Guest marcus Posted December 28, 2010 Report Share Posted December 28, 2010 must be painful situation to be in... but no choice, just have to suck it up and move on with life, better for everybody like that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest geronimo Posted December 28, 2010 Report Share Posted December 28, 2010 i think my fb is playing mind games with me also. i know he sleeps around. he doesn't want to commit to anything with me.but he always asks what i am up to. when i see someone else, he says i am slutty. then he gives me a hard f..k. i think he just gets a kick out of dominating. i dont mind cos i am submissive.but sometimes i get confused.must be painful situation to be in... but no choice, just have to suck it up and move on with life, better for everybody like that... jason_ong1984 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
castaway Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 May I ask you guys if it is OK to sleep over nights with your FB ? (not Facebook ) Quote Sometimes, the greatest journey is the distance between two people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teeshirt Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 It seems a cardinal rule to never sleep over at a buddy's and risk falling in love. But I don't think it really matters. You can fall in love with your buddy nevertheless, if you really like him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Actually.... Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 Actually IMO, if you slept with someone, you are attached and then your f buddy fall for you, you can choose 1) to stay with your bf and forget your fb 2)go for your fb and forget your bf 3) secretly go with both 4) break off with both and find as many fb as you can while you still alive... You only LIVE ONCE!!! On a serious note... Posting your problems/pleasure here will subject it to unnecessary criticism that's not constructive. I think you already know what you want... My advice is listen to your heart. To guys who have emotional attachment to your fb, we have an emotional body that allows us to feel and have emotions... which is great because that is how you know that you are alive!!!! But then, why fall for someone who is attached.... We usually fall for someone who have traits that we like and at time with traits that we think we are lacking.... Therefore before you fall for someone you might want to ask what does he have that you DO NOT HAVE LOVE YOURSELF TRUELY FIRST BEFORE YOU LOVE SOMEONE ELSE.... Lots of LOVE.... Muacksss.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anderson Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 May I ask you guys if it is OK to sleep over nights with your FB ? (not Facebook )why sleeping over? Is it because its too late to catch a bus home or is it because you want to continue with the post-sex cuddling and then wake up for round 2?if it is the second reason, then you are getting fond of yr fb. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubaholic Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 Most interesting BW thread I have read in a long while.Solid advice from behrhunter. gachimachi with a commendable display of wit. Hats off to G for the courage in doing the right thing. KL, you cannot have your cake and eat it. Quote 我有煙但係邊個有火。。。 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suckmenao Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 even though he's attached to someone else. I really like him a lot.Sigh...WAKE UP!!!The guy's not a boyfriend material, unless you want a 3way relationship, in which case I do know some guys are really passionate about it, then go forward and have a friendly meeting with his partner. This guy's a player, and player never stops playing. Quote Guys won't make you happy, they only make you high. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
castaway Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 why sleeping over? Is it because its too late to catch a bus home or is it because you want to continue with the post-sex cuddling and then wake up for round 2?if it is the second reason, then you are getting fond of yr fb.I tried to catch taxi but no driver stopped so it was just suggestion from my FB, then I find it minght be NOT right (not so sure if I should stay over-night in term of "FB")so I said No and he called me a cab. I am single ( wanna be Single at this moment) and we already had second round Quote Sometimes, the greatest journey is the distance between two people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest boy2man Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 On a serious note... Posting your problems/pleasure here will subject it to unnecessary criticism that's not constructive. I think you already know what you want... My advice is listen to your heart. To guys who have emotional attachment to your fb, we have an emotional body that allows us to feel and have emotions... which is great because that is how you know that you are alive!!!! But then, why fall for someone who is attached.... We usually fall for someone who have traits that we like and at time with traits that we think we are lacking.... Therefore before you fall for someone you might want to ask what does he have that you DO NOT HAVE LOVE YOURSELF TRUELY FIRST BEFORE YOU LOVE SOMEONE ELSE.... Lots of LOVE.... Muacksss....This post speaks to me deeply. Yes, love yourself truly first before you fall for someone else... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
