Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[Derren]

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[Wanna]

On 4/25/2024 at 2:02 AM, AdTan said:

I’m 41 Chi 172 70 gymtone manly verB staying in the west. 

I have been out of a long termed relationship for about 2-3 years. I’m straight acting and rather top-ish in behaviour but taking the btm role due to fear of disappointing the btms (older guys will probably know what I mean haha)
 

Trying out my luck here and tired of all those online dating apps. Too many catfishes, too much talks. 
 

Call me old fashioned but I kinda miss the times when we can only meet up in person and invest time in getting to know one another over a meal and a real date rather than just texting ‘how are you’ and ‘how’s your day’. 
 

Seeking guys around my age or younger. Preferably lean/fit top.

You have to be a dog-lover too btw 

 

Pm

[LeanToneSgChinese]

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Edited June 15 by LeanToneSgChinese

[Flexiguy]

Discreet 45/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies with me.

 

DIslike:
X People that like's to Dominate others
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy

X No Fwb
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy

Looking for:  Fem Boy, Sissy, Ladyboy for LTR

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese, Malay
Slim, Skinny ,Average - Flex,Versatile, Top, Btm

46yrs old and Below 

 

Hit me up if we have lost contact before.

If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You!

[tanwla]

Hello, trying my luck here… anyone keen to take things further can dm me… pic is me… am 34 chn 170/55 vers

[seekBJatCBD]

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Edited August 25 by seekBJatCBD

[i_love_leg]

Hi, I'm 28 this year 2024 and im chinese 

My Height: 180cm & My weight: 95kg (with belly).

Year 2 Student: NTU

Horoscope: pisces ♓ 

My position for anal sex is TOP. (about 5.4inch long, 14cm and is thick)

Fact is that I have feet fetish and it consist me videoing ur sole feet, sniff, lick and u could easily ease my sexual needs with your feet by allowing me to jerk off and cum at your feet. I don't cum easily by blowjob and sex by the way!

 

Who i'm finding?

Slim guy/non chhb who is near my age or younger and I'm really attracted to passive & obedient boy!

Definitely you have to be vers or btm and pleasent looking to me. (like who doesn't go for now a day? 😁)

Able to commit to the relationship in terms of traveling if we live far apart but you got to be in Singapore.

Best if you are out of the closet cause it's kinda tiring to have secret relationship as i will love to let the whole world know that you are my boy and do tiktok together! 🥰 

If possible, able to wear same pair of socks for days as the smells will make me even hard on! (Theory similar to pops).

 

Friend + FWB as a trial period before going into official relationship first!

 

What will we be doing most likely?

Create a home for both of us.

Cuddling at my place or your place.

Go out for Dates like every other normal couple.

You gonna start infesting my tiktok account by create tiktok content together and makes people jealous!

Go to malysia, JB, to have eating spree and 1 night vacation!

Go to other country together like Thailand, china or Taiwan together!

 

Last but not least, I'm out to my family and they are cool with it.

Interested parties do feel free to contact me via telegram @lovehandsomefeet

Please make sure you are slim/non chub and you are near my age or younger to avoid wasting of time thanks!

 

Someone who is kinda fat with bellys... 😆

[1983rophi]

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Edited June 10 by 1983rophi
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[EastSgDad]

Any local SG Chinese flex / btm seeking mature 55 chn? Into Exclusive Relationship ? Residing in East / NE SG

 

Are you below 35yo? Discreet, decent, Straight-act/look?

 

Are you non-chub?

 

Explore, experience and enjoy together. 

 

Pm me if you are keen to know Mature 55 chn.

Edited May 20 by EastSgDad

[warnarat]

Hey y’all 👋🏼 

Am earnestly and seriously looking now so here goes.

Me:

I’m 32 (going 33 in Sep), 1.73/65, Singaporean.

- restarting gym to tone up again

- enjoys netflix/youtube, singing, reading

- non-smoker, drink socially and occasionally

- average, non-scene and discreet to some groups of people in my life

 

Looking for someone into a stable and committed long-term relationship. 

 

You:

- Preferably 30-40

- Top/Side

- Commit monogamously

- Accept me for who I am
- Preferably living in the East**

**Not the most important.

 

Hmu on tele if this gets to you: @eugexey

Edited May 25 by warnarat

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 37

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Stormliberator]

Hi,

 

Just attempting this again after some turbulent time.

 

I am 28 (going 29), 180, 78 local chinese.

