What Was The Worst Thing Your Ex Has Done To You After Break Up?

[Guest Manhood]

I think many brothers here are experienced adults who have met many different people in their lives. It is inevitable that not all are nice and graceful especially after break up. I would like to share one of my bad experience here.

That was more than 15 years ago and this guy was a policeman when we met. He was introduced to me by a friend and eventually we stayed together. He has very twisted character in the sense he wants to take revenge to everyone who has done something not to his liking, although those are very minor matters. I began to feel worry about his behaviour. There comes the day where we broke up due to his ex came back to him. He started to create issues to strike quarrels. I asked him why and finally he admitted he love me no more. So I requested him to move to his ex house. He was so furious about this suggestion and started to create scene in the house and outside the house. After three months of one-sided fights, he moved out without telling me. He wrote a letter to my boss, he stole my wallet and destroyed all my important documents, he cut all the telephone wires in the house, he switched on the tap and let water running in the house and he locked all the doors including his bedroom one. He also on the aircon with the windows opened. My neighbours called the management to inform me of the incident and of course I did not report to the police because I was worry that my identity would be exposed.

Now after so many years, thinking of the incident still make me scare of human. However, I was blessed after he left. I met someone who love me for the next 7 years plus another 8 years as good friends...

[slayer]

After a story like this, you think there would be anyone who can top that? hahahahaha...

Mine is not so drama. After I broke up with my bf, he waited downstairs for me on the pretext of returning some of my clothes. I took the bag from him and turned around to go home, he ran after me with a knife. Saw it just in time and missed being stabbed in my back (no pun intended) by inches.

[davecub]

Gosh, very dramatic encounters you guys had!

I am very lucky then, so far so good......managed to broke off without much problem.

One of ex-bf is still avoiding me when we happen to bump onto each other in public areas.

[Guest americanpsycho]

thats why never ever go steady with anyone. u never know when u will meet a psycho.

[Guest Brother]

I was told about this.

A guy, who is a top, broke off with his bf because he found he was cheating on him. His bf brought a few of his top friends back and fxxk him. And then left him. He felt so humilated.

[negi80]

One of my ex hid my documents and threatened to destroy all my documents, including birth cert, degree cert, passport, etc if I left him. Lucky with my best fren help, managed to find the documents before he did anything.

[happy.99]

man r weird. cannot accept rejections.

[Guest Guest]

the best way to revenge is to do it quietly....lace his fave milkshake w poison.

[Guest nancyannkissel]

dun copycat leh how abt ice tea

the best way to revenge is to do it quietly....lace his fave milkshake w poison.

[Guest guest]

i scratched his car..

[TheVisitors]

i scratched his car..

Is this all you can do?

Quite awhile ago, I was challenged by my ex to get back at him if I had the guts too. So I did because he kept harassing me and my family, when i just wanted to let go and moved on

It was about him cheating behind my back and not returning me almost 10k which he also cheated. There were many many issues.

If not for a friend who stopped me just in time, I would have lock his house with my own lock, pour kerosene through his house window (with was grilled) and curtains, and just lit a match.

If it had happened then, I wouldn't have any remorse even now. Not at all.

He deserved it.

Edited February 15, 2010 by TheVistors

[robin64]

人就因在冲动和气头上，而不顅一切后果...........

事后多年，暮然回首............自问自己.....................“值得吗”？

[lonely]

I guess love and hate is separated by a really thin line. Both feelings are just as intense. You will never dream that you can hate the guts of the guy so much when you are in love, and you also wonder whatever in the world did you see in the guy when you are not in love. But whatever the feeling is, I would advise to move on. It is for your own good as well.

Edited February 15, 2010 by lonely

[TheVisitors]

Deep in my psychology, when I want to kill, I just kill without any sense of remorse, or hesitation. Kill means kill, there's no need to think so much.Like a smart alec here who corrected me on my typo error - walk the walk to walk the talk. But to me its walk the walk. Just do it, why bother so much. To me killing anything, even a human life, if the need arises, its just like crushing an ant. There is no guilt in my world.

Its like getting rid of a nuisance once and for all, like removing a splinter which has being stuck under your skin for a very long time.

Its a relief, so why bother about guilt or remorse when there is none, even if do I look back one day.

Life is too short for hestitations.

Give them back what they like to deserve, and what they want from you. They can't blame you when you have fulfilled their wishes. You are just being very kind to them.

Strange enough, the sight of blood thrills me.

Back in those days when I was involved in street fighting, hit means hit, slash means slash etc. Its either he die or I will.

