Molested / Touched In Public or Private + Profile Of Molester + More men and boys fall prey to molesters but many choose to keep mum(compiled)

[Jorina]

Was molested on a few occasions when I was young. The first time was when I was in secondary 2 on the bus. This guy sat beside me on a rather empty bus, opened his newspaper and started to touch my shorts using his fingers. Seeing that I did not move away, he applied more pressure to me. That was the first time I was touched by a guy, and I just moved closer and closer to him so that he can do that more. He then started to rub and squeeze my dick, all the while pretending to read the newspaper. He followed me when I left the bus. As I was quite young and scared, I just ran off after that as I was afraid he may know where I live.

[funbunny]

maybe we can all gather at the last cabin of the train and just molest each other. just saying  

[dannyG]

it happened about 3 years ago. I was seated at the back row of an almost empty bus and this young guy from India came into the bus and sat next to me with his bulky backpack on his lap.

he started to talk to me. I was bored and didn't mind a small talk.

 

He asked my name and offered his hand for me to shake it.

When I did, he held my hand for some time while speaking and pressed the back of his hand on my crotch (I was wearing tight pants).

Mechanically, it made me hard although the guy was not attractive and the situation did not particularly excite me.

 

Then he fondled my bulge.

I pushed him back but he forced his hand back on my cock. I did not dare to make a fuss and alert the other passengers and driver.

So he went on and unzipped my pants to reach for my cock.

I am sure he was used to this because his backpack was placed so that it was hiding his actions.

I had mixed feelings: I felt violated but it was good too and the situation became exciting

 

My stop was approaching and I made him stop to alight. It wasn't easy to close my pants because of my hard cock.

When I left my seat and crossed in front of him, he thrusted his fingers to my asshole through my pants and squeezed my butt cheek

 

The whole thing was really weird. I was molested but I also enjoyed it in some way.

[wintersnow]

i had a not so nice experience like 2 weeks ago on bus 980 to bugis on a weekend afternoon. i was in berms, bus was crowded and i was busy texting my friend who went tw pride parade,  trying to help me out with my shopping list.

 

when it reached little india mrt busstop, this bangala who was alighting, put his on his back so no one can see what he is doing as he was the last in line to alight, stretches his 2 fingers and tickle on my knee while i was sitting on the aisle seat.

 

As i was busy texting so i didnt bother, also i thought it could be accidental so i just moved my legs away but he stretches and tried to tickle again and i was totally disgusted this time so bang his fingers on the back on the seat.

 

i believe he must be doing this very often cos throughout the incident he was looking at the front all the time, no change of appearances on face, never turned back at all.

 

he got off and i saw him walking into the mrt station.... terrible

[Guest Guest]

I experienced it too when I was in sec 2, but not sure it can be considered as molest.  The bus was crowded and I was seated at the aisle seat two rows from the back.  One guy in his mid 30s in a running short was standing beside me.  I guessed he must have just finished his gym workout or something. He pressed his cock against my shoulder and then rubbed against it.  There was not much space for me to back off as a fat lady was seated at the window seat.

 

I did not know what to do and let him continued rubbing against my shoulder until he alighted after 3 stops.

 

[Terence74]

I would like to be molested clothed in exec, in running tights, in FBT shorts, trunks or naked.

Game to be molested by more than a guy.

This is my fantasy.

[wintersnow]

I would like to be molested clothed in exec, in running tights, in FBT shorts, trunks or naked.

Game to be molested by more than a guy.

This is my fantasy.

a sauna is the best place i guess

[LPG]

Today boarded MRT from Jurong East to Boon Lay attend a course nearby. I wore a pair of biz pants and short sleeves.

The train was superb crowded. Initially I was standing near to the gate so that I can alight easily but somehow along the stations, I was kinda being led to the cluster where there was a joint on every 2 car-trains section.

I noticed this middle aged man who was wearing singlet and a pair of blue nylon shorts leaning against the rounded stand. As the crowd gets bigger, I was squeezed to the center of the rod which I can only hold on to. As the train moves, suddenly I felt something rubbing against my butt area. Then I kinda turned back abit to look and saw this middle aged man was now standing right behind me.

