Fallen In Love With My Fuck Buddy (Compiled)

[Joebottom]

I fell for one b4....

I insinuated how I felt and then he completely avoided me to date....

[cutejack]

Told u.look for new one lo

[gymfan32]

I fell for one as well. But after some time, it is quite obvious that he doesn't want to carry this further. I decided to end it before I become too attached to him.

[cutejack]

Y not since u guys r comfortable having fun? Im confused.

[EasleyLim]

Y not since u guys r comfortable having fun? Im confused.

 

Because the other party don't want a r/s with him.

[gymfan32]

Y not since u guys r comfortable having fun? Im confused.

 

Well, having a fb with NSA and a r/s are quite different things...

[doncoin]

This is my personal experience with a fb. We met many years ago. Had some of the best sex. We both moved on, got into relationships with other people. However, when timing is right, we will hook up- i.e. when we are both single, and the sex is still as good as ever. He is good for in-between relationships when you want a reliable no mess, uncomplicated sex, that makes you feel good about yourself. The last few years we saw less and less, and I have not seen him in over 3 years. We did talk about dating. However, I think it will take some work to transform the way we see each other to something more. 

 

My point to all this is keep him as a fb. You never know when you need someone like that. 

[Guest Guest]

Love is not a game. No winners or losers. So what is this talk about cutting one's losses? Go express your feelings. If it doesn't work out, so be it.

You also still have the capacity to love in a different way and from afar.

Love is not possession. Possession is ego.

[Guest Guest]

Love and relationship can come from anywhere. Even if the probability of getting a FB to become a long term partner is only 1%, I'd say that 1% probability deserves a chance. Just be mentally prepared for the 99% probability of it failing to happen, that's all.

[Guest 如花]

I have been in a relationship with this fuck buddy for about a year now.

He's a great fuck buddy and we get along super well and we both agreed that we will be fuck buddies and friends.

But lately I have been thinking about him more and more and I think I am falling in love with him

He's a very sweet guy and I like spending time with him even outside of our sexual relationship.

I know he does not want to have any LTR but I can't help but to think about him most of the times.

Somebody slap some sense into me please.

当妓女爱上嫖客，悲剧也就上映。

[Guest Guest]

It's complicated. Me and him so compatible and good-looking, we should be a couple. Except that I'm poor and he's richer. He's looking for someone richer but don't want to give me up. We stayed as fb so that he could keep looking and have sex with others to find his rich bf.

When I saw those cmi men he's dating, I am confident that he'll come back to me. So I took the gamble to break up with him. It took six months before he contacted me again and asked for sex. I agreed and we had great sex each time. But before long I caught him looking for rich bf again.

It used to be that we flip flop because we're both flex. Then he wanted to top only. I didn't mind and slowly became used to being the bottom. One day I saw his ass was gaping and bruised. Of course I knew he had given himself up to some brutal top. What got me angry was that he took it back on me and fucked the hell out of me to vent his anger. That ass that he refused to give to me, now he had given to somebody else. I could imagine him being fucked by some rich cmi that's why he's so unhappy.

I confronted him and he walked out angrily. Till now he never call again. I cannot say he's a gold digger because he has a good paying job. But he thinks it's not fair to him if we are in a relationship. There are so many things we couldn't do because I couldn't afford it like holiday abroad. We had to fuck in cheap hotel because I don't own a house. He likes to buy branded luxuries and I'm wearing neighborhood supermarket cheap stuff.

I finally gave up hope on him when I saw his latest rich bf. To call that barrel of lard cmi is being kind. I can imagine if he saw himself being fucked by that cmi how unhappy he'll be. When I myself imagine seeing that cmi on top of him, I felt that he's so dirty and cheap even though he's always acted like he's high class.

[cutejack]

Forget.abt him.la.simple.y say so much.got many of this type in "our" community.move on baby.

[Guest Guest]

What is "cmi"?

[Guest btmguy]

What is "cmi"?

Cannot make it

[HydroNaut]

It's complicated. Me and him so compatible and good-looking, we should be a couple. Except that I'm poor and he's richer. He's looking for someone richer but don't want to give me up. We stayed as fb so that he could keep looking and have sex with others to find his rich bf.

When I saw those cmi men he's dating, I am confident that he'll come back to me. So I took the gamble to break up with him. It took six months before he contacted me again and asked for sex. I agreed and we had great sex each time. But before long I caught him looking for rich bf again.

