Molested / Touched In Public or Private + Profile Of Molester + More men and boys fall prey to molesters but many choose to keep mum(compiled)

[BoyInBoxers]

Wtf, u could have punch his fking face la. Or kneel his balls or something ): dam sad story. :/

[Guest 51yearold]

You enjoyed the wine, the steaks and the sex talk THROUGHOUT the meeting, then you claim molested? Seems you're equally keen to edge him on!

[Guest passingthru]

It seems the molester is very predatory and focused. Don't be misled by age. He could have been a fit 51, forceful, maniacal and aggressive while the victim, inexperienced, shocked/stunned and of a delicate disposition.

I hope the victim isn't too traumatized have since recovered. Thanks for sharing and I hope in future, you'll be more careful and discerning.

[deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds]

It seems like the conversation between them was revolving around sex and nothing else and I believe before both met, they must have had been dwelling on the topic of sex too in their cyber chat. Is it so difficult to foresee what the older man would have done especially since from the start (showing off hardon in toilet to rubbing the person's groin during dinner) he has been doing nothing but trying to get intimate? Everything seems premeditated and expected.

If the chap have had no desire or yearning to get physical, and perhaps if he had a little sense still left in his mind, he would have rejected the offer to be driven home.

This sounds more like a prostitute after agreeing to service for a certain fee and when everything is done and over with, tried to get more money from the man by putting up a "You pay me or I shout "Rape" .

[imchaser]

I hope the victim isn't too traumatized have since recovered. Thanks for sharing and I hope in future, you'll be more careful and discerning.

Traumatized by a handjob? I cant believe u guys here are so naive. Has BW being infested with a bunch of 12 years old?

[stars]

You enjoyed the wine, the steaks and the sex talk THROUGHOUT the meeting, then you claim molested? Seems you're equally keen to edge him on!

He can talk about sex all he wants - that bastard doesn't have any right to touch him if he doesn't wanna be touched.

Traumatized by a handjob? I cant believe u guys here are so naive. Has BW being infested with a bunch of 12 years old?

If you think a handjob's just a handjob and nothing much, you're obviously a bit of a slut.

[derryfawne]

Traumatized by a handjob? I cant believe u guys here are so naive. Has BW being infested with a bunch of 12 years old?

Traumatized or not, it's plain unethical to put someone under a situation that he doesn't want to be into.

Edited August 24, 2011 by derryfawne

[imchaser]

He can talk about sex all he wants - that bastard doesn't have any right to touch him if he doesn't wanna be touched. If you think a handjob's just a handjob and nothing much, you're obviously a bit of a slut.

Traumatized or not, it's plain unethical to put someone under a situation that he doesn't want to be into.

im really confused how simple minded some of u are.. The poster here obviously wrote this as an erotic story and jack off material with a funny ending, and all of u only care is how unmoral the older guy is.

Even if its a true story, what u really think that the guy who cry molest expecting when meeting horny strangers on a date and all the conversation were abt how they masturbate and have sex with other guys. And did he really let himself to be treated to red wine and steaks by the daddy with no return favor?

[snowball]

just treat it as a fiction, what to argue about? about human right or moral? relax

Edited August 24, 2011 by snowball

[imchaser]

The younger gen now are so fragile.

Exam?.... stress.

Work? .... stress.

NS? .... end of the world.

BF cheat?.... suicidal.

Handjob? ....traumatized.

[derryfawne]

im really confused how simple minded some of u are.. The poster here obviously wrote this as an erotic story and jack off material with a funny ending, and all of u only care is how unmoral the older guy is.

The fact that the story focuses too little too less on the erotic details signify that either (a) this opens up for a possibility that it may be a real story; or (b) it's a lousily-written erotic story that misses the point. Obviously, most people here have felt no urge to wank after reading the story. Instead, they sympathize along.

Even if its a true story, what u really think that the guy who cry molest expecting when meeting horny strangers on a date and all the conversation were abt how they masturbate and have sex with other guys. And did he really let himself to be treated to red wine and steaks by the daddy with no return favor?

