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Seeking a witty, charming and gregarious bf. Local professional, 32 175 77 here. I enjoy socializing, travelling, and seeking out adventure and new experiences.

 

PM to connect.

 

When the evening shadows and the stars appear
And there is no one there to dry your tears
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love

 

I know you haven't made your mind up yet
But I would never do you wrong
I've known it from the moment that we met
No doubt in my mind where you belong

 

I could make you happy, make your dreams come true
Nothing that I wouldn't do
Go to the ends of the Earth for you
To make you feel my love.

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helloos!

 

info abt me!!!

• 18yo musician science stream JC student

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years)

• stay in the east! (optional)

• preferrably has the same interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3)

 

hmu on tele @fthsngwn if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

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On 7/8/2024 at 8:56 PM, tanwla said:

Hello,

 Me

- 34yrs

- 170cm

- 55kg

- chn

- vers

- enjoys swim, lift weights, push ups, watch dramas/movies, play mobile games

 

Look for

- not older than 50yrs

- slim/fit/muscular

- chn/white

- vers/top


can add me on telegram @algin2

Bump

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On 8/6/2024 at 2:25 PM, LookingforLTR said:

 

I’m a 44 discreet local chn looking for a LTR /soulmate.

 

About me:

- Height 178cm

- Weight 78kg (Target :72kg / currently working out)

- Professional & Independent 

- Simple & easy-going guy

- Straight Acting & Discreet

- Enjoy Movies/ BLs /Netflix

- Loves Traveling & Cafes

- Non-smoker 

- Social Drinker (Once in a while only)

 

Looking for :

- Someone around (+-) 30 to 45

- Prefer Chinese 

- Average/ Tone / lean (willing to gym with me)

- Professional & Financially stable

- Independent & easy-going 

- Fun-loving & cheerful

- Straight Acting & Discreet

- Enjoy spending time together even if it’s just for a simple dinner / walking around in the mall aimlessly

- Willing to do silly things / activities with me once in a while 😂

- Enjoys Traveling

- Non-smoker / social or non drinker

- Very Importantly: Loves/Grooms & takes good care of himself

Hi, keen to connect?

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@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

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Me:

174/68/50yo local chinese. Discreet straight-acting professional. Into gym, swim and massages. Watch online clips.

 

Looking for:

Discreet chinese friends in late 30s and 40s. Similar stats and hobbies.

 

Pm me 

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On 7/8/2024 at 8:56 PM, tanwla said:

Hello,

 Me

- 34yrs

- 170cm

- 55kg

- chn

- vers

- enjoys swim, lift weights, push ups, watch dramas/movies, play mobile games

 

Look for

- not older than 50yrs

- slim/fit/muscular

- chn/white

- vers/top


can add me on telegram @algin2

Bump

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Reposting 

 

1. Name: Joel
2. Age: 44
3. Height: 185cm
4. Weight: 94kg
5. Role: Bottom
6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 
7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 
8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

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Hello there. I am:
Chinese, 40

180 cm, 78 kg (target <70-75kg)

Bottom

Quiet introvert type who's happy to stay at home to play games and watch shows. I go out mainly to exercise or socialise. Physically average and I do more cardio than strength. Straight acting but androgynous (past partner liked feminization but I'm open to vanilla or hearing out your kink). No ONS or casual fun please.

 

Looking for a top cool guy between 35 - 60 for long term exclusive intimacy bff. Very happy with my life so not looking for life partner type relationships that come with family, finances and all that shizz (absolute no-no). A LT friendship where we can have drinks, chill, grab a meal once every week or two is ideal.

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@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

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On 5/27/2024 at 12:17 AM, jcy said:

About me:

Age - 27

HT - 168

WT - 68

Local Singaporean Chinese

Side/Btm

Non-smoker, rarely drink.

Your typical chinese good boy i guess. 

 

Hoping to try my luck here again. Am looking for someone around my age or older than me, a drama-free and chill relationship would be great. Send a DM if you feel we can click :)

Bumping this :) Feel free to reach out! 

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Believe in Love (for Singles)
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Dear fellow Believer in Love

 

Our chat group is created for single gay men who are sincerely and actively looking for friendship with a view towards a serious relationship. Currently with 200 members, we have had the privilege to give our blessings to several couples! 