subarucap Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 i met a fxxk buddy a couple of months back...its funny but its the first time i actually want to meet someone again and again for good long hours fxxks.but at some points... as i got to know him better... and the things he likes or don't like... the more i am drawn to him.in the beginning its all obedience training. getting him to be all submissive since he's my fb...but i started to be more intimate... and at one point i enjoyed the foreplay and the attention to him as the btm, as if i was trying to please a partner...i'm not sure but... i'm a one person at a time fxxk, ie... i can only have one guy at any given period for fun... i can't concentrate if i have more den one fb... and i'd rather spend more time with just one... somehow i think its backfiring on me as i start to think of the time that will come when he won't need me anymore. Quote my profile >> subarucap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaycurious85 Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 I believe that two AJs meeting for sex are only meeting to satisfy their lust and definitely cannot ever develop true love. you're so stupid and immature. 2 persons meeting for whatever reason, if they like each other, they can develop into a relationship. what is there so difficult for you to understand? I think you are just very very stupid. I feel sorry for your parents for that. Hope they have other children too who they can be proud of.For the topic of the TS, I have a bf too. I love him but I'm not satisfied with the sex life we have. I discussed with him about having an open relationship. He looked sad when I mentioned it, but then he agreed. He told me to be careful, have safe sex. I told him he can meet other ppl for fun too, but he said he's not interested in that. So I started meeting other ppl for sex. So far about 6-7 guys. All just to release sexual desires that I have. Until I met the latest one. He's so good in bed and I was so satisfied. I only met him once so far, but unlike other guys, this time I thought about him and miss him. I dont know whether it is the good sex or his personality, but I just miss and think of him a lot. And for the record he said he likes me too and want to meet me again.Now I'm really stuck. I have a bf, who loves me. It will hurt him a lot if we break up. I love him and enjoy spending time with him, but when I think about sex, I dont think about my bf, but only want to have it with the latest guy I met.I know the right thing I should do is to break up with my bf (on good terms, he's my best friend. I'll regret if I lose him in my life) and find the one that I love and can satisfy my sexual needs. But by breaking up, it will hurt my bf a lot. When I think of how much will he be hurt, I feel hurt too. I dont know what to do. Is it all my fault? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest waylon Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 I'm no fan of country music but after reading the posts, I couldn't help but think of these lyrics:I've spent a lifetime looking for youSingle bars and good time lovers, never truePlaying a fools game, hoping to winTelling those sweet lies and losing again.I was looking for love in all the wrong placesLooking for love in too many facesSearching your eyes, looking for tracesOf what.. I'm dreaming of...Hopin' to find a friend and a lover...The song had a happy ending. But who knows what life will bring the rest of us.i met a fxxk buddy a couple of months back...its funny but its the first time i actually want to meet someone again and again for good long hours fxxks.but at some points... as i got to know him better... and the things he likes or don't like... the more i am drawn to him.in the beginning its all obedience training. getting him to be all submissive since he's my fb...but i started to be more intimate... and at one point i enjoyed the foreplay and the attention to him as the btm, as if i was trying to please a partner...i'm not sure but... i'm a one person at a time fxxk, ie... i can only have one guy at any given period for fun... i can't concentrate if i have more den one fb... and i'd rather spend more time with just one... somehow i think its backfiring on me as i start to think of the time that will come when he won't need me anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
