melvinlam90 Posted October 23, 2013 Report Share Posted October 23, 2013 Yeah. Someone needs to teach me how to get into a LTR also. Been single for the longest of time.How to get into a LTR? well, I think the dating process is important. Dates are not like, 'Hey, let's hook up. That was awesome sex, would you like to be my bf?' and without even knowing anything of that guy, you get into a relationship. To be honest, chances are, it is likely doom to fail, and if by some miracle it survive, good for you:) The question comes in, of how to maintain a relationship. But well, that is an entirely different topic from this thread. I suggest getting to know the other guy. I'm not saying that sex is prohibited, but sex can't tell you everything about that guy, interaction does. Interact more, have some sense of what you want out of a relationship, and compare whether or not the guy you're dating fits or have these same ideals as you. Then let the rest take its course. It's not going to be successful at first (actually, it can be, but chances are low), but what matters is learn from it, know yourself better, and move on from there. Hope it helps. P.S. you can read our blog at http://wheretwopeopleconnect.tumblr.com to get some insights too:) Quote Link to comment
Butterscotch Posted October 23, 2013 Report Share Posted October 23, 2013 LOL, actually I'm always around, just lurking and stalking around the site. LOL. how have you been? Haha I see I see. I am doing good, thanks. How are you and Rhyn? Read that he's away... Quote Link to comment
Ryan0185 Posted October 23, 2013 Report Share Posted October 23, 2013 Me three ;-( Quote Link to comment
Eugeneie Posted October 25, 2013 Report Share Posted October 25, 2013 Hahaha well.. saying would be easy.. its hard to find and maintain one thou.. and who dont wish to have a bf or sort.. but still I guess I can say count me in! Haha Quote Link to comment
nnnyy Posted October 30, 2013 Report Share Posted October 30, 2013 (edited) Edited Edited February 7, 2019 by nnnyy Quote Link to comment
Stipoandroid Posted October 30, 2013 Report Share Posted October 30, 2013 This thread actually works? haha ok now who wants to be my bf? ;pHappy hunting Quote Link to comment
onlylonely Posted October 30, 2013 Report Share Posted October 30, 2013 I found my bf here! This place definitely works! Quote Link to comment
reflector85 Posted October 30, 2013 Report Share Posted October 30, 2013 I found my bf here!This place definitely works!haha, ok who wans to me my bf? =x Quote --- To infinity and beyond --- Link to comment
qiye Posted October 30, 2013 Report Share Posted October 30, 2013 by posting here and you can get a bf? Quote Link to comment
Farquee Posted October 30, 2013 Report Share Posted October 30, 2013 Looking for bf too ! Quote Link to comment
l'avventura Posted October 30, 2013 Report Share Posted October 30, 2013 I'm surprised too. When I first saw this, I nearly thought it is a joke. This means that people becoming more spiritual nowadays. Which is great. Quote Link to comment
Leotard Posted October 31, 2013 Report Share Posted October 31, 2013 Same here, couldn't find the right ones yet..D: Quote Link to comment
ArchDragon Posted October 31, 2013 Report Share Posted October 31, 2013 I found my bf here! This place definitely works!Me too! I found him here Quote Link to comment
imstraight Posted October 31, 2013 Report Share Posted October 31, 2013 looking for ltr too... Quote Link to comment
reflector85 Posted October 31, 2013 Report Share Posted October 31, 2013 对的人真的那么难找吗？ Quote --- To infinity and beyond --- Link to comment
Dorkable Posted October 31, 2013 Report Share Posted October 31, 2013 对的人确是难找，才懂得珍惜。 Quote Link to comment
Joseph Tan Posted November 1, 2013 Report Share Posted November 1, 2013 非常难找！找到的都已有伴了！ defmarch 1 Quote Link to comment
Dorkable Posted November 1, 2013 Report Share Posted November 1, 2013 But how many truly know the meaning of settling down? I see many only seek LTR because they got tired of being rejected for sex or they are just afraid of being alone. And many ain't even sure of what they want from a relationship. Quote Link to comment
NUSFlex88 Posted November 1, 2013 Report Share Posted November 1, 2013 if you're a whore out looking for fun, dont be hypocritic to lament why it's that hard to ask for the right person Quote Link to comment
ymerej Posted November 1, 2013 Report Share Posted November 1, 2013 Wa Nus u meet the ts before? Quote Link to comment
rr0879 Posted November 1, 2013 Report Share Posted November 1, 2013 Looking for ltr Quote Link to comment
melvinlam90 Posted November 1, 2013 Report Share Posted November 1, 2013 Haha I see I see. I am doing good, thanks. How are you and Rhyn? Read that he's away...that's good! Not too bad, and yeah, he's away for a short period of time, but guess we can handle it:) And to people who are seeking LTR here, since so many of you posted here, why don't you message someone from this thread. Who know, things might work out. Give it a shot. Quote Link to comment
Hcir Posted November 1, 2013 Report Share Posted November 1, 2013 back on the road again, feelin kinda lonely and lookin for the right guy to be mine... Quote Link to comment
defmarch Posted November 3, 2013 Report Share Posted November 3, 2013 Still looking... lol Quote Link to comment
