have been living in my room for ages anyways so I will probably be learning more from you than you learn from me. Hahaha. For people who wants to become friends and wouldn't mind joining me for walks or something, I live in Woodlands. I am a morning person so feel free to join me before the sun rises. I do not mind if you prefer the evenings too.  

 

That is about it. If I miss anything feel free to ask me or DM me? I still figuring out this forum. If there is a private message option, feel free to do that if you like and I will get back to you. Thank You for reading all the way and Sorry for making it so long. Just getting it off my chest. Good Night. 

 

 

 

 

Well written

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Hi ,

 

I'm local Chinese, in early 40s.

Tall, STR acting looking.. stocky built. Consider myself good-natured person.

 

To keep things less complicated, I hope to find a discreet relationship with straight acting/discreet individuals (top Chinese), preferably a rather long term arrangement. Someone who is intellectual is plus point ;)

 

Someone who share the same sediments so we can satisfy each other's needs, while feeling physically and emotionally satisfied.

 

I know it's hard but it is worth the shot.

 

If you r looking for the same, we can meet up for coffee or a meal, and see where chemistry leads us ;)

 

Married, bi curious tops are welcome.

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On 9/17/2021 at 1:30 PM, pusheenpika said:

Not sure if I've ever posted here. Probably did. But here goes again.

 

Looking for that special someone who (hopefully) doesn't define me by my stats because I'm way (x5) off from today's gay male beauty standards. If anything, I'm taller than the average Singaporean male, heavier than most too, and almost blind without my glasses. Have been trying my best at the gym, ensuring I strut out with a sore body and a drenched workout attire (well, ok I exaggerate cos I can shower there).

 

I have demons to fight, and I hope you can accompany me on my journey to self love and recovery. I'll definitely be there for you too, and have been know to provide new perspectives (if you need help with a knotty situation), bring lots of laughter, and can listen well.

 

Into guys who are around my age (mid 30s) and smart (sapiosexual they say?) but not too full of themselves. Be financially stable, humourous (I love dad jokes), happy and confident. 

 

Plus points if you love cafe hopping, photography, walks (because my knee is injured), crystals (collector here), gaming (boardgames or on the console), hitting group fitness classes at the gym (rpm and bodypump!), and cuddles (while catching shows on Netflix, Disney+, etc). I love gadgets too!

 

Hmu if this catches your gaze. 

 

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Looking for that special someone to have and to hold innamorare // He be the one to laugh through those B-grade horror movies with, the one to slow dance to some mellow tunes with and the one to steal a kiss under the stars with…Am 31 175 70 | a local professional attracted to wit and character. Slide into my DM to connect~

 

I don't get tired of loving you

I don't get tired of us
Every time that I'm touching you
You're the one that I want
And all the ones that have come before
Never had me feeling this way
Oh, you know what they say

 

When it feels right, you'll know what it feels like
Front seat of a joyride, caught up in a rush
And when I'm by your side, looking into your eyes
That's just what it feels like, feels like
It feels like love

 

It sounds so dramatic
But I know that you feel the same
Oh, and there's no sign of stopping
Keep taking me all the way

 
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On 5/7/2022 at 7:40 PM, sgind said:

 

Looking for that special someone to have and to hold innamorare // He be the one to laugh through those B-grade horror movies with, the one to slow dance to some mellow tunes with and the one to steal a kiss under the stars with…Am 31 175 70 | a local professional attracted to wit and character. Slide into my DM to connect~

 

I don't get tired of loving you

I don't get tired of us
Every time that I'm touching you
You're the one that I want
And all the ones that have come before
Never had me feeling this way
Oh, you know what they say

 

When it feels right, you'll know what it feels like
Front seat of a joyride, caught up in a rush
And when I'm by your side, looking into your eyes
That's just what it feels like, feels like
It feels like love

 

It sounds so dramatic
But I know that you feel the same
Oh, and there's no sign of stopping
Keep taking me all the way

 

This is a post, poem, or song? Hehe.. 

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I am

- Malaysian Chinese

- 33 years old

- 174cm, 85kg

- Average looking (can pm me for ig)

- hairy bear

- not really into anal sex (currently enjoying cuddling, kissing and more)

- work as professional

- hobby: travel, outdoor activity, cooking , singing, badminton

 

Looking for (if possible)

- someone who can speak chinese with me (i feel more comfortable)

- similar hobby / interest

- age > 32

- height > 170cm

- straight acting

- caring

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yo

169,65,23

just a nerdish lookin guy, average with a hint of Twink 💀

studyin

am a switch and an enfp

 

watches anime/cartoons read abit of manga,likes cats and gamin(fps) and also photography (nothing professional just doin it with mah trusty phone)

 

 

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