Help! I Cum Too Fast! + Premature Ejaculation & Treatments Discussion (Compiled)

[Guest PEman]

Hi,

May I know BKK refers to where? Is it Bangkok?

[boyfren]

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Edited March 21, 2021 by boyfren

[GachiMuchi]

As you mentioned, your bf loves you very much, but do you love your bf? That's the million dollar question.

Apparently you don't like a 'One minute' man, but to your bf it is not an issue that warrant him to see a doctor for.

I think you need to tell him that to you, his 'one minute' orgasm is not something you wanted. Tell him that if he don't get his 'one minute' problem resolved, you might want to go find someone else. Hopefully, it will help jolt him from being shy to get him to look into his PE issue.

If all else fail, hey, you know what you should do hor.

[boyfren]

As you mentioned, your bf loves you very much, but do you love your bf? That's the million dollar question.

Apparently you don't like a 'One minute' man, but to your bf it is not an issue that warrant him to see a doctor for.

I think you need to tell him that to you, his 'one minute' orgasm is not something you wanted. Tell him that if he don't get his 'one minute' problem resolved, you might want to go find someone else. Hopefully, it will help jolt him from being shy to get him to look into his PE issue.

If all else fail, hey, you know what you should do hor.

If you like that person, but not the sex, will you stay?

[GachiMuchi]

If you like that person, but not the sex, will you stay?

Well, you will hv to answer this question yourself. He is not my bf, he is your bf.

[Guest Guest]

Send your bf here, let our prof - GachiMuchi trains him on cum control.

[Guest fake love]

If you like that person, but not the sex, will you stay?

it takes two hands to clap. it takes 2 to have great seX. but if one cannot perform u might consider changing partners.rather than regret in the later part.

[Guest guest]

Anyone with the problem below?

Hi,

I need help, my bf in his 30s ejaculates very fast, sometimes even before we touch...

But he loves me very much and would wank me off after that, because after he shoots, no mood for fun already.

I ask him to see a doctor about this but he is shy.

The longest time he took to cum was me licking it for 1 mins, then he shoots liao...

Erm.. not shoot, but the cum just flows out.

Anyone with the same problem? Because I find it unfulfilling....

Common man problem. See a psychiatrist. They should be able to help. Nothing to be shy.

[Guest Guest]

if u can accept him, rest assured he will love u for life...cos he wont dump u as nobody enjoys sucking a cock that leak within mins.

[Guest Guest]

Anyone with the problem below?

Hi,

I need help, my bf in his 30s ejaculates very fast, sometimes even before we touch...

But he loves me very much and would wank me off after that, because after he shoots, no mood for fun already.

I ask him to see a doctor about this but he is shy.

The longest time he took to cum was me licking it for 1 mins, then he shoots liao...

Erm.. not shoot, but the cum just flows out.

Anyone with the same problem? Because I find it unfulfilling....

Maybe you can try the Indian Oil. Can be bought at chinese medicine shop. It is kind of a spray that will numb yr dick for an hour or 2 but still holds the erection so that the head will not be so sensitive. After a few times you can stop using cos yr head becomes less sensitive .

Tried before last time when young and cums easily but nowadays can fxxk like a bull for long time without cumming cos can control.

[Clickclock]

I have the exact opposite, my cock goes soft in the middle of the session.. and it takes 2 times longer for me to cu you kno

[MobyDick]

Hmm.. what if he takes very long time to cum, or never cum after seeing the doc? You should take this as a compliment that you are able to turn him on in a short time. Else you can ask him to JO an hour before the fun to see what happens.

If you love your bf, you should accept his bed performance too.. it is not easy to find someone who is perfect in everything.

[4ever75]

Excercise your penis - try to kegel to strengthen yuor PC muscle. You can surf the internet for more info and showing you how, heres one of them

http://www.pegym.com/free-penis-enlargement-exercises-guide/kegeling-kegel-exercises-for-men

Edging (stop/start) recommended earlier by Patisoy also helps.

However, you need to be patience and consistence in your routine to see some results.

Hey,

I have one question.

If exercising the area too often, will it hurt the bladder system? cos while urine, trying to hold it back often dont seem healthy to the penis... if i am wrong wif the concept.

Cheers.

[Guest FitBod]

To teach you then must show u whilst i do on someone, u can bring that someone?also must do on you then u will get the feeling of what i mean in slowing you down n the guiding u to hold on.it will takes a few practising on you so u will gradully learn when to hold back then final explosion!!!!!!!!!hahahaha.give me yr email i privately email u n we can webcam too.

I will love to experience it too.. Email me at zephpop@hotmail.com yeah?