 

We are a welcoming and friendly community of genuine people who want to get to know to each other better. Participants will be required to post a profile of themselves as a starting point for genuine conversations to begin. We  organize activities for singles to get to know each other and create opportunities for friendship and romance to blossom. Activities include makan, boardgames, ktv, pet cafe visits, chit-chat sessions and many more!

Join us if you want to meet other singles who also believe in love. Judgmental people with toxic attitudes and lurkers, please find another group!

 

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See you!

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Introverted and geeky in mid 30s. Loves traveling, hiking, nature and plants. Self proclaimed foodie. Starting to work out recently. Typical guy next door kind of person who likes to spend the weekends chilling away.

Looking for someone (chinese, non-smoker) preferably in his late 20s to 30s. If any of the above catches your eye, drop me a message, and we can see how it goes from there. Nerdy and specs will be a bonus (I wear specs too).  

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On 8/18/2024 at 2:53 PM, Midagecd said:

Hello there. I am:
Chinese, 40

180 cm, 78 kg (target <70-75kg)

Bottom

Quiet introvert type who's happy to stay at home to play games and watch shows. I go out mainly to exercise or socialise. Physically average and I do more cardio than strength. Straight acting but androgynous (past partner liked feminization but I'm open to vanilla or hearing out your kink). No ONS or casual fun please.

 

Looking for a top cool guy between 35 - 60 for long term exclusive intimacy bff. Very happy with my life so not looking for life partner type relationships that come with family, finances and all that shizz (absolute no-no). A LT friendship where we can have drinks, chill, grab a meal once every week or two is ideal.

Hello, keen to connect?

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On 8/9/2024 at 9:19 AM, jcboy18 said:

helloos!

 

info abt me!!!

• 18yo musician science stream JC student

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years)

• stay in the east! (optional)

• preferrably has the same interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3)

 

hmu on tele @fthsngwn if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

bump

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I’m a 41 discreet local chn looking for a LTR 

 

I am 172 70 straight acting. 

- EnjoyNetflix, dramas, news, documentary

- like nature oarks, jog and park connrctors

- Non-smoker  

 

Looking for 35 to 46, chinese, average/lean. 

Willingly to spend quality time, travelling, non smoker and  have own dreams. I prefer someone who take initiative and mutual serious in ltr and monogamous Independent to take care own and communicator. 

 

Pardon if slow or no reply as i prefer give exclusive to someone who i feel as potential

 

Cheers . 

 

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On 8/9/2024 at 9:19 AM, jcboy18 said:

helloos!

 

info abt me!!!

• 18yo musician science stream JC student

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years)

• stay in the east! (optional)

• preferrably has the same interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3)

 

hmu on tele @fthsngwn if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

bump and hmu if interested!!

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3 minutes ago, smart88 said:

Hi, I am 46/178/69, married, discreet and professional chi guy living in Penang, looking for someone <40yrs old, chi, married only, discreet, clean, safe, not chubby (just preference) for friends. Can start as friends and explore more if clicked. Can text me at telegram: smart8898

Pm

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174/68/50yo chinese here. Gym, swim, tan and massages. Watching online clips.

 

Looking for buddies (late 30s and 40s). Share similar interests. Straight-acting and discreet. Prefer singles who have a sense of humour. 

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1. Name: skybaby

2. Age: 35 years old. 

3. Height: 170cm

4. Weight: 74 kg (average) 

5. Role: Versatile 

6. Interests/hobbies: gym, swimming, cooking and baking

5. Self-description: Simple and down to earth guy who is always friendly and kind to the people around me. 

6. The kind of guy I hope to be with: Chinese guy (Age between 30 to 45) only. (No offense to other races as this is my preference) Sincere, committed, financially stable.

7. Other remarks: Aim to have a long term relationship.

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1. Name: if you are not the one 

2. Age: 43

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: top (needs practise as I anal only with dates) / side

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF, plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. 

 

7. Self-description: was happily dating for 6 months, till the ex date told me “we are not living similar lives and I shouldn’t just give in to him” after we came back on a trip and I got thrown off the bus. Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by him but I guess it takes two hands to clap. I guess in life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets me, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area . Life’s too short for dramas.

 

10. i don’t believe that in a relationship; both need to be like “peas in a pod”, sometimes I believe if you like someone, you will try to change for the person if he is worth it. I think if there is some similar things we like, that would be good. I always believe in a relationship, you complement each other and let each other learn from each other for the better

 

11. I believe that a relationship should start from lust, love, and eventually kinship/family, not sure if this is realistic but this is what I felt. 

