Fallen In Love With My Fuck Buddy (Compiled)

[davecub]

A friend of mine had a fxxk buddy but eventually both fell in love. In order to be fair to his bf and fb, he decided to terminate the relationship. Being single, his fxxk buddy feels hurt and heart broken.

Did anyone here have similar experience? How did you handle the situation? Please share your views and expereinces.

[Guest horhor]

Yes, like the Jack Neo's drama .... my friend's fxxx buddy waited for him outside his apartment to "sort things out". At the end, my friend lost both - his BF (for 10 years) and his fxxx buddy. So, remember to wipe your mouth clean after 偷吃 or don't go it at all.

[muscleworship]

A friend of mine had a fxxk buddy but eventually both fell in love. In order to be fair to his bf and fb, he decided to terminate the relationship. Being single, his fxxk buddy feels hurt and heart broken.

Did anyone here have similar experience? How did you handle the situation? Please share your views and expereinces.

Jack Neo also has a FB.. both also fell in love(or so they said)... look how he handle the situation lor...

Of course, some day we will meet the right person at the right place, doing the right thing at the wrong time....that's what make our partner special from the rest...

Edited March 9, 2010 by muscleworship

[MarriedTop]

I agree with Dave. Here is to share our views rather than ads.

[Guest guest]

I agree with Dave. Here is to share our views rather than ads.

Dear MarriedTop - I will love to be your regular FB, and then I shall drop by your place and meet your wife

[Guest fxxkbuddy]

Being a fb, it is important to follow the rules of the game - no string attached. If you can't, don't do it. Otherwise you only can blame yourself.

I used to have a fb and we enjoyed each other very much....till one day he wanted me to himself and asked me to leave my bf. I said no and eventually he cut me out of his life. I don't blame him, he did what he thought is right and fair.

Well, at least we had a great time together. Life goes on.....

[Guest jayy]

I find it funny how people are discussing 'bf' and 'fb's so rationally. If you really love someone, why do you have to screw someone on the side?

[slayer]

I find it funny how people are discussing 'bf' and 'fb's so rationally. If you really love someone, why do you have to screw someone on the side?

There's no hard and fast rule about how a relationship should be. The quantums might differ but the final opbjective is still the same, remain as a couple.

A lot of us have been conditioned by society that a relationship only has two people and it should ALWAYS be that way. It doesn't work for some of us. Some go for an open arrangement and are fine with it (like in my case).

This doesn't only happens with gay couples, but straight (married) ones as well. A well-known gay bar in Tanjong Pagar hosts a Swingers Nite for straight couples once a week, in case you want to get all icky about this.

Watch and learn... Don't be so quick to conclude everything you see.

[Guest Guest]

There's no hard and fast rule about how a relationship should be. The quantums might differ but the final opbjective is still the same, remain as a couple.

A lot of us have been conditioned by society that a relationship only has two people and it should ALWAYS be that way. It doesn't work for some of us. Some go for an open arrangement and are fine with it (like in my case).

This doesn't only happens with gay couples, but straight (married) ones as well. A well-known gay bar in Tanjong Pagar hosts a Swingers Nite for straight couples once a week, in case you want to get all icky about this.

Watch and learn... Don't be so quick to conclude everything you see.

Yeah, for some the idea of having more than one partner is totally unthinkable yet for others sticking to just the one is just as unthinkable. There is no right and wrong, just what is right and wrong for oneself.

[slayer]

Yeah, for some the idea of having more than one partner is totally unthinkable yet for others sticking to just the one is just as unthinkable. There is no right and wrong, just what is right and wrong for oneself.

Not so much for "oneself" like you mentioned. But your partner needs to be on the same page as you too. Otherwise the notion of a "relationship" will still not come to fruition.