[WibowoRony]

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Edited June 11, 2020 by WibowoRony

[totoro69]

i was in the same as u.. PE.. 2 years ago.

but now no more.. can control my cum as long as i want. even 1 or 2 hours penetration...

its need lot practice with ur partner and control ur mind.

and if u want, u can use some herbal or some cream on ur cock... to lessen sensibility of ur cock.

u can PM me on sikoru01@yahoo.com

cheers

u mention to apply cream so that the tool is less sensitive. does that mean that after application, one cant suck the dick anymore? can u let me know the name of the cream? u can email to me at totoro69@gmail.com or leave me a message here. i can't control my climax when i top someone. care to help?

cheers!

[cock brand]

Hey,

I have one question.

If exercising the area too often, will it hurt the bladder system? cos while urine, trying to hold it back often dont seem healthy to the penis... if i am wrong wif the concept.

Cheers.

I think you had misunderstood the instructions.

Kegel has got nothing to do with your bladder or the urinary system.

Because many guys don't know exactly where their PC muscle is, so one way to locate them is to stop the urine flow midway when you pee.

The muscle that you contract to stop the flow is your PC muscle.

Another easy way to isolate them is when having an erection, the muscle you contract to flick your penis up is your PC muscle.

That’s the PC muscle you need to worked on and its better to do it with an empty bladder.

The kegel exercise is all about clenching, hold a few seconds and release the muscle and just keep doing it repeatedly for several mins. everyday

You can kegel anytime of the of the day, even while sitting in a bus.

[Guest Timmy]

If u suddenly stop the flow of urine or suddenly stop the flow of sperm, will the private area or organs feel any pain? Is there a sensation? Just wondering.

By the way when I sleep, i can get erections. But lately when I masturbate i find it hard to get erection. Is it impotence? I m 40 yrs old.

[cw30]

If u suddenly stop the flow of urine or suddenly stop the flow of sperm, will the private area or organs feel any pain? Is there a sensation? Just wondering.

By the way when I sleep, i can get erections. But lately when I masturbate i find it hard to get erection. Is it impotence? I m 40 yrs old.

Maybe you used too much liao. rest for a few days lor

[Lucky 7]

Premature Ejeculation can be cured for good with the right products.Don`t be a 2 minute man anymore!

Edited March 17, 2011 by Lucky 7

[Guest seniorguy]

If u suddenly stop the flow of urine or suddenly stop the flow of sperm, will the private area or organs feel any pain? Is there a sensation? Just wondering.

By the way when I sleep, i can get erections. But lately when I masturbate i find it hard to get erection. Is it impotence? I m 40 yrs old.

No lah... just that you may not be in the right mood. There's always a right time to relax and enjoy. I'm into my late 50s and can still do it. Just dun rush through the action and handle it with tender care. So dun worry.

[gummibear]

How can i cure premature ejaculation? Any tips?

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[Guest Guest]

a friend recommend me to try 'kamagra jelly' before having sex... it will helps you to have a good hard-on for half hour and more and can cum a lot too.

any1 tried ??

[Guest Guest]

I am manly also have a big dick,from bottom of my heart,I want to be top,but tried once be a top,I cumed in 3 mins,so sad,then I have to be btm since that.

I think the reason I cum fast is my dick got damaged due to jerk off too much,I start jerk off since I was nine years old,and in my high school period,I jerk off 3-5 times everyday,at first,I jerk off long long time before cum,but afraid my parents found that,I force myself to cum fast,oh,shit,I was so stupid at that time,now I force myself to cum slow,but failed.

Any cum master can give me some advice?I want fxxk other hot guy,don't want be fxxked and don't enjoy to be btm...

[winterboy]

there's a squeezing technique in which u squeeze the gland of your dick head whenever u've the feeling to ejaculate.. doesnt know if it works for u

[Lpkojii]

lol squeezing the dickhead make me cum too XD i think when u are fuking u should go slower... don fuk like a machine gun... slow down the speed...and when u r gonna cum maybe stop fuking for a while... but i m jerking off and about to cum but dont wanna cum... i stop for a while and later on when u cum... more volume XD more shoik !

[Guest petra]

lol squeezing the dickhead make me cum too XD i think when u are fuking u should go slower... don fuk like a machine gun... slow down the speed...and when u r gonna cum maybe stop fuking for a while... but i m jerking off and about to cum but dont wanna cum... i stop for a while and later on when u cum... more volume XD more shoik !

i also say.

[Guest Ironrod]

Not possible.

There is never prove JO a lot will make u cum fast, in fact if I JO the next day I can fxxk long and hard cos my balls not so much cum.

Plus I JO and fxxk a lot also no problem.

If you don't want to be fxxk then don't be fxxk lor!

[JrD]

You can never damage ur dick from too much jerking off! You can tried jerking off and cum before engaging sex with ur partner. The second ejaculation should cum much slower... unless u r a cum machine...