But then it seems 'luck' is always to be on my side each time when I am betrayed by someone.

Those who betrayed me end up having the taste of their medicine.

In my earlier post regarding my ex who cheated behind my back and my 10k? I think Providence has a better plan installed for him. Ended up his shop/business was burnt down, with debtors suing him .

One of my ex - I caught him red handed in bed with someone. His stupid excuse was - " because you are really fat "

Of course , inside I was laughing. Me fat? Yeah right, whatever excuses you want to give, go ahead

7yrs later

Last Dec when I sent my folks off for their vacation at the airport, I was approached by a grossly fat guy .

He had no waistline: he looked like a humpty dumpty, and I thought, Halloween's over, and its too earlier for Chingay...

Think its a 47inch waist, and coincidentally, I just bought a 47inch LCD.

"Hello" he said "Are you XXXXXXXXX? Remember me?? I am XXXXXXXX !!! >

"No" I thought " Don't remember meeting anyone as grotesque as you in my entire history"

So you know who he is. Call me fat, and your fairy godmother answered your wish.

Told me he got thyroid - a bad case - that srewed his testosterone. None of my business, whatever.

Still have the audacity to ask me for my number, but I gave him a fake one

I turned away and rolled up my eyes. Good riddance, but inside I was bleaming with joy...karma, thank you so much !!!!

In life, when there is need for immediate action in some situations, just do it.

But some really require you to think , especially when you've got this gut feeling that there's Something Greater Up there who will redress any injustice.

So there is no need for any action. Just buy your favourite popcorn,sit and wait for the the movie trailer.

[Guest]

He posted our pictures having sex in a website. I was so furious.

[Guest]

I did this to my ex, but unintentionally. He saw me in the lift and spoke to me. But I have completely forgotten about him, and I told him I think he got the wrong person. I only remember who he was after I exited from the lift. Come to think of it, even though it was unintentional, it was one good serve from me! LOL!

 

[swimlife]

On 2/15/2010 at 2:36 AM, TheVisitors said:

Deep in my psychology, when I want to kill, I just kill without any sense of remorse, or hesitation. Kill means kill, there's no need to think so much.Like a smart alec here who corrected me on my typo error - walk the walk to walk the talk. But to me its walk the walk. Just do it, why bother so much. To me killing anything, even a human life, if the need arises, its just like crushing an ant. There is no guilt in my world.

Its like getting rid of a nuisance once and for all, like removing a splinter which has being stuck under your skin for a very long time.

Its a relief, so why bother about guilt or remorse when there is none, even if do I look back one day.

Life is too short for hestitations.

Give them back what they like to deserve, and what they want from you. They can't blame you when you have fulfilled their wishes. You are just being very kind to them.

Strange enough, the sight of blood thrills me.

Back in those days when I was involved in street fighting, hit means hit, slash means slash etc. Its either he die or I will.

But then it seems 'luck' is always to be on my side each time when I am betrayed by someone.

Those who betrayed me end up having the taste of their medicine.

In my earlier post regarding my ex who cheated behind my back and my 10k? I think Providence has a better plan installed for him. Ended up his shop/business was burnt down, with debtors suing him .

One of my ex - I caught him red handed in bed with someone. His stupid excuse was - " because you are really fat "

Of course , inside I was laughing. Me fat? Yeah right, whatever excuses you want to give, go ahead

7yrs later

Last Dec when I sent my folks off for their vacation at the airport, I was approached by a grossly fat guy .

He had no waistline: he looked like a humpty dumpty, and I thought, Halloween's over, and its too earlier for Chingay...

Think its a 47inch waist, and coincidentally, I just bought a 47inch LCD.

"Hello" he said "Are you XXXXXXXXX? Remember me?? I am XXXXXXXX !!! >

"No" I thought " Don't remember meeting anyone as grotesque as you in my entire history"

So you know who he is. Call me fat, and your fairy godmother answered your wish.

Told me he got thyroid - a bad case - that srewed his testosterone. None of my business, whatever.

Still have the audacity to ask me for my number, but I gave him a fake one

I turned away and rolled up my eyes. Good riddance, but inside I was bleaming with joy...karma, thank you so much !!!!

In life, when there is need for immediate action in some situations, just do it.

But some really require you to think , especially when you've got this gut feeling that there's Something Greater Up there who will redress any injustice.

So there is no need for any action. Just buy your favourite popcorn,sit and wait for the the movie trailer.

 

 

I believe in Karma...

So better do more good to receive good karma ....

 

[vaio]

Straight couple story/

 

My friend's boyfriend bought her a phone when they were together as a gift and yeap, he requested it back when they broke up.

