zhiyang89 Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 (edited) - Edited August 13, 2017 by zhiyang89 Quote zhiyang Link to comment
Clickclock Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 (edited) Looking for dates, Equally extroverted and introverted please view my profile and instagram for what kinda person I am. provide your face pic and stats plz. pref: chinese, straight acting, top, reasonably fit, slim or muscular *i'm sorry if my reqs are very particular, I pref that I clear the air first to prevent any awkwardness. Edited January 1, 2016 by Clickclock Quote I draw sexy men, visit http://www.toastwire.tumblr.com click on 'My Artworks'. Willing to take on comissions Link to comment
kamots Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 (edited) === Edited March 2, 2016 by kamots Quote Link to comment
nicjude Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 On 12/31/2015 at 2:38 PM, tidecaller said: Lol why so angry. Everyone has preferences wad. Saying they like someone of a specific race is practically the same as saying they like tall guys or guys with single eyelids or whatever. There's a distinct difference between personal preference and racism lol. Is there? Demonstrate that, then. Also, not everyone who criticises is angry. It only serves your narrative to assume so, but not the conversation. I'll be expecting your reply to my request. Quote Link to comment
woohoo86 Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 (edited) Hi all, 29 Chn 165 65 working professional seeking a partner for ltr. Out-going ENTP btm who is looking for a committed and sincere individual. Open to dates and chat. Hobbies include Badminton, reading, music and watching tv dramas. Not into effeminate or fat. Let's chat and find out more about each other. Wechat: ahgumon86 Happy New Year!! Edited January 15, 2016 by woohoo86 Quote Link to comment
hairylover Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 Hi. I am searching for a partner for long term relationship. I am average to chub. Prefer daddy-looking hairy bear and serious relationship. Pm me if u want to know more. Quote Link to comment
Browniee Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 Hello is there any guys who are sincerely looking for ltr? I'm malay undergraduate seeking someone to take care of me xD Quote Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 16 minutes ago, Browniee said: Hello is there any guys who are sincerely looking for ltr? I'm malay undergraduate seeking someone to take care of me xD Hello Quote Link to comment
tidecaller Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 3 hours ago, nicjude said: Is there? Demonstrate that, then. Also, not everyone who criticises is angry. It only serves your narrative to assume so, but not the conversation. I'll be expecting your reply to my request. Here, let me give you an extremely simple and relatable example. Let's just say, for the sake of argument, that I prefer guys taller than me. I'm, therefore, less likely to pay the same attention to people shorter than me. i.e. If a person with a body and face perfectly to my liking (maybe sharp jawline, or nice butt, or high cheekbones, or [insert any other characteristic you like here]) were to appear in front of me but is 164cm tall, I wouldn't necessarily be blown away by this person. Quote "Is being Chinese such a massive plus point other than the fact that they have yellow skin and speak with a certain accent? I don't think they're all that different otherwise." (In reference to the above paragraph) That does not change the fact that he is, to me, good-looking. It's simply that I, personally, don't think I want to be with someone who is shorter than me. Maybe it's because I want to be able to rest on his shoulder. Maybe it's because it makes me feel self-conscious. There is likely a whole plethora of reasons I cannot even begin to fathom the end of. I personally understand that just because I can't think of a reason for a particular preference (or because a reason doesn't please me), it doesn't mean that the reason is not valid. Quote "If it's race you're looking for, then maybe you need to just find a chinese person - no necessarily gay, or a guy for that matter." Now let's take that above example and change the preference for taller men to a preference for men of a certain race. Indian men. Chinese men. Malay men. Eurasian men. Whichever flavour of man you want this example to be about. It's going to be just another one preference in a whole list of preferences we have. And, touch your heart, gay men have a VERY long checklist. What you're insinuating in the bit I quoted is that being a certain race is the be-all-and-end-all ULTIMATE CONDITION that everyone else here who has stated a racial preference has on their list. Simply put, you've simply assumed that their checklist consists only of "MUST BE [insert your preferred race here]". To that end, if, as a person on this forum, I state that I prefer Chinese men, I should not give two hoots about anything else other than the fact that they MUST be a Chinese man. The logical fallacy in the above statement is so immense that there's really no need for me to even try to explain what is wrong with it. Quote "If you're going to be THAT picky just because, then no point having any kind of LTR because you're statistically more likely to be disappointed anyhow." People are picky. If we weren't, everyone would be attached by the age they could think of forming unions. And that's exactly why this place exists. This... this is a forum where people come together to look for other people with qualities they like in hopes of finding someone suitable to enter a relationship with. Is it going to work? I don't know. Who does? But it is not my, or your, place to say. Happy New Year, and may we all find more happiness in the coming year. Quote Link to comment