Edited June 27, 2011 by JrD

[JosQi]

fxxk more. jerk more.

1st time cum fast. then 2nd time will take longer. and 3rd time even longer hahah-.

wonder how many time u will do for a night.

can i watch?

but seriously. if i be B. i not really into long hours fxxk.

unless if i were drunk or high on DG

Edited June 27, 2011 by JosQi

[kennethhost]

fxxk more and pratice more. Last time I having the same issue like you, but now it is fine. Just fxxk more will do..... :twisted:

[Guest Guest]

I like big cock, you can practice on me until you take long time to cum

[chapapa]

I feel like I am in the same situation. When I was younger I love to jerk off fast and now if I wanna be top I cum like super fast less than 3 mins too but I enjoy being btm and thats good and all but sometimes I like just to be top. Also ppl did say 6.8" wasted to be btm

[Lpkojii]

I feel like I am in the same situation. When I was younger I love to jerk off fast and now if I wanna be top I cum like super fast less than 3 mins too but I enjoy being btm and thats good and all but sometimes I like just to be top. Also ppl did say 6.8" wasted to be btm

lol if u cum so fast... just be it lol... shoot on ur partner.. and continue fxxking and wait for 2nd cum HOT !

[xiandarkthorne]

Dear Cum-quick Friends,

The problem of cumming too quickly is called premature ejaculation but in your case, it isn't so since you don't cum immediately either before or upon penetration. Your problem is simply that you cum quickly and haven't learned control over your own body yet. There are a few simple non-medical ways to overcome the problem of cumming quickly.

One is to jerk off about 30 minutes before you go out on a date, so that when the time comes to have sex (after meeting up, walking around and dinner, perhaps), your penis will be slightly de-sensitized and won't reach orgasm so quickly. Of course, if you have a low sex drive, then this could be a problem. For men with high sex drives who can get it up a few times in one night, this is a good way of making sure you can last much longer each subsequent time.

The other way, is to find someone who's patient and likes you well enough to let you practise with him. The trick is to identify the moment when the orgasmic response begins and then stop or slow down until it passes before you resume your activity. You won't get it right the first few times - that is why you need practise to get it right.

Believe me, the only way you can injure your penis by jerking off too many times is if you do it so hard and so roughly that you actually damage the blood vessels in the shaft. And then you either won't be able to get it up at all - or your penis could end permanently bent after the internal wound has healed. It's impossible to masturbate so roughly that you damage your penis permanently and yet can still cum. Trust me. If you can get an erection and cum, no matter how quickly, your penis is working fine.

Once you learn some control over your penis' reactions, you can also learn to have multiple orgasms. People think only women can have multiple orgasms but that's not true. Men can, too, only we have it in a different way. :thumb:

And one more thing - there's nothing wrong with being a bottom, regardless of the size of your manhood. What's important is how well you use it to have fun - and how much fun you get out of it!

[oralb]

your dick is NOT damaged, either you have premature ejaculation or you simply got too excited when fxxking another person.

So either you learned to control your cuming or simply jerk off before the fxxk session.

[Guest toy demon]

If you are in your twenties and you are healthy with no major illness, having your condition is quite normal, just that you need more practice and have more sex , may it be with other guys, or your hand or a sex toy.

Advantages of sex toy, have it when you want it without risk of arrest, no time wasting used in cruising , you may wantthe guy the guy do not find you attractive, no risk of sexually transmittted disease, like gono, syphillis, herpis, , sex toys can be fun and they simulate the real thing and they are usually more stimulating than the real thing,

So the logic being, if you are stimulated by a stronger sensation, when you are doing the real sex with another's flesh, it will be desensitize so you won't come so fast.

A lot of sex therapist advice training with a sex toy like a masturbators or sleeves.

Check out or local ones at

http://www.u4ria.com.sg/ go under masturbators/japan/toysheart/premium quality the best ones come from japan, they are reusbale and washable

check out foreign ones at toy demon at

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practice, practice , practice and learn control and get desensitize so you can last longer and enhance pleasure for your partner .

[xxxpartyboixxx]

I,m so sorry to read about your problem. But really, you made me laugh for the whole day with a title like that LOLOLOLOL . Ok, ok lets get serious, try this method:- jack off at normal pace, slow down after a few minutes, stop completely if you feel like cumming, don't worry if your dick gets limp, let it be...then arouse yourself again...continue and abstain from cumming...keep this up for 45 mins - 1 hour daily...if you have time. Soon, hopefully, you will be able to control yourself from premature ejaculation.

[JrD]

I like big cock, you can practice on me until you take long time to cum

LOL.... Opportunist. ... :twisted:

[Guest ssb]

I am manly also have a big dick,from bottom of my heart,I want to be top,but tried once be a top,I cumed in 3 mins,so sad,then I have to be btm since that.