[Guest newguy2l]

I find it funny how people are discussing 'bf' and 'fb's so rationally. If you really love someone, why do you have to screw someone on the side?

love = kiss kiss hug hug tender

sex = raw throbbing urges

not the same

2 saperate parts of my life

get real jayy - 70-80% of everybody plays around

and that includes st8s and females too

so if u think u gonna get attached / married and be happily monogamous for hte rest of your life - u gonna get some hard knocks coming

this is my chance to stand up and show my support for tiger woods, john terry, ashley cole and jack neo - u go guys !! do it if u can

[Guest newguy2l]

fxxk buddys - I always wanted one - so convenient and safe and satisfying

but I got problems with them

first fxxk - exciting

second fxxk - not so exciting

third fxxk - lost interest

dont call me - i'll call u

u guys got same problems?? I love the idea of a fb but i lose interest after 3 fxxks

[davecub]

Really? Interesting. No wonder some friends said that they have a few fxxk buddies at the same time instead of one only.

fxxk buddys - I always wanted one - so convenient and safe and satisfying

but I got problems with them

first fxxk - exciting

second fxxk - not so exciting

third fxxk - lost interest

dont call me - i'll call u

u guys got same problems?? I love the idea of a fb but i lose interest after 3 fxxks

[Guest Guest]

fxxk buddys - I always wanted one - so convenient and safe and satisfying

but I got problems with them

first fxxk - exciting

second fxxk - not so exciting

third fxxk - lost interest

dont call me - i'll call u

u guys got same problems?? I love the idea of a fb but i lose interest after 3 fxxks

Haha that fast is only mns many night stands, not fb. But quite true, fb means no string attached, yuan jer shang kou. It is expected to end anytime.

Also the top is usually the active one, touch here touch there to see your body nice enough or not. He do the chasing, buying Carlsberg and seafood mean he spending investments. After a few times accepting the makan and beer then must pay back in bed. Then come honeymoon period he want his money worth back. Then sometime he ask me to let his friend try me. Then after few months to a year he consider you makaned already so no more belanjar makan or beer only coffee then soon we decide to stop. Depend on who find new fb first.

[Guest guest]

Haha that fast is only mns many night stands, not fb. But quite true, fb means no string attached, yuan jer shang kou. It is expected to end anytime.

Also the top is usually the active one, touch here touch there to see your body nice enough or not. He do the chasing, buying Carlsberg and seafood mean he spending investments. After a few times accepting the makan and beer then must pay back in bed. Then come honeymoon period he want his money worth back. Then sometime he ask me to let his friend try me. Then after few months to a year he consider you makaned already so no more belanjar makan or beer only coffee then soon we decide to stop. Depend on who find new fb first.

That's already more than fb. My experience: fb means just meet for fun. Nothing more. So far this has worked out well for me & a few fb (in fact, one fb and I meet at irregular intervals, sometimes maybe 2x a year, over the last 5 or 6 years). Others just naturally drift away after a few sessions. Those that expect anything more, somehow we don't call each other anymore.. no fuss, no animosity. Just move on. But almost all remain a nice memory. And it's nice.

[Guest Guest]

You talk like being a bottom is less of a human. You did flip, after all, didn't you? You did enjoy it, didn't you? So what is the issue here?

Come on lah, let's be realistic. Bottom is always considered lower staus than top by most gays and even worse by the str8.

Most str8 thought only sissies or younger men are bottoms. Last time when my fb's room mate caught us in bed, he was shocked to see me getting fxxked. They were from the same town sharing room but seperate beds to save money. I had met him casually when meeting my fb and we talked friendly before. He never suspected my fb and me. After that my fb and me quickly broke off.

Unfortunately Singapore so small, I bumped into this str8 uncle while having supper at Maxwell. I cannot just run off so obviously. So die die had to acknowledge back his friendly "hello how r u?" Then suay suay a few tables away a few sissies were giggly to each other like schoolgirls.

Then he shot that dreaded question "so sorry I am from small suaku town I never thought you all having sex that day."

My face turn red, his turn lagi red but he offered me his Guiness. Last time we ever talked about why he need it for the hot hard work for strength and cooling. And of course needing it before visiting Kong Siak chicken nearby.

