Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[Enforcer]

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Edited August 3, 2023 by Enforcer

[Stormliberator]

On 2/19/2023 at 2:07 AM, Gatyc said:

 

Bumping this post up after two+ years. Having experienced a relationship (we broke up as we were at different stages in life and had different aspirations) and now ready to get myself out there again, here is my updated note:

 

Me:

 

Local chinese 28/164/60 

Fitter than I was two years ago

Still attending spin and gym classes  (workout at least 2-3 times a week)

Still in the legal industry

Still decent looking (I hope)

Still a non-smoker

Still not a good drinker

Still prefers tea to coffee

Pretty discreet

Bought a property last year (but still staying with the folks)

Vers Btm

 

Into:

Netflix, Boardgames, Karaoke, Mahjong

I love thrills - think rollercoasters, bungee jumping, horror movies etc.

A day in at home over weekends is perfectly fine to me

 

 

My preference:

27 - 32 local chinese preferred, but older is not a dealbreaker

Taller than me 

Average to fit so we can go for gym classes together

Decent looking

Professional (good if you work in CBD too so we can have meals)

Be financially comfortable as I like to splurge once in a while

Have a sense of humour but can be serious if need be

Willing to accept my long working hours 

Top/Vers

Caring and not emotionally unavailable

Knows what he wants and not afraid to call the shots in the relationship

 

If interested, please DM me with some brief introductions why you think we match. We can exchange telegram and take it from there!

 jiayous i also looking but its just hard haha

[Bozzz]

 

Myself…

43 local chn top, 171cm, almost going 75KG 😭. Not so Chubby or stocky. But got tummy. Staying north (if that’s important).

Often travel Thailand. So looking for travel buddy or LTR that can travel together to thailand and japan. 

 

Looking for

Local/Malaysia/thai Chn below 43yrs old. 🤔. Who loves travelling….. nearby countries like Malaysia up to Japan. Non smoker…. Str8 acting is a must. (Discreet)
if buddy together go gym will be best. (Not into fast game.... eg, few msg and expect LTR. Not even know each other).

Edited February 23, 2023 by Bozzz

[Relationship]

Hi there,

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 36

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[sgind]

On 2/5/2023 at 8:52 PM, sgind said:

Looking for a better half to journey with. The special someone to share a laugh with through those campy horror flicks, the one to embosom while slow dancing to Etta James, the one to steal a kiss with in the moment while the world passes us by. Being each other’s bedrock; each other’s lighthouse. Am drawn to wit, charm and personality, 31 175 76, a local professional. W(e)ary with/of insincere, lifeless, bristly characters. Slide into my DM to connect.

 

You're the only place I know
Where I feel at home
When my beating heart is beating slow
You're the place I go
I'm falling on the inside
 

But in your eyes
Suddenly, I see the sunlight
In your eyes
I know that I will be alright

Bump

[kaz]

On 2/5/2023 at 8:52 PM, sgind said:

Looking for a better half to journey with. The special someone to share a laugh with through those campy horror flicks, the one to embosom while slow dancing to Etta James, the one to steal a kiss with in the moment while the world passes us by. Being each other’s bedrock; each other’s lighthouse. Am drawn to wit, charm and personality, 31 175 76, a local professional. W(e)ary with/of insincere, lifeless, bristly characters. Slide into my DM to connect.

 

You're the only place I know
Where I feel at home
When my beating heart is beating slow
You're the place I go
I'm falling on the inside
 

But in your eyes
Suddenly, I see the sunlight
In your eyes
I know that I will be alright

So sexy

[Ergonova1991]

Local chinese 32 176 80.

 

Telegram: leeweikang1991 

[ayuayumi]

38 chn 176 90 

 

telegram @yole121

[JoJoMan]

Any local SG Chinese below 30yo, under 180 cm 70 kg?

[knightD]

37yo chn 165 65

telegram @knightd

 

[Arkham]

Local chinese 33, 173, 70 (vb) staying in north east. Looking for relationship and someone which i can feel comfortable with. 

 

Love to read fantasy, enjoy watching movies, like to play badminton/cycling,  exploring places and having a nice stroll in the park. 

 

Im not the best and come with flaws, there are so many great talents out there but im trying to work hard and be the best just for you.

Edited March 8, 2023 by Arkham

[mlymarried]

14 hours ago, Arkham said:

Local chinese 33, 173, 70 (vb) staying in north east. Looking for relationship and someone which i can feel comfortable with. 