Red herring. No one disagrees with the idea that the poster (or the protagonist, if it's fiction) had definitely put himself into a very vulnerable situation, but that doesn't make what the molester did here any more acceptable/understandable.

[imchaser]

The fact that the story focuses too little too less on the erotic details signify that either (a) this opens up for a possibility that it may be a real story; or (b) it's a lousily-written erotic story that misses the point. Obviously, most people here have felt no urge to wank after reading the story. Instead, they sympathize along.

Wow really? The whole story screams like a jack off material. Maybe u wont understand, but for ppl who have fetishes for socks, generation gap relationship, force milking, and car sex would find this sweet and well written.

Edited August 24, 2011 by imchaser

[derryfawne]

Wow really? The whole story screams like a jack off material. Maybe u wont understand, but for ppl who have fetishes for socks, generation gap relationship, force milking, and car sex would find this sweet and well written.

I've read enough materials on these (except maybe socks) to understand how they can be appealing.

I'm just going to restate my "too little too less" statement. With possible exception for car sex, none of these are explored to their erotic potentials beyond a short forgettable mention each. If you get off from anything as long as it has the word 'cum' on it, then you can have this story. I'll stick with nifty.org

I rest my case.

Edited August 24, 2011 by derryfawne

[mango_juice]

I'm more curious as to who paid for the meal... I believe the old man paid as least u got a free dinner

[evianwater]

Even if its a true story, what u really think that the guy who cry molest expecting when meeting horny strangers on a date and all the conversation were abt how they masturbate and have sex with other guys. And did he really let himself to be treated to red wine and steaks by the daddy with no return favor?

Yup.. I agree with your last sentence. If a teen goes out with a 51-yo man and accepts treats from him, he better be prepared to give up somethin. I think it's perfectly fair and this is how the circle should work. People give and take.

Thankfully, i've learnt something from this thread. That is to only agree to have car fun with strangers only after they've driven me back to somewhere around my area. I wouldn't wanna experience getting 'thrown out' of the car after a fun-session.

[oralb]

lacking the afterword by the thread starter, i am still trying to figure out whether was he angered that he had been forced jerk off or by being driven out of the car.

[snowball]

like what people say, 天下没有免费的午餐 ( but here is 晚餐和红酒 ), you should know, you should know...

wonder will there be a second meeting with free romantic dinner with this 51 old guy & this thread is still on if panicking send home safe?

Edited August 24, 2011 by snowball

[cracklesizzle]

Yup.. I agree with your last sentence. If a teen goes out with a 51-yo man and accepts treats from him, he better be prepared to give up somethin. I think it's perfectly fair and this is how the circle should work. People give and take. Thankfully, i've learnt something from this thread. That is to only agree to have car fun with strangers only after they've driven me back to somewhere around my area. I wouldn't wanna experience getting 'thrown out' of the car after a fun-session.

yea, now that you've mentioned it, all the signs were there. The outcome seems pretty obvious.

[tic-toc]

I wonder if you guys have ever met someone who is willing to pick you up with his car, then drive you to his home for sex. After it is done, he asks you to go home by yourself, albeit you live at the other side of the island. Apart from the inconvenience and time factor, such acts make one feel like a call boy or prostitute. It leaves a bitter after taste.

The experience of this tread starter could make him feel the same way too.

[snowball]

so this thread the key word is " free transport " & not molest

[oralb]

let's see, did the person promise to send you home? if yes, then maybe he wasnt that ethical, if no, it shouldnt be assume that he is going to, esp he provided a his place for sex, got to send you home and then return.

Sex is a give and take situation.

Sorry to burst your bubble, even call boy or prostitute would show up in the buyer's place instead of being picked up.

[Guest CSB]

Nice story... some plot holes though!

[derryfawne]

Yup.. I agree with your last sentence. If a teen goes out with a 51-yo man and accepts treats from him, he better be prepared to give up somethin. I think it's perfectly fair and this is how the circle should work. People give and take.

Been to a similar experience. It's not that simple.