 

My hobbies: Badminton, Anime, slowly getting my body in shape, travelling

 

What i am looking for: A no drama LTR rs with the right one

 

Please do not message if you are into super fit guys as my body is still a work in progress.

 

Preferences:

1) Someone with age +/- 5 years

2) Vers/ Btm

3) Around my weight/ lesser than mine is a plus

4) Only for monogamous relationship

5) SG PR minimum- i had my fair bad experience with non PR

6) Loves cuddles/ intimacy, anal sex not a must but can do.

 

Pls DM me if you feel we fit. Thanks

 

Edited June 6 by Stormliberator

[1983rophi]

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[1983rophi]

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[jcy]

About me:

Age - 27

HT - 168

WT - 68

Local Singaporean Chinese

Side/Btm

Non-smoker, rarely drink.

Your typical chinese good boy i guess. 

 

Hoping to try my luck here again. Am looking for someone around my age or older than me, a drama-free and chill relationship would be great. Send a DM if you feel we can click

[Soulmates]

On 3/24/2024 at 12:17 PM, Soulmates said:

Been lurking here for ancients and I finally have the courage to post something.

 

I am 32c 172 67. I love anime, animals, Pokemon, some gaming, Neopets, K-pop and 2000s Taiwan Chinese songs. I am a homebody but love going out to find nice food and a day trip to JB most days. I am also a dogs owner. I personally am not in the best of health though, a head up! Love languages including cooking food for you and being absolutely there. 

 

I am more into intimacy and being there for each other over sex, but the latter is of course normal and fine too and we can explore on that. 

 

I am looking for people with similar interest and stats. I do not care what you look like as long as you’re close to similar stats to me and Chinese. I don’t know what else to type but hmu? Players and time wasters, keep away I am not looking for ONS.

Thanks all who messaged me, but I got attached to someone already and is now in a relationship.

 

I know it is very hard to find your other half in a small community like Singapore’s, I’ve had my fair shares of players, people who gave up after just a day of dating, and a lot who aren’t looking for LTR and looking to settle like us.

 

But never give up! May all of you land a beautiful relationship soon.

[Baredom]

7 hours ago, Soulmates said:

Thanks all who messaged me, but I got attached to someone already and is now in a relationship.

 

I know it is very hard to find your other half in a small community like Singapore’s, I’ve had my fair shares of players, people who gave up after just a day of dating, and a lot who aren’t looking for LTR and looking to settle like us.

 

But never give up! May all of you land a beautiful relationship soon.

This is a wonderful story to start the week. I’m happy for you. Always wondered if this kind of thing worked. Wish you the best. 

[Soulmates]

6 hours ago, Baredom said:

This is a wonderful story to start the week. I’m happy for you. Always wondered if this kind of thing worked. Wish you the best. 

Thankyou.

i do hope things work out 🤞🏻

[lancestars]

Hi, I'm 35/177/83 stocky Top Chinese. Looking for long term relation who shares common interests like enjoying food, travel around, go café just to sit down enjoy the aircon and to go swimming or even hiking. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other. anyone can just message me.

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[1983rophi]

On 5/27/2024 at 12:25 AM, Soulmates said:

Thanks all who messaged me, but I got attached to someone already and is now in a relationship.

 

I know it is very hard to find your other half in a small community like Singapore’s, I’ve had my fair shares of players, people who gave up after just a day of dating, and a lot who aren’t looking for LTR and looking to settle like us.

 

But never give up! May all of you land a beautiful relationship soon.

Congratulations ❤️😍😘

[Aphorism]

Hello, was wondering why not give it a try, and see if anyone has similar life views/interests?

 

Age: 33

Height: 175

Weight: 95

Role: Vers, Side

Interests/hobbies: Netflix, Gaming, Reading, Animation, Travelling, Swimming.

Just your average Singaporean, who enjoys discovering delicious food in sg, playing online/offline games on weekends, if not out and about exploring what the country can offer (namely cafe, movies, occasional scenic hunt.) Am trying to lose more weight and get back into shape, so anyone with tips do please share!

Staying in the East (If that matters). I'm looking for someone to grow together with, so not into hookups, neither fun.

 

A preferred partner would be someone of a similar age (+/-5), height and build don't really matter too much to me, but he must not be deeply closeted (out close friends/friends/family). Someone who is able to communicate, is mature, have a good career and healthy. 