subarucap Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 the problem with our gay lives is like a moth drawn to flame.we are attracted.we want to be attracted.we follow our desire...and... we meet our end.if we believe in god... den god must have a very poignant way of telling us how we should cherish our lives... Quote my profile >> subarucap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slut Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 the problem with our gay lives is like a moth drawn to flame.we are attracted.we want to be attracted.we follow our desire...and... we meet our end.if we believe in god... den god must have a very poignant way of telling us how we should cherish our lives...only if you let it be. anyone can choose to be like that, gay or straight.self-respect has nothing to do with one's sexual preference. :smokin: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steelwings Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 My bf has low sex drive and we seldom make out for 2 yrs already. Every time I initiate, it will end up only me cumming. I get horny easily and am tempted to stray. But always think I will let him down if I do tat. Cos rite down we r only exclusive to each other. What shall I do? Is it wrong for me to have ONS but keep him in the dark?It is wrong for you to have ONS and keep him in the dark. It is not a very fair situation. If you feel that you need to stray, let him know and he has every right to decide if he still want to continue to be with you. Grant him the right. Maybe then he can go find someone else who is more suitable for him than you. You selfish motherfxxker. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennethhost Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 I am a fxxk buddy for someone that is attached. Everytime he told me that he love me, I will remind him the game rule. If he lost control, I will just stop it, because I always remember the RULES. Quote Glasses guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Love not hurt not Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 I agree. Anyone, male or female, gay or straight, can be in this situation.You should ask yourself if you are hurting, lonely or vulnerable at this time of your life. Could your feelings be nothing more than coming from a rebound from a relationship that ended?Do you have too much time on your hands?only if you let it be. anyone can choose to be like that, gay or straight.self-respect has nothing to do with one's sexual preference. :smokin: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Histonin Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 you're so stupid and immature. 2 persons meeting for whatever reason, if they like each other, they can develop into a relationship. what is there so difficult for you to understand? I think you are just very very stupid. I feel sorry for your parents for that. Hope they have other children too who they can be proud of.For the topic of the TS, I have a bf too. I love him but I'm not satisfied with the sex life we have. I discussed with him about having an open relationship. He looked sad when I mentioned it, but then he agreed. He told me to be careful, have safe sex. I told him he can meet other ppl for fun too, but he said he's not interested in that. So I started meeting other ppl for sex. So far about 6-7 guys. All just to release sexual desires that I have. Until I met the latest one. He's so good in bed and I was so satisfied. I only met him once so far, but unlike other guys, this time I thought about him and miss him. I dont know whether it is the good sex or his personality, but I just miss and think of him a lot. And for the record he said he likes me too and want to meet me again.Now I'm really stuck. I have a bf, who loves me. It will hurt him a lot if we break up. I love him and enjoy spending time with him, but when I think about sex, I dont think about my bf, but only want to have it with the latest guy I met.I know the right thing I should do is to break up with my bf (on good terms, he's my best friend. I'll regret if I lose him in my life) and find the one that I love and can satisfy my sexual needs. But by breaking up, it will hurt my bf a lot. When I think of how much will he be hurt, I feel hurt too. I dont know what to do. Is it all my fault?Why, oh why, did you put yourself in this situation? If you're not sexually satisfied with your boyfriend the answer is not to look for other people to have sex with. It's to find ways to improve your sex life with him! By bringing this other person into your life you just made things very messy for yourself. My advice to you would be to stop contact with this man and focus on improving what you have with your boyfriend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MC Posted June 26, 2011 Report Share Posted June 26, 2011 I miss a guy i had fun with and he has a bf. Hopefully time will heal everything. I keep thinking about him......that it hurts me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennethhost Posted June 26, 2011 Report Share Posted June 26, 2011 I miss a guy i had fun with and he has a bf. Hopefully time will heal everything. I keep thinking about him......that it hurts me.Forget about him, man.... There are still a lot more out there... :thumb: Quote Glasses guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaycurious85 Posted June 27, 2011 Report Share Posted June 27, 2011 Why, oh why, did you put yourself in this situation? If you're not sexually satisfied with your boyfriend the answer is not to look for other people to have sex with. It's to find ways to improve your sex life with him! By bringing this other person into your life you just made things very messy for yourself. My advice to you would be to stop contact with this man and focus on improving what you have with your boyfriend.i've always want to have good sex, like what i saw in movies. but for the 5 years since i first had sex, I've never been satisfied after I did it with someone. even with my ex and my current bf. then i told myself, maybe good sex does not exist. maybe it's only in movies where everything is exaggerated. then I settled down with my current bf. been with him for 1 year and i did not meet any other guy at all. only met my old gay friends and only for clubbing, not for sex.but then like i said, recently i could not fight the temptation. my sexual desire relived, therefore I suggested to my bf about open relationship.back to my situation, can I keep meeting the new guy for sex and still be attached to my bf? is it a better solution? is it fair? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 27, 2011 Report Share Posted June 27, 2011 i've always want to have good sex, like what i saw in movies. but for the 5 years since i first had sex, I've never been satisfied after I did it with someone. even with my ex and my current bf. then i told myself, maybe good sex does not exist. maybe it's only in movies where everything is exaggerated. then I settled down with my current bf. been with him for 1 year and i did not meet any other guy at all. only met my old gay friends and only for clubbing, not for sex.but then like i said, recently i could not fight the temptation. my sexual desire relived, therefore I suggested to my bf about open relationship.back to my situation, can I keep meeting the new guy for sex and still be attached to my bf? is it a better solution? is it fair?Hi dude, sad to hear that u have such idea...., if u behave in this way, u think is fair for your love one who just want a faithful relationship with u? Dont u think u just want sex in yr life...isnt it sluttish? Then why shd u get attached? Why dont u fool around till u think u want to settle then u look for ye love....if not pls stop that idea...just like normal couple faithful to each other, sex dont mean everything.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest OWC Posted June 27, 2011 Report Share Posted June 27, 2011 Sistas, please take a leaf from the Obedient Wives Club. In order to keep your man in check, be sure that your skill in bed is better than hookers. To those who claim that that is not everything, STOP DELUDING YOURSELVES! You have no one but yourself to blame if your partner stray if you cant even satisfy his primal needs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest B2b Posted June 28, 2011 Report Share Posted June 28, 2011 I can never fall for my fxxk buddies because they are nasty men treating me like shit. Unfortunately these type of men are the best fxxkers that I like. I used to wonder why some women get abused still sticked to their men like reported in newspapers or drama. Now I am doing the same damn thing.男人不坏，我不爱。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2011 Report Share Posted June 28, 2011 i've always want to have good sex, like what i saw in movies. but for the 5 years since i first had sex, I've never been satisfied after I did it with someone. even with my ex and my current bf. then i told myself, maybe good sex does not exist. maybe it's only in movies where everything is exaggerated. then I settled down with my current bf. been with him for 1 year and i did not meet any other guy at all. only met my old gay friends and only for clubbing, not for sex.but then like i said, recently i could not fight the temptation. my sexual desire relived, therefore I suggested to my bf about open relationship.back to my situation, can I keep meeting the new guy for sex and still be attached to my bf? is it a better solution? is it fair?how would u feel if ur bf and u reversed roles? would you want to be treated the same way? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 28, 2011 Report Share Posted June 28, 2011 why it is so hard to 'unlove' someone..even if u try to be cold to him..he didnt even know what happened, why your changed suddenlyhe was in your mind when you have sex with other guysit hurts u as much as u want to hold your feeling back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest NotMadeOfSteel Posted July 15, 2011 Report Share Posted July 15, 2011 I am glad to have found this space to share my thoughts as well. I have had only a handful of ONS experiences (non-anal) and 3 months ago, I met this guy whom we had sex during the first time we met and I enjoyed it very much. We met for a few more times to have sex.I, not knowing the unspoken rule of fxxk buddies, started messaging him frequently to ask how he is doing and stuff. It was the first time I ever felt so attached to someone, I didn't even feel this way when I was with my ex. And recently he told me he's not into a serious relationship while we were having post-sex talk on his bed. Although the news hit me hard, we still meet regularly as I cannot imagine losing him. Although I have a feeling that he has sex with other people, I do not question him about it as we're not even in a relationship anyway. I am even confused as to whether I should have another FB due to my attachment to him. I am not sure about what I really want too, LTR/fun.Anyway, I kept reminding myself to enjoy the present and not to worry about how things might develop in the future because there really is not answer. Anyways, I was surfing online when I came across this interesting article. (Link removed as it is no longer available)============edited by GM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 