Molested / Touched In Public or Private + Profile Of Molester + More men and boys fall prey to molesters but many choose to keep mum(compiled)

[radiusulnar]

Can't imagine stranded on Malaysian highway at night. No street lamps with only the moonlight and light from passing vehicles.

[HC-B]

Sometimes it just doesn't occur to you that you’ve been molested physically until much much much later…

 

It happened decades ago, and it was during the Lunar New Year.

 

I was in a bus on my way to visit my grandparents, I think.

The bus was packed seated but not crazy crowded.

 

I must have been like still in early secondary school, slim, thinner even, gawky, still unexposed to and unaware about homoerotic or homosexual activities and behaviours.

 

Until that bus ride…

 

I remember I sat behind the exit doors and next to me was a man in his late 50s or early 60s.

 

Out of the blue, he started chatting with me and I responded, out of courtesy with a tinge of ignorance or innocence (make of it what you will).

 

I don’t recall the full conversation anymore but it must have drifted to my clothes.

 

What I do recall, however, was in mid sentence, he stretched his arm over to my body and patted my chest.

 

As he stroked and rubbed my chest and then my stomach, I carried on talking. 
 

Then his palm went down to the top of my groin and he laid his hand above my jeans zipper.
 

I didn’t feel any chill or repugnance. I didn’t freeze. I didn’t even react negatively. I didn’t feel violated. I just didn’t.
 

My antes were not trained or tuned at that ignorant age decades ago. Yet.

 

But I suspect other passengers standing around must have and probably reacted or stared, because the man suddenly retracted his hand as he looked up at an angle and became oddly sheepish and uncommunicative after he touched me.

 

I still tried to make conversation but he suddenly receded into himself and shut off.

 

I alighted the bus, puzzled by his behaviour. And didn’t think much about it at all.

 

Until many many years later, it just occurred to me, out of the blue, that he had molested me.

 

I wasn’t offended or violated, it was just like oh so that’s what happened, ok whatever.

Edited September 19, 2024 by HC-B

[LeanMature]

On 6/30/2024 at 9:30 PM, Guest KL Trip said:

This happened during the midnight bus trip that i took from Larkin to KL. The bus was fully packed. The trip went as per normal and everyone in the bus fell asleep by the time the bus was travelling along the highway to KL.

 

Suddenly,  everyone was woken up by shouting commotion in the bus. We were all in a daze and confused by what was going on. We saw an Indian man got up from his seat shouting at the passenger next to him.

 

Apparently we learnt that the Chinese guy was molesting the Indian guy.  The Indian guy was cursing and swearing at the Chinese guy who remained silent. The shouting continued and got worse until the  bus driver stopped the bus at the left side of the highway. The bus driver tried to settle the commotion but the Indian was angry and refused to be seated next to the Chinese. Unfortunately there was no spare seats available.

 

In the end, the bus driver asked  Chinese guy to come down the bus with him and had a chat with him.  We didn't  know what was discussed  but to our shock, the bus driver got back to the bus and closed the bus door at the Chinese guy !! The bus driver drove off and left  the Chinese guy in the middle of the highway !! 

 

I took a glance and saw the stressful look in the Chinese guy as he was left stranded. The Chinese guy was in late twenties to early thirties. The Indian guy was around the same age,  your typical manly hairy Indian guy. The Indian guy was fleshy and average looking and not my cup of tea. I thought the Chinese guy was better looking.  I dunno why the Chinese guy took liking  at the Indian guy and allowed his hands to do the unthinkable.  Perhaps he has an acquired taste on hairy Indian guy. Anyway,  the Chinese guy got what he deserved. 

 

After the commotion,  things went back to normal and we had an undisturbed trip. I wonder how the Chinese guy  continued his trip to KL during the wee hours of the night. 

 

 

Look like the driver helps and saved the chinese guy.  If the bus reaches KL terminal, the indian guy might held up the chinese guy and call the police.

[Guest Chtrma]

When i was young (primary shool age). My uncle will purposely slip his dick to show me. He married and with kid. And he will play with my dick, up and down. I don't know what happened, but i know something is wrong. But i didnt do anything. 

 

Since then, i likes to rub myself against the bed, or hanging myself on table until orgasm. Until at secondary school i only know its kind of masturbation..

At school, i imitate his act. Slipped my dick to show to my male friends. All of them will laugh at me, and think im weird. Even, one of my friends shared this story to other friends during my secondary school (which i had stopped the act). I felt ashamed. But i just ignore.

 

Then i started watching GV and so on. Fantasized about exhibitionism (eg: purposely fully nude and hardon in the dark during midnight to show to roommate, like to be dominated, being controlled or being touched, like to spot roommate sneakily masturbate in the night...)

Indeed i dont like the experience at young age, as that time i was just a kid. I will never do this to any kids. As it causes trauma. Nowadays, its important to educate children about sex education, so they can protect themselves.