At first, it's just a simple kopitiam meeting with a man 15 years older. Then he suggested to eat somewhere else and drove me to a nice eatery with $$$ menu. I found it quite impolite to reject since he had driven quite far, so I decided to just fork out more than usual for the night's dinner. I wanted to split the bill but he just wouldn't. It did strike my mind that night if I had been subtly put into the 'pay back' situation; since I was initially indifferent about him, I mentioned about paying my half for another 3-4 times, but he would always find reasons to why I don't have to. (PS. Just to see some opinions, does this suffice to constitute a treat at his own voluntary expense? Or should someone in that situation insists AGAIN to not be treated?)

Granted, though, he's a nice person and all. After the dinner, he drove me around a beach to enjoy some breeze and had some chit-chats, which kinda helped to build the momentum. By the time he actually suggested about something more, I was already willing lol.

In my case, though, he did treat me nice enough. Sometimes you are unfortunate enough to come across a real jerk, and in that situation, I would have probably just throw my half of the bill right then and there inside the car... if I'm not already pinned down against my will, that is. I'm serious about this thread because I could draw a personal experience that sees how the scenario can be possible in real life.

Just because I have agreed to being treated by someone who repeatedly assured me of his kindness, doesn't mean I have signed a contract to return it with a sexual favor. I might just ask him out for a second dinner and pay my dues that way. (PS. Too bad we never had the chance for that second dinner, by the way. And to think that it was my first kiss... a bit wasted. :oops: )

[Undies69]

i agree with derryfawne that the victim who posted this thread may have traumatised about being pinned down inside the car and was forced to release his loads...

pls have some pity to the victim.

for those who had not experienced such scenario will not know how it feels.... only when you yourself is the victim then you will recall why this victim posted such thread

[Guest Guest]

haha,

i met this guy before 2 years ago and he picked me up at dover mrt at the bus stop near SP. after got inside his car, he told me he is married with kids and asked if i mind to have fun with him. he drove me all the way to bukit timah courts saying that he wanted to buy a fan. after he went inside courts, i quickly ran to the bus stop opposite bukit timah shopping centre and hop a bus and left without his noticed.

[Undies69]

haha,

i met this guy before 2 years ago and he picked me up at dover mrt at the bus stop near SP. after got inside his car, he told me he is married with kids and asked if i mind to have fun with him. he drove me all the way to bukit timah courts saying that he wanted to buy a fan. after he went inside courts, i quickly ran to the bus stop opposite bukit timah shopping centre and hop a bus and left without his noticed.

What are you trying to tell us? Why you meet him and just left without his notice when he didn do anything funny to you? Unless he is not your type and for courtesy sake, at least just upfront telling him that he aint your type of man.

But can always be frends even though he aint your type...

[stars]

Yup.. I agree with your last sentence. If a teen goes out with a 51-yo man and accepts treats from him, he better be prepared to give up somethin. I think it's perfectly fair and this is how the circle should work. People give and take.

You're not serious. You're so bloody stupid if you think that a teen needs to give up something for a free meal - he's not a fxxking prostitute. This 51-year-old went in with all kinds of expectations and he didn't even give a shit that the boy didn't want to do anything.

[Guest david]

During the course of dinner, you participated in talking about sex with someone you just met. At some point you even allowed him to rub your crotch under the table. My impression that it's a prelude to sex after dinner!!

The strange part was only when he left you in the dark carpark after sex.

It only says that he's a self-centred jerk - treated you to a nice meal, and YOU as fast food.

Well learn from this experience.

[imchaser]

You're not serious. You're so bloody stupid if you think that a teen needs to give up something for a free meal - he's not a fxxking prostitute. This 51-year-old went in with all kinds of expectations and he didn't even give a shit that the boy didn't want to do anything.

Are u serious? You're so retarded if u think its ok for kids to accept free stuff from strangers with no other intentions. He is no fxxking Santa Claus. Theres no free gift in the world. Having a hard on and cum already tell us enough whether the boy enjoying what the daddy did or not. Is it so hard for u to understand?

Sometimes i felt insulted by the level of intelligence displayed by some ppl here that cant even differentiate real or fiction. And for the love of Mother Theresa, please stop educate us what is moral and what is unmoral.