 

if you really are keen to have a date, to know each other more, message me.

 

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Live and let live

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On 5/6/2024 at 11:12 AM, Xal said:

Age: 30

 

Height: 187

Weight: 124

Role: Top

Interests/hobbies: Singing, Travelling, Cooking, Eating

 

Self-description: 

I am a str8 acting and very straight forward person that can be quite spontaneous if i have the time.

Also, i am a very protective person by nature.

 

My time is mainly spent on work and friends, and hopefully a partner in the equation in the near future.

 

Currently going to gym and hopefully cut down my weight.

 

P.s. i am a planner. I plan for things. And have a calendar filled with things that matters.

 

The kind of guy I envision to be with: 

A str8 acting, kind and self driven person.

Body wise, anything except chub (sorry just a preference)

Bump :)

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Looking to find someone for the long term to cuddle and spend time with. :P

 

About me

Late 20s, bottom, chinese, chub/cub (170cm, 100kg), financially stable, interests include travelling, tabletop gaming like board games, and video games, geeky spec-wearing guy who don't drink or smoke, have a wacky personality with sense of humour, tend to be always horny with high sex drive 

 

Seeking

Someone around my age below 40 years old, top or versatile, chinese, lean/stocky/bearish (as long as not the extremes is fine), hopefully geeky and have a good sense of humour as well so we can geek out together, bonus if have own place to regularly cuddle together 

 

Drop me a DM if you fit what I'm seeking~

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Hii I'm looking for someone around my age... rlly embarrassing but ig I'm tryna find a boyfriend lol u can contact me on tele:@DekuDUM 

 

About me:

- Height 179cm

- Weight 67kg  

- Lowkey a weeb HAHA

- Enjoy horror movies

- Non-smoker 

- Non Drinker

- Chinese (but quite tan haha)

 

 

Looking for :

- Someone around (+-) 18 to 21

- Prefer Chinese (Korean, japanese as well ig? haha)

- A little more on the muscular/toned side?

- Taller than me

- easy-going 

- Fun-loving & cheerful

- Straight Acting 

- Enjoy spending time together even if it’s just for a simple dinner / walking around in the mall aimlessly

- Willing to do silly things / activities with me once in a while 😂

- Non-smoker and non drinker

- Very Importantly: Loves/Grooms & takes good care of himself

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Hey 👋🏻 I’m 30 Chinese btm, height 179cm n weighted around 60kg. I would describe my body type as skinny toned (I mostly do body weight exercises n I tend to under eat naturally, that’s y lol).

 

Outlook wise, I’m interested in guys who r well…tops, around my height (not necessarily have to be taller than me, just not a lot shorter than me), around my age n is fit. By fit I mean having an active lifestyle, not necessarily to have 6 packs lol. Nothing feels better than getting held by a pair of strong arms haha.

 

As for personality, guys who r emotionally stable (n financially stable), n patient r definitely a plus. 🙂

 

I frequent kl/pj area (Malaysia) so I prefer someone who lives around those areas too, as I’m not too keen in long distance relationship.

 

Feel free to drop me a message if u’d like to get to know me! 🙂

 

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Reposting 

 

1. 
2. Age: 44
3. Height: 185cm
4. Weight: 94kg
5. Role: Bottom
6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 
7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 
8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

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Seeking a witty, charming and gregarious bf. Local professional, 33 175 77 here. I enjoy socializing, travelling, and seeking out adventure and new experiences.

 

PM to connect.

 

When the evening shadows and the stars appear
And there is no one there to dry your tears
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love

 

I know you haven't made your mind up yet
But I would never do you wrong
I've known it from the moment that we met
No doubt in my mind where you belong

 

I could make you happy, make your dreams come true
Nothing that I wouldn't do
Go to the ends of the Earth for you
To make you feel my love.

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On 9/1/2024 at 7:31 AM, ChasingHappiness said:

Looking to find someone for the long term to cuddle and spend time with. :P

 

About me

Late 20s, bottom, chinese, chub/cub (170cm, 100kg), financially stable, interests include travelling, tabletop gaming like board games, and video games, geeky spec-wearing guy who don't drink or smoke, have a wacky personality with sense of humour, tend to be always horny with high sex drive 

 

Seeking

Someone around my age below 40 years old, top or versatile, chinese, lean/stocky/bearish (as long as not the extremes is fine), hopefully geeky and have a good sense of humour as well so we can geek out together, bonus if have own place to regularly cuddle together 

 

Drop me a DM if you fit what I'm seeking~

 

Bumping this up~~

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On 5/29/2024 at 3:34 PM, Aphorism said:

Hello, was wondering why not give it a try, and see if anyone has similar life views/interests?