Vincentngng Posted November 3, 2013 Report Share Posted November 3, 2013 Same here .... Looking for ltr Quote Link to comment
dudesgg Posted November 3, 2013 Report Share Posted November 3, 2013 Same.. Can't find the right one... Quote Link to comment
reflector85 Posted November 3, 2013 Report Share Posted November 3, 2013 Me 3 Quote --- To infinity and beyond --- Link to comment
dudesgg Posted November 3, 2013 Report Share Posted November 3, 2013 Ya.. So single people pls pm me! Mackie 1 Quote Link to comment
Guest dark_jedi Posted November 3, 2013 Report Share Posted November 3, 2013 at this age, im nearly to the point of giving up... Quote Link to comment
Eugeneie Posted November 7, 2013 Report Share Posted November 7, 2013 pm mee!!! haha single here *wave madly haha Quote Link to comment
reflector85 Posted November 7, 2013 Report Share Posted November 7, 2013 Bump gayishboy 1 Quote --- To infinity and beyond --- Link to comment
nicjude Posted November 7, 2013 Report Share Posted November 7, 2013 Honestly, is there anyone really worth meeting that is open-minded enough to accept any and all possibilities that come with meeting someone new? By how it's seemed, with all the superficial pre-requisites in place, I personally find it hard to find anyone here - let alone in the whole of Singapore. It's like everyone must be with only a certain skin colour, or certain look, or certain dimensions fit for a person's fantasy. I've stopped looking for a bf, cuz every gay/bi guys only wants sex or a look; it's like relationships don't matter, just having a trophy bf to show off. I have not given up on looking, I've stopped looking for one here is all. It's like, all the genuine guys, if any, go into hiding and all the ridiculously idiotic or superficial ones come out to play. Why? Quote Link to comment
ncikmelonpan Posted November 7, 2013 Report Share Posted November 7, 2013 I want a boyfriend too. = [ Quote Link to comment
sgbb Posted November 7, 2013 Report Share Posted November 7, 2013 Looking for one as well. :/ Quote <span style='color: #ff0000'>It's the thought that counts. </span> Link to comment
Palatrick Posted November 7, 2013 Report Share Posted November 7, 2013 Hahaha, Really works here? "D who is interested to chat me up ? ^^ Quote Link to comment
Eugeneie Posted November 7, 2013 Report Share Posted November 7, 2013 its quite depends one i guess.. can click then maybe can.. hahah who wan click with mee! hahahha pm me then Quote Link to comment
Palatrick Posted November 7, 2013 Report Share Posted November 7, 2013 Yeah...let it flow. See who the lucky ones, fate. Quote Link to comment
sgbb Posted November 8, 2013 Report Share Posted November 8, 2013 its quite depends one i guess.. can click then maybe can.. hahah who wan click with mee! hahahha pm me thenclick click click Yeah...let it flow. See who the lucky ones, fate.wanna chat? hahaha. Quote <span style='color: #ff0000'>It's the thought that counts. </span> Link to comment
reflector85 Posted November 8, 2013 Report Share Posted November 8, 2013 Bump Quote --- To infinity and beyond --- Link to comment
reflector85 Posted November 10, 2013 Report Share Posted November 10, 2013 Bump Quote --- To infinity and beyond --- Link to comment
pallmall91 Posted November 11, 2013 Report Share Posted November 11, 2013 I would like one too! start with friends first anyone? Quote Link to comment
watdehell Posted November 11, 2013 Report Share Posted November 11, 2013 Looking for a LTR one is not simply just posting something somewhere and you will meet the ideal one. Sometimes, it depends on your luck and its the right time for you to meet the right person in your life. Of course, the right time is not the same to everyone, some got right on the first date, some got on jackd, some got after ONS, some even wait for their whole life. Then, dont look for it, try to live and enjoy your life and what you have been given from life, you definitely will get in return for what you have done for your life. Cheers. Quote Link to comment
gayishboy Posted November 11, 2013 Report Share Posted November 11, 2013 I also want ltr. 18 year old here. Hope to find one that is of similar age. one that can take care of me. I really yearn, crave for love, But if only I could find someone that could love me as much as I love him. Such a far fetched, outlandish dream. But Hope will continue to drive me. Sadly, Have to point out a paradox. The herald of love is also the harbinger of separation. Be it through death or other factors. such a brutal cruel truth. If only the world was kinder. But I am still frantically searching for love. if only I could be with my love till death, No 30 years, No 5 years is enough... if only... Quote Link to comment
Job Welch Posted November 11, 2013 Report Share Posted November 11, 2013 Can a foreigner be accepted? Quote Link to comment
pallmall91 Posted November 12, 2013 Report Share Posted November 12, 2013 Loving because the IDEA of being in love is wrong... If anyone gets what I mean >< Quote Link to comment
Thom_ Posted November 12, 2013 Report Share Posted November 12, 2013 (edited) . Edited November 30, 2013 by Thom_ Quote Link to comment
sephy06 Posted November 12, 2013 Report Share Posted November 12, 2013 I want a relationship too Quote Link to comment
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