Im leaving the forum temporary bcos im so disappointed.

[kimlo777]

Talking of crowded trains, nothing beats the morning train in Bombay. Itis so packed you can hardly move. And the feeling of all these Indian businessmen wearing their traditional garb consisting of a long shirt and a loose fitting draw-string pants with drawers underneath. Many of them would press their crotch against you. The rocking and rolling of the train will inadvertently leave many of them aroused as their crotch keep rubbing against your bums or thigh and you'll feel many erections. Of course, there will always be some who are open to some 'playfulness' like letting you grip on to their erection throughout the train ride. I spent about 2 months in Bombay and always looked forward to my morning train rides to the office and evening ride back home. And it was an enjoyable 90-min ride each way so you can imagine the number of hard dicks I fondled on the Bombay trains.

[Guest shenderz]

Has anyone ever been molested before?

It happened to me when I was 21. I remember boarding the mrt at bishan and leaning against the plastic partition. When the train reached amk, a pock marked face uncle boarded and stood next to me. The next thing I knew, he put his hand into his pants to adjust his tool. Then he unzipped his pants slightly and I could see his erect dick covered in white undies protruding slightly. Imagine a white bulge in contrast to the dark pants. Obviously it was not long. Then he inched closer and used his dick to touch my hip.

It was both shocking and exciting at the same time.

He did that for a short while and alighted at yck leaving me rather shell shocked.

Now that I look back, tat uncle was really cheap thrill. Like tat also wan. Haha.

Anyone got interesting experience to share?

[darthhell]

Is the mrt train packed or empty?

[Guest shenderz]

Seats were all filled but only a few standing souls. It was late afternoon then. Singapore wasn't like it is now.

[Guest guest]

i have touched indian workers "package" a few times by accident in the busy MRT train... they didn't seem to mind it.. haha..

[Mercutio]

I'm wondering if there's a tendency to think of 'molest' as by a lascivious old uncle.

I've had this young guy press his hard-on against my ass, without solicitation, while we were both standing in the MRT. I was reading a book and getting slightly annoyed that somewhat kept breathing on my neck, when I felt the boner hot against the ass cheek. Thinking it was just an embarrassing mistake, I moved a couple of steps away, and then felt the breathing and boner again. Young guy, probably early to 20s.

[Guest shenderz]

O yes the thread should be more appropriately titled unwanted advances.

[Guest Guest]

Mercutio... u are lucky.. :D :lol:

[Guest molest victim]

Molest is often followed by outrage and disgust, a potential case for outrage of modesty.

Seems like some of you girls here have enjoyed it from your written account.

[Guest shenderz]

Molest is often followed by outrage and disgust, a potential case for outrage of modesty.

Seems like some of you girls here have enjoyed it from your written account.

Haha thanx for your insightful comment mamasan.

This thread is not meant for anyone to air their sob stories cos self pity is the last thing we want.

Notice that when sexual crimes occur there will always be people who think that the victim deserves it.

And when the victim cries out loud, they will be chided for seeking pity.

It is worse for male victims.

Some women think that their own kind is their worst critic.

Do you think that gays is their own worst critic?

[Guest mama3]

What a misleading title?

Molest is defined as being touched inappropriately against one's will.

Being touched inappropriately without objection albeit willingly or even looking forward to it. Do we have a term for this?

[Guest Guest2]

What a misleading title?

Molest is defined as being touched inappropriately against one's will.

Being touched inappropriately without objection albeit willingly or even looking forward to it. Do we have a term for this?

Lelong lelong, 吊起来卖...

[darthhell]

Seats were all filled but only a few standing souls. It was late afternoon then. Singapore wasn't like it is now.

When tat uncle adjust his tool, everyone can see loh..

[Guest shenderz]

Haha u think he cared. Why do u think people get caught for masturbating in public? We can never understand the psychology of why people do those things they do unless we hv done them ourselves.

[Atrapada]

the one with the 20yo guy breathing sounds interesting... hahax.