 

Age: 33

Height: 175

Weight: 95

Role: Vers, Side

Interests/hobbies: Netflix, Gaming, Reading, Animation, Travelling, Swimming.

Just your average Singaporean, who enjoys discovering delicious food in sg, playing online/offline games on weekends, if not out and about exploring what the country can offer (namely cafe, movies, occasional scenic hunt.) Am trying to lose more weight and get back into shape, so anyone with tips do please share!

Staying in the East (If that matters). I'm looking for someone to grow together with, so not into hookups, neither fun.

 

A preferred partner would be someone of a similar age (+/-5), height and build don't really matter too much to me, but he must not be deeply closeted (out close friends/friends/family). Someone who is able to communicate, is mature, have a good career and healthy. 

 

Anyone interested, can feel free to send me a telegram @zhaozhaozhao :) thank you for reading!


just giving it a slight bump :3

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On 8/9/2024 at 9:19 AM, jcboy18 said:

helloos!

 

info abt me!!!

• 18yo musician science stream JC student

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years)

• stay in the east! (optional)

• preferrably has the same interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3)

 

hmu on tele @fthsngwn if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

bump!

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174/68/50yo chinese here. Gym, swim, tan and massages. Watching online clips.

 

Looking for buddies (late 30s and 40s). Share similar interests. Straight-acting and discreet. Prefer singles who have a sense of humour. 

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Hi!

I'm seeking to expand my social circle, dates and LTR. 

 

Local SG'an, Malay VersBtm, 40yo, 172cm, 90+kg, average stocky chub.  

Enjoys mutual sensible conversation, spending time with persons of interest, chill to Netflix, movies, music, some outdoor/indoor activities, planned getaways. 

 

Pref: Personable, friendly, stable, communicative, masculine, active, committed, enjoys hugs/cuddles, -10 years/same age difference, local/PR.

 

So, if you think there is a chance of match, pls dm me and let's talk! 

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1. Name: skybaby

 

2. Age: 35 years old. 

 

3. Height: 170cm

 

4. Weight: 74 kg (average) 

 

5. Role: Versatile 

 

6. Interests/hobbies: gym, swimming, cooking and baking

 

5. Self-description: Simple and down to earth guy who is always friendly and kind to the people around me. 

 

6. The kind of guy I hope to be with: Chinese guy (Age between 30 to 45) only. (No offense to other races as this is my preference) Sincere, committed, financially stable.

 

7. Other remarks: Aim to have a long term relationship

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On 8/2/2024 at 12:46 PM, blueduck said:

Hi, Duck here. 35/164/54kg Indo

 

Status                     never in relationship

Location                 : Jakarta

Role                         : never have sex, so I don't know. but fantasizing doing both.

skin and features   : brown with facial hair and smooth body, cut. 

Body shape             : lean muscle Bod

smoke and alcohol : No

hobby                      : animating, gardening and cooking

Interest                    : animation, tech, gaming, movie

Fav movie                : BB mountain, Wall-E, anything Ghibli

Fav food                   : fruits, pizza, sea food, rendang, and durian (I have durian tree)

Fav activity              : hiking, camping and snorkeling

Sports                       : Calisthenics. I was doing run, but stopped due to risk of joint ache. now I am doing Kpop dance.

Skills                         : animating, acting and massage (I think this is family inherit skill)

Languages                : Bahasa, English, Korean and Chinese (basic, can't read and write)

 

The world is getting old resources are limited but creativity unlimited. hoping to make relationship and sustainable living. 

 

like      : nerds, introvert, skinny, muscle, bushy, facial hair, glasses.

dislike : fat, sissy, drama queen, bad breath, smoke.

Let me know when you are in Msia

Looking for Lean twin bottom.. Only clean safe discreet fun

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174/68/50yo Chinese. Discreet straight-acting. Gym, swim, tan and online clips.

 

Looking for fellow gymfit/leanfit Chinese activity buddies with humour and easygoing. DM me

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