Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[True079]

I'm a 45-year-old Chinese male. Tall and slightly stocky build. 90kg at 1.81m.

 

Seeking brotherhood with respectful, discreet, and straight-acting bi brothers around my age .

 

If you're interested in getting to know me, feel free to DM me.

[youngdad]

I'm not married and I don't have a kid. It's just a nick. 

 

Sincerely looking for Chinese only who are 25 years and below for relationship. Not looking for fun. Had enough. 

 

Stats

46 177 69 Sg Chinese

Role: Top but don't mind letting my bf top me once awhile

Appearance: Looks young like 35

Body: Lean fit 

Dick size: 15cm length by 4cm diameter 

 

My Character 

Romantic 

Caring

Understanding 

Hardworking 

 

Face and body photos available on Telegram. Add me @findmyboi

[tanwla]

On 2/23/2025 at 4:20 PM, tanwla said:

Hello, just another average guy here hoping to look for good ol’ romance…

 

I am:

- Turning 35 yrs old

- Standing at 170cm and weigh 58kg

- local chinese

- working

- enjoys swimming, listening to music, singing, gaming, watching drama shows, simple home work outs

- vers

Looking for:

- below 50yrs old

- vers / top

- chn / white

Do chat with me more on telegram @algin2.

 

i hardly log in here so wont see your text here…

 

Hope to see you soon! Cheers!

Bump

[sgind]

Looking for a beau with wit, humour, confidence, and a sense of adventure & romance - a grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Local professional, Singaporean, 33, 175 77 here into socials, travel and soulful conversations.

 

PM to connect.

 

 

Don’t let the world break us apart.

We’ve come too far to lose the spark.

I’ll be your hope, your fire, your dream—

Love’s not perfect, but it’s everything we need.

[dam81]

1. Name: Damster

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: top / side (not very small based on reviews but needs for anal) 

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜 I like to go JB for staycations too.

 

7. Self Description: Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the precious date but I guess it takes two hands to clap. 

 

In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work on that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

 

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible.

[ReallyMeh]

Hi Im 41/175/66 local Chn, Top/Side who lives in the East. Size: Lean-fit Outdoor Interest: Jogging, Gym, cycling, Hiking, Trekking, OCR and anything fun Indoor Interest: Singing K, Movies, Board Games, Tabletop wargame, Switch games, meeting friends, hugging and cuddling Preferred local chinese who is not drama queen or sissy or chub, and maintain regular workouts/active. Prefer someone of age from 33 - 41. If the above simple introduction does pique your interest, please reply me back

[Rocket_]

Hi Guys, ☀️🌈☁️

My stats in short 50s/175/69 Chinese T. Enjoy gym, swim, gentle yoga, cycling, streets photography, preparing a meal at home from time to time, catching up with friends, investments, healthy food, plants, kitty🐈 netflix, short getaways (Tokyo BKK), music and retirement planning…

 

Attracted to manly guys and non-smoker for a monogamous relationship. Ideally some common interests and plans of a future together. Happy to hear about your dreams and passions, we take it from there! Peace✌️

[True079]

I'm a 45-year-old Chinese male. Tall and slightly stocky build. 90kg at 1.81m.

 

Seeking discreet, straight-acting bi brothers who are into discreet companionship and brotherhood. 

 

If you're interested in getting to know me, feel free to PM me.

[iloveswimming0714]

On 3/5/2025 at 7:47 PM, iloveswimming0714 said:

helloos! 

18m chinese guy here; average height, slim & slightly muscular build (working on getting those muscles)
lives in sengkang (northeast area)

looking to make new friends, and best case if can find bf. preferably chinese guys arnd my age. dm if interested

if i'm not contactable here, my ig: @friendlyperson0717
 

bump!

[Leoj]

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 45

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 94kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 33, 178cm, 85kg, a vers bottom with a stocky build. I'm a local Chinese living in the east. Aside from my main career, I have a deep interest in arts and culture. I'm sincerely seeking a long-term relationship—no hookups or casual fun.