His hands was holding onto the rod, ie, surrounding me. In short, I was kinda captured in between of him.

As the train moves and shake, I can feel his manhood was rubbing against my butt crack. The train was so crowded that I cannot move anywhere and at few instances, his right hand went down to feel my bulge and started to softly grab my manhood and rubbing it. I tried to sway away but it did not work. My bulge was getting semi hard to fully hardon until my cock was now fully upright inside my undies. I guessed he noticed it and was daring to unzip my pants to 3/4 down and then he inserted his finger to feel my upright hardon cock. And at the same time, he was also pressing and rubbing his hardon against my butt crack.

I was enjoying though and then my stop reached, and I followed the crowd to alight. I turned back and he gave me a kinda kinky smile.

I went to the toilet at JP before taking a feeder bus, I got precum which stained on my undies...

Just came across this post which i found hard to believe. Being able to unzip someone & held his tool in a crowded train! Seriously??

[Guest Guest]

Just came across this post which i found hard to believe. Being able to unzip someone & held his tool in a crowded train! Seriously??

 

It's called "hallucinated queen".LOL!!!

[cottonwool]

Lol, I wondered how it feels like being experience in such a manner? XD >__< =X

[Guest Gym Freak]

There is this balding uncle in his 40s or 50s at TPY safra loitering in the swimming pool toilet or Stadium toilet. He is often seen stalking on guys or asking them to watch him jo. He ever tried to unlock my shower room door. Beware.

[mansoar]

Old thread, but I thought maybe I can share my experiences. My first experience happened when I was still in secondary school. I would usually take the very first bus in the morning as the church I was attending was pretty far from my place. The bus was a double decker, and I would habitually choose a window seat near the last row on the 2nd deck. Bus was usually empty or not crowded at all. Once, this Indian man in his 70s came up to the 2nd deck, and chose to sit besides me. I was puzzled as there were many available seats around I thought he wanted to reach for the last row, but couldn't because the bus was moving and he couldn't walk properly. So, I ignored him and continued to look out the window. He started to sit nearer till our arms touched. Then, he started to slide his elbow down, towards my tigh. As he did this, I felt something amiss and began to resist his push. Then it became clear he was trying to reach my crouch area. And my, he was not weak at all for his age. I was still in shock but was a bit pissed already. When he tried to push his elbow in somemore, I pushed him back with more force. That lasted for like 5 to 10 minutes. He finally gave up and alighted the bus.

 

Another incident happened a few years later when I took the MRT home late at night. The train was not crowded and there were some seats available. I like to stand near the doors, and lean against the glass panel. I closed my eyes as I was feeling sleepy, but I didn't really doze off, and I knew that few people boarded the train along the way at different stops. Then I felt someone's hand holding the handrail besides me, and he was standing pretty close to me. His forearm was actually touching my shoulder. I opened my eyes and saw a guy, late 20s or 30s, and I also saw that the cabin did not become crowded at all. I felt weird that he would stand so close to me. I closed my eyes again. He began to stand even closer, and his forearm began rubbing my shoulder constantly. At some point, his chest was leaning on me, and I realized this guy must be gay. I didn't know how to react, because there were still people in the train. Luckily I reached my stop not long after, so I turned to face the door. Then, he stick his whole front to my back, and I could feel his erect member on my butt. I think he was wearing tennis shorts at that time. And there were actually a few people around us getting ready to alight too. I got off the when doors opened. He didn't get off the train, but was still staring at me when I turned back to take a look. This time, I was more scared then offended, and I was not particularly aroused...or maybe a bit, when he used his erection to feel my butt...haha. What I could not phantom was that he was not at all worried that people might notice his bulge.

 

 

 

Edited February 15, 2016 by mansoar

[doncoin]

OK. I may sound like a party pooper here, but I am frankly disturbed and annoyed by the term "molested" or "molest." To be molested would mean you are sexually assaulted, i.e. touched inappropriately, or harassed by someone or party against your will. It is unwanted attention, and you are violated as a result. So many stories shared here are from fellow members who really enjoyed the experience and are compliant to the aggressor, and no outrage of modesty occurred.

