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On 7/14/2021 at 8:36 AM, tanwla said:

Hi hi! I’m 31 yrs old. 170cm 50kg. Still in the search for a long term relationship. If anyone keen can hit me up on telegram @algint or message me here. Cheers!

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Hi guys, 

 

I am looking a LTR and ready to settle down. Hope that I am lucky to find the special one here. 
 

Myself:

I am 35chinese, 165,57kg, gymfit. I like to gym a lot, jog, travel, movies and spend time with family. I am straight acting and I am Top. 
 

Looking for the other half:

- No chub pls. Just a preference and no offense pls. 
- Not more than 38yrs old. 
- Straight acting. 
- Hopefully Boyish or cute lor. 
- Nice to be fit and someone who likes to gym also or similar hobbies. 
 

I am just exploring and trying my luck here. Cheers. 😊

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On 7/28/2021 at 2:54 PM, kdran said:

26/174/63 chinese

flex b

average slim lean with average looks

stable financially, actually life in general haha

boyish looking and boyish acting, def not the masculine alpha male type

likes staying in (i am a homebody!) but enjoys going out on walks, brunch, doing relaxing/calming things in general

pretty shy and introverted at first, but will open up when i am more comfortable

 

hopefully would like to settle down with someone who is:

around my age, below mid-30s

someone masculine (taller would be a added bonus tbh hahaha sorry if this sounds superficial) 

stable career and finances

someone easy going and chill

dont be weird or pushy hahah

 

pm me to chat! :) 

hi can’t pm you. 😅

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30, 177, 62. Local Chinese. Decent and nerdy guy. Stable career in banking industry. Gym once/twice a week along with running. 

 

What I look for in a partner:

- Fit, mature and dependable

- 30 year old and above

- prefer someone who is bigger built than me (don't have to taller =p)

 

Hope to find someone who enjoys simple things in life - from staying at home cooking to going on treks and eventually travelling the world together!

 

Please drop me a PM if you are interested. Thanks =D

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Hi guys! 

 

Just a quick introduction of myself:  I'm 26, local chn, 170. 59. 

 

What I enjoy:  working out (especially spin, HIIT and run for now), hiking, drinking (alcohol of course), finding delicious makan spots (I have a sweet tooth), mahjong, travelling (but now staycations and visiting local attractions) and just chilling with friends.

 

Hoping to find someone to grow with, share hobbies, communicate, hang out and gives a fu*ck. 

 

Do PM and we can start getting to know each other first. 

Cheers and stay at home! :)

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On 6/9/2021 at 2:03 PM, bananaboat said:

Hi im 35 chn local. Nothing fantastic in looks or bod. :)


Hoping to find a partner that loves me and i love him and be there for each other.

 

It is hard to describe who i like as there are many factors that make a person attractive. 

 

Hoping to find someone that is willing to communicate, discuss and make things work and try to understand each other and accept each other's flaws and grow together. Pls be in SG or have intention to be here in SG for the rest of your life.

 

My current interests are: animals (they give unconditional love and attention to me), netflix, games, movies, photography, shopping and movies.

 

Pm me and we can chat further or also meet up and see how it goes. Never know what will happen - if not a match, can connect and be good friends too.

Hi~ keen to know more about you~ my tele @jwjw1992 

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On 6/13/2021 at 7:20 PM, Relationship said:

Hi there,

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 34 

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

Me me!!! @jwjw1992 

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On 7/10/2021 at 6:49 PM, boyboy24 said:

Been trying many times but i do not believe in failure. So here i am to try again. 
 

sg local Chinese boy here looking for a companionship. 31 174 86 (slight stocky but not fat nor chubb) 

 

pm me if u really need a companionship. No offence but I’m only keen to know chinese as i feel more comfortable communicating in mandarin. Thanks! 

Me me! @jwjw1992 

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Anyone willing to have discreet ltr with me, please contact me at the following platform:

 

Kik: fatcrossdress

Tele: fatcrossdress

 

I am new to this and really hope to just find 1 man in life and serve him well as best as I could

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Hi everyone!

 

Below is a description of me:

I am 31 yrs old

i am 170cm tall and 50kg

local chinese

currently working

Enjoys swimming, movies, watch dramas

am versatile btm

 

looking for:

anyone below 40yrs old

chinese or white

slim/muscular/average

Versatile / top

 

pm me at telegram @algint

 

thanks and see you! :) 

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Hye.. 😃

Looking to meet sincere guys as companions or maybe go on dates to see where and how it progresses, preferably long term. 

