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AlleRandy

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You r cute .... ur boi2 is lucky :thumb: :thumb:

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I believe if one takes rejection as a platform for improvement, he will definitely suffer less! When someone rejects you or when no one even bothers about you, it is just a signal that probably you ar

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One of the things you need to start off is to develop your self-esteem. Unfortunately throughout your life you have allowed others to belittle you, put down your sense of self-worth. It is through a s

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You seem fine to me... Why would you think ur ugly hon... I won't blow ur horn and say that you are "gods gift to men" but fm what I see... you're NOT ugly... PS... we share 2 FB friends... 1 is a singer and the other a designer... both name begin with H...

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Hi Luciferbear, i wanna thank you for comment, I'm saying myself ugly because there're others out there looking way better & hotter than me.

Just wanna also educate other AJs in Singapore to be a little humble.

Erm just that they look upon looks at the very first thing in coming to make friends or searching the second half...

My Hubby is a filipino, i won't say he is a hunk HUNK but everything is just good for me. We're going 11 months old ^^

By the way, who are the 2 fb friends we share? why don't you add me too?

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Hi Everybody!

take a look at my pics in facebook,

comment if i am ugly or not?

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/profile.php?id=725486115

Don't worry I'm fine with all the comments, just wanna know how peoples think about me when i'm walking on the street?

Am i fxxkable or piece of pile! wahahahaha

P.s i'm bored that why~

Cheers,

alleRandy Toh

u look good ok....

Looking for a friends im a simple guy living in a simple world.... happy go lucky

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Wow I actually don't feel insulted at all but rather thinking how pathetic you are to hurt others like that.

Does that make you happy? if yes i'm more then gladly to entertain ^^

P.s If i'm ugly just type U.G.L.Y cool enough.

You r cute .... ur boi2 is lucky :thumb: :thumb:

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In BW, all the guest that commented are rather rude, not that i give a damn to them but they proven themselves worthless & pathetic by what they said.

They have no brain to even think about what they are saying.

They must be lonely in this AJs circle, no one wants them that's why they shut themselves away from peoples by hurting others with words and make them feel happy in their lonely world... I really pity them ^^ I Do...

If you think i am doing this for a publicity, think again you're looking at my post! You're the one who attend to my SO CALLED publicity!

P.s I feel sorry for you "Guest" I can't help by thinking you're dumb :P

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haha=D if you are ugly I'm worst off. COL(cry out loud). my best aj friend would even look at me str8 in the face. hahahah

Hi elgar90, did you read it in the post, someone said the most important thing are Confident, Happy & not forgetting Inner Beauty!

Because of your daring admit and being truth, I totally admire you!

Enjoy this week long weekends~

Cheers

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Hi Everybody!

take a look at my pics in facebook,

comment if i am ugly or not?

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/profile.php?id=725486115

Don't worry I'm fine with all the comments, just wanna know how peoples think about me when i'm walking on the street?

Am i fxxkable or piece of pile! wahahahaha

P.s i'm bored that why~

Cheers,

alleRandy Toh

You are average looking to me. Certainly not ugly.

People who exudes self confidence and positive energy is the most attractive to me.

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Hi Luciferbear, i wanna thank you for comment, I'm saying myself ugly because there're others out there looking way better & hotter than me.

Just wanna also educate other AJs in Singapore to be a little humble.

Not trying to start an argument. Correct me if i am wrong, but this is how i interpret your post.

You think you are quite good looking but because you know there are others who are more handsome than you are, you decided to be humble and call yourself ugly. You, therefore, think even you have to eat the humