Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[Nick94]

After lurking for a while I've finally decided to post 🫣

 

I'm Chinese, currently 29, 174 cm and 76 kg. Been rapidly losing weight over the last four months (-19 kg!) and targeting 70.

 

I don't look any special, but I hope my personality and gestures make up for it! 🤭

 

My (nerdy) hobbies include gaming, watching anime, singing and I also enjoy browsing Youtube and Reddit. I also am quite a foodie and love exploring new places to get good food!

 

I'm looking for someone to have a meaningful and loving long-term relationship with. I'm quite inexperienced in the local LGBTQ scene and with relationships in general.

 

Sex is something I'm willing to explore but it's not a priority over genuine affection, romance and intimacy. ❤️

 

Would prefer someone younger or around the same age as me (35 max), and lean or skinny (neither chubby nor very muscular). Plus points for also being a gamer and/or karaoke fan!

 

I do not smoke, party, gamble or drink, and would prefer if you don't as well, but it's not a deal-breaker.

 

DM me with an intro! Even if we aren't compatible in the end, I'd love to chat and make new friends! 😁

Edited March 23 by Nick94

[littlejesselyn]

Look for Malay pure top for ltr. Pls hit me up for love for each other

[KD964]

28

175/65kg

Role: Top

financially independent

 

Seeking partner/ltr

You:

below 32

Lean btm

Sincere n easy going

student or young working adult

 

Love to chill hangout cafes travel and do the things that we like. PM me and we can start from there.

 

[acsea]

Chinese

27, 171cm and 67kg 

Hobbies: singing, games, art, cycling, food, cooking, cafes and gym

 

Looking for a guy who has a mature mindset, financially stable and loving. Preferably someone who is same or taller and bigger built than me and someone who is emotionally independent as don't really need to meet daily coz of work commitment but will reply text daily and responsive when free/available. Don’t mind guys from 23-35 years old. Pm if your interested

[Alexwong]

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Edited April 1 by Alexwong

[pgnewbie1]

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Edited April 19 by pgnewbie1

[Sgxiaoboiboi]

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Edited March 29 by Sgxiaoboiboi

[Medicalbtm]

About me:

1. Local SG Chinese 

2. Age: 43yo

3. Height: 178cm

4. Weight: 73kg

5. Role: Btm

 

Looking for:

1. Financially independent professional

2. Manly tall guys. ( no chubby)

2. Sincere, loving and faithful guys.

3. He would like to travel, hiking, cycling, explore new places together and spending time cooking, baking together. (PS : know how to drive car too)

4. Pls be monogamous, not into open relationship. 

5. Age: 30+ to 47.

 

Kindly hit me up and get to know each other.

[kevin3487]

everything stated by friend 1st, 

but i looking for long term relationship here

 

i'm Chinese from Penang ya

about me ...174 ..57..35yo slim bottom guys here 

 

i'm looking for Chinese top guy 

hoped i can find a friendly and caring guy and would like to understanding guys

i dislike smoke and play guy 

pm if your interested and we can start to know each other more ya ..

[AlfredHI]

On 3/21/2024 at 9:45 AM, KD964 said:

28

175/65kg

Role: Top

financially independent

 

Seeking partner/ltr

You:

below 32

Lean btm

Sincere n easy going

student or young working adult

 

Love to chill hangout cafes travel and do the things that we like. PM me and we can start from there.

 

Hi,can I know u more? I'm from png

[AlfredHI]

On 3/11/2024 at 2:56 AM, JoeTanJoeTan said:

Hello All, 

 

Allow me to introduce myself hor. 
I am 36chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and fair normal-avg look, straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

Hi

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 37

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[blueday]

Hello! I am 34/173/74 Sg chinese.

Looking for dates and LTR (hopeful)

I enjoy coffee / tea, exploring nature through walking, gym classes, and leisurely swimming. Feel free to send me a private message if you'd like to chat further!

[Soulmates]

Been lurking here for ancients and I finally have the courage to post something.

 

I am 32c 172 67. I love anime, animals, Pokemon, some gaming, Neopets, K-pop and 2000s Taiwan Chinese songs. I am a homebody but love going out to find nice food and a day trip to JB most days. I am also a dogs owner. I personally am not in the best of health though, a head up! Love languages including cooking food for you and being absolutely there. 

 

I am more into intimacy and being there for each other over sex, but the latter is of course normal and fine too and we can explore on that. 

 

I am looking for people with similar interest and stats. I do not care what you look like as long as you’re close to similar stats to me and Chinese. I don’t know what else to type but hmu? Players and time wasters, keep away I am not looking for ONS.

Edited March 25 by Soulmates

[Daddy King]

Just try my luck...