 

Such a bitter person.

[Guest]

Fellas, don't expose yourself to the law by taking revenge. Just live better. 比他活的好，活的更精彩！

[Guest]

Posting on FB how happy and enjoying life without me around !

[Butterscotch]

Wow I have no words.

 

The worst thing that my ex did after we have broken up was to easily move on to another relationship. Tame by this thread's comparisons, but at that point of time I cannot fathom how he was able to get together with someone else after we have broken up. Oh well.

[Guest Soreloser]

I actually cried for about a month. Can't sleep and eat well. I lose 70 lbs that time and tried to avoid someone who wants to talk.

[Guest Guest]

He let one of our cats die.

[gc0805]

mine asked to borrow money from me immediately after our break up. i said no, blocked his number and email and sever all ties with him.

he's tried a few times to contact me, but i blew him off and changed all my numbers. what a prick!

[camus]

i'm ashamed to say i scratched my ex's car when we broke up. however, that was when i was much younger and impulsive.

[Guest Eyes_open_bigbig]

I'm aware he's always on the prowl for some reason in these forum. Never Learn and Good Luck!

[Guest ZenLife]

On 16 February 2010 at 2:36 AM, TheVisitors said:

Deep in my psychology, when I want to kill, I just kill without any sense of remorse, or hesitation. Kill means kill, there's no need to think so much.Like a smart alec here who corrected me on my typo error - walk the walk to walk the talk. But to me its walk the walk. Just do it, why bother so much. To me killing anything, even a human life, if the need arises, its just like crushing an ant. There is no guilt in my world.

Its like getting rid of a nuisance once and for all, like removing a splinter which has being stuck under your skin for a very long time.

Its a relief, so why bother about guilt or remorse when there is none, even if do I look back one day.

Life is too short for hestitations.

Give them back what they like to deserve, and what they want from you. They can't blame you when you have fulfilled their wishes. You are just being very kind to them.

Strange enough, the sight of blood thrills me.

Back in those days when I was involved in street fighting, hit means hit, slash means slash etc. Its either he die or I will.

But then it seems 'luck' is always to be on my side each time when I am betrayed by someone.

Those who betrayed me end up having the taste of their medicine.

In my earlier post regarding my ex who cheated behind my back and my 10k? I think Providence has a better plan installed for him. Ended up his shop/business was burnt down, with debtors suing him .

One of my ex - I caught him red handed in bed with someone. His stupid excuse was - " because you are really fat "

Of course , inside I was laughing. Me fat? Yeah right, whatever excuses you want to give, go ahead

7yrs later

Last Dec when I sent my folks off for their vacation at the airport, I was approached by a grossly fat guy .

He had no waistline: he looked like a humpty dumpty, and I thought, Halloween's over, and its too earlier for Chingay...

Think its a 47inch waist, and coincidentally, I just bought a 47inch LCD.

"Hello" he said "Are you XXXXXXXXX? Remember me?? I am XXXXXXXX !!! >

"No" I thought " Don't remember meeting anyone as grotesque as you in my entire history"

So you know who he is. Call me fat, and your fairy godmother answered your wish.

Told me he got thyroid - a bad case - that srewed his testosterone. None of my business, whatever.

Still have the audacity to ask me for my number, but I gave him a fake one

I turned away and rolled up my eyes. Good riddance, but inside I was bleaming with joy...karma, thank you so much !!!!

In life, when there is need for immediate action in some situations, just do it.

But some really require you to think , especially when you've got this gut feeling that there's Something Greater Up there who will redress any injustice.

So there is no need for any action. Just buy your favourite popcorn,sit and wait for the the movie trailer.

 

I hope you move on from the hurt and pain. I am a follow of Zen Philosophy which focuses on the NOW and that life opens up from our choices in life.

 

I would say that I did not have any "bad relationships" but were sorely disappointed by the gay dating scene after coming out quite late in life. I am not ugly but I am not rich or 'fabulous', ended up with most of the people lying to me just to get sex/ONS. They often have hidden/secret relationships typically with rich/fabulous boyfriends. I was very lucky to make handful of real friends (which is very tough in the Singapore gay circles where certain kind of looks, background/status and money are worshipped, where friendships are mostly based on what advantages one can get) and noticed how two of them (who are below average looking but have very good high paying jobs) getting "hot" boyfriends one after another without problem but often end up having dramas (which is mentioned in this thread). Hence everyone will have their own set of problems, even with money/status does not mean one's life is drama free and always happy.