 

What I'm Looking For:

 

1. Vers or top Chinese only

2. Average build or similar to mine

3. Preferably around my age or older (though chemistry matters more than numbers)

4. Financially and emotionally stable

5. Someone who values love, care, respect, and enjoys spending quality time together

 

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out! My Telegram ID is mentioned above. Looking forward to connecting with the right person. 💕

[Xal]

On 1/31/2025 at 1:42 AM, Xal said:

Age: 31

 

 

 

Height: 187

 

Weight: 124

 

Role: Top

 

Interests/hobbies: Singing, Travelling, Cooking, Eating

 

 

 

Self-description: 

 

I am a str8 acting and very straight forward person that can be quite spontaneous if i have the time.

 

Also, i am a very protective person by nature.

 

My time is mainly spent on work and friends, and hopefully a partner in the equation in the near future.

 

Was previously in a 4 years rls where things was pretty one sided. Always giving the love and concern but not really receiving it.

 

Currently going to gym and hopefully cut down my weight.

 

P.s. i am a planner. I plan for things. And have a calendar filled with things that matters.

 

 

 

The kind of guy I envision to be with: 

 

A kind and self driven person.

 

Body wise, anything except chub

And not really into feminine guys

(Very sorry, just a preference here....)

Bump

[BeKind21Another]

On 11/23/2024 at 3:24 AM, BeKind21Another said:

Hi! I'm seeking to date (for LTR) and to expand my social circle.

Me: SG'an, Malay vers btm, 41yo, 172cm, 90+kg, average stocky chub.  

Enjoys mutual sensible conversation, spend time with persons of interest, chill to Netflix, movies, music, some outdoor/indoor activities, planned getaways. 

Pref: Personable, friendly, financially/mentally stable, communicative, masculine, active, committed, enjoys hugs/cuddles, +/-5 years age difference, local/PR.

If you think there is a chance of match, dm me and let's talk. 🙂 

Still looking 😊

[True079]

I'm a 45-year-old Chinese male. Tall and slightly stocky build. Seek bromance partner/buddies

 

Looking for discreet str act brothers above 40. Discreet married men are welcome. 

 

Pm me if you're keen to know me.

Edited March 20 by True079

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 38

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[shawn_m]

Quick intro

 

Top fit guy here 30, 174, 64 looking for 20s-35 Lean btm partner who is easy going and accommodating. I've my own place and if you fit in my criteria and interested to know more tele me @watts08 with your fp and see how it goes there. 

[dam81]

 

1. Name: Damster

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: top / side (anal is not a must for me but I’m quite well endowed based on reviews and comparisons)

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. 

 

7. Looking for someone who can maybe go gym with me, short staycations to JB or stays near me (I’m near Jurong east  area). he should preferably be non smoker like me , +/- 5 years old. A relationship to me is someone that in the beginning we have lust for, before converting to love. 

 

In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work on that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 
8. I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights. 

 

[EastSgDad]

56 local Singaporean Chinese seeking similar below 40yo

Residing in East SG preferred 

More details in my profile bio 

Edited March 23 by EastSgDad

[tanwla]

On 2/23/2025 at 4:20 PM, tanwla said:

Hello, just another average guy here hoping to look for good ol’ romance…

 

I am:

- Turning 35 yrs old

- Standing at 170cm and weigh 58kg

- local chinese

- working

- enjoys swimming, listening to music, singing, gaming, watching drama shows, simple home work outs

- vers

Looking for:

- below 50yrs old

- vers / top

- chn / white

Do chat with me more on telegram @algin2.

 

i hardly log in here so wont see your text here…

 

Hope to see you soon! Cheers!

Bump

[SeekingLongTerm90]

Hey guys,

 

I finally plucked up the courage to create an account and put myself out there and use this forum to find someone to spend the rest of my life with.

 

I have spend so much of my life being made to feel bad for being gay and its so much of a struggle, but I have decided to push through at last.

I am looking for a Long-Term Relationship with someone close to my age.

 

Some key physical attributes:
Age: 35
Race/Ethnicity: Singaporean Chinese
Location: Singapore
Height: 175
Weight: 95
Build: Slightly overweight (not gonna bullshit you)
Position/Role: Top only
Discreet, straight sounding (not effeminate)

 

More about me:

-I hold a pretty stable, high-paying white-collar job and am steady and am finally ready for a life-long commitment to start a life with someone who is willing to do the same. Its BTO year as a single [35 years] and I am ready to start this journey
-I am quite articulate and enjoy the company other similar people
-I love travel and do that very often when time/money permits

 

What I am looking for:

- Chinese/Eurasian Male
-A person close to my age (below 38, even younger is no problem) who is interested in starting a committed life together eventually leading to co-owning a home together and staying together
-A person who is financially AND emotionally stable

-A person to travel around the world with (when the situation permits)

 

Please reach out to me if you are interested! I am looking forward to it. BUT PLEASE- serious people only! I want someone to spend a life with, not a causal friend! 