Without thinking, I declined and without thinking, he said," oh sorry you no need that kind of strength."

I got angry without thinking and scolded him,"knn what you mean by that?"

He just smiled and shrugged his shoulders," sorry sorry, just sit down can?"

Then my chrysanthemum tea came because it was a very hot day. He looked at my chrysanthemum tea and tried to be nice by saying," chrysanthemum tea also good for cooling lah then you no need Guiness."

Then don't know why so bad luck, my chap chai rice's soy sauce chicken meat got chicken backside inside which I quickly pushed out of my plate. He stared at the chicken backside,"alamak backside again no wonder my 4D missed one number so many times..." he was muttering to himself.

Suddenly I understood what he was grumbling about!!!

That night he was supposed to be on 3rd shift so we forgot lock the door. And I remembered that when my fb pulled out in surprise, I was left with my legs open wide and my wet, red and puffy hole was exposed for a few moments that he obviously saw. Then I grabbed my clothes put them on and ran out immediately.

And he still blame me for his bad luck. Because of their very low pay, they buy very few lottery tickets and talked endlessly about ways to find luck or avoid bad luck. And women are the source of many bad lucks like their cb when open until can see inside, menstrual blood, their underwear, or woman on top of man during sex.... so many that it makes you wonder if they despise women yet like them only for sex.

I now got the feeling that he despised me but yet curious about me and gay sex. Last time he always grumbled about money no enough and complained that even aunty chicken are so expensive and even asked me for lobang to find free women since he considered himself yandao also. I remember one time he even joked that aiyah men also can.

And that half finished bottle of Guiness meant he was looking for chicken later. At that time 10men club was still across the road and well....I had been well pumped already.

And he quietly told me my fb got a girl friend already but not as nice as me?? Me nice?? Girls are supposed to be nicer right?? I was surprised that they didn't quarrel and split. And tonight my fb turn for 3rd shift...hinting what??

"alamak you sweat until all wet, want to come and shower at my house?" Oh one time he almost surprised us but we already finished and I was walking out of shower in his towel and gave the excuse that I needed a shower because I sweat easily. He didn't suspect a thing then and never even bother to change the towel, just strip to his underwear and take the towel to shower. Wooo nice body, I thought that time.

I felt that though he was hinting, he really was not sure about it and it was his hornyness and the alcohol making him talk that way. Wait, he's supposed to be str8 and married. Away from home he was free from worries yet needed release. Well if my fb can do it so can he.

But for goodness sake I was about his age and nowhere near the pretty girls that he described last time. Who are we kidding?

Well, at least until I felt his hand on my knee. Again I was wearing khaki shorts because of the extremely hot weather. I felt electric shocks up my groins. Then he quickly retracted his hand. Obviously it is now yuan jer shang kou. This can only be another fb thing or ons and he freak out in the morning? But will my ex-fb mind?

[fatguy]

i also fell in love with my fk buddy...

it's hard not too, especially when you spend so much time making love.

haizzzzz.....

now must learn, fk buddy cannot fall in love, it's all just physical.

anyway, now i no fk at all, worst.

[Guest J]

About a month ago I got to know one fxxk buddy, with whom we had sex. Since then, we've met up an average of once or twice a week, and we've got to know each other much better and more intimately.

I do like him a fair bit and guess that I'm falling for him, even though he's attached to someone else. I really like him a lot.

Sigh...

[Behrhunter]

I'll say you fess up to him.

I think its not a bad suggestion but only you know what your fb is like. I believe that many of us have experienced this at one point or another.

While I am not trying to promote any sexual idealogy, I don't agree that since he is sleeping outside of his relationship as a sign of him being open to a new relationship. Unfortunately the arrangement from one couple to another couple is not the same. Some are in open relationships, some are monogamous but one secretly sleeps outside, some are 'monogamous' and as long as the other doesn't see the other person having sex with someone else they are fine, I even have friends who made arrangements that they are free to sleep with anyone when they are outside of Singapore. Many arrangements like these and many more in-between arrangements.