 

Me: 

Friendly, open-minded, listener. If it matters, I'm malay, late 30s, 1.73, stocky chub, vers btm. I enjoy interacting & spending time with people of interest.

Likes watching Netflix, music, movies, prefer walking over running, some outdoor activities eg. walks, picnic, maybe try holding hands at the right opportunity (if we're dating eg. during movies, etc).

 

Him:

Sincere, personable, communicative, non judgemental, committed.

Into local Asian, ie.malay, chn men, age range of 23 to 37yo, DDF, masculine traits, enjoys being outdoors as well indoors. 

 

So, If you've read this far & thinks there is a chance of match, drop me your messages and let's chat soon.

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Hi,

 

I am looking for relationship I am 29 Chinese, 168, 68, average. I like to dance, gym, play games/board games and go out with friends. I am bottom.

 

I prefer my other half to be:

- No Chub
- Like to work out

- Take care of me (pretty new in relationship)

 

Pm me or so~ Thank you. Stay safe~ 

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Hello, I know is pretty hard to find a love one in this circle but still trying my luck. I am looking for a companion in life who share our happy moments together. Someone that is kind, friendly and a good listener. 

 

About me:
My stat is 172, 68, 27 years old - straight acting Chinese (Flex btm if come to that)

My hobbies are singing, cooking, jog, listen to music, food, travel and interested in spiritual stuffs (currently learning tarot cards). I’m financially stable as well.

 

Finding someone:

Older than my age. Someone who is caring, loyal, stable career, love to chat, won’t judge and non-control freak. 

Not necessary need to be gym fit but I’m not interested in chubby person (stocky is fine). Also willing to motivate each other to achieve a healthier life :)


Cheers! 

 

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On 8/5/2021 at 3:17 PM, tanwla said:

Hi everyone!

 

Below is a description of me:

I am 31 yrs old

i am 170cm tall and 50kg

local chinese

currently working

Enjoys swimming, movies, watch dramas

am versatile btm

 

looking for:

anyone below 40yrs old

chinese or white

slim/muscular/average

Versatile / top

 

pm me at telegram @algint

 

thanks and see you! :) 

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On 7/25/2021 at 2:44 PM, kidster said:

Mission: 

Hope to find my boy and grow old together.

 

Vision:

Buy a house and stay together. Play catching around the house naked and blindfolded ;)

 

Me:
Age: Late 20s

Race: Local Chinese

Stats: 177cm, 65kg

Appearance: Slightly above average I think.

Hobbies: Swim, gym, run, sleep, work

Body type: Lean and toned. Not the hunky type. 

Role: Pure top but willing to btm for my boy whenever he wants.


My other half: 
Age: 28 and below
Appearance: Cute to me can already. My friends always say my exs are ugly but I think they are cute.

Character: No attitude, must be straight acting

Preference: Chinese from Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Indonesia. 

Body type: Lean will be great, baby fats is fine too but not adult fats. LOL

Role: Non pure top

Location: Residing in Singapore. I'm not into long distance relationship.

 

Above is my personal preferences. Don't judge.

 

Pm me your Telegram username. If you're so reluctant in exchanging pic, please don't message me. #LifeIsShort Don't waste your time and mine. Thanks.

 

Posting since 2010. 10 years challenge.

 

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On 7/27/2021 at 1:08 AM, boyboy24 said:

 

Been trying many times but i do not believe in failure. So here i am to try again. 
 

sg local Chinese boy here looking for a companionship. 31 174 86 (slight stocky but not fat nor chubb) 

 

pm me if u really need a companionship. No offence but I’m only keen to know chinese as i feel more comfortable communicating in mandarin. Thanks! 
Tele me? Ahboy0902

You are still young. Don’t give up. Wish you all the best!

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Hi

 

I am a malaysian half mixed chinese working in Singapore, 29 167 63, looking for friend & long term relationship, plan to settle in singapore. Prefer to speak mandarin with partner for better communication(just my preference sorry 🙏). I may not have a lot of free time due to work but I will try to use my space time for my partner.

 

role:Versatile

place: Serangoon

age preference: <35

 

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On 8/5/2021 at 3:17 PM, tanwla said:

Hi everyone!

 

Below is a description of me:

I am 31 yrs old

i am 170cm tall and 50kg

local chinese

currently working

Enjoys swimming, movies, watch dramas

am versatile btm

 

looking for:

anyone below 40yrs old

chinese or white

slim/muscular/average

Versatile / top

 

pm me at telegram @algint

 

thanks and see you! :) 

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iscreet 42/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies with me.

 

DIslike:
X People that like's to Dominate others
X No Fun
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy


Looking for

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese
Slim/Skinny/Average Flex/Versatile/Btm

Fem Boy/Sissy/Crossdresser & Ladyboy for LTR

42yrs old and Below 

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I wanna get to know more guys :) Hello. 31/171/60 flex. Open to look around. 

Prefer someone who is 30 & above who is mature & stable. Also lean bod (cuz I like a bit of muscle or toneness) & at least does gym/swim (Not into bears or chubs). If you are fun, friendly and loves having a conversation, feel free to drop me a msg :) 

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On 7/25/2021 at 2:44 PM, kidster said:

Mission: 

Hope to find my boy and grow old together.

 

Vision:

Buy a house and stay together. Play catching around the house naked and blindfolded ;)

 

Me:
Age: Late 20s

Race: Local Chinese

Stats: 177cm, 65kg

Appearance: Slightly above average I think.

Hobbies: Swim, gym, run, sleep, work

Body type: Lean and toned. Not the hunky type. 

Role: Pure top but willing to btm for my boy whenever he wants.


My other half: 
Age: 28 and below
Appearance: Cute to me can already. My friends always say my exs are ugly but I think they are cute.

Character: No attitude, must be straight acting

Preference: Chinese from Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Indonesia. 

Body type: Lean will be great, baby fats is fine too but not adult fats. LOL

Role: Non pure top

Location: Residing in Singapore. I'm not into long distance relationship.

 

Above is my personal preferences. Don't judge.

 

Pm me your Telegram username. If you're so reluctant in exchanging pic, please don't message me. #LifeIsShort Don't waste your time and mine. Thanks.

 

Posting since 2010

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Somehow I love coming back here to see what others write and post. Some of the content is interesting and if I’m looking for a ltr, I wouldn’t mind connecting with people here because as most of us realize by now, nowadays it’s easier to hook up for sex than to find real friends through apps and forums. 
 

I think this topic on LTR helps to rekindle my faith that there are still many people believing in love and are looking forward to build their beautiful future and memories with a special someone.

 

I wish everyone success in finding your other significant half. 

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Hi guys, 

 

I am looking a LTR and ready to settle down. Hope that I am lucky to find the special one here. 
 

Myself:

I am 35chinese, 165,57kg, gymfit. I like to gym a lot, jog, travel, movies and spend time with family. I am straight acting and I am Top. 
 

Looking for the other half:

- No chub pls. Just a preference and no offense pls. 
- Not more than 38yrs old. 
- Straight acting. 
- Hopefully Boyish or cute lor. 
- Nice to be fit and someone who likes to gym also or similar hobbies. 
 

I am just exploring and trying my luck here. Cheers. 😊

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Hi all 21 175 63 chn btm here. Looking for a long term relationship.

looking for someone around my age 27<. I like swimming,music,looking for good makan spots and sleeping. Average looking. Looking for a guy that’s caring, take care of me, help me to dry my hair etc. Hmu if you think you are the one I am looking for.

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On 8/19/2021 at 8:37 AM, NSA chinese said:

Bananaboat,

 

that’s a cute name and I’m sure you are as cute as the name! 😄

 

You are at an enviable age and I thought perhaps I should share some of my own experiences here in the search for the elusive love. When we are young, most of us would likely have this idealistic view of love and as we are older and hopefully wiser, we tend to have a more realistic view of relationships. 
 

when I was in my earlier 20s, I had a friend who was fun loving, sporty (meaning tanned and muscular) and we were 2 innocent young adults enjoying each other’s company. We even had 69 on a few occasions at his house. But being the younger, stupid and superficial me, his looks weren’t exactly what I wanted in a partner, so we never did pair up because I felt I would find someone better. We lost touch eventually when I started work. To this day, I still think about him occasionally and wonder if my life would be different if we got together then as partners. 
 

So my first point is, looks are important but we should look beyond that when searching for love. 
 

having said that, reality will also set in eventually. When you start to work, time seems to pass by in a flash and soon you will realize you are in your 30s before hitting 40s and so on. When you look back, you realize certain decisions you make when you were younger have a much larger impact on your life in latter years.
 

You also realize that there is disparity in every relationship. no two individuals are the same. Despite how similar two people are, there are bound to be differences in character, preferences, behaviors, interests, opinions etc. as they age, they are shaped by different experiences and these differences may either converge to become more similarities or diverge to become bigger differences. The latter is responsible for breakups in couples. 
 

so a relationship takes a lot of time, effort, dedication, patience, understanding, humility, communication and maturity etc to maintain. And in this relationship, both parties have to manage the disparities such that they don’t become sources of unhappiness that would break up the couple. It’s important to note that we have to take on different roles in a relationship to maintain the peace, harmony and happiness etc to keep it going strongly for the years to come. It’s inevitable that one would contribute more than the other - one is more of a giver and another the receiver, one would love the other more, one would be more patient and compromising than the other and so on. For a relationship to work, there is balance in the disparity but usually the one who gives in first would be the one who sacrifices more. At this point, this person has to accept his role willingly and without misgivings and demands. Otherwise, insecurity, unhappiness and other negative emotions will set in and sooner or later break up the relationship. 
 

So it’s true that while it takes two hands to clap to make a relationship work but one hand may have to initiate the clap while the other hand receives it. The success or failure of a long term relationship is largely dependent on the mental and emotional states of the two individuals and I haven’t even touched on the subject of sex. 😂 

 

I would like to end this lengthy post by encouraging our fellow members here to pay more attention to this area if they want a sustainable LTR. All the best to everyone in the department of love!

I would like to end this lengthy post by encouraging our fellow members here to pay more attention to this area if they want a sustainable LTR.
thanks NSA CHINESE, after reading ur thoughts, its like "Watering a Plant"... all the best as U search for an ELUSIVE LOVE 😃
                    

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Gonna give this a go so I'm: 

 

- Chinese 24 next month (I look forever younger than my age though)

- 172cm, 53kg, slim/skinny/lean 

- Vers depending on chemistry and mood ;)

- had one relationship before. 

- Working in White Collar job. 

 

Things I like to do: 

- I am a foodie so let's go to places

- Gyms, Runs, swims (being more active recently)

- Musically inclined (singer/songwriter)

- Loves travelling esp cruising. 

- Loves walking in nature, going to the beach etc.

- Netflix, TV, BL.

- Social drinking, partying, i don't smoke 

 

I'm looking for someone whose: 

- +- 5 years my age

- mature and average inteeligence, able to hold decent conservations basically

- Someone Chinese preferably

- lean/average built. 

- someone caring and loyal and emotionally available.

 

If you think we'd hit it off drop me a PM or for more instant replies tele me @wang6317

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Hi guys I am new here. 
I am currently seeking a long term relationship, and waiting to meet my other half. I am am 21yo 175 61 local chn. My interest are swimming, shopping and looking for new dining spots. I am a bottom but I am willing to top for my partner. Looking for a caring guy around my age 21-26 to be together. I am mind if my other half is a top or bottom as I believe sexual pleasure is not the only thing in a relationship. I am not looking for any ons or fwb. Please do drop me a pm if you think I am the one I am looking for. 

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Trying my luck here so here goes. 

Hello all! I am still quite new here. I never had a relationship (with a guy or a girl) and the only interest I have had was with a guy that was in Secondary School and a girl in my Poly years but I was too introverted and shy in expressing my feelings. I am a straight acting person as well and could camouflage and blend in perfectly into the society. 

In terms of sexuality, I believe I am a bisexual however I am a virgin so I am unable to confirm or deny and could potentially be gay as I have spent my whole life with the one and only dick that I have. I am unable to have sex with anyone nor do I intend on saving my virginity either. Not even a blowjob or a handjob was given or taken. I've always tried to act upon the banality of carnal desire but there's something at the back of my mind that tugs me away. The thing I desire more is companionship and raw exchange of emotion instead of physical pleasure. 

Sure I might die a virgin and I do not mind of being that way either for I firmly believe sex is a joyous occasion when the brain chemistry has factored in with emotion. Truthfully, even now, I am still unsure if this is the right path for me. 

 

 

 

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Hi,

Looking to meet sincere guys as friends, companions, go on dates to see where things could progress, ideally long term. 

 

Me: 

Friendly, open-minded, listener. If it matters, in my late 30s, m, mly, 1.73, stocky chub, flex/b. Enjoy interacting & to spend time with people of interest.

Netflix, music, movies, prefer walking over running, some outdoor activities eg. walks, picnic, maybe try holding hands at the right opportunity (if we're dating eg. during movies, etc).

 

Him:

Sincere, personable, communicative, non judgemental, committed.

Into local Asian, ie.malay, chn men, age range of 23 to 37yo, DDF, masculine traits, enjoys being outdoors as well indoors. 

 

So, If you've read this far & thinks there is a chance of match, drop me your messages and let's chat soon.

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