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Married, 40s, with kids. Some people have told me that I'm so straight I can be used to check a straight line on a building. But I have known I was bisexual since I was 14 or 15? From a boys' school and spent a lot of time with a Chinese classmate and became best buds, and as it transpired, much more. Big, friendly, clean Chinese guy with uncut cock and really sexy feet. Spent a lot of time on the sports fields and in the bathrooms and over at each other's house, and I guess we were comfortable enough to be nude around each other.

We'd masturbated together to Japanese girlie pxxno mags he had, and one day, he asked to suck my cock and I let him. I enjoyed it very much, even giving me a footjob, and the experience of kneeling while i jacked him off later was incredible. I guess that really shaped my penchants and tastes in sex for years to come, even into adulthood and even with the women that I chose. But then we went our separate paths in life, even became a bit cold to one another before that happened and we fell out of touch.

Always was difficult for me with women (been married twice), very awkward and not exactly a lady's man, just the "really smart/nice guy/it's your mind I love" ***groan***. In contrast, he's pretty much the only person who thought I was hot as is. Come to think of it, the FEW times I have been told "you're hot" was from gay men.

Idealising the impossible? Seeking him in women. Maybe. I guess. Sort of.

I've never touched another guy since him, mainly because I took to women, too. Been in two marriages, and my relationship with all of my women - whether wife or girlfriends - has always seemed to come to a standstill sexually, including my present one. Why I "went straight" is beyond me. True blue Singaporean perhaps, succumb to the social pressure and do what society/family/people think best.

Perhaps I'm compensating, because my old friend has always been a staple of my very active fantasy life. I don't know. Now that I'm older, I accept that I'm bi and am open to the idea of a relationship in some form with another man. I guess he has been my "ideal type" and since then, a tall, slightly chubby fair-skinned Chinese guy with a nice broad face and a friendly smile has always turned me on.

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Would like to know more bisexual to share their experience and meet up for chat /drinks/ movie.

Any bi or confuse case out there wish to click ?

I'm bisex, am proud to be a bisex, half of my friends know that i am bisex

and why can't chat here???

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i'm married with 2 kids 32 years old this year. i have tried having sex with the same guy twice, the last time was quite long ago. each time after having sex with him i always feel very lousy and remourseful, somehow feel that i disappointed my wife and children and running thr risk of contracting STD justs scares me (although there were no intercouse just bj and jerk off together). I told myself i'm not going to do it again, but then after awhile the feeling of having sex with a guy comes back again.. haha.. i guess bi will be bi..

hv the same feeling here. as married guy, we tense to hv the responsibility towards our family, right??

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Absolutely! I can get off on both for quite different reasons.

I have an image of getting horny watching a 'straight' pxxno dvd with another guy. As we get more in to it we would both jack off and then see where that ultimately takes us.

Any takers?...................

I love it.. but do u have place? Make sure the guy in the pxxn is hot too...

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I love girls and boys, but I'm only attracted to boys sexually. So what does that make me?

Someone who knows what he wants and gets it. heh :clap:

** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021.

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My first lover was a guy and we stayed together for 6.5 yrs, my second lover is a girl for about 10yrs now.

I find I enjoy both the male body and the female body as long as guys are muscular and women have nice boobs and curves. yes I guess I am pretty much affected by the general image of what hotties should look like.

Having said that I think I am in general into new excitements (say anonymous sex) so having a stable relationship NOT what I need. It just happens to me.

My ideal situation is having a threesome or more with hotties, male and female couple(s). ;P

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May I ask a question, and i believe only Bi will know the ans accurately...

While comparing fxxk a arse hole and virgina, which one is better?

I think this was somewhat addressed elsewhere in the forum.

The vagina is meant to match the penis, and therefore easier to enter.

While the anus is smaller and has a sphincter muscle to control the opening and therefore takes some time to penetrate.

But if you are talking about the "shiok"ness of it, i think that is subjective to individual bah.... hahaha.... :lol:

"You like who you like lah. Who cares if someone likes the other someone because of their race? It's when they hate them. That's the problem."

Orked (acted by Sharifah Amani) in SEPET (2004, directed by Yasmin Ahmad)

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May I ask a question, and i believe only Bi will know the ans accurately...

While comparing fxxk a arse hole and virgina, which one is better?

If fxxking is just about the hole.. than I think you have been doing it wrong all this time. :P

** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021.

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It is alright, North90. It doesn't matter what other people label you. Do whatever to make you happy. :)

Dun jump into conclusion immediately. We do go through a phase during which we like friends of the same sex, being very intimate too. Usually as a teenager. It can be mere curiosity some times.

I am married with a child. It's not a happy ending to have both a 'normal' family and still true to yourself in terms of sex orientation. Btw, it's not always just the arse hole that we long for. It includes loving hugs, passionate kisses and sensual caress. That alone brings remorse and guilt at times.

Think again seriously before you decide which direction u r heading. : )

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I am a 25/175/65 chinese, currently attach with my gf. Last night i just have a bisexual sex (without my gf) i am not too sure is this call cheating. A fren of mine is an event planning he told me that there are some party going on and need some male guy to accompany (dont want to pay too much) so i 'sell' my service to this party. It was actually a girl and a guy birthday and of cause of there PR girls was around and some other guys (dunno str8 or gay) also around. In total there are abt 15-20 of us.