A lot of guys who sleep outside are still very much 'attached' to their boyfriends be it due to not wanting to go into the dating game again, age factors, or mere complacency.

If it was me, I personally prefer not the get entangled with an attached guy. But if you really wanna indulge yourself in it. Take time and also evaluate. Take time to understand that guy - not sure how much time u spend with your FB. Sometimes we do talk about some stuff (i know those who are strict fxxk and bye), from here hopefully you can find some hints as in to what he feels about you, what he is really seeking. From the many people whom i know cheated, they merely wanted variety and excitement and nothing else.

Evaluate yourself - I am not sure how long you have know him but this might be an infatuation and may be short lived - Only you + time can tell. Evaluate and understand that you may or may not lose him as a friend or as an FB. If you confess your love for him, there is a possibility that nothing will happen and everything becomes back to normal. There is a possibility ( depending on his past experiences, because some of us have had fatal attractions where someone goes through extreme measures to obtain their man ) that he might fear that you'd sabotage his relationship for your good. Sometimes its just as simple as the other guy might just feel that the emotional involvement is more than he can or is willing to handle and decides to bail out. So, have yourself evaluate and 'prepare' for the worse, thought most of us usually can't truly be prepared for the worse.

Just my thoughts.

Edited November 2, 2010 by Behrhunter

[Guest KL]

I am attached for 2.5yrs but my bf is of low sex drive while I hv high sex drive.. Thus we got problem in our sex life... But I still low him n yet want to satisfy my sexual desire thus decided to hv a fb...

Had a v good fb early this year and agreed no string attached. After 8 mths, my fb suddenly told me that we want to stop seeing me for awhile as he has somewhat fallen for me. I respected his decision n hv stop seeing each other.

Just found myself another fb abt 2mths ago... He stated with no string attached in his threat... We get along v well n enjoyed each other sex and companionship... Now he is telling me that he too has fallen for me!

(I believe he will be reading this as I found him fr BW )

Perhaps I shd not be too nice to all but then it's just not me!!! I wld always prefer to treat others the way I wanted to be treated... On one hand I hope that I can continue to be with this fb but on the other hand I can't simply breakup with my bf to be with him... Hope that we will be able to work things out to have a win-win solution!!!

I know some of you may say that I am just being greedy or selfish...or unfair to both my b and fb... Anyone have similar situation to share your thoughts or suggestions?

[Guest Guest]

I'm a bit sadden reading this. I've fallen for a married guy and we are not even fxxk buddies.

[Guest boy2man]

Just found myself another fb abt 2mths ago... He stated with no string attached in his threat... We get along v well n enjoyed each other sex and companionship... Now he is telling me that he too has fallen for me!

(I believe he will be reading this as I found him fr BW )

Perhaps I shd not be too nice to all but then it's just not me!!! I wld always prefer to treat others the way I wanted to be treated... On one hand I hope that I can continue to be with this fb but on the other hand I can't simply breakup with my bf to be with him... Hope that we will be able to work things out to have a win-win solution!!!

I am the 2nd fb that KL is talking about.

I knew from the start that KL was attached. But as we began to know each other better, I realised he's a nice guy and spending time with him is amazingly enjoyable. He's the sort of guy who can brighten up my day when we meet, which I find really rare.

I did seriously consider whether we were being fair to his bf. I know it sounds wrong and it seems like we're trying to justify our actions, but life and morality comes in complex shades of grey.

What I do know is that our relationship is precious to me, and I don't want to lose it.

[GachiMuchi]

I am attached for 2.5yrs but my bf is of low sex drive while I hv high sex drive.. Thus we got problem in our sex life... But I still low him n yet want to satisfy my sexual desire thus decided to hv a fb...

Had a v good fb early this year and agreed no string attached. After 8 mths, my fb suddenly told me that we want to stop seeing me for awhile as he has somewhat fallen for me. I respected his decision n hv stop seeing each other.