It used to be that we flip flop because we're both flex. Then he wanted to top only. I didn't mind and slowly became used to being the bottom. One day I saw his ass was gaping and bruised. Of course I knew he had given himself up to some brutal top. What got me angry was that he took it back on me and fucked the hell out of me to vent his anger. That ass that he refused to give to me, now he had given to somebody else. I could imagine him being fucked by some rich cmi that's why he's so unhappy.

I confronted him and he walked out angrily. Till now he never call again. I cannot say he's a gold digger because he has a good paying job. But he thinks it's not fair to him if we are in a relationship. There are so many things we couldn't do because I couldn't afford it like holiday abroad. We had to fuck in cheap hotel because I don't own a house. He likes to buy branded luxuries and I'm wearing neighborhood supermarket cheap stuff.

I finally gave up hope on him when I saw his latest rich bf. To call that barrel of lard cmi is being kind. I can imagine if he saw himself being fucked by that cmi how unhappy he'll be. When I myself imagine seeing that cmi on top of him, I felt that he's so dirty and cheap even though he's always acted like he's high class.

If I am a director, probably i can add all that as aprt of my script. Sure go Oscar Nominee.... maybe name that movie "Blue Black Mountain" (Bruised Ass) something closed to "BrokeBack Mountain".

 

It is a movie about Sheer LUST and HUNGER for Power & Riches... What does he chose in the end and what tragic end will he ended up to be... stay tuned.

[Guest Guest]

Guest says

"Me and him so compatible and good-looking, we should be a couple. Except that I'm poor and he's richer. He's looking for someone richer but don't want to give me up. "

You are using superficial attributes like Looks to judge people.

He is using superficial attributes like Wealth to judge bf material.

Look is skin deep, wealth will make you live comfortably only. All superficial criteria. Good to reflect on this.

 

It's complicated. Me and him so compatible and good-looking, we should be a couple. Except that I'm poor and he's richer. He's looking for someone richer but don't want to give me up. We stayed as fb so that he could keep looking and have sex with others to find his rich bf.

When I saw those cmi men he's dating, I am confident that he'll come back to me. So I took the gamble to break up with him. It took six months before he contacted me again and asked for sex. I agreed and we had great sex each time. But before long I caught him looking for rich bf again.

It used to be that we flip flop because we're both flex. Then he wanted to top only. I didn't mind and slowly became used to being the bottom. One day I saw his ass was gaping and bruised. Of course I knew he had given himself up to some brutal top. What got me angry was that he took it back on me and fucked the hell out of me to vent his anger. That ass that he refused to give to me, now he had given to somebody else. I could imagine him being fucked by some rich cmi that's why he's so unhappy.

[GachiMuchi]

I have been in a relationship with this fuck buddy for about a year now.

He's a great fuck buddy and we get along super well and we both agreed that we will be fuck buddies and friends.

But lately I have been thinking about him more and more and I think I am falling in love with him

He's a very sweet guy and I like spending time with him even outside of our sexual relationship.

I know he does not want to have any LTR but I can't help but to think about him most of the times.

Somebody slap some sense into me please.

 

Rule of Engagement (for fuck buddy)

 

Rule 1

It's just Sex / Lust. It's not Love.

Rule 2

Leave your emotions at the door. See Rule 1.

Rule 3

If you can't handle the heat, get out of the kitchen. See Rule 1.

[Beefycub]

guess when love strikes, all rules r outta the door.

it's hard to feel what TS feels.

爱的出现 一点都不讲理

 

 
Rule of Engagement (for fuck buddy)
 
Rule 1
It's just Sex / Lust. It's not Love.

Rule 2
Leave your emotions at the door. See Rule 1.

Rule 3
If you can't handle the heat, get out of the kitchen. See Rule 1.

[Guest Execdude]

Sigh. Sounds like my fb a year back.

Everything was going well until one day he decided that our relationship was "wrong" and he "didn't wanna hurt me".

Read: he's not that into me anymore

As much as I enjoy having sex with him, I realized he has decided to move on. Good thing is I am still friends with him, although it's awkward to see him everytime without having sexually thots abt him.

Somehow, time will find a way of sorting things out.

I have been in a relationship with this fuck buddy for about a year now.

He's a great fuck buddy and we get along super well and we both agreed that we will be fuck buddies and friends.

But lately I have been thinking about him more and more and I think I am falling in love with him

He's a very sweet guy and I like spending time with him even outside of our sexual relationship.