23, 2011 Report Share Posted October 23, 2011 I have been seeing my fb for 10 years. We were clear in the beginning this was for no strings sex. It could have been a one time thing, but we really liked each other sexually and have kept it going. My fb has been attached to and living with the same guy the entire time and the only purpose for our fb meetings is for sex. We don't contact each other except if it is on the topic of having sex and arranging hot sex. I like and respect the guy, and have thought about how cool it would be to have more of a relationship or emotional attachment with this person because we have similar interests and would be compatible in many ways. But I have always stepped back and will not cross that boundary that keeps our arrangement no strings only. My fb shows no signs of wanting to leave his relationship with his live in bf. Our fb arrangement (cannot even call it a relationship) is for one thing only: Hot no strings sex. So long as the sex remains interesting and hot and we both have that need and live near each other it should continue. At some point in time it will end. But crossing the emotional line or even developing a friendship would mean we are no longer fb's and the arrangement would evolve into something more complex that could potentially cause harm or would end, given that my fb is attached to someone else. The odds of it ever evolving into a real emotional and stable relationship is close to zero so there is no point to pursuing a relationship. I respect my fb and his situation and he respects me. We leave it at that and it has worked. There might be fb's out there who are not attached and looking for more, and that is what used to be called dating. Don't confuse the two. But if you find a fb who is attached and wants no stings sex only, do yourself and him a favor and keep it that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 23, 2011 Report Share Posted October 23, 2011 Some of my FBs will tell me they like me and wanna develop further. But i will tell them to wake up and be reminded of the rules. I tell some of them crudely - i am f*cking around now, i might do the same even if im seeing u. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
northernboi Posted October 23, 2011 Report Share Posted October 23, 2011 i'm attached with my FB! and now we're almost 1 year in r/s! so hmmm... he wasnt attached and i wasnt attached when we became FB! so.. now strings attached le~~ :X Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted October 24, 2011 Report Share Posted October 24, 2011 It's easy to develop an emotional attachment with your FB... but it's so hard to grow out of it. Unless you really know what you want. If you like him/fall in love with him just because he's good in sex, there isn't really a need to tie yourself (and him) down to a relationship. Just continue to be FB! Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Curious Boi Posted October 24, 2011 Report Share Posted October 24, 2011 It's easy to develop an emotional attachment with your FB... but it's so hard to grow out of it. Unless you really know what you want. If you like him/fall in love with him just because he's good in sex, there isn't really a need to tie yourself (and him) down to a relationship. Just continue to be FB!I am just wondering are you a FB to anyone too??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cool8 Posted October 24, 2011 Report Share Posted October 24, 2011 Now I'm really stuck. I have a bf, who loves me. It will hurt him a lot if we break up. I love him and enjoy spending time with him, but when I think about sex, I dont think about my bf, but only want to have it with the latest guy I met.I know the right thing I should do is to break up with my bf (on good terms, he's my best friend. I'll regret if I lose him in my life) and find the one that I love and can satisfy my sexual needs. But by breaking up, it will hurt my bf a lot. When I think of how much will he be hurt, I feel hurt too. I dont know what to do. Is it all my fault?This is really a nightmare but perhaps you really need to ask yourself if you still love your bf or are you staying with him out of obligation. On the side of your fbud, perhaps it wouldn't be a bad idea to ride out the "lust" phase and see if there is anything deeper beyond the honeymoon period? Maybe i am too cynical but i think most hot sex fizzles out after sometime? You will need an emotional connection besides missing him because of the sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