Just found myself another fb abt 2mths ago... He stated with no string attached in his threat... We get along v well n enjoyed each other sex and companionship... Now he is telling me that he too has fallen for me!

(I believe he will be reading this as I found him fr BW )

Perhaps I shd not be too nice to all but then it's just not me!!! I wld always prefer to treat others the way I wanted to be treated... On one hand I hope that I can continue to be with this fb but on the other hand I can't simply breakup with my bf to be with him... Hope that we will be able to work things out to have a win-win solution!!!

I know some of you may say that I am just being greedy or selfish...or unfair to both my b and fb... Anyone have similar situation to share your thoughts or suggestions?

Very simple, KL. Tell your bf about it. Ask him if he is able to accept you having a 3rd party, since he is not high in the sex department. If Boy2man can also accept you maintaining having your bf. It only needs getting your bf and boy2man to get along.

The question here is do you love your bf as well as boy2man? So far you have not mentioned your feelings for boy2man nor your bf. Did you stay with your bf because of commitment / duty? Do you like boy2man because you enjoy sex with him or do you love him? You must know what your feeling is. If you love both of them and can fairly treat them, provided if they agree to share you. Then you could be the luckiest person around. But if you are only a player, then don't waste either party's time and let them go to find their happiness.

[Guest boy2man]

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Edited December 22, 2010 by boy2man

[Guest Partcular]

Dear all,

I don't know anything bout FB, cos I hv none. One thing for sure, if I had a fb I would swear I wound not fall for him as I would not want to hurt my the other half. Play by the rule baby. Then again, we humans have emotions. That is why if I wanna find a fb, I would find some one who is attached.

Just to share my thought.

[Guest Troubled]

My bf has low sex drive and we seldom make out for 2 yrs already. Every time I initiate, it will end up only me cumming. I get horny easily and am tempted to stray. But always think I will let him down if I do tat. Cos rite down we r only exclusive to each other. What shall I do? Is it wrong for me to have ONS but keep him in the dark?

[Guest jericho]

i had an f/b once, his name is G. he was perhaps the only one who can top me really well as in my relationship i was the top. it seems that in bed we were made for each other, having him inside me feels really perfect. he says that im one nasty cocksucker and he loves it. he also loves to hear me moan when he is rimming me and when i moan in pain and pleasure when he is pumping me he goes even wilder with the humping. after he shoots his load inside me, i would take a shower and leave immediately.

however our wild sex always starts with a prolonged foreplay session. we would sit on the sofa in the living room, chatting, teasing each other, laughing at each other's jokes. he says that he finds it extremely amusing that im so shy and am always hiding behind my cap and always teases me about it. he likes long deep kisses and we spend quite abit of time doin it before i start to work my mouth on his dick. and i think its is during this time dat we began to get closer. G was very clear from beginning that he was only in NSA and i was fine with it as i was already attached. but i was a bit surprised when after some months, he smses me out for dinner to claim a silly bet that i had lost earlier in one of our moments joking with each other. i could not make it that week and we met 1 or 2 more times for sex after that. and then he again asked for that dinner. I had to say no and told him that my BF had priority for my weekends. he also began to sms me more often for idle chatter.

the 3rd time he asked me out, i said i could not make it that weekend. i went to the beach with my bf and suddenly i saw G cycling by. we made eye contact and i waved and smiled, he too did the same. after that G stopped answering my calls. in fact after a while, his number was no longer in use. i lost a fantastic fxxkbuddy who can top me like no one else can.....

[Guest Geisha]

G had fallen in love with you but as you were already attached, he made the painful decision to stop seeing you, so as not to hurt himself more and more...