 

Love to read fantasy, enjoy watching movies, like to play badminton/cycling,  exploring places and having a nice stroll in the park. 

 

Im not the best and come with flaws, there are so many great talents out there but im trying to work hard and be the best just for you.

So romantic. Your partner will feel loved

[junyuan]

27,170,65,b

 

let’s go on dates

[JoJoMan]

On 3/6/2023 at 2:56 PM, JoJoMan said:

Any local SG Chinese below 30yo, under 180 cm 70 kg?

👉

[kinkienips]

 

About me:

-I am looking for someone to train and get fit together
-I like to watch Netflix, nature & traveling. 

-I do not stay alone

-Smooth, 165cm 62kg

 

I am looking for someone who is:

- Kind and considerate

- Enjoy overnight cuddles 

- Hygienic, smooth, non-smoker

- Big muscle is a plus 🥵

- Someone who is taller and around my age 28-38 (I am 33)

 

Not into chub and slim

 

Just my personal preference, nothing personal. 
 

Drop me a dm and we will take it from there.

[JoJoMan]

Any Singaporean Chinese BTM below 30yo into mature Singaporean Chinese Top (daddy type)?

Read my Profile bio...

 

HMU for chat with your tele

Edited March 11, 2023 by JoJoMan

[dDaniel]

About myself

 

Age: 30

Height: 180

Weight: 92kg

Race: malaysian chinese

- tall but got tummy, not so chub

Position: Top/Bottom

 

Interest

-gym, travelling, martial arts, watching movies, explore new places

 

Looking for

-SG / MY chinese below 35 years old

-average fit body where can workout together 

-kind and considerate on each other

-light fun / cuddling

-travel together

 

If you interest, can reach out to me on telegram @danialChong92

 

 

[sgind]

I’m a local professional, 31 175 76, a pretty outgoing guy who enjoys the finer things in life, like socializing with friends, travelling, and seeking out adventure and new experiences.

 

But you know what's missing? Love, sweet love. And not just any kind of love - the kind that lasts. The kind that makes you feel like you're on top of the world. And now, I'm hoping to add a new adventure to my life by finding that special someone to share it with.

 

I'm looking for a man who's witty, charming, and has a winning personality. Someone who can be my partner in crime, my confidante, and my biggest cheerleader. Who can make me laugh and feel comfortable being myself around them. 

 

Whatever the future holds, I'm excited to find out with you by my side. So slide into my DM to connect. Who knows, maybe we can explore the world together while dancing to Etta James, or cuddling up while listening to Burna Boy.

Let's make our love story one for the ages.

 

I believe that you're for me, I feel it in our energy
I see us written in the stars
We can go wherever, so let's do it now or never
Baby, nothing's ever, ever too far

 

Cheers to love and adventure!

Edited March 11, 2023 by sgind

[JoJoMan]

On 3/10/2023 at 6:49 PM, JoJoMan said:

Any Singaporean Chinese BTM below 30yo into mature Singaporean Chinese Top (daddy type)?

Read my Profile bio...

 

HMU for chat with your tele

🔝😀

[KONG]

Local chinese chaser 55 170 80, looking chn chub above 30yrs with big nipple & belly, above 100kg. 
 

Hobbies include travel, nude yoga & movies.

 

Those interested can telegram@eric_6479

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[JoJoMan]

Any Singaporean Chinese BTM below 30yo into mature Singaporean Chinese Top 54c slim built. 

 

LTR ... dad-son cum bf LTR

 

Read my Profile bio...

 

HMU for chat with your tele

[Jonathan_Horny_sexy btm]

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Edited October 24 by Jonathan_Horny_sexy btm

[JoJoMan]

18 hours ago, JoJoMan said:

Any Singaporean Chinese BTM below 30yo into mature Singaporean Chinese Top 54c slim built. 

 

LTR ... dad-son cum bf LTR

 

Read my Profile bio...

 

HMU for chat with your tele

Good Morning, Guys!

Enjoy your Monday!

[c192]

About me:

30/163/60, local Chinese, top, boyish, average build

Living in the West

Discreet, straight-acting, not in the scene
Non-smoker

Financially stable

Enjoys hiking/long walks, singing/Karaoke, gaming, jogging, movies/Netflix, reading, food/cafe hunting, and travel
 

Looking for:
Similar stats/taller with an active lifestyle (similar interests would be a plus too)
Around the same age or slightly older

Likewise discreet, straight-acting, non-scene
Stable, sincere and committed; and willing to spend time together
 

Do leave a message if interested. Thanks for reading!