 

I am 28 chi, 174cm, 70kg, Btm, local Penang lang, average body, gym sometime, normal average look (but many say cute la), straight acting. I like eat (but in small potion only), gaming and laze around with my close ones.

I am a part-time graphics designer and full time e-commerce boy, Currently start learning trading industry..still newbie..

 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF but before that we will know each other first for a period. Do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 

 

I am looking for straight acting, gym/exercise (just a preference), can gym together and travel or similar hobbies. 

Someone between 28-48 is okay but it depends on chemistry between us.

 

and the last things, no need to give me money okay..I can find it myself..

but if you force me to take it is lain cerita la..haha

Edited March 24 by Daddy King

[Derren]

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[Soulmates]

Been lurking here for ancients and I finally have the courage to post something.

 

I am 32c 172 67. I love anime, animals, Pokemon, some gaming, Neopets, K-pop and 2000s Taiwan Chinese songs. I am a homebody but love going out to find nice food and a day trip to JB most days. I am also a dogs owner. I personally am not in the best of health though, a head up! Love languages including cooking food for you and being absolutely there. 

 

I am more into intimacy and being there for each other over sex, but the latter is of course normal and fine too and we can explore on that. 

 

I am looking for people with similar interest and stats. I do not care what you look like as long as you’re close to similar stats to me and Chinese. I don’t know what else to type but hmu wi the your contact details (Tele etc.)? Players and time wasters, keep away I am not looking for ONS.

Edited March 26 by Soulmates

[tanwla]

Hi trying my luck…

 

I am:

34

chn

vers

170cm, 55kg

 

look for:

below 50

chn

vers/top

fit/slim/average

 

pls show pic…

 

dm if keen

[Lionesss2003]

Iii

Edited May 15 by Lionesss2003

[Soulmates]

On 3/26/2024 at 10:45 AM, Soulmates said:

Been lurking here for ancients and I finally have the courage to post something.

 

I am 32c 172 67. I love anime, animals, Pokemon, some gaming, Neopets, K-pop and 2000s Taiwan Chinese songs. I am a homebody but love going out to find nice food and a day trip to JB most days. I am also a dogs owner. I personally am not in the best of health though, a head up! Love languages including cooking food for you and being absolutely there. 

 

I am more into intimacy and being there for each other over sex, but the latter is of course normal and fine too and we can explore on that. 

 

I am looking for people with similar interest and stats. I do not care what you look like as long as you’re close to similar stats to me and Chinese. I don’t know what else to type but hmu wi the your contact details (Tele etc.)? Players and time wasters, keep away I am not looking for ONS.

bump

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[LookingforLTR]

I’m a 44 discreet local chn looking for a LTR /soulmate.

 

About me:

- Height 178cm

- Weight 78kg (Target :72kg / currently working out)

- Professional & Independent 

- Simple & easy-going guy

- Straight Acting & Discreet

- Enjoy Movies/ BLs /Netflix

- Loves Traveling & Cafes

- Non-smoker 

- Social Drinker (Once in a while only)

 

Looking for :

- Someone around (+-) 30 to 45

- Prefer Chinese 

- Average/ Tone / lean (willing to gym with me)

- Professional & Financially stable

- Independent & easy-going 

- Fun-loving & cheerful

- Straight Acting & Discreet

- Enjoy spending time together even if it’s just for a simple dinner / walking around in the mall aimlessly

- Willing to do silly things / activities with me once in a while 😂

- Enjoys Traveling

- Non-smoker / social or non drinker

- Very Importantly: Loves/Grooms & takes good care of himself

[ctrl]

Hello, looking for connections

 

Me:

-28 Chinese, btm

-175cm, 67kg, lean

-IT/Finance 

-Financially independent 

-Introvert 

-replies but not long replies 

-Things I love include manga, stocks, puzzle, gym, hypothesis conversation 

-Love language: quality time, physical touch

-Enjoys intimacy 

 

Looking for: 

-Someone older but < 36 

-Smell nice (Good hygiene) 

-Work out 

-Mature

-Take effort in relationship 

-Traditional values 

 

Let's chat in the forum chatbox before moving to telegram. 

[TrapAthena]

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Edited April 10 by TrapAthena

[Lover]

6 hours ago, TrapAthena said:

Hi, 26 years old Chinese crossdresser looking for friends(?) 

 

I don't know if I'm bisexual but I guess I'm open to meeting new friends? Not sure if it's the correct forum. I don't really know what to expect too 

 

Looking for 

-Matured man 

-Enjoys chatting 

Hi i have pm you

[Andrew240577]

On 3/16/2024 at 12:51 PM, Ticklemesm said:

43, 173, 70 ( i know almost everyone is the same) penang chinese discreet married, fit.