 

Anyone interested, can feel free to send me a telegram @zhaozhaozhao  thank you for reading!

Edited May 29 by Aphorism

[Stormliberator]

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Edited June 30 by Stormliberator

[EastSgDad]

Seeking Monogamous Dad-Son cum BFF cum BF cum Regular LTR

 

Me:

 

Local SG chinese 55 180 66

Top position 

Slim smooth bod with slight daddy belly

Enjoy (freeballing) walking-exercise

Decent looking / straight acting / very discreet 

Non-smoker / not a good drinker

Always topless in boxers

Residing in East SG

 

Into:

Netflix (mystery, thriller, horror, korean), travelling, cooking, nature, bowling 

A day in at home over weekends is perfectly fine to me

NOT into ONS Fun

 

 

My preference:

Local SG chinese below 32

shorter / similar height 

Weight average BUT NO CHUB..

NO SISSY / CD 

Average to fit so we can go for exercise together

Decent looking / discreet 

(For working Boy: Be financially comfortable as we can travel at least once annually)

Have a sense of humour but can be serious if need be

Btm / vers / top / curious / straight 

Caring and not emotionally unavailable

Filial and respectful - respectable 

Knows what he wants and not afraid to call the shots in the relationship

 

If interested, please DM me with some brief introductions why you think we match. We can exchange telegram and take it from there!

 

Thank you for reading!

[DerekTan1970]

Seek Chinese mid40s, early 50s reasonably fit, mature, independent for companionship/relationship. Not actively looking for hookups.

 

I am 54, stocky Chinese 180 90 with a dad bod, stable job and income, seeking someone slightly younger to hang out with, look after, care for and love. Exercise, dining, cafe-hopping, conversations. English-speaking a plus.

[True079]

I'm attracted to guys who have a masculine appearance. I'm wondering if anyone's interested in dating and getting to know me?

 

If you're in your mid-40s or older and looking for a companion or buddy, feel free to send me a private message.

 

My stats: 45 years old, Chinese, 181cm tall, 87kg. I identify as a pure bottom.

Edited June 1 by True079

[True079]

Hi there.

I'm 45, a straight-acting bottom. 1.81m. 87Kg. Local Chinese.

 

I'm seeking out respectful, manly, intelligent, and discreet gentlemen.

 

If you're interested in getting to know me for friendship or companionship, please PM me.

[BeKind21Another]

Hi!

Local malay VersBtm, 40yo, 173cm, 90+kg, average stocky chub. 

 

Enjoys time with people of interest, Netflix, movies, music, some outdoor/indoor activities, planned getaways. 

 

Here looking for new friends, dates and LTR. 

 

Pref: Personable, friendly, stable, communicative, masculine, active, committed, enjoys hugs/cuddles, -10 years/same age difference, local/PR.

 

So, if you think there is a chance of match, pls dm me and let's talk! 

[EastSgDad]

Any SG CHINESE Boy (flex) btm below 34 is into Exclusive Dad-Son Relationship ... celebrating Father's Day with me?

Pm me to chat / find out more...

Edited June 6 by EastSgDad

[royleeshun]

Please be careful with this user!
 

He PMs me for my Telegram ID. After being added, he keeps asking for pictures but refuses to show his own. He also keeps claiming he is a good-looking person. WTH! 🤦‍♀️

You guys add him at your own risk!
Good luck! 

[Krippar]

On 6/1/2024 at 9:25 AM, DerekTan1970 said:

Seek Chinese mid40s, early 50s reasonably fit, mature, independent for companionship/relationship. Not actively looking for hookups.

 

I am 54, stocky Chinese 180 90 with a dad bod, stable job and income, seeking someone slightly younger to hang out with, look after, care for and love. Exercise, dining, cafe-hopping, conversations. English-speaking a plus.

Tele : @Krippar

Looking for travel, hangout, workout buddy.

[tanwla]

Hello  

[EastSgDad]

17 hours ago, tanwla said:

Hello  

Your single word "hello" is so powerful and 'catchy' 😀💪🏽

Edited June 9 by EastSgDad

[bigboyclubsg]

Shall attempt this as part of putting myself out there!

 

Age: 35

Height: 183

Weight: 118

Role: Top.Side

Interests/hobbies: Retrogaming, Pokémon, Horror, Literature, Theatre, Netflix, Animation

 

Tryna explore and put myself out there to make new mates and go on dates!

 

Quite open to all types of dudes out there but of course, mutual attraction is key!