[boyboy24]

33,174,83 Chinese boyish top. 
Looking for a companionship that i can spend my time with:) tele: ahboy0902 (pic on telegram) 

[JoJoMan]

Any Singaporean Chinese BTM below 30yo into mature Singaporean Chinese Top 54c slim built. 

Residing in East SG a bonus. 

 

Monogamous LTR ... dad-son cum bf LTR

 

Read my Profile bio...

 

HMU for chat with your tele

 

Mine J2O22E  (capital O)

Edited March 14, 2023 by JoJoMan

[warnarat]

✖️

Edited May 23 by warnarat

[ReallyMeh]

Hi Im 39,local Chn, Top/Side who lives in the East.

 

Size: Lean-fit

 

Outdoor Interest: Jogging, Gym, cycling, kayaking, Hiking, Trekking, OCR and anything fun

Indoor Interest: Singing K, Movies, Board Games, Tabletop wargame, Switch games, meeting friends, hugging and cuddling

Preferred local chinese who is not drama queen or sissy or chub, and maintain regular workouts/active. Prefer someone of age from 30 - 39.

If the above simple introduction does pique your interest, please reply me back 

[Bahamut LGH]

35, 167, 72 vers top. Local chinese with tanned skin. Extraverted introvert.

Workout daily, slight buff. 
love group classes, hiking, swimming, travel, mahjong and Ktv.

 

like to network or settle down with someone similar age group, similar interest, independent, not too possessive. Appreciate to have short and neat hair and well groom (facial hair is fine).

 

Pm for telegram ID.

 

cheers 

[kkennyy]

Hi Im 35, local Chn, B who lives in the Northeast 

Hobbies: Jogging, Gym, cycling, Hiking, Trekking,Traveling,Singing K, Movies

 

telegram: ykenny8050

[JoJoMan]

On 3/14/2023 at 5:35 PM, warnarat said:

 

31/173/63/btm/chn(sgp)

enjoys netflix/youtube, singing, reading

non-smoker, drink socially and occasionally

average, discreet to some groups of people in my life, non-scene

 

Looking for someone into a stable and committed long-term relationship.

 

You:

- bet. 30-40

- top

- willing & able to commit monogamously if we have decided to be together

- willing to accept me for who I am

- moderate or higher (sex drive) **not the most impt

 

 

**P.S. I live in the east - for those who have concerns about distance.

Too bad... I am out of your search range 😢

[Musical]

 

 

hi

 

I am trying this on post again and hope to have someone special to spend my life with  I'm 48 local chn, 173 65 average build young looking (B) hoping to find a top long term soul mate for remaining life's journey.  Naturally an introvert in general but I have resumed cycling recently.

 

Ideally my partner

preferably > 170

Proportionate body build (not extreme skinny or chub)

Christian (a bonus)

Recently signed up gym to keep myself fit for health reasons.

The rest I guess based on chemistry. By the way, my interest are music, movies, drama, gaming, cycling and I have a cat.

 

If you think you like to chat further and contact to get to know each other better.  do drop me a message

 

Thanks for reading and have a great day!

[bananaboat]

im 37 chn local.  

 

childish but try to be nice to everyone. still learning to cope with life and its challenges. like to know more ppl - be it friends or blossom into something else.

 

no expectation from me for you except that you should be willing to give it a try.

 

hobbies - like animals/pets, netflix, movies, window shopping, gaming, photography and plants.

will be good if we have similar hobbies, or we can always try out new things. im up for it.

 

thanks!

[Relationship]

Hi there,

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 36

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[warlock88]

On 1/28/2020 at 9:43 AM, warlock88 said:

Me -> 35 172 66 Chinese 

- stable job

- enjoys café hopping, photography, travelling, movies, etc

- likes to listen to Chinese music

- likes to watch chinese dramas

- i don't smoke or drink

 

Looking for

- Something long term

- Someone that likes doing above activities

- non-smoker

- friendly and sincere person

- non-chub

- preferably someone around my age

 up this 2020 post lol

still looking!