I know he does not want to have any LTR but I can't help but to think about him most of the times.

Somebody slap some sense into me please.

[Guest How ah]

I have a fuck buddy who we practise sex together. 

Recently I met up with other ons and the sex is not enjoyable. 

 

I miss my fuck buddy and I have fallen for him. 

Should I tell him? 

[Guest Derelict]

Food now you call call it making love 

[Saggiboy]

Never tell. Cos to him it is just sex. 

[Guest How ah]

1 minute ago, Saggiboy said:

Never tell. Cos to him it is just sex. 

 

But if I don't tell, how would he know? 

How you know its just sex for him? 

[Kimochi]

inject your love juice to him. 

[Guest Why ah]

53 minutes ago, Guest How ah said:

 

But if I don't tell, how would he know? 

How you know its just sex for him? 

If you already knew what you want to do, why ask for advice? 

[Guest How ah]

5 minutes ago, Guest Why ah said:

If you already knew what you want to do, why ask for advice? 

 

HOW to tell him..... 

 

Cannot be... "I love you" what. 

Also cannot be a heart to heart convo. Later he run away? 

 

I hug him longer during sex? 

Or we do more of the love making sex style instead of those doggy, standing? 

Do more kissing and hugging? 

[iKneadyou]

Don’t tell him. Just take it slow. No rush

[Guest Why ah]

28 minutes ago, Guest How ah said:

 

HOW to tell him..... 

 

Cannot be... "I love you" what. 

Also cannot be a heart to heart convo. Later he run away? 

 

I hug him longer during sex? 

Or we do more of the love making sex style instead of those doggy, standing? 

Do more kissing and hugging? 

You need to ask yourself why before how. what do you want to achieve by telling him? What are the possible outcomes and what result do you want to get to?
 

I agree with the people telling you nit to rush. It also sounds like you are overthinking it a bit. Like what’s the difference between ‘love making sex style’ and ons? 

[Guest How ah]

7 minutes ago, Guest Why ah said:

You need to ask yourself why before how. what do you want to achieve by telling him? What are the possible outcomes and what result do you want to get to?
 

I agree with the people telling you nit to rush. It also sounds like you are overthinking it a bit. Like what’s the difference between ‘love making sex style’ and ons? 

 

Fuck buddy is not ons le. 

 

Fuck buddy is someone I know... Who I explore sex with. We try new sex position etc. 

 

Ons is someone you usually dunno. Met up randomly just to do sex once. 

 

Totally no chemistry. 

 

Why rush ah? I also don't know la. We fuck buddy for few months.. I miss his company lo. Want to ask him to stay over after Friday evening fuck session. Watch movie together. Cuddle those sort lo. 

 

Sigh.

[Saggiboy]

Trust me, it is just sex, no matter how much love making passionate sweet talkings there are. It is just sex, enjoy the moment and go. 

If u never hang out, have dinner, talk abt life and intimate details, it's just sex. 

Edited November 1, 2022 by Saggiboy

[Guest Why ah]

4 minutes ago, Guest How ah said:

 

Fuck buddy is not ons le. 

 

Fuck buddy is someone I know... Who I explore sex with. We try new sex position etc. 

 

Ons is someone you usually dunno. Met up randomly just to do sex once. 

 

Totally no chemistry. 

 

Why rush ah? I also don't know la. We fuck buddy for few months.. I miss his company lo. Want to ask him to stay over after Friday evening fuck session. Watch movie together. Cuddle those sort lo. 

 

Sigh.

so just start with that. Ask if wants to hang out after and see now he reacts. 

[WesK_Sg]

On 11/1/2022 at 4:28 PM, Saggiboy said:

 

Edited June 24 by WesK_Sg

[WesK_Sg]

On 11/1/2022 at 2:08 PM, Guest How ah said:

 

Edited June 24 by WesK_Sg

[Guest DereLickDick]

5 hours ago, Guest How ah said:

I have a fuck buddy who we practise sex together. 

Recently I met up with other ons and the sex is not enjoyable. 

 

I miss my fuck buddy and I have fallen for him. 

Should I tell him? 

Of cos lah, tell him and let him gan you raw.  

[fragile being]

11 hours ago, Guest How ah said:

I have a fuck buddy who we practise sex together. 

Recently I met up with other ons and the sex is not enjoyable. 