[Guest Guest]

i had an f/b once, his name is G. he was perhaps the only one who can top me really well as in my relationship i was the top. it seems that in bed we were made for each other, having him inside me feels really perfect. he says that im one nasty cocksucker and he loves it. he also loves to hear me moan when he is rimming me and when i moan in pain and pleasure when he is pumping me he goes even wilder with the humping. after he shoots his load inside me, i would take a shower and leave immediately.

however our wild sex always starts with a prolonged foreplay session. we would sit on the sofa in the living room, chatting, teasing each other, laughing at each other's jokes. he says that he finds it extremely amusing that im so shy and am always hiding behind my cap and always teases me about it. he likes long deep kisses and we spend quite abit of time doin it before i start to work my mouth on his dick. and i think its is during this time dat we began to get closer. G was very clear from beginning that he was only in NSA and i was fine with it as i was already attached. but i was a bit surprised when after some months, he smses me out for dinner to claim a silly bet that i had lost earlier in one of our moments joking with each other. i could not make it that week and we met 1 or 2 more times for sex after that. and then he again asked for that dinner. I had to say no and told him that my BF had priority for my weekends. he also began to sms me more often for idle chatter.

the 3rd time he asked me out, i said i could not make it that weekend. i went to the beach with my bf and suddenly i saw G cycling by. we made eye contact and i waved and smiled, he too did the same. after that G stopped answering my calls. in fact after a while, his number was no longer in use. i lost a fantastic fxxkbuddy who can top me like no one else can.....

How nice if I can have G

[darkflame]

I was just thinking. If you had a fb that was attached, won't that make you fall in love with him more?

Because an attached fb is somewhat like a challenge subconsciously. He cannot be yours which is why your mind wants to have him more. And you might drown in fantasies where you might want to snatch him away.

[ice_cream1825]

makes me jealous for a fb...

[Guest guest]

I am attached for 2.5yrs but my bf is of low sex drive while I hv high sex drive.. Thus we got problem in our sex life... But I still low him n yet want to satisfy my sexual desire thus decided to hv a fb...

KL, is your bf having low sex drive since day one or after a period of time? If since day 1 then I think it should be ok to ask him if he is willing to allow u to have a 3rd party. If your bf, after a few months of hot sex, becomes low ex drive, then most likely he is having fun somewhere like you.

Through most of the friends that i have known, most of them after a few years or even months, one party will start to avoid having sex (maybe alredi tired of the routine). some of them are "makaning" outside. Just don't ask don't tell lor. Most of us in one way or another will still want to have sex (except for some minority who can really don't have sex for a while). The issue is with who?

[Guest Puke]

Come on guys, stop being self-righteous!

"Falling for him, feeling hurt, painful decision" --- what a pile of rubbish.

You are just all men, gay men who enjoys sex and simply have raw lust for pleasures of the flesh. Nothing wrong with that, but no need to glorify by seemingly having emotions for the BFs and the FBs. Be real!

[Eddy]

Come on guys, stop being self-righteous!

"Falling for him, feeling hurt, painful decision" --- what a pile of rubbish.

You are just all men, gay men who enjoys sex and simply have raw lust for pleasures of the flesh. Nothing wrong with that, but no need to glorify by seemingly having emotions for the BFs and the FBs. Be real!

No, you be real.

Who taught you that all gay people have no emotions? Your Pastor maybe?

For the rest of you guys,

Just confess or be silent and stay tortured, your choice.

I recommend telling, if he breaks with you, he breaks.

It would be better so you can move on with your life.

[Guest Puke]

No, you be real.

Who taught you that all gay people have no emotions? Your Pastor maybe?

Yes, emotions for the c*ck and sex with men.

[Guest boy2man]

Come on guys, stop being self-righteous!

"Falling for him, feeling hurt, painful decision" --- what a pile of rubbish.

You are just all men, gay men who enjoys sex and simply have raw lust for pleasures of the flesh. Nothing wrong with that, but no need to glorify by seemingly having emotions for the BFs and the FBs. Be real!

What crap! You may be able to have hot sex without any intimacy with your fxxk buddy, but don't speak for others for whom sexual intimacy develops into emotional intimacy.

[Guest Puke]

Please la, you guys are just sluts who just want sex with the same person again and again, Dun camouflage this under emotional attachment.

There is nothing wrong being if u like having sex with that same person, but don't make it sound as tho u have that emotional capacity when what you really like and enjoy is the c*ck!