 

Hmu if you're interested and would like to chat!

[grandy]

On 6/7/2024 at 12:40 AM, royleeshun said:

 

Please be careful with this user!
 

He PMs me for my Telegram ID. After being added, he keeps asking for pictures but refuses to show his own. He also keeps claiming he is a good-looking person. WTH! 🤦‍♀️

You guys add him at your own risk!
Good luck! 

Thanks for sharing your experience! I just blocked him too, he seems too persistent and I'm not comfortable conversing in a one-way conversation.

[Guest DonsonKwa]

local mature chinese here seeking companionship/relationship into travel / kopi. 

once in a while enjoy good food. go trekking, exercise.  keeping each other acompany.

 

I am mature  70chn  1.69  50 staying in the west area.

I am non-smoker,  social drinker but can drink much. 

I am slim still in physical condition.  I like travel & financial stable.

I like to listen to classical music, soft music &  homely type.

I'm english speaking,  my mandarin so so nah.

mostly wkend stay at hm to avoid crowd

 

seeking a person (chn / mly), sorry my preference age btw 45 - 55.

do not mind younger (30-40) if u can get along with mature.

u hv to be non-smoker, slim built or average.  no chub pls. 

u hv to be financially stable & independence.  hv same interests.

mutual respect to both parties. 

 

HMU  @JKLT2208

[1983rophi]

On 6/7/2024 at 12:40 AM, royleeshun said:

 

Please be careful with this user!
 

He PMs me for my Telegram ID. After being added, he keeps asking for pictures but refuses to show his own. He also keeps claiming he is a good-looking person. WTH! 🤦‍♀️

You guys add him at your own risk!
Good luck! 

Thx for the tip-off =0)

[Kimochi]

5 hours ago, 1983rophi said:

Thx for the tip-off =0)

Welcome to add to the list. 

 

http://blowingwind.io/forum/topic/109319-post-catfish-people-here-~/#comment-2528350

[junyuan]

Hi guys, im 28,170,63,b 

 

here for dates with guys between the age of 25-38.

 

my interests: travelling, ktv, chinese animation 

[buddy4life]

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Edited July 28 by buddy4life

[True079]

Hi there.

I'm 45, a straight-acting bottom. 1.81m. 87Kg. Local Chinese.

 

I'm seeking out respectful, manly, intelligent, and discreet gentlemen who seek for companionship or buddy 

 

If you're interested in getting to know me for friendship or companionship, please PM me.

[lancestars]

Hi, I'm 35/177/83 stocky Top Chinese. Looking for long term relation who shares common interests like enjoying food, travel around, go café just to sit down enjoy the aircon and to go swimming or even hiking. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other. anyone can just message me.

[sgind]

 

Looking for a bf who's witty, charming and gregarious. Someone who can be my partner in crime, my confidante, and my biggest cheerleader. 
 

I’m a local professional, 32 175 78 who enjoys socializing, travelling, and seeking out adventure and new experiences.

 

Slide into my DM to connect.

 

Oh, you'rе something like a sunrise
Pretty to my mind
Soothing to my soul
Watching the world spin one more time

And I hope (I hope) you know (you know)

Even when it doesn't show, mm-mmh

I'll run through fire for you (for you)
Whatever I gotta do
Give you my heart while it beats
'Cause with you's where I wanna be

[SportyExec]

Hi, I'm Chinese 40/169/57 sporty exec ...slim build, discreet, straight acting.

 

Attracted to sporty mature man between 40 to 55 or similar age + - 2yrs, flex btm maybe? 170 to 175 just nice..prefer elder than me.. also meaty a bit (>68kg? good to hug? hahaha). Not into feminine character. Manly is such a turn on.

 

Hope to know sincere mature professional seeking discreet relationship.

 

Please PM and exchange tele if ok.

Edited June 17 by SportyExec

[maturechubby]

47 local Chinese 173 74...slim down but can't change the username 😅😅😅

 

looking for a soulmate and buddy

[JoeTanJoeTan]

 

Hello All, 

 

Allow me to introduce myself hor. 
I am Singaporean, 36chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and fair normal-avg look, straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

[smart88]

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Edited June 29 by smart88

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 37

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Kaki74]

Hi.

 

174/69/50 chinese here. Straightacting, white collar and discreet. Gym, swim, massage and onsen. Enjoy comedies and varieties, anything funny. Hope to find friends who have similar stats and hobbies.