 

I realised the universe opens up for us a path based on our decision. Thus I decided not to be bitter anymore, to put behind my baggage, and live a positive life (consciously having logical/rational/positive thoughts, actions and decisions). 

 

I hope the same for you :).

[doncoin]

Why are we focused on the hurtful things that had happened? Why are we even comparing notes on who had it worst? Seriously guys, there is no prize for who had the worst thing done to him by an ex. Look at the term ex. Ex meaning, expired, extinct, extinguished... whatever it is, it is in the past.  However badly things ended, you are still around, and so is he. Figure out a way to co-exist, with or without being in each others' lives. Move on. 

 

 Focus on the happier aspects of your life instead the misery of the past. 

[TheVisitors]

20 hours ago, Guest ZenLife said:

 

I hope you move on from the hurt and pain. I am a follow of Zen Philosophy which focuses on the NOW and that life opens up from our choices in life.

 

I would say that I did not have any "bad relationships" but were sorely disappointed by the gay dating scene after coming out quite late in life. I am not ugly but I am not rich or 'fabulous', ended up with most of the people lying to me just to get sex/ONS. They often have hidden/secret relationships typically with rich/fabulous boyfriends. I was very lucky to make handful of real friends (which is very tough in the Singapore gay circles where certain kind of looks, background/status and money are worshipped, where friendships are mostly based on what advantages one can get) and noticed how two of them (who are below average looking but have very good high paying jobs) getting "hot" boyfriends one after another without problem but often end up having dramas (which is mentioned in this thread). Hence everyone will have their own set of problems, even with money/status does not mean one's life is drama free and always happy.

 

I realised the universe opens up for us a path based on our decision. Thus I decided not to be bitter anymore, to put behind my baggage, and live a positive life (consciously having logical/rational/positive thoughts, actions and decisions). 

 

I hope the same for you :).

Dude...move on !!!

That post was written in 2010...!!!!!

[fab]

He said being loved by a wrong person is a suffering and he has the experience.

 

[Guest Guest]

22 hours ago, Guest Eyes_open_bigbig said:

I'm aware he's always on the prowl for some reason in these forum. Never Learn and Good Luck!

 

and his prowling here is the worst thing he had done to you after break up?

[Ener]

2 hours ago, TheVisitors said:

Dude...move on !!!

That post was written in 2010...!!!!!

Hahaha!!! HAH HAH HAHA...!!!! A haha haha a!!!!!!! *Chokes* "Zen Philosophy" reminds me about inner peace and all the other bull crap. Anyway, this kinda stuff are most probably related to being 1) ignorant 2) self denial 3) choosing to hide or run away from facts. 4) brain washing. 

[Ener]

eh salah wrong quote sial. Lolz!

[Guest Compare cock]

My bf likes to compare his cock length to mine and we have countless arguments over whose is longer, thicker and last longer.... Do you get that from your boy Friend? I am kind of getting tired of his cruel jokes abt my cock length and how fast I cum in certain positions....

he has a thick one and he can control his cum so he is actually god send for bottoms or sluts w pussies. I don't like anal so we end up doing cock fight and rubbing only...

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, Guest Compare cock said:

My bf likes to compare his cock length to mine and we have countless arguments over whose is longer, thicker and last longer.... Do you get that from your boy Friend? I am kind of getting tired of his cruel jokes abt my cock length and how fast I cum in certain positions....

he has a thick one and he can control his cum so he is actually god send for bottoms or sluts w pussies. I don't like anal so we end up doing cock fight and rubbing only...

wtf.lolxxx

[cutejack]

On Sunday, September 04, 2016 at 11:23 PM, camus said:

i'm ashamed to say i scratched my ex's car when we broke up. however, that was when i was much younger and impulsive.

not shame.cute isnt it?childish mah.lolx

[EasleyLim]

The worst i got was just someone asking me to return his share of the costs for the dates we went on. Looking back, i really dodged a bullet there.

[cutejack]

actually to me although he left for someone else.i ever love him/date him.so cost of dating is nothing.i dont hate my exs so r they i believe.

[Guest Timid Bottom]

On 2/13/2010 at 1:47 PM, Guest americanpsycho said:

thats why never ever go steady with anyone. u never know when u will meet a psycho.

Yea, kind of scaries after reading all the above encounters.  I've better find someone soft and gentle as my bf, don't want to end up me being killed in my sleep or someone poisioned my food.

[Guest]

For me all I rmb was crying and screaming haha and then get back together again and then screaming crying occurred again.

Btw-mine one is just friendship not relationship

[Guest Ouch!]