[Guest boy2man]

Please la, you guys are just sluts who just want sex with the same person again and again, Dun camouflage this under emotional attachment.

There is nothing wrong being if u like having sex with that same person, but don't make it sound as tho u have that emotional capacity when what you really like and enjoy is the c*ck!

Get off your moral high horse - you don't even know the parties involved and are therefore in completely NO POSITION WHATSOEVER to judge or make moralistic pronouncements.

[Guest Scythe]

Please la, you guys are just sluts who just want sex with the same person again and again, Dun camouflage this under emotional attachment.

There is nothing wrong being if u like having sex with that same person, but don't make it sound as tho u have that emotional capacity when what you really like and enjoy is the c*ck!

Are you just jealous you can't get any sex or experience any true love with your fxxk buddy?

LOL

[Guest Happylark]

ohno i'm the most pretentious person in the world! i have emotional attachment with my boyfriend though there was no tinge of sex involved. boohoohoo.

[Guest Pedro]

ohno i'm the most pretentious person in the world! i have emotional attachment with my boyfriend though there was no tinge of sex involved. boohoohoo.

If you can develop emotional attachment to ur bf even without sex, what more fxxk buddies who are so sexually intimate.

[Guest Puke]

SLUTS.

[Guest boy2man]

SLUTS.

Whatever makes you happy

[Guest Puke]

I believe that two AJs meeting for sex are only meeting to satisfy their lust and definitely cannot ever develop true love.

[Guest XiaoXia]

I believe that two AJs meeting for sex are only meeting to satisfy their lust and definitely cannot ever develop true love.

Snort* And you seem to be under the delusion that what you believe actually MATTERS to the rest of us? Helllloooo?

"I believe the sun revolves around Earth, and that's that!"

-LOL! Who do you think you are Mr Puke?

[Guest GrubearFan]

......

the 3rd time he asked me out, i said i could not make it that weekend. i went to the beach with my bf and suddenly i saw G cycling by. we made eye contact and i waved and smiled, he too did the same. after that G stopped answering my calls. in fact after a while, his number was no longer in use. i lost a fantastic fxxkbuddy who can top me like no one else can.....

Your fbuddy "G" remind me of this song.

[Guest has cistrat]

love and sex are overrated. there are more important things in life such as ...

[Guest jericho]

Your fbuddy "G" remind me of this song.

hey GruberFan,

wow so emotional..well hope u r not in the same situation..

anyways an update...i had a message on christmas eve wishing me merry christmas..it was n unknown number so i had to do the embarassing thing and ask who it was...G replied...wishing me a gd christmas and a happy new year..i was surprised and excited and wished him well to and asked him how he was was doing...

no reply came back.

[Guest GrubearFan]

hey GruberFan,

wow so emotional..well hope u r not in the same situation..

anyways an update...i had a message on christmas eve wishing me merry christmas..it was n unknown number so i had to do the embarassing thing and ask who it was...G replied...wishing me a gd christmas and a happy new year..i was surprised and excited and wished him well to and asked him how he was was doing...

no reply came back.

It seem like "G" is playing mind game if he message you and not message back when you ask him how he is doing.

Anyway you have to give closure to "G" (downgrade to norm kopi buddies,cont being f/b or go in diff direction), If you made a decision to stay with your bf.

But don't do so using sms Unless your bf know what is going on.(and it's better if your bf know this from u if u choose to do so)

Boundaries have to be set between f/b especially if one is attached.

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G was very clear from beginning that he was only in NSA and i was fine with it as i was already attached.

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Like what you said :"G" came into ur life with NSA.

So he should not have expected much to begin with.

Just my 2 cent interpretation.

[benakl]

I understand the situation that you are in. I am in sort of a quandary at the moment.

Though I would love to go into a relationship with him, I do not want to usurp our friendship should things go awry.

Oh well, cie la vie i guess.

Reminds me of the song Something Stupid.

Edited December 28, 2010 by benakl