 

By defining your experiences as "molestation" you are dismissing and to some degree ridiculing the experiences of those who were really molested. Grown men and women who were touched inappropriately, not to mention little boys and girls, who have no words to share their experience, except to feel this sense of shame and violation. The association of a heinous reality for some, to be shared so flippantly as a thrilling sexual conquest is appalling. There are people who were sexually assaulted and are scarred from the experience. 

 

Take a moment, and think how the actual victims of sexual assault and molestation would feel if they are to listen to the stories you shared here? 

 

if you are really molested, the right course of action is to report the assailant to the police or authorities, about the unwanted and inappropriate attention. Men, gay or straight, do get molested and rape. It is not a laughing matter. 

Edited February 15, 2016 by doncoin

[azndapper]

Molestation = touch sexually without consent. Consent implies afore-knowledge. Hence despite some members actually liking it, they were incapable of giving consent at the time of the touch because they didn't know there was such an option. By that definition, they were molested, despite liking it afterwards.

 

I do take your point though, about the impact that trivialising molest has on "actual" molest victims and agree with it. What then is the solution?

Edited February 16, 2016 by azndapper

[doncoin]

3 hours ago, azndapper said:

Molestation = touch sexually without consent. Consent implies afore-knowledge. Hence despite some members actually liking it, they were incapable of giving consent at the time of the touch because they didn't know there was such an option. By that definition, they were molested, despite liking it afterwards.

 

I do take your point though, about the impact that trivialising molest has on "actual" molest victims and agree with it. What then is the solution?

 

Let's put it this way, any uninvited touch is molestation regardless if you enjoy it or not. The enjoyment of the experience is irrelevant. Basically the logic you've presented is disturbing to me. Even if it is a 13 year old boy or girl is touched inappropriately by an adult and enjoys it, it does not make the it ok. 

 

If you have been molested as a child, seek help to recover from the trauma. Whoever touched you inappropriately has committed a crime. 

 

For those on this forum who insists on calling your sexual experiences as molestation, you are really dismissing and trivialising the real molestations. As an adult if someone touches you inappropriately, you have the right to say no, stop the aggressor or threaten that person with the authorities. If you did nothing to stop the aggression, and consent to it, then it is no longer molestation, because you have already given consent at that point.

Edited February 16, 2016 by doncoin

[Guest]

My gym buddy suppose to assist me at the machine during my weight squatting was away that day, so a muscular ang moh volunteer to assist me.

He was wearing a tight, assisting me behind my back(just like boyfriend hugging u from behind). When I m slowly squatting down I feel my backside touching his bulge. His bulge is getting nearer & nearer & I can feel his cock sliding my ass crack each time I squat down. After 5th time squatting down I feel his cock getting hard.  I purposely slow down my squatting so that I can feel his cock go harder & harder. I even purposely pause at the position when I can feel his hardon on my ass crack.

After all sets done I turn to thank him for the assist & saw the shape of his hardon cock in his tight. 

[jocker]

Can any1 enlighten me whether am i being molested -

I bumped into an uncle at swim pool which I knew him from badminton group, he is married and friendly to me and i find him pretty nice guy. I saw him at changing room, so he said hi to me. I went to the pool first, and he joined me after. He saw the way i swam and tried to correct my strokes, during this correction and he explained that I never use my thighs and feet well. He began to use his hand and rubbed my upper thighs all the way down to my foot 3 times inside the pool during his explainations, both legs as well. I was like bit stunned cos i don't see the need to touch my legs. My friend said i m too naive to think this might not be molest. 

[DeMarko]

On ‎2‎/‎19‎/‎2016 at 0:29 AM, Guest said:

My gym buddy suppose to assist me at the machine during my weight squatting was away that day, so a muscular ang moh volunteer to assist me.