win2312w Posted January 1, 2016 Report Share Posted January 1, 2016 (edited) I am 45 Chn 187/98. Looking for a average boyish guy age less than 36 who like big size guy like me Edited January 1, 2016 by win2312w Quote Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 3, 2016 Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 29/178/100 chn guy here. Hoping to find someone to chat n progess if any. Looking for guy who are below 35 chn or malay only. If interested just drop me a message (PM). Quote Link to comment
tyerin Posted January 3, 2016 Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 (edited) 30 chn, 185 72. Local Chinese, fit, educated, decent, down to earth. Stable career, looking for a mate to complete the equation. Line: tyerin85 Preferences 1) >1.75m (well, i'm tall) 2) Non-chub 3) Between 22-40 (i'm also ok if you look between those ages, lol) 4) Not a pure btm (just a preference) 5) decent (so ppl who are seeking "open" are a big no-no for me, i don't believe conflating "random fun" and "LTR" in the same category Cheers!! Edited January 3, 2016 by tyerin dusktofu and Hanabishi 2 Quote Link to comment
FirsTimer Posted January 3, 2016 Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 Anybody want to add me up? NIcetomeetyouz : LINE Chubby_1986 1 Quote Link to comment
Popular Post Ashpy Revolution Posted January 3, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 (edited) 22yo chinese here haha trying my luck here lol. Edited January 3, 2016 by Ashpy Revolution PerfectXayne, 2AM, garuda and 3 others 6 Quote Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 3, 2016 Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 Just now, Ashpy Revolution said: 22yo here haha trying my luck here lol. Hii Quote Link to comment
Gagalover Posted January 3, 2016 Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 Arab mix ind mix mly 18.166.75 I have no preferance tbh..but i really wanna have a bf who i can train with(e.g run tgt,swim tgt etc) and just be a normal couple. Line id: blackwidow775 Chubby_1986 1 Quote Link to comment
PrivateTongues Posted January 3, 2016 Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 Hello! I'm 27 177 58chn. Well, I hope to meet someone who can be special. A great guy is someone who is : 1. Not crazy. 2. Not flamboyant. 3.Down to earth. 4. No problems engaging in conversations in texts and in person. 5. Fun. 6. Loves Life 7. DRINKSSSSSSS (I'm most of the above.... or at least thats what I think haha) and I'm a good listener but I might zone out when I smell BS. I'm open about most body types, I'm into lean, normal, bear, star-shaped. Ok, I draw the line at obese, not into that. Sorry. One last thing, height wise, at least 168cm and above. I still have that thing with wanting a guy around my height for security. =) dusktofu and sincity 2 Quote Link to comment
DE Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 21 Malaysian Chinese 170/65 here looking for friends to start with! Would really like to make more friends Chubby_1986, kamots and dboy84 3 Quote Link to comment
MisterD Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 (edited) - Edited April 14, 2016 by MisterD - sianzpple, dboy84 and Sincere75 3 Quote Link to comment
Gray32 Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 It's probably hard to get anything out from here . ~.~ dboy84 1 Quote Holy mama. Link to comment
Sincere75 Posted January 5, 2016 Report Share Posted January 5, 2016 (edited) Sincere guy looking for LTR Edited January 11, 2016 by Sincere75 dusktofu and Amethyst 2 Quote Link to comment
ardentfire Posted January 5, 2016 Report Share Posted January 5, 2016 22 171 63 chn here. NUS undergrad. Looking for a simple and understanding guy. No chub/sissy. Chinese preferred. Stay in bedok and in nus during semester time. DE 1 Quote Link to comment
Andrei Posted January 5, 2016 Report Share Posted January 5, 2016 21 years old 172,62 malaysian chinese. Seeking for friends/ LTR to chat. Preferably someone who share the same interests with me. Hope to find those who reside in Malaysia as well distance does matter Terence550 and DE 2 Quote Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 6, 2016 Report Share Posted January 6, 2016 29/178/100 chn guy here. Hoping to find someone to chat n progess if any. Looking for guy who are below 35 chn or malay only. If interested just drop me a message Terence550 1 Quote Link to comment
loveless Posted January 6, 2016 Report Share Posted January 6, 2016 (edited) . Edited January 11, 2016 by loveless dusktofu, dboy84, trwars83 and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment
Amico Posted January 8, 2016 Report Share Posted January 8, 2016 (edited) - Edited April 14, 2016 by Amico dboy84 1 Quote Link to comment
dboy84 Posted January 8, 2016 Report Share Posted January 8, 2016 Looking for companion. If you're interested in me, do drop me a message. Quote Link to comment
dusktofu Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 I'm looking for a life long companion to build a relationship of trust, commitment and perseverance. Check me out if interested. Prefers guys who're lighter/slimmer then me. Quote To find true perfection, we must love the imperfect, perfectly. Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 Anyone around the East keen to meet up today after 2pm. Interested just inbox me ba. Hoping to look for Chinese or Malay Guy who are below 35. Quote Link to comment
Puffypuff Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 19 chn here graduating from poly soon, looking for ltr ~ do view my profile for more info !! Chubby_1986 1 Quote Waiting for my impossible love Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 11 minutes ago, Puffypuff said: 19 chn here graduating from poly soon, looking for ltr ~ do view my profile for more info !! Hello Quote Link to comment