[Manlyspec]

Looking for friend or if you kinda fit as partner

 

me

- 47 176 81 manly spec

- broad shoulder

- not buff, people comment they like my chest 

- atheist

- not into animals, pets or children

- top

- yoga, gym, swim

- into longevity and want to live a mobile life through old age. 

 

prefer (but nothing's ever cast in stone)

- btm Chinese (it's the look not the race) or Asian in general. Thai, Korean, Jap , Indonesia. 

- ard 170 height, boyish or big eye. Well as long pleasing to me

- not too skinny or fat

- age 35 - 47, I would love younger but I will get old too fast for you 

- atheist/buddhist prefer (no christians)

- someone who hates office work, maybe exploring nomad lifestyle

- independent, non judgemental. listen more than judge

- someone who's not fussy in most things. (but doesn't mean they do not have preference or times they want something).
- generally chill

- positive mind set

- no accountants (had to much of bad experience)

 

I am non-possessive and maybe more nonchalant. I find people who knows what they want in life attractive. Tell me about your job, ideas, passion, stage in life. Can be at same place but each of us doing our own thing. Will be good to do a business together in the long term. Not into the idea we need to get married, gay rights, have kids. There's only so much time left. So I am not into KTV, mahjong, endless watching movie or going around finding next cuisine (once a while is fine for good food). Not that I do not like Michelin star restaurant. I do not need to travel the world, but some form of it is nice to understand culture or change of environment. But not going around mindless shopping or eating street food.  If you have a passion for any(thing), I won't stop (as we all have different stages in life) you as you should have your own life (choices) outside us.  And enjoy what you want to do. Support each other even if there's differences. Prefer to spend time on how to improve own life/health/finances. 

Prefer someone who has ideation to move out of singapore in the long term to an Asian country (thailand/vietnam/bali/nomad) by 50s or stay in a city few months in a year. 

 

I am not perfect and hopefully someone who will push each other to do better.

Edited March 29, 2023 by Manlyspec

[30yochinese]

11 hours ago, Manlyspec said:

Looking for friend or if you kinda fit as partner

 

me

- 47 176 81 manly spec

- broad shoulder

- not buff, people comment they like my chest 

- atheist

- not into animals, pets or children

- top

- yoga, gym, swim

- into longevity and want to live a mobile life through old age. 

 

prefer (but nothing's ever cast in stone)

- btm Chinese (it's the look not the race) or Asian in general. Thai, Korean, Jap , Indonesia. 

- ard 170 height, boyish or big eye. Well as long pleasing to me

- not too skinny or fat

- age 35 - 47, I would love younger but I will get old too fast for you 

- atheist/buddhist prefer (no christians)

- someone who hates office work, maybe exploring nomad lifestyle

- independent, non judgemental. listen more than judge

- someone who's not fussy in most things. (but doesn't mean they do not have preference or times they want something).
- generally chill

- positive mind set

- no accountants (had to much of bad experience)

 

I am non-possessive and maybe more nonchalant. I find people who knows what they want in life attractive. Tell me about your job, ideas, passion, stage in life. Can be at same place but each of us doing our own thing. Will be good to do a business together in the long term. Not into the idea we need to get married, gay rights, have kids. There's only so much time left. So I am not into KTV, mahjong, endless watching movie or going around finding next cuisine (once a while is fine for good food). Not that I do not like Michelin star restaurant. I do not need to travel the world, but some form of it is nice to understand culture or change of environment. But not going around mindless shopping or eating street food.  If you have a passion for any(thing), I won't stop (as we all have different stages in life) you as you should have your own life (choices) outside us.  And enjoy what you want to do. Support each other even if there's differences. Prefer to spend time on how to improve own life/health/finances. 

Prefer someone who has ideation to move out of singapore in the long term to an Asian country (thailand/vietnam/bali/nomad) by 50s or stay in a city few months in a year. 

 

I am not perfect and hopefully someone who will push each other to do better.

For your info, many strangers mistake me for a Japanese🇯🇵coz of my fair skin... & then u mentioned:

                                

<NO CHRISTIANS> & i went: shit :0(

                            

LOO

[30yochinese]

*LOL

[deepdiggin]

hello 😀

 

168/55, chinese 

discreet, boyish looking

enjoys chilling w netflix, watching movie, taking a walk, eating yummy food

simple and sincere guy looking for genuine friendship with someone similar (discreet and straight-acting)  

 

 

Edited September 9 by deepdiggin

[pusheenpika]

On 12/18/2022 at 11:29 AM, pusheenpika said:

Still looking,

still searching,

still hoping. 
 