He was wearing a tight, assisting me behind my back(just like boyfriend hugging u from behind). When I m slowly squatting down I feel my backside touching his bulge. His bulge is getting nearer & nearer & I can feel his cock sliding my ass crack each time I squat down. After 5th time squatting down I feel his cock getting hard.  I purposely slow down my squatting so that I can feel his cock go harder & harder. I even purposely pause at the position when I can feel his hardon on my ass crack.

After all sets done I turn to thank him for the assist & saw the shape of his hardon cock in his tight. 

Lucky you to have a feel of his hardon against your ass crack

[Guest]

On 2/19/2016 at 0:29 AM, Guest said:

My gym buddy suppose to assist me at the machine during my weight squatting was away that day, so a muscular ang moh volunteer to assist me.

He was wearing a tight, assisting me behind my back(just like boyfriend hugging u from behind). When I m slowly squatting down I feel my backside touching his bulge. His bulge is getting nearer & nearer & I can feel his cock sliding my ass crack each time I squat down. After 5th time squatting down I feel his cock getting hard.  I purposely slow down my squatting so that I can feel his cock go harder & harder. I even purposely pause at the position when I can feel his hardon on my ass crack.

After all sets done I turn to thank him for the assist & saw the shape of his hardon cock in his tight. 

That's so lovely. 

[Gregtey]

On Monday, January 05, 2015 at 7:59 PM, dannyG said:

it happened about 3 years ago. I was seated at the back row of an almost empty bus and this young guy from India came into the bus and sat next to me with his bulky backpack on his lap.

he started to talk to me. I was bored and didn't mind a small talk.

 

He asked my name and offered his hand for me to shake it.

When I did, he held my hand for some time while speaking and pressed the back of his hand on my crotch (I was wearing tight pants).

Mechanically, it made me hard although the guy was not attractive and the situation did not particularly excite me.

 

Then he fondled my bulge.

I pushed him back but he forced his hand back on my cock. I did not dare to make a fuss and alert the other passengers and driver.

So he went on and unzipped my pants to reach for my cock.

I am sure he was used to this because his backpack was placed so that it was hiding his actions.

I had mixed feelings: I felt violated but it was good too and the situation became exciting

 

My stop was approaching and I made him stop to alight. It wasn't easy to close my pants because of my hard cock.

When I left my seat and crossed in front of him, he thrusted his fingers to my asshole through my pants and squeezed my butt cheek

 

The whole thing was really weird. I was molested but I also enjoyed it in some way.

I think you enjoyed more than irritated, lol

[Guest]

16 hours ago, jocker said:

Can any1 enlighten me whether am i being molested -

I bumped into an uncle at swim pool which I knew him from badminton group, he is married and friendly to me and i find him pretty nice guy. I saw him at changing room, so he said hi to me. I went to the pool first, and he joined me after. He saw the way i swam and tried to correct my strokes, during this correction and he explained that I never use my thighs and feet well. He began to use his hand and rubbed my upper thighs all the way down to my foot 3 times inside the pool during his explainations, both legs as well. I was like bit stunned cos i don't see the need to touch my legs. My friend said i m too naive to think this might not be molest. 

Yes, he did molest you.

[lovehandle]

On ‎10‎/‎4‎/‎2016 at 2:12 PM, DeMarko said:

Lucky you to have a feel of his hardon against your ass crack

Tsk tsk DeMarko....kekekekeke , I shall let you feel mine on your crack too

[DeMarko]

2 hours ago, lovehandle said:

Tsk tsk DeMarko....kekekekeke , I shall let you feel mine on your crack too

Really ?, I would love to try it man ...

[DeMarko]

btw what is TSK ?

[lovehandle]

tsk tsk

I have always offered but  u r forever so bz

[sgocean93]

I was molested on the train just a few days ago. Some people might think it's a kinky experience but it definitely wasn't for me. In fact I felt extremely violated. 

 

I was in the train's standing compartment (the one without seats) and was just leaning on the railing. Halfway through the journey a middle aged man (40 plus) came in. He was balding, and wore a really tight fit A&F tee. One look and I knew he was gay. I only glanced once at him and that's it. I definitely wasn't interested in him and I didn't make any eye contact with him. Moreover I would say I'm straight-acting and discreet. 

 

Ok, I admit I was wearing a pair of sweatpants that day and there was a visible bulge on my pants. But there was no way he would have felt that I signalled any interest in him.  But from the side of my eyes I could totally tell that he was staring blatantly at me. In fact with every stop he would inch closer to me till the point it got uncomfortable.  

 

He violated me as he was about to alight at Tiong Bahru. The train was not crowded but he chose to walk close to me, and in the process brushed his hand really hardly on my cock. It was obviously an intentional act. No normal person would brush his hands on another guy's privates in such a manner - I'm sure he was able to even makeout the length of my penis.  

 

Needless to say I was fucking pissed and I felt utterly embarrassed and violated. Before he left the train he looked at me once more. I was so tempted to report him to the station staff if not for the fact that I was in a hurry to go to school. 

[lovehandle]

haiz, another victim

[Guest]

When an old balding ugly stands close to you, you feel fucking pissed off.

When a young hunky handsome stands close to you, it's a missed connection.

When an old balding ugly do it, you feel violated.

When a young hunky do it, it's kinky.

 

That's gay mentality.  Get Real.

[Guest]

5 hours ago, sgocean93 said:

I was molested on the train just a few days ago. Some people might think it's a kinky experience but it definitely wasn't for me. In fact I felt extremely violated. 

 

I was in the train's standing compartment (the one without seats) and was just leaning on the railing. Halfway through the journey a middle aged man (40 plus) came in. He was balding, and wore a really tight fit A&F tee. One look and I knew he was gay. I only glanced once at him and that's it. I definitely wasn't interested in him and I didn't make any eye contact with him. Moreover I would say I'm straight-acting and discreet. 

 

Ok, I admit I was wearing a pair of sweatpants that day and there was a visible bulge on my pants. But there was no way he would have felt that I signalled any interest in him.  But from the side of my eyes I could totally tell that he was staring blatantly at me. In fact with every stop he would inch closer to me till the point it got uncomfortable.  

 

He violated me as he was about to alight at Tiong Bahru. The train was not crowded but he chose to walk close to me, and in the process brushed his hand really hardly on my cock. It was obviously an intentional act. No normal person would brush his hands on another guy's privates in such a manner - I'm sure he was able to even makeout the length of my penis.  

 

Needless to say I was fucking pissed and I felt utterly embarrassed and violated. Before he left the train he looked at me once more. I was so tempted to report him to the station staff if not for the fact that I was in a hurry to go to school. 

 

Your post now makes my mind wonder wildly about how you look in track pants. Do you always go to school in track pants?  Any comments from your school friends?

[wintersnow]

37 minutes ago, Guest said:

When an old balding ugly stands close to you, you feel fucking pissed off.

When a young hunky handsome stands close to you, it's a missed connection.

When an old balding ugly do it, you feel violated.

When a young hunky do it, it's kinky.

 

That's gay mentality.  Get Real.

hahahahahhaha.......... crude but very true

[XS.Lin]

17 hours ago, Guest said:

When an old balding ugly stands close to you, you feel fucking pissed off.

When a young hunky handsome stands close to you, it's a missed connection.

When an old balding ugly do it, you feel violated.

When a young hunky do it, it's kinky.

 

That's gay mentality.  Get Real.

Couldn't agree more!! Well said and well written. 

[Guest Sgboy88z]

BE REALISTIC GUYS.

 

Nobody can molest a man. You can molest only a woman. If someone press you in train or bus , he is going to steal something from you. Guys are type of creatures who enjoy if someone want to touch their privates. They enjoy showing off their genitals as well. If police allows you to be nude outside , all guys will come out nude very happily.

 

Women are more vulnerable and can be molested by guys. They are shamefull to show off their privates & don't like to see nude men.

 

Most of us don't accept this & don't feel this is correct. But society at large believes this. 

 

Don't talk somthing that society doesn't believe.

 

Never ever say " I was molested ". 

 

If somebody try to molest you , do same to him in return with more force. Act like a man guys. Old uncles don't have energy to overpower you.