 

I miss my fuck buddy and I have fallen for him. 

Should I tell him? 

honestly, you should save yourself from the heartbreak that comes from it. BUT if the feelings are really strong, just take it slow and get him to open up to you more. who knows he'll like you too?

[auscent]

FB: only sex, no cuddle/ overnights/ pers info exchange

 

Yes, you can try break rules hoping to end up more. But chances are it is not meant to be.

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

Don't tell him and let it go...maybe just a lust..it will die down...if you want to lose him tell him..haha nowadays not easy to find FWB. Why need to destroyed it? 

[Guest Livid]

So we are supposed to use and treat our FB like lifeless sex object? 

Is that why gays can't love or don't know how to love? 

 

Not just the general public, even our own gay community are so conditioned to reject love..... 

No wonder we are so hopeless and undeserving of human basic rights to love. 

[Guest Sad heartbroken]

Guys. I'm sad. 

I revealed to my FB that I'm starting to feel for him when he cheeky texted me for a practise session last night. I was working when he texted me so I didn't really spend much time responding to his text. 

 

We were supposed to meet but he cancelled 1 hour before. He said something "he found a sexy boy online who he want to try to do." 

 

I was heartbroken. 

 

I just replied something like "wow that is so exciting, tell me all about it after that okay" 

 

I have not heard from him since. 

 

Why. Sigh. Back to connecting to random stranger again... 

 

Am I unlovable? 

Am I untouchable? 

Am I only fuckable. 

[robin]

14 hours ago, Guest Sad heartbroken said:

Guys. I'm sad. 

I revealed to my FB that I'm starting to feel for him when he cheeky texted me for a practise session last night. I was working when he texted me so I didn't really spend much time responding to his text. 

 

We were supposed to meet but he cancelled 1 hour before. He said something "he found a sexy boy online who he want to try to do." 

 

I was heartbroken. 

 

I just replied something like "wow that is so exciting, tell me all about it after that okay" 

 

I have not heard from him since. 

 

Why. Sigh. Back to connecting to random stranger again... 

 

Am I unlovable? 

Am I untouchable? 

Am I only fuckable. 

When you decide to put yourself as a fuck buddy, yes, you are only fuckable. If you can’t afford to play the game, don’t do it beyond your means.

[doncoin]

How much do you know him as a person outside of your hookups? 

 

You also need to ask yourself if what you are hooked on to may not be "love" but the sex itself. Your feelings have to be based on how you feel about him outside of sex. Have you even gone on a date etc? 

 

Some guys are great for sex and bad for relationships. 

[simply_me]

On 11/1/2022 at 4:28 PM, Saggiboy said:

Trust me, it is just sex, no matter how much love making passionate sweet talkings there are. It is just sex, enjoy the moment and go. 

If u never hang out, have dinner, talk abt life and intimate details, it's just sex. 

Totally agree... 

 

I've been there. 

[asdfjkl]

how often you guys meet your fb? 

me once a month. 

we also go out have a meal and date. 

i do reveal to my fb that i fall in love with him. but got rejected. 

but we still fuck once a month. 

 

i see myself no chance to be in relationship with him liao. 

really just fb and normal friend. 

[Guest Experience]

7 hours ago, asdfjkl said:

how often you guys meet your fb? 

me once a month. 

we also go out have a meal and date. 

i do reveal to my fb that i fall in love with him. but got rejected. 

but we still fuck once a month. 

 

i see myself no chance to be in relationship with him liao. 

really just fb and normal friend. 

 

I think it's okay. 

I also like it if my FB tell me he fall for me. But ofc if I don't feel the same. We can still fuck what. There must be at least some degree of attraction to explore sex with.. 

 

Ofc if the guy want more. Want me to be his bf, want me to be exclusive, want me to text him or call him darling, dear, baby all this... I don't want la. I want a FB not a bf. 

 

Anyway I used to have a FB who loved to use this phrase whenever we leave. Ppl usually say "good bye", "see you again" etc. But he love to say "don't fall for me okay" and I'll always reply "very hard, next time I fall for you okay" and I did fall for him. He knows he's a catch. Smart. Big cock. Charmer. Great personality. 

 

I didnt make my move but he eventually found a ltr bf and we stopped. But he did tell me that it's because I was his great FB that he can perform confidently on his bf. 

 

And I'm happy that I get to share that experience with him. We lost touch after that. Cause I don't want to break his ltr relationship. 