Feels like it’s not meant to be. 
Feels like I’m at the wrong place; at the wrong time.

 

I’ve moved on in life. Got a place of my own, have loans to pay now, and still trying hard to lose the fossilised cake I ate a couple years’ back (you’ll unearth many at my waistline). 

 

Would be nice to have company in class at the gym, would be nice to go home to someone with a warm hug, would be fabulous to have a partner in crime discussing our next destination to empty our bank accounts at (ok, not the wisest in this economic climate).

 

Please be in your thirties. Please be stable (financially and emotionally). Please be open to taking things a little slower (this old man has trust issues sometimes and self-sabotage a lot). 
 

And if possible please be someone willing to explore and conquer the scary, metallic monstrosities at the gym (or at least know your way around). 

I’m willing to commit, and you should too. Oh and I love cats. Meow. 

 

 

 

 

 

Very available still. Will you fill my calendar with dates please? 

[neuwave]

Curiously, some individuals cling to the notion of an idealised relationship, characterised by constant romance and affection akin to what is portrayed in romantic films. However, it is important to recognise that a successful relationship is a collaborative effort between two individuals, and it requires sustained effort to keep it thriving. While companionship can be enjoyable, it is imperative to accept one another's imperfections and motivate each other towards self-improvement. No one is perfect, but by striving to become better versions of ourselves each day, we can strengthen our bond and grow as individuals. It is admirable to have personal preferences, but it is also crucial to assess our worthiness as a partner and to ensure that we contribute value to the other person's life, regardless of any differences that may exist. I extend my best wishes to all who seek to manifest the partner they deserve, and I urge you to approach your relationships with a mindset of growth, understanding, and mutual respect.

Edited April 1, 2023 by neuwave

[Friky]

I’m local chn 31yrs old btm, ht 170, 75kg.

Decent looking, average size and Not chubby.

working as a professional.

non smoker.

Hope to find the right person and have a meaningful rs again.
 

Prefer:

someone that is non smoker.

age 36 yrs old and below, Chinese.

not chubby and top/top ver.

abit outspoken will be a plus.

Im open to any possibility as well such as friends.

 

PM me to explore further!

[Ergonova1991]

32 c 176 80 local

 

 

https://t.me/leeweikang1991

Edited April 8, 2023 by Ergonova1991

[Grey91]

32 170 69

 

Let’s chat to get know each other ☺️

 

Prefer someone around my age. 

 

Telegram id: maxx_grey

 

 

Edited August 9, 2023 by Grey91

[Charles Goh]

Hi, hope to find a LTR or regular fun buddy with someone aged 21 to 55 who is straight acting.  I am Chinese, 59 years old (but look younger), 1.75m, 75kg, straight acting. Not toned or muscular, just average body. Caring, down to earth.  I enjoy reading, traveling, coffee, music, meditation. Please private me if you are keen to know me more. Regards, Charles 

Edited July 1, 2023 by Charles Goh
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[lancestars]

Hi, I'm 34/177/83 Top Chinese. Looking for: Someone who shares common interests. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other.

[exec_fetish]

42 Chinese 1.8m 68kg gymfit lean btm here. Looking for same age around me; preference for same height & weight range. 
 

Working professional looking for same. Other than working out, I also enjoy traveling, movies and coffee chats. Seeking like-minded too. 

[soulmate_365]

hi there im a 21 171 70 chn eastie here trying to look for a compatible partner.

im an outgoing extrovert that likes to explore new things, eat good food, and spend quality time with friends and love one.

i have an interest in film photography, cafe hopping, trekking and karaoke. i love cuddling in bed, conversing endlessly and doing new stuff together with my partner

i appreciate guys that are mature, compassionate, always looking out for others, charismatic and unafraid to show love.

i prefer someone thats around 22-27 thats taller than me and non-smoking

do not hesitate to DM me!!

[True079]

Seek regular straight acting Top buddies to hang out with. For meals, coffee and more.

 

43 chn, 181 94 , local discreet here. PM to get connected.

[Kopitiam]

39/173/68, chinese 

discreet, average looking

enjoys chilling w netflix, watching movie, nature walks, eating yummy food

simple and sincere guy looking for genuine friendship with someone similar (discreet and straight-acting).