 

Remember you have two balls. Don't forget it and act like ball less women.

 

Does it make any sense? 

 

 

 

 

[lovehandle]

this was what I have been driving

 

Recently there is a thread/news on a guy complained to SMRT staff that he s being molested

 

What a joke, Man being molested....

and I said he definitely must be less than a woman or niang type , why will u choose to be molested and invite attraction

 

 

goodness me......

Some of the "guests" still dare to say that he must be deliciously manly or hunky, omg!

 

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Sgboy88z said:

BE REALISTIC GUYS.

 

Nobody can molest a man. You can molest only a woman. If someone press you in train or bus , he is going to steal something from you. Guys are type of creatures who enjoy if someone want to touch their privates. They enjoy showing off their genitals as well. If police allows you to be nude outside , all guys will come out nude very happily.

 

Women are more vulnerable and can be molested by guys. They are shamefull to show off their privates & don't like to see nude men.

 

Most of us don't accept this & don't feel this is correct. But society at large believes this. 

 

Don't talk somthing that society doesn't believe.

 

Never ever say " I was molested ". 

 

If somebody try to molest you , do same to him in return with more force. Act like a man guys. Old uncles don't have energy to overpower you.

 

Remember you have two balls. Don't forget it and act like ball less women.

 

Does it make any sense? 

 

 

 

 

 

Not true that all men enjoyed showing off.  If you go to the saunas on nude night, you see where they put their hands. 

 

A man cannot be charged for molesting another man.  He can only be charged for "performing an unnatural act" or "act of mischief".  So, technically, you are right to say a man cannot be molested. 

[doncoin]

If someone touches you inappropriately without your permission, that is molestation regardless of the victim's gender. Not every man enjoys having his privates touched without their permission. So, it is inaccurate to state that 

6 hours ago, Sgboy88z said:

...Guys are type of creatures who enjoy if someone want to touch their privates.

 

As an adult male, definitely if someone touches you inappropriately without your permission, you can handle the situation yourself. You can confront the molestor and handle the situation. You can also bring him the authorities. Whichever action you choose to take, it does not negate the fact that somebody behaved inappropriately towards you. I disagree with what  @Sgboy88z suggested about molesting the aggressor back. It is just going to create a situation whereby you are playing into the aggressor's game, and he will see your aggression back towards as a display of interest, when you are not. 

 

 

[Guest Sgboy88z]

20 hours ago, Guest said:

 

Not true that all men enjoyed showing off.  If you go to the saunas on nude night, you see where they put their hands. 

 

A man cannot be charged for molesting another man.  He can only be charged for "performing an unnatural act" or "act of mischief".  So, technically, you are right to say a man cannot be molested. 

 

We all know that not all male humans enjoy showing off. Only true men enjoy showing off. Fearlessness , willingness to face challenges , Not hiding anything are the characteristics of manliness. Don't misunderstand that being shy is a manliness.

 

If you want to be a man , start showing off when opportunity arises. If someone try to touch your exposed genitals without your consent , kick him very hard on his balls. Ha ha

[Guest Sgboy88z]

16 hours ago, doncoin said:

If someone touches you inappropriately without your permission, that is molestation regardless of the victim's gender. Not every man enjoys having his privates touched without their permission. So, it is inaccurate to state that 

 

As an adult male, definitely if someone touches you inappropriately without your permission, you can handle the situation yourself. You can confront the molestor and handle the situation. You can also bring him the authorities. Whichever action you choose to take, it does not negate the fact that somebody behaved inappropriately towards you. I disagree with what  @Sgboy88z suggested about molesting the aggressor back. It is just going to create a situation whereby you are playing into the aggressor's game, and he will see your aggression back towards as a display of interest, when you are not. 

 

 

 

Molesting is actually touching & squeezing parts of another person to make him uncomfortable. Molester enjoys feeling that victim get uncomfortable. 

 

Who want to molest a dead human body?

 

If molester discovers that victim really enjoy this and make fun of molester , Molester already lost the game.

 

There are exceptions, have to use common sense.

 

Ask him what caused you to get mentally sick like this.