So the party goes on all night long,I got hook up on birthday girl at 1st. Chitchat and drink and hug here and there. She suddenly get so high that she start dancing and end of the day she pound onto my legs and sit on my little bro. She twist and move around, it seem to be like to did it on purpose to make it hard. In the end i got real hard that i got to go toliet and release it. As i walk off a guy who was in the event follow me and he give me a sign that he is here to help me to slove my problem. In the end i enjoy myself in the toliet for 30min, he really bj well. When i am back i am at my full attention seeking for new target for my next enjoyment. In the end my fren told me that it gonna be over soon as they got 3rooms at fullerton hotel, so in the end he send some of us over there to hangout more. As we were at the hotel there couple wait already, most already french kiss here and there. So 1 room for the foursome couple, 1 room for the gays (i was like dying to go in) and lastly 1 room for the birthday boy and girl (they are couple).

As i went into the gay room and get myself ready, i was pull back by the birthday girl. We start kissing and of cause we touch each other. The birthday boy was so drunk that he was on the bed. Me and the girl carry on and in the end my little bro want to be inside her, i took of her clothes and she unzip my little bro and take him out. She is damn good at bj and she know when i will cum and where to find my weak spot. By the time i want to her in bed, the birthday boy was awake, i was like wtf... he repiled: carry on with her, i will join u later. I cant wait any longer as i need to get into her puxxy. As we fxxk each other for abt 30min the birthday boy is back and he ask for a threesome. Without thinking he take off his pants and fxxk me from the back.

3 of us have a wonderful night, i cant remember who fxxk who but i think all of us get fxxk. I enjoy this event so much that i told my fren if next time have such 'hot' event pls call me. Btw am up for another event, this time is just me and 2 les couple. They have not try before a dixk so i will show them my power.

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o it has been a long time since I had visited a gay forum..... I supposed my marriage life to my wife and the working schedule has keep me busy. I do enjoy my wife company and sexual exploration. However, recently I began to miss my ex-bf, I missed his touch and laughter. Is this brotherhood or a bisexual feeling. God knows. Wander anyone is in the same boat as me?

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Thinking of going to One Seven sometime next week. Want to make use of the gym equipment but workout naked. So far i've seen guys there work out with towels on. Is everybody still shy about baring all? I think it's exciting to let someone see me in full view. Should be liberating!

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i'm married with 2 kids 32 years old this year. i have tried having sex with the same guy twice, the last time was quite long ago. each time after having sex with him i always feel very lousy and remourseful, somehow feel that i disappointed my wife and children and running thr risk of contracting STD justs scares me (although there were no intercouse just bj and jerk off together). I told myself i'm not going to do it again, but then after awhile the feeling of having sex with a guy comes back again.. haha.. i guess bi will be bi..

Same scenario as you.

Married with kids.

Keep trying to resist but when the urge comes, I break all the rules and I do even more. Seems more like dieting.haha

I feel lousy and try to justify my homosexuality with poor sex w my wife. Just cannot stand a woman who giggles during sex.

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Same scenario as you.

Married with kids.

Keep trying to resist but when the urge comes, I break all the rules and I do even more. Seems more like dieting.haha

I feel lousy and try to justify my homosexuality with poor sex w my wife. Just cannot stand a woman who giggles during sex.

Think you tickle her too much down there la. :whistle:

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I'm s 20 year old Indian guy,I always thought i'm straight as a bamboo pole.But then after one encounter in the toilet,i saw a guy strokin,and i got very turned on.I dun even know how and why.After tt incident when i have encounters in toilets,after we both jack each other off, not bjs whatsoever as i really fear the risk of contractin STD from random ppl and anal is a big no no fer me..I feel very very guilty.like as tho i did the biggest crime ever.BTW ive got a gf for 3yrs and i'm very happy with her.Sometimes i feel ive got serious issues.Hais!What am i to do?Please advise bros,Should i just stop whatever i'm doin?

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I'm s 20 year old Indian guy,I always thought i'm straight as a bamboo pole.But then after one encounter in the toilet,i saw a guy strokin,and i got very turned on.I dun even know how and why.After tt incident when i have encounters in toilets,after we both jack each other off, not bjs whatsoever as i really fear the risk of contractin STD from random ppl and anal is a big no no fer me..I feel very very guilty.like as tho i did the biggest crime ever.BTW ive got a gf for 3yrs and i'm very happy with her.Sometimes i feel ive got serious issues.Hais!What am i to do?Please advise bros,Should i just stop whatever i'm doin?

Life is like that. IT teases you from time to time. It's ok to have j/o fun. Think you should try bj too. it will blow your mind away : D

btw, be safe. oral without condoms can bring you std as well.

you can be straight, and have fun with guys once in a while. Just consider it a guy game : )

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yea i'd always wanted to try bj,just tt d thought of wad d other guy mite b carryin,as ive encountered alot of guys

who offer bjs just after 5-10mins? n then d thought of god knows who else have they blown as they just seem to b very unsafe by their actioms just sets

me aback,i mean fer just 15mins of pleasure,i wlden wanna spend d rest of my life worrying..mayb i'm just weird,i dunno.tts why i just stop

at j/o.

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yea i'd always wanted to try bj,just tt d thought of wad d other guy mite b carryin,as ive encountered alot of guys

who offer bjs just after 5-10mins? n then d thought of god knows who else have they blown as they just seem to b very unsafe by their actioms just sets

me aback,i mean fer just 15mins of pleasure,i wlden wanna spend d rest of my life worrying..mayb i'm just weird,i dunno.tts why i just stop

at j/o.

I,m in the same shoes as you. curious to try but something keeps holding me back. I guess if I find someone who thinks and feels the same I might try it anyway.

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Thinking of going to One Seven sometime next week. Want to make use of the gym equipment but workout naked. So far i've seen guys there work out with towels on. Is everybody still shy about baring all? I think it's exciting to let someone see me in full view. Should be liberating!

R u sure, u will bare all? Let me know when u will be going. I shall see u bare...if u dare, why not?

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