 

Thank you for reading the wall of text! I just wanted to be detailed and upfront and honest!

Edited March 23 by SeekingLongTerm90

[ReallyMeh]

Hi Im 41/175/66 local Chn, Top/Side who lives in the East. 

Size: Lean-fit Outdoor 

Interest: Jogging, Gym, cycling, Hiking, Trekking, OCR and anything fun Indoor Interest: Singing K, Movies, Board Games, Tabletop wargame, Switch games, meeting friends, hugging and cuddling 

Preferred local chinese who is not drama queen or sissy or chub, and maintain regular workouts/active, and
someone of age from 33 - 41.

If the above simple introduction does pique your interest, please message me.

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 33, 178cm, 85kg, a vers bottom with a stocky build. I'm a local Chinese living in the east. Aside from my main career, I have a deep interest in arts and culture. I'm sincerely seeking a long-term relationship—no hookups or casual fun.

 

What I'm Looking For:

 

1. Vers or top Chinese only

2. Average build or similar to mine

3. Preferably around my age or older (though chemistry matters more than numbers)

4. Financially and emotionally stable

5. Someone who values love, care, respect, and enjoys spending quality time together

 

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out! My Telegram ID is mentioned above. Looking forward to connecting with the right person. 💕

[sgind]

On 3/9/2025 at 10:05 PM, sgind said:

 

Looking for a beau with wit, humour, confidence, and a sense of adventure & romance - a grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Local professional, Singaporean, 33, 175 77 here into socials, travel and soulful conversations.

 

PM to connect.

 

 

Don’t let the world break us apart.

We’ve come too far to lose the spark.

I’ll be your hope, your fire, your dream—

Love’s not perfect, but it’s everything we need.

Bump

[EastSgDad]

Seeking Monogamous Dad-Son cum BFF cum BF cum Regular LTR

 

Me:

Local SG chinese 56 180 69

Top position 

Slim smooth bod with slight daddy belly

Enjoy (freeballing) walking-exercise at the Park 

Decent looking / straight acting / very discreet, bespectacled 

Non-smoker / not a good drinker

Always topless in boxers

Residing in East SG

 

Into:

Netflix (mystery, thriller, horror, korean), travelling, cooking, nature, bowling.

NOT into ONS Fun

Safety and disease-free reasons 

 

My preference:

Local SG chinese below 35

shorter / similar height 

Weight average BUT NO CHUB..

NO SISSY / CD / sub / mb

Average to fit so we can go for exercise together

Decent looking / discreet 

(For working Boy: Be financially comfortable as we can travel at least once annually)

Have a sense of humour but can be serious if need be

Btm / vers / top / curious / straight / bi ... are welcome 

Caring and not emotionally unavailable

Filial and respectful - respectable 

Knows what he wants and not afraid to call the shots in the relationship

Residing in East SG is a plus point. 

 

If interested, please DM me with some brief introductions why you think we match. We can exchange telegram and take it from there!

 

Looking forward to knowing you.

Thank you for reading!

Edited March 26 by EastSgDad

[True079]

Seeking discreet str act brothers ard my age for friendships and possible bromance. 

 

I'm a 45-year-old Chinese male. Tall and slightly stocky build.

 

Pm me if you're keen to know me.

[Can_berry80]

Local side/top Chinese 45. 170/75.

Looking for same or younger str8 acting chinese to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel. ..

Staying North area.

Hope Get to know more.... b4 into LTR.

[tanwla]

On 2/23/2025 at 4:20 PM, tanwla said:

Hello, just another average guy here hoping to look for good ol’ romance…

 

I am:

- Turning 35 yrs old

- Standing at 170cm and weigh 58kg

- local chinese

- working

- enjoys swimming, listening to music, singing, gaming, watching drama shows, simple home work outs

- vers

Looking for:

- below 50yrs old

- vers / top

- chn / white

Do chat with me more on telegram @algin2.

 

i hardly log in here so wont see your text here…

 

Hope to see you soon! Cheers!