 

 

[lovehandle]

it should be the molestors assumed or having the supposition that the victim will love his touch or molest

 

[doncoin]

2 hours ago, Sgboy88z said:

 

Molesting is actually touching & squeezing parts of another person to make him uncomfortable. Molester enjoys feeling that victim get uncomfortable. 

 

Who want to molest a dead human body?

 

If molester discovers that victim really enjoy this and make fun of molester , Molester already lost the game.

 

There are exceptions, have to use common sense.

 

Ask him what caused you to get mentally sick like this.

 

 

 

You are right that molestation involves actually touching and/or suqeezing another person to make the victim uncomfortable. Yes, I agree that the victim's uncomfortableness is how the aggressor gets turned on, and gets off. It all comes down to dominance. The sense of having power and control over the victim. You are absolutely right that nobody wants to "molest a dead human body." because there is zero feedback to feed into the aggressor's need to feel superior or in control. 

 

However, the fact remains that molestation is still a crime. Touching anyone inappropriately without their consent is a crime. It is different if this is a role play situation where both adult parties agree prior to it. However, any uninvited sexual advances, if one party does not consent, in the eyes of the law, it can be considered molestation.

[Guest Sgboy88z]

On 13 April 2016 at 9:10 PM, doncoin said:

 

You are right that molestation involves actually touching and/or suqeezing another person to make the victim uncomfortable. Yes, I agree that the victim's uncomfortableness is how the aggressor gets turned on, and gets off.

 

However, the fact remains that molestation is still a crime. Touching anyone inappropriately without their consent is a crime. It is different if this is a role play situation where both adult parties agree prior to it. However, any uninvited sexual advances, if one party does not consent, in the eyes of the law, it can be considered molestation.

 

You pointed out very important point. If we try to molest the old Uncle back , he may make a police complaint for committing a crime. These molester uncles know the law well. Safest thing is just bare it , if it's excessive try to video record & make a police complain.

 

Only police can help here. However young cute police brothers who come to save us from molesting are victims of molestation by old police uncles. They just bare it to avoid unnecessary trouble.

 

So I think Wisest response to molest is just ignore it. Reaction from us is a waste of our time. Molesters are mentally sick , feel sorry for them.

 

 

[lonely57]

On Saturday, April 16, 2016 at 7:15 PM, Sgboy88z said:

 

You pointed out very important point. If we try to molest the old Uncle back , he may make a police complaint for committing a crime. These molester uncles know the law well. Safest thing is just bare it , if it's excessive try to video record & make a police complain.

 

Only police can help here. However young cute police brothers who come to save us from molesting are victims of molestation by old police uncles. They just bare it to avoid unnecessary trouble.

 

So I think Wisest response to molest is just ignore it. Reaction from us is a waste of our time. Molesters are mentally sick , feel sorry for them.

 

 

 

Hmm. If any old uncle wants to touch me I'd let him but dont expect me to reciprocate..

[Guest]

OMG, He's a pre-school child and he did this???  Bad influence from parents?? Today's news:

 

 

The PAP Community Foundation (PCF) said the two children involved in an alleged molestation case at a Sparkletots Preschool centre in Taman Jurong are currently undergoing counseling.

According to PCF, the children, a boy and a girl, both six-year-old, are being seen by a psychologist.

The girl had earlier reported to the centre’s staff that the boy had touched her inappropriately at the centre on 12 April. The staff immediately notified both children’s parents.

In a statement released on Monday (18 Apr), the PCF said that they are currently investigating the matter.

“We deeply regret the incident and fully sympathise with the parents in their distress. Our top priority is the well-being of our young children,” it said.

A child psychologist and teacher have been assigned to counsel the children, and for the time being, the boy’s parent has agreed not to send him to the centre, said PCF. 

The PCF is also liaising with Ministry of Social and Family Development and Early Childhood and Development Agency on the matter, it added.

“Based on the findings and recommendations of the child psychologists, PCF will take the necessary follow-up action. We will do everything we can to ensure our students’ well-being and to provide a safe and conducive environment for them.”