I didn't know you guys all have "bf".  In the past, I thought bw members all are desperate lonely, soul looking for love. 

I never have any ex bf or any bf at all.  After reading the post, how did you even started and than broke off so painfully?  Was it because the source of your finds were completely wrong in the first place?  I better look for someone studios, decent and shy, which could be a safe bet rather than rowdy, beng and bitchy type.

[Guest Harvey]

On 07/09/2016 at 0:36 AM, Guest Ouch! said:

I didn't know you guys all have "bf".  In the past, I thought bw members all are desperate lonely, soul looking for love. 

I never have any ex bf or any bf at all.  After reading the post, how did you even started and than broke off so painfully?  Was it because the source of your finds were completely wrong in the first place?  I better look for someone studios, decent and shy, which could be a safe bet rather than rowdy, beng and bitchy type.

 

You can find all types of people here. Some are kind and some are rude. Lucky if you meet in personal the good ones.

[Guest Housecleaning]

My ex brought his brother in a truck and helped themselves with my bed, fridge, washing machine, TV, PC, and gym equipment, etc., when I was overseas.  My sister who held the key to my place thought I had move out haha...

[ahb0yy91]

1 hour ago, Guest Housecleaning said:

My ex brought his brother in a truck and helped themselves with my bed, fridge, washing machine, TV, PC, and gym equipment, etc., when I was overseas.  My sister who held the key to my place thought I had move out haha...

Oh my 

 

hope you're joking lol

[ahb0yy91]

On 16/02/2010 at 2:36 AM, TheVisitors said:

Deep in my psychology, when I want to kill, I just kill without any sense of remorse, or hesitation. Kill means kill, there's no need to think so much.Like a smart alec here who corrected me on my typo error - walk the walk to walk the talk. But to me its walk the walk. Just do it, why bother so much. To me killing anything, even a human life, if the need arises, its just like crushing an ant. There is no guilt in my world.

Its like getting rid of a nuisance once and for all, like removing a splinter which has being stuck under your skin for a very long time.

Its a relief, so why bother about guilt or remorse when there is none, even if do I look back one day.

Life is too short for hestitations.

Give them back what they like to deserve, and what they want from you. They can't blame you when you have fulfilled their wishes. You are just being very kind to them.

Strange enough, the sight of blood thrills me.

Back in those days when I was involved in street fighting, hit means hit, slash means slash etc. Its either he die or I will.

But then it seems 'luck' is always to be on my side each time when I am betrayed by someone.

Those who betrayed me end up having the taste of their medicine.

In my earlier post regarding my ex who cheated behind my back and my 10k? I think Providence has a better plan installed for him. Ended up his shop/business was burnt down, with debtors suing him .

One of my ex - I caught him red handed in bed with someone. His stupid excuse was - " because you are really fat "

Of course , inside I was laughing. Me fat? Yeah right, whatever excuses you want to give, go ahead

7yrs later

Last Dec when I sent my folks off for their vacation at the airport, I was approached by a grossly fat guy .

He had no waistline: he looked like a humpty dumpty, and I thought, Halloween's over, and its too earlier for Chingay...

Think its a 47inch waist, and coincidentally, I just bought a 47inch LCD.

"Hello" he said "Are you XXXXXXXXX? Remember me?? I am XXXXXXXX !!! >

"No" I thought " Don't remember meeting anyone as grotesque as you in my entire history"

So you know who he is. Call me fat, and your fairy godmother answered your wish.

Told me he got thyroid - a bad case - that srewed his testosterone. None of my business, whatever.

Still have the audacity to ask me for my number, but I gave him a fake one

I turned away and rolled up my eyes. Good riddance, but inside I was bleaming with joy...karma, thank you so much !!!!

In life, when there is need for immediate action in some situations, just do it.

But some really require you to think , especially when you've got this gut feeling that there's Something Greater Up there who will redress any injustice.

So there is no need for any action. Just buy your favourite popcorn,sit and wait for the the movie trailer.

Right now I believe in karma After reading what you wrote 

[doncoin]

Break ups happen all the time. They hurt and the experience is painful. However, think of each break up as a crystalization process on how you want your relationship to be the next time. Reflect and think of the things you like and want out of your next relationship and what you can do to be better.

 

It is normal to feel anger but when you dig deeper, it is more about pain and hurt. Anger is just a misdirected expression of the pain you feel. It helps avoid having to deal with feeling abandoned, and whatever fears you may have, alone. 

 

So, some exes get into a spiteful mode after a break up. Some insensitively post their new relationship on social media etc. Whatever the behaviour is, it is history. You will get over the hurt and the pain.