 

- looking for a close buddy who likes to gym as well who can gym together or enjoy sports activity who can also just find time who can talk about life and cuddle together.

- not into people who wish to borrow money, nsa

- age and location and status doesnt matter if willing to build relationship and perhaps travel to meet from time to time but do understand married people do have commitments.

 

If you think you fit the bill, do pm me. 😊

 

 

 

 

 

Hi looking for gym buddy. And long term meet up to discuss possible.

Edited April 9 by Andrew240577

[Keong692]

170/ 60kg/ 52yo chinese, professional. Pleasant looking, look younger than my age would suggest, slim/fit profile.

 

Bi married so need to be discreet.  

 

Looking for drinking buddies and like-minded friends who are able to hold an intellectual & mature conversation, non-judgemental and not take themselves too seriously.

 

I like chilling out over drinks, stimulating conversation with fit, open-minded and non-judgemental people who aren't afraid of laughing at themselves.

 

You should be able to hold a decent and mature conversation over drinks. 

 

To be clear, drinks mean beer, stout, whiskey, alcohol, etc. Please don't be a cheapo and DM asking me out for kopi or tea. I'm not interested... Sheesh... 

 

Note that I'm NOT looking to DTF and am definitely NOT interested in meeting up for action or 'coffee' followed by action in a toilet or some deserted place. If that's what you're after, don't bother calling me.  

 

Strictly Friends first before fun.  

 

Note that it may take a while to build the trust and friendship, so please be sure you're sincere on wanting a friendship and willing to put in the effort to get to know each other.  And if there's chemistry, then many things are possible and we can see where it leads to.  

 

I'm very open minded and can be very kinky once I get comfortable with you. I'm also very particular about personal hygiene and only safe activities always. Discreetness and trust is very important.

 

You should also be relatively fit, pleasant looking and of similar body build. My pics in my profile. No offence but no chubs please, just a personal preference.

 

DM me with your stats and intro and we'll take it from there.

 

Note - One liners (or one word) intros get ignored. If you can't even be bothered to type a proper DM and intro yourself properly, well, nuff said... 

 

Cheers,

Kay

 

Bonus: If Pet Shop Boys, Depeche Mode, a-Ha & Bananarama make you move your body & head to the dance floor, what are you waiting for? Hit me up asap... 

Edited April 12 by Keong692

[kenzo299]

Me 

- 32 this year 

- Chinese

- 180cm / 63kg 

 

Looking for long term with someone with a similar profile (chinese) and who is lean and around the same age as me. 

[vinc88]

35 chi 175 70 side

seek discreet LTR

[sgind]

Seeking a bf who's witty, charming and gregarious. Someone who can be my partner in crime, my confidante, and my biggest cheerleader. 
 

I’m a local professional, 32 175 76 who enjoys socializing, travelling, and seeking out adventure and new experiences.

 

Slide into my DM to connect.

 

Oh, you'rе something like a sunrise
Pretty to my mind
Soothing to my soul
Watching the world spin one more time

And I hope (I hope) you know (you know)

Even when it doesn't show, mm-mmh

I'll run through fire for you (for you)
Whatever I gotta do
Give you my heart while it beats
'Cause with you's where I wanna be

[skybabylister]

36 chi 170 71 

 

seek discreet LTR

[boyastro]

Hello there!

I'm 45 166 66 chn. 

Working professional, financially stable. Non-smoker, social drinker. Homey person. Enjoy travelling, swimming, yoga, reading, jazz, coffee and wine. DM to explore. Incline to develop ltr with one who has mature thinking, stable emotion and down to earth. Thanks for reading!  

[Greenbirdydec]

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Edited November 8 by Greenbirdydec

[junyuan]

28,170,62,b

 

open to new connections

Edited April 16 by junyuan

[lancestars]

Hi, I'm 35/177/83 stocky Top Chinese. Looking for long term relation who shares common interests like enjoying food, travel around, go café just to sit down enjoy the aircon and to go swimming or even hiking. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other. anyone can just message me

[LeanToneSgChinese]

 

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Edited April 19 by LeanToneSgChinese

[Bozzz]

Myself…

44 local chn side top, 171cm, almost 75KG 😭. Staying north (if that’s important).

Often travel Thailand for temple hoping. Love cute stuffs eg. Doraemon. But not childish thinker. Not a sugar daddy too as I don’t have any sugar jar.

 

Looking for

Local/Malaysia/thai Chn below 42yrs old to  🤔. Who loves travelling….. nearby countries like Malaysia up to Japan. Non smoker…. Str8 acting. 
if buddy together go gym will be best. 

[smart88]

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Edited June 21 by smart88

[UnitedBoy]

About myself (new to this forum)

 

- 32 (Chinese lean) 

- Working professional

- Looking for a partner of a similar profile. 