 

But I didn't look for other FB after that. 

Others simply doesn't measure up. Plus I already have enough experience haha

[Guest Lawrence56]

It is a trap. Get away from him immediately. I was in the same situation but I overcame it. It has been a year since I get rid those people in my life.

 

We were very close friends and also fuck buddies. I always lend him some money to finance his car loan. I even went to his place and befriend his relatives. We frequently eat at expensive restaurants with his friends. My other friends were saying that I was being used that those guys befriended me for money. I was deaf and blind to what they were saying. I'm enjoying the company until I realize that they were right.

 

One fine day I'm the who ask favor to those guys, they turned me down. Slowly they were ghosting me. They didn't talk to me at work. They no longer ask me to go out. Good thing I have other good friends. I have already moved on. Always love yourself first and never get abused especially for money.

[Guest Sigh]

9 hours ago, Guest Lawrence56 said:

It is a trap. Get away from him immediately. I was in the same situation but I overcame it. It has been a year since I get rid those people in my life.

 

We were very close friends and also fuck buddies. I always lend him some money to finance his car loan. I even went to his place and befriend his relatives. We frequently eat at expensive restaurants with his friends. My other friends were saying that I was being used that those guys befriended me for money. I was deaf and blind to what they were saying. I'm enjoying the company until I realize that they were right.

 

One fine day I'm the who ask favor to those guys, they turned me down. Slowly they were ghosting me. They didn't talk to me at work. They no longer ask me to go out. Good thing I have other good friends. I have already moved on. Always love yourself first and never get abused especially for money.

 

Why you projecting your issue on me and my FB? My FB and I never ask or talk about money. Sometimes he bring condom. Sometimes I bring. Sometimes I like to try a new lube. He doesn't like he bring his. 

 

Recently I bought a semen like lube. He like it very much cause he saw it looks like he's fucking me with other guys cum. So he chipped me to buy extra bottle. 

 

He never ask me to pay for his transport. Sometimes I feel bad I go his place too but he prefer my place cause we can snuggle in aircon and watch gay movie. 

 

Recently we watched bros together. We were both ogling on luke macfarlane. When the sex scene came my FB hugged me from behind I felt love. Is it so wrong? 

[asdfjkl]

On 11/7/2022 at 1:00 AM, asdfjkl said:

how often you guys meet your fb? 

me once a month. 

we also go out have a meal and date. 

i do reveal to my fb that i fall in love with him. but got rejected. 

but we still fuck once a month. 

 

i see myself no chance to be in relationship with him liao. 

really just fb and normal friend. 

so end up, i got another msg from him. 
 

he apologized for replying late. 
saying that, he just wants to be friends. Not fwb or who breeds. 
(Yeah we both on preps). 
and he knows how i feel about him, 

and i also know he don’t feel the same for me. 
asking me to understand. 
 

(so confirm GG liao

this one. )
 

i said no worries. 
I replied next time you jio

me go out makan, coffee and 

play video games bah. 
 

 

[Guest Gays are self hating]

7 minutes ago, asdfjkl said:

so end up, i got another msg from him. 
 

he apologized for replying late. 
saying that, he just wants to be friends. Not fwb or who breeds. 
(Yeah we both on preps). 
and he knows how i feel about him, 

and i also know he don’t feel the same for me. 
asking me to understand. 
 

(so confirm GG liao

this one. )
 

i said no worries. 
I replied next time you jio

me go out makan, coffee and 

play video games bah. 
 

 

 

Shouldn't be friends. 

Should just be stranger 

[Guest Tool Box]

1 hour ago, Guest Gays are self hating said:

 

Shouldn't be friends. 

Should just be stranger 

Not even stranger, just a tool to satisfy someone's need.

[p-2122]

On 11/1/2022 at 4:28 PM, Saggiboy said:

Trust me, it is just sex, no matter how much love making passionate sweet talkings there are. It is just sex, enjoy the moment and go. 

If u never hang out, have dinner, talk abt life and intimate details, it's just sex. 

 

I have went to a date with the FB, he keeps asking me to go to his place and finally one day I agreed to. We arranged a night out, have dinner, talk about ourselves and went to his place to chill, watch a movie or something and cuddle on his bed. 

 

But it didn't turn out well. Afterwards I tried again asking him out and he texted me there is no chemistry and we returned back to be friends/FB. 

 

Still he is the first to initiate to go on a date but he still said no chemistry.