In a Facebook post, the girl’s parent alleged that the boy had put his hand under the girl’s skirt during afternoon nap time and admitted to doing so after being questioned. 

“My girl is now feeling so frightened and traumatised. She even voiced out that she is so scared that it will happen again,” said the parent in the post.

[InBishan]

7 hours ago, lonely57 said:

 

Hmm. If any old uncle wants to touch me I'd let him but dont expect me to reciprocate..

Wow! I wanna touch u

[Guest Sgboy88z]

4 hours ago, Guest said:

OMG, He's a pre-school child and he did this???  Bad influence from parents?? Today's news:

 

 

The PAP Community Foundation (PCF) said the two children involved in an alleged molestation case at a Sparkletots Preschool centre in Taman Jurong are currently undergoing counseling.

According to PCF, the children, a boy and a girl, both six-year-old, are being seen by a psychologist.

The girl had earlier reported to the centre’s staff that the boy had touched her inappropriately at the centre on 12 April. The staff immediately notified both children’s parents.

In a statement released on Monday (18 Apr), the PCF said that they are currently investigating the matter.

“We deeply regret the incident and fully sympathise with the parents in their distress. Our top priority is the well-being of our young children,” it said.

A child psychologist and teacher have been assigned to counsel the children, and for the time being, the boy’s parent has agreed not to send him to the centre, said PCF. 

The PCF is also liaising with Ministry of Social and Family Development and Early Childhood and Development Agency on the matter, it added.

“Based on the findings and recommendations of the child psychologists, PCF will take the necessary follow-up action. We will do everything we can to ensure our students’ well-being and to provide a safe and conducive environment for them.”

In a Facebook post, the girl’s parent alleged that the boy had put his hand under the girl’s skirt during afternoon nap time and admitted to doing so after being questioned. 

“My girl is now feeling so frightened and traumatised. She even voiced out that she is so scared that it will happen again,” said the parent in the post.

 

My advice to boy concerned is , don't touch girls inappropriately. You can find better looking & cute boys who are far better than this sick girl. Touch & squeeze any part of a boy as you wish until you feel satisfied.

[CKW]

"On Nov 20, I was in a train cabin when I was inappropriately touched.

 

"When the suspect alighted at Bedok MRT Station, I trailed him and quickly identified him to a Certis Cisco officer.

 

"The officer made a feeble attempt to stop the suspect by simply addressing him, making no attempt to physically block his way.

 

"The suspect simply walked away after making eye contact.

 

"Despite my pleas, the security officer said there was nothing he could do, as the suspect had his earphones on and he "looked normal".

 

"This incident raises the question of the legal authority vested in third-party security providers, such as Certis Cisco.

 

"Who should MRT passengers run to in times of distress or a security threat?"

 

Wesley Tan

 

 

 

http://www.straitstimes.com/forum/letters-on-the-web/security-officer-could-have-done-more-to-help-nab-suspect

 

https://www.allsingaporestuff.com/article/sporean-man-cisco-guard-did-not-stop-suspect-who-molested-me-mrt

[Guest Guest]

Is that you, @-Ignored- love handle?

[CKW]

P.S.

 

This was an article from Nov 2015, so my apologies if it has been shared here before  

[Guest JoeS]

National Day eve promotion: I'm opened to be molested today

[gstringuy26]

On 4/11/2016 at 11:16 PM, Guest said:

 

Your post now makes my mind wonder wildly about how you look in track pants. Do you always go to school in track pants?  Any comments from your school friends?

Wearing track pants with a bulge looks quite disgusting to straight people but to gays could be an attractions! LoL..

My colleague slapped my butt is it consider molest? I remember on a holiday in Pattaya, I was on a parasailing drag by a speed boat and when I landed on the platform one of the operator squizz by penis and gave me a smile! I was shocked! Well I took as a good gesture after all we all are guys right...As long as he didn't do it twice I guess it's ok for me! haha

Edited August 8, 2017 by gstringuy26

[LeanMature]

Perception.

Friends touch, not molest.  Colleagues touch, it's harassment.   

Strangers touch,   molest and make police report.