 

Edited April 18 by UnitedBoy

[Roxas]

Hi there,

 

37 Chinese, 1.74m and 77kg, side

Interest: play console games, watch anime and TV show, enjoy strolling and travel

 

Looking for a partner with similar profile. Feel free to leave me a message, and exchange contact.

[tanwla]

On 3/29/2024 at 9:12 AM, tanwla said:

Hi trying my luck…

 

I am:

34

chn

vers

170cm, 55kg

 

look for:

below 50

chn

vers/top

fit/slim/average

 

pls show pic…

 

dm if keen

Bump

[ltr]

On 4/18/2024 at 8:02 PM, smart88 said:

Left with 2 more months is 1yr anniversary for me in this bw forum. I had tried of searching for the person who is younger than me (around 29-40), clean, safe, discreet and wants to become my bro. Well, I have to admit that it is not easy and sometimes I just think of give up browsing in bw and closing the account. 

 

Anyway, I want to give myself a last chance again and see that I have the luck to look for this special person in the universe. Perhaps none and I am wasting my time? Well, I am opened for anyone to make friends with me but would prefer the person to be Chinese, Iess than 40yrs old, average/decent looking, slim/fit, discreet, safe, clean and likes to chat. As for me, I am 45yrs, also decent good looking person, discreet, married chi, have professional job. I love to travel, enjoy great food, listen to music and others.

 

I am living in Penang, don't mind for long distance relationship. We can figure out something that may works for us later. Lastly, I will respect your privacy, so do you.

 

If you fit the bill, you can telegram me at id : smart8898

Pm . From Penang too

[J21]

On 4/18/2024 at 8:40 AM, lancestars said:

Hi, I'm 35/177/83 stocky Top Chinese. Looking for long term relation who shares common interests like enjoying food, travel around, go café just to sit down enjoy the aircon and to go swimming or even hiking. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other. anyone can just message me

Count on me

[J21]

I'm 29 162 65 (stocky) .. looking for men above my age who are keen to meet, dates, and travelling together. From penang here and in a professional jobs. And who are with sense of humour. Swim or hike together. Love nature. Do pm me...

[LeanToneSgChinese]

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Edited April 20 by LeanToneSgChinese

[1983rophi]

4 hours ago, LeanToneSgChinese said:

Hey guys ! 

 

Thanks for spending your time reading my post in advance. 

 

I'm local Chinese average looking , standing at 169cm/60kg lean and toned due to 5x cycling a week, jogging and nature/ beach walk too. I'm also into staycation and short trips to neighbouring countries too. Movies , music, Netflix which I like to do when at home relaxing. I trying to practice my massage skill if you like to try too. 

I am easy going , friendly and loving person. 

For my preference, I do not mind about race, age , looks , build and hopefully someone who loves nature/beach , sincere and serious in LTR . 

Write to me if you are interested to know me further and we can chat on telegram if you like.

Thanks again for your time reading my post . Cheers & have a great day ahead ! 😊 😃 

thanks for posting/sharing, If you don't mind me being frank, the only thing that I CAN RELATE WITH, is i paid $300 at massage school to do a "CERTIFICATE IN OIL MASSAGE" & able to practice the skill is a bonus for me, BUT WHEN I PRACTICE MASSAGE FOR THIRTY MINUTES ITS DAMN TIRING for my arm muscles & i can only do it for 20min, haha

[Rain168]

Trying my luck here.

 

Hi,

 

I’m 31 171 70 local chinese bottom looking for LTR. My hobbies include video games, gym, mahjong, listening to political/historical podcasts. I also enjoy just cuddling on the bed, feeling each others warmth in the silence.  Looking for someone passionate, knowledgeable and intellectual where we can discuss opinions and topics about the world. Also looking for someone sincere and willing to commit. 

 

In terms of physical attributes, would prefer someone around my height or taller, and someone that keeps himself decently fit.

 

Can PM me if interested. Cheers and all the best to everyone else looking for a LTR!

Edited April 20 by Rain168

[Flexiguy]

Discreet 45/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies with me.

 

DIslike:
X People that like's to Dominate others
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy

X No Fwb
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy

Looking for:  Fem Boy, Sissy, Ladyboy for LTR

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese, Malay
Slim, Skinny ,Average - Flex,Versatile, Top, Btm

46yrs old and Below 

 

Hit me up if we have lost contact before.

If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You!

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[BobbyL]

Hi all,

 

I m Bob, 32/185/80/0.5, Chi from Perak, Malaysia. I am staying at centre area. Want to find a stable long term relationship 

 

Body in progress. Hope to have some one can gym and travel together, accompany each other when free time.

 

Preferrance:

Top, around my age, work professionally, willing to spend time with each other. 

 

My tele is Bobl992.