Bump

[UtsuroTheVoid]

On 1/14/2025 at 12:42 PM, UtsuroTheVoid said:

24 year old Top
168 cm
80 kg
Chinese
I like gaming, watching anime, hacking/coding, reading Furry Visual Novels
looking for someone slim <= 24 year old that can love me for life...it feels like Im the only one whos actually loyal and mean it when I say "Id love you for life"....Id like my partner to be patient with me..I have a lot of trauma and Im willing to do the same for him...Im probably the most patient and sweetest person youd ever meet if you can get me to love you

bump

[True079]

Hello! I'm a 45-year-old Chinese guy, standing at 181, living in Bt batok.

 

I'm looking to connect with sincere, decent, and discreet men over 40 for meaningful friendships and brotherhood.

 

If you're interested in getting to know me, feel free to send me a direct message! Thank you

[ReallyMeh]

Hi Im 41/175/66 local Chn, Top/Side who lives in the East. 

Size: Lean-fit 

Outdoor Interest: Jogging, Gym, cycling, Hiking, Trekking, OCR and anything fun

Indoor Interest: Singing K, Movies, Board Games, Tabletop wargame, Switch games, meeting friends, hugging and cuddling 

Preferred local chinese who is not drama queen or sissy or chub, and maintain regular workouts/active, and
someone of age from 33 - 41.

If the above simple introduction does pique your interest, please message me.

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 33, 178cm, 85kg, a vers bottom with a stocky build. I'm a local Chinese living in the east. Aside from my main career, I have a deep interest in arts and culture. I'm sincerely seeking a long-term relationship—no hookups or casual fun.

 

What I'm Looking For:

 

1. Vers or top Chinese only

2. Average build or similar to mine

3. Preferably around my age or older (though chemistry matters more than numbers)

4. Financially and emotionally stable

5. Someone who values love, care, respect, and enjoys spending quality time together

 

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out! My Telegram ID is mentioned above. Looking forward to connecting with the right person. 💕

[Donic]

Hi All, 

 

am 47 chn 177 72 chinese, seeking nice decent manly guys to connect, around my age will be great, prefer lean decent chinese who is kind and sincere. In my free time, i love tennis, singing, swim, cycling and plants. 

 

Add me at telegram @wiltany to know more.

 

Jason 

[milodinosaur91]

Name: Leon
Age: 34
Height: 174
Weight: 78
Stay: West
Aim: Gym / Hangout Buddy

Hope to find someone similar

[marinaland]

Hi, I am local Chinese looking for local Chinese. 

My age: 32

Race: Chinese

Local

173/80

 

Looking for friends

 

Preferably age below 33

 

Pm me if you are interested to be friends with me

Edited Wednesday at 12:47 PM by marinaland

[jcboy18]

helloos! trying out again for 2025

 

info abt me!!!

• turning 19 in 2025

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my three cats❤️

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years), but if youre abit older idm seeing how things work out

• more on the lean-fit side? can work out tgt🤭❤️

• stay in the east! (optional because i want to be nearby😂but if you arent its okay!)

• preferrably has the same/similar interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3) 

 

hmu on the chat function or the mail function if yourekeen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

[kalel]

8 hours ago, Puretopnicefitman said:

Seek gymfit pure btm for LTR

 

I am gymfit pure top nicelook seeking nice mature thinking pure btm as monogamous BF. Hopefully he shares the same hobbies with me n love to travel.

 

I m into guys above 40s and straight acting discreet.

 

Hope you can provide me with ur telegram id to add and see if we can be a good match.

 

Hear from u soon. Thanks 

 

2 hours ago, Donic said:

No sincerity by blocking people , this guy is a scammer careful 

 

@Donic as much as I understand your frustration, please do not vent it here with such multiple unrelated posts. All such posts are now moved to The Flaming Room --> link. Therefore, DO NOT POST in this thread anymore yeah!

 

Any other victims on this case, please post/share your bad experiences there, if necessary. Thank you.

 

[smart88]

Hi, I am trying my luck again in Y2025. I am 46yo/178cm/70kg, chi married, discreet and professional guy living in Penang.

 

I am looking for young SG/MY Chinese married or bi, discreet, clean, safe, good behavior, not chubby (just preference) guy to be my buddy or bro. If you are interested, can text me at telegram: smart8898