Hello, please contact us at the singapore sperm bank. we need more fast-cummer like you so that we can cut down on our operation time and resources.

[gliddder]

Dear Cum-quick Friends,

The problem of cumming too quickly is called premature ejaculation but in your case, it isn't so since you don't cum immediately either before or upon penetration. Your problem is simply that you cum quickly and haven't learned control over your own body yet. There are a few simple non-medical ways to overcome the problem of cumming quickly.

One is to jerk off about 30 minutes before you go out on a date, so that when the time comes to have sex (after meeting up, walking around and dinner, perhaps), your penis will be slightly de-sensitized and won't reach orgasm so quickly. Of course, if you have a low sex drive, then this could be a problem. For men with high sex drives who can get it up a few times in one night, this is a good way of making sure you can last much longer each subsequent time.

The other way, is to find someone who's patient and likes you well enough to let you practise with him. The trick is to identify the moment when the orgasmic response begins and then stop or slow down until it passes before you resume your activity. You won't get it right the first few times - that is why you need practise to get it right.

Believe me, the only way you can injure your penis by jerking off too many times is if you do it so hard and so roughly that you actually damage the blood vessels in the shaft. And then you either won't be able to get it up at all - or your penis could end permanently bent after the internal wound has healed. It's impossible to masturbate so roughly that you damage your penis permanently and yet can still cum. Trust me. If you can get an erection and cum, no matter how quickly, your penis is working fine.

Once you learn some control over your penis' reactions, you can also learn to have multiple orgasms. People think only women can have multiple orgasms but that's not true. Men can, too, only we have it in a different way. :thumb:

And one more thing - there's nothing wrong with being a bottom, regardless of the size of your manhood. What's important is how well you use it to have fun - and how much fun you get out of it!

Thanks for the reply which is as long as my dick,lol...

i didn't mean my dick is damaged,i said "like dick damaged" so it is still not damaged,hehe.

why i feel it damaged is because i cum faster than all of u thought,believe or not,i can jerk off and cum in 1 min which is almost a guinness record, oh my dick!!that means i trained my dick to cum fast by "jerking off a looooot" for years,and it works now!!!oh,shit.

thanks for some good advices in the post, i will start now to train my dick to cum slow now,hope it didn't take a lot of years this time,as i am already in my 30,hehe.

Edited June 28, 2011 by gliddder

[gliddder]

Hello, please contact us at the singapore sperm bank. we need more fast-cummer like you so that we can cut down on our operation time and resources.

if there is a sperm bank in singapore, wow,i must be a billionaire already!

[xiandarkthorne]

Thanks for the reply which is as long as my dick,lol...i will start now to train my dick to cum slow now,hope it didn't take a lot of years this time,as i am already in my 30,hehe.

You're welcome. Actually, I can tell you that if you practise everyday, it shouldn't take more than a few weeks to achieve some control over your dick. It's called a pre-conditioned response (a bit like learning to hit a good backhand in tennis) and you shouldn't have any problem learning it.

Another thing you should try is teasing your dick (instead of furiously jacking off) to practise your control. Just simple things like tickling the glans with a wet finger, should help you to become more aware of your manhood's reactions and response times.

[MarriedTop]

I am manly also have a big dick,from bottom of my heart,I want to be top,but tried once be a top,I cumed in 3 mins,so sad,then I have to be btm since that.

I think the reason I cum fast is my dick got damaged due to jerk off too much,I start jerk off since I was nine years old,and in my high school period,I jerk off 3-5 times everyday,at first,I jerk off long long time before cum,but afraid my parents found that,I force myself to cum fast,oh,shit,I was so stupid at that time,now I force myself to cum slow,but failed.

Any cum master can give me some advice?I want fxxk other hot guy,don't want be fxxked and don't enjoy to be btm...

I shared the same experiences...

[Guest unsatisfied]

Met a guy on the internet and went to his house. In his age of early 30s and not bad looking. After some foreplaying, he inserted me. However, with a 3 strokes (I counted), he pulled out and cummed spraying on his bed. I was like wtf ?! He then panted and asked if I wanted to cum. I was no mood and decided to leave.

[amicablyalan]

maybe the foreplay is too much for him ...

[alien]

Luckily he didn't cum during the foreplay! Some guys migt get too excited during foreplay and might cum!

[no2pe]

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[Tight Ass]

I hate man with pre-mature ejaculation syndrome. It was like blowing your saliva all over the cake prior to serving it. Those who have gone for birthday party know what I meant. I don't want my ass to end up like that pitiful cake.

[Guest SPR]

I get over in less than two minutes.

both on girls and boys

worried about it

how to tell this to a doctor?

looking for medicine on phamarcy