There was this once I could remember.. I think I was pri5 (11yrs old) after church I went to my home's neighbourhood library. Made some friends from that library and sometimes we would go out play in the playground beside the library. There was once we were playing catching. Then I was running n running and finally I caught this girl, she's pri3 (9yrs old). So the method of playing was that once u caught someone, the catcher will have to imprison the victim while the other catcher goes around.

I was looking after and imprisoning here both of us squatting down. When I was not looking, she suddenly reached out her hand and grabbed my crotch private area.... giggledddd .... then ran away. I was like wtf, horny little girl... Hard for myself to believe but was a little grossed out by her gesture. I can still remember her dressed up with her princessy dress.... so uncool =.=.....

Edited December 3, 2011 by ConfusedFella

[Execguy]

I have had my crotch grabbed a few times as I exited the mrt train. Was shocked at the blatant way it was done. There were so many people that I did not even see who did it.

[Staycation]

the one with the 20yo guy breathing sounds interesting... hahax.

There was this once I could remember.. I think I was pri5 (11yrs old) after church I went to my home's neighbourhood library. Made some friends from that library and sometimes we would go out play in the playground beside the library. There was once we were playing catching. Then I was running n running and finally I caught this girl, she's pri3 (9yrs old). So the method of playing was that once u caught someone, the catcher will have to imprison the victim while the other catcher goes around.

I was looking after and imprisoning here both of us squatting down. When I was not looking, she suddenly reached out her hand and grabbed my crotch private area.... giggledddd .... then ran away. I was like wtf, horny little girl... Hard for myself to believe but was a little grossed out by her gesture. I can still remember her dressed up with her princessy dress.... so uncool =.=.....

hahahhaaa such a scary and unpleasant experience with a girl... thats why you like guys more now :D:D:D

[XiaoTer]

the one with the 20yo guy breathing sounds interesting... hahax.

There was this once I could remember.. I think I was pri5 (11yrs old) after church I went to my home's neighbourhood library. Made some friends from that library and sometimes we would go out play in the playground beside the library. There was once we were playing catching. Then I was running n running and finally I caught this girl, she's pri3 (9yrs old). So the method of playing was that once u caught someone, the catcher will have to imprison the victim while the other catcher goes around.

I was looking after and imprisoning here both of us squatting down. When I was not looking, she suddenly reached out her hand and grabbed my crotch private area.... giggledddd .... then ran away. I was like wtf, horny little girl... Hard for myself to believe but was a little grossed out by her gesture. I can still remember her dressed up with her princessy dress.... so uncool =.=.....

HAHAS THATS ICE & FREEZEEEEEEE

CHILDHOOD GAMEEEEEEE

[Guest guest]

I have had my crotch grabbed a few times as I exited the mrt train. Was shocked at the blatant way it was done. There were so many people that I did not even see who did it.

Your bulge must be attracting attention from yr exec pants lor..?

[bluerunner]

Nowadays MRTs are packed to the brim. So I guess some accidental "molestation" + some intentional "molestation" will bound to happen. So yeah, do learn to guard your family jewel!

[Marineboy]

Many many years back at PLAB...was in my airforce uniform and boarded a a bus...this storky chap keeps pushing himself into me from behind as we tried to board the bus.

Since its not someone i approve of there was a feeling of disgust.......however if its a cutie in unform too i might savour the contact :oops: :oops: time

There was this scene i never will forget....prob my Poly days can't quite remember.

I was seated next to this cute acs boy in school uniform.

Wow the uniform was already a turn on for me but those days not so brave...quietly taking in the moment.

Then boarded 5 CHS boys in their big button shirts n khaki shorts.

Wow another feast for me eyes.I kind liked school uniforms already. Just my day.

Then this acs boy stood up to get down...his blue short flashed across my face and he made his way to the exit.

He could have slided his way to the exit thru the middle between people....but he chose to slide his blue shorts thur the 5 CHS boys tools...what a sight.

All the bioys had a cheeky grin...as he slided thru them one by one.

I got hard witnessing the scene...got home that nite n repeated the scene in my head and wanked myself silly.

Self molestation at work. :smokin:

Edited December 4, 2011 by Marineboy