tyerin Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 30 chn, 185 72. Local Chinese, fit, educated, decent, down to earth. Stable career, looking for a mate to complete the equation. Line: tyerin85 Preferences 1) >1.75m (well, i'm tall) 2) Non-chub 3) Between 22-40 (i'm also ok if you look between those ages, lol) 4) Not a pure btm (just a preference) 5) decent (so ppl who are seeking "open" are a big no-no for me, i don't believe conflating "random fun" and "LTR" in the same category Cheers!! Atlas Star and MisterD 2 Quote Link to comment
Btmseektop Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 Slit btm for you to use Quote Link to comment
Gagalover Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 Heyy!! Im looking for a chinese bf:) Im arab mix ind mix mly:) 18.166.75 Im working out my body and maybe my bf can train with me;) Line id: blackwidow775 mixed94 1 Quote Link to comment
Ace94 Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 looking for ltr here chinese, 21/175/65 line: ng01 PerfectXayne, XxarrowxX and garuda 3 Quote Link to comment
overture Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 looking for ltr here too chinese, 23/173/53 line: Overture69 thianzk and PerfectXayne 2 Quote Link to comment
Nus1 Posted January 9, 2016 Report Share Posted January 9, 2016 Hello all, im leon chinese 174 68,24 undergrad and staying in the west. Have been quite confused by my orientation and felt that i may be more incline towards guys lately. However im still not too sure but hope to have a chance to go on a date with someone that felt similar I hope to seek someone of a similar stats too and share the same feeling. Thanks line id : jurong_24 XxarrowxX and PerfectXayne 2 Quote Link to comment
reflector85 Posted January 10, 2016 Report Share Posted January 10, 2016 30c 170 55.. seeking ltr... local Chinese.. Quote --- To infinity and beyond --- Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 11, 2016 Report Share Posted January 11, 2016 I am just a simple lonely guy who is lost in my mind recently. Just hope to find someone who can give me some moral support with care and motivation. Someone who is patience and loving. Hoping to look for someone who stay around the East so that we can spend sometime together Just wish the person is around my age or max 35. Someone Chinese or Malay. Who love cycling. If you think you are the one. Just inbox me. Thanks. Quote Link to comment
Pokkadots Posted January 12, 2016 Report Share Posted January 12, 2016 (edited) Age: 23 Height: 174 Weight: 47 Chinese Looking for Dates, Friends, LTR Stays: West Hobbies: Cooking, Baking, Cycling, Movies (Except Gore and Horror), Bowling, Gaming, Arcade, Chilling, Travel Hopes to find someone that I can click with, with common topics. Prefer someone my age and no chub. Edited February 4, 2016 by Pokkadots Maple6446 1 Quote Link to comment
Naveyafluz Posted January 12, 2016 Report Share Posted January 12, 2016 Age: 32 Height: 173 Weight: 76 Race: Chinese Stays: Boon Lay Looking for more friends, dates and hopefully long term relationship. Loves travelling, singing, movies or anything with my friends or dates. Prefer non-chub guys below 35. Quote Link to comment
sgboy84 Posted January 13, 2016 Report Share Posted January 13, 2016 Seeking sincere/nice friends. Drop me a message to know more Quote Link to comment
darwinl_ Posted January 13, 2016 Report Share Posted January 13, 2016 Age: 18 Height: 176 Weight: 86 Race: Chinese Stays: Pasir Ris Im looking for friends, dates and possibly a relationship if things work out Friends as well too! PM me to know more Chubby_1986 1 Quote Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 13, 2016 Report Share Posted January 13, 2016 1 hour ago, darwinl_ said: Age: 18 Height: 176 Weight: 86 Race: Chinese Stays: Pasir Ris Im looking for friends, dates and possibly a relationship if things work out Friends as well too! PM me to know more Hello. Quote Link to comment
lonelyboi Posted January 13, 2016 Report Share Posted January 13, 2016 Seeking sincere guys for friends and hopefully a relationship. Am turning 23 this year. Quote Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 I am just a simple lonely guy who is lost in my mind recently. Just hope to find someone who can give me some moral support with care and motivation. Someone who is patience and loving. Hoping to look for someone who stay around the East so that we can spend sometime together Just wish the person is around my age or max 35. Someone Chinese or Malay. Who love cycling. If you think you are the one. Just inbox me. Thanks. Quote Link to comment
cyrus92 Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 I'm 175, 70, 24 looking for serious ltr line kokh92 Chubby_1986 1 Quote Link to comment
Chubby_1986 Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 2 minutes ago, cyrus92 said: I'm 175, 70, 24 looking for serious ltr line kokh92 Hello Quote Link to comment
reflector85 Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 30c 170 55... seeking for sincerce ltr. Seeking someone who have common interests and can click. Looking for people in late 20s to 35. sianzpple 1 Quote --- To infinity and beyond --- Link to comment
Kesy Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 Age: 21 (16/01/2016) Height: 189 Weight: 95 Race: Indian Stays: West Qualifications: Degree in culinary arts Currently serving NS, studies in USA Charlotte North Carolina. Might be going back after NS. I've never gotten into a relationship before and I'm planning to get into one. Basically I'm very open you could share your thoughts and I won't take it to my heart. Pretty much looking for dates and Long term Relationship Would also like to know more friends. Hobbies: Baking, Cooking, Swimming, Bowling, Preferred: JUST A NICE GUY. Quote Link to comment
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