northernboi Posted October 25, 2011 Report Share Posted October 25, 2011 OMG!!! My FB has fallen in love with me! SHUCKS!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 27, 2012 Report Share Posted April 27, 2012 i guess it's normal to fall in love with a F buddy, if both are not attached, why not engage in some non-sex activities to get to know one another better?u must also understand what does it mean by 'falling in love'. it is more than just the great sex.if u fall in love with a FB when u are attached and your bf doesnt even know that u have FBs, then u are digging ur own grave.i have a friend who was together with his bf for a year plus. his bf was the committed sort but he slept around and eventually fall in love with a FB. in the end he left the bf and got together with the fb. not only did he lose the bf (his bf was really a gd guy) but most of their common friends did not want to contact him anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest curiou Posted April 27, 2012 Report Share Posted April 27, 2012 im just curious...since so many of ur have fb...how did ur meet ur fb? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 27, 2012 Report Share Posted April 27, 2012 im just curious...since so many of ur have fb...how did ur meet ur fb?from everywhere. saunas, grindr, clubs, gyms, online even BW.i think u are not sure what is exactly a FB.its someone u have regular sex with, but not emotionally attached to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaiboyz Posted April 28, 2012 Report Share Posted April 28, 2012 Its indeed a tough situation to enjoy the sex fun with fbs and love life with bf(s). A tug of war between lust and love. Hot wild sex with strangers is always must thrilling than routine love making sessions. Fbs are mainly for our lust reliefs and bfs are pillars of love ? We need love and concern by our bfs and yet lusts are temptatious. However, papers cant wrap fire, our bfs will know the truth about our affairs with fbs. To maintain a healthy relationship, NSA with fbs has to stop totally. Easier to say than done, mind is strong yet fresh is weak, temptation rules the mind, again fbs come along.Sigh selfishly we need both. :oops: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maquis Posted April 28, 2012 Report Share Posted April 28, 2012 I think FB's are the invention of the century. No need to ask how's ur day/week/mom/work, just get ur kit off & go 4 gold :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fuckbuddy Posted June 15, 2015 Report Share Posted June 15, 2015 I have been in a relationship with this fuck buddy for about a year now. He's a great fuck buddy and we get along super well and we both agreed that we will be fuck buddies and friends. But lately I have been thinking about him more and more and I think I am falling in love with him He's a very sweet guy and I like spending time with him even outside of our sexual relationship. I know he does not want to have any LTR but I can't help but to think about him most of the times. Somebody slap some sense into me please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted June 15, 2015 Report Share Posted June 15, 2015 Rookie mistake, lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pd69 Posted June 15, 2015 Report Share Posted June 15, 2015 I have been in a relationship with this fuck buddy for about a year now. He's a great fuck buddy and we get along super well and we both agreed that we will be fuck buddies and friends. But lately I have been thinking about him more and more and I think I am falling in love with him He's a very sweet guy and I like spending time with him even outside of our sexual relationship. I know he does not want to have any LTR but I can't help but to think about him most of the times. Somebody slap some sense into me please.The objective is to satisfy your lust, not satisfying your emotional needs. It takes two to tango, so wake up from your dream. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 15, 2015 Report Share Posted June 15, 2015 If he find a better toy, he will dump the old. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted June 15, 2015 Report Share Posted June 15, 2015 (edited) Since he does not want it, what is the point of pursuing it? I am sure you know that for such things, it takes two hands to clap right? :-) Edited June 15, 2015 by azimuth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 15, 2015 Report Share Posted June 15, 2015 Haven't you all heard of “精”诚所加，金石为开，lol? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NottyBoy92 Posted June 16, 2015 Report Share Posted June 16, 2015 Just enjoy your time with him as fuck buddies. If you really into LTR, you should date other dudes and forget about your fuck buddy. I am sure if you can find a fuck buddy, you can find a bf who give you both emotional and sexual needs. #justathought puppyfart 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puppyfart Posted June 16, 2015 Report Share Posted June 16, 2015 (edited) I guess the question is how to snap out of it.Not much you can do, either you find yourself a bf/gf to satisfy your feely side or channel your thoughts to some positive use like work, studies, sports, charity work, other hobbies (not including sex).That should keep you occupied and stop thinking too much about him.Hopefully over time, u will learn to keep up an emotional barrier in a fuck buddy relationship.Or... if u need someone to slap you out of the trance, I'd be glad to help.Good fucks.. I mean lucks. Edited June 16, 2015 by puppyfart Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 16, 2015 Report Share Posted June 16, 2015 try to eat as much semen from him as u can..... he will ditch u once u pester him for relationship or when he sick of u. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 16, 2015 Report Share Posted June 16, 2015 No harm asking him to b yr bf?if he rejects n stop meeting up find a new one.simple.well its known most gays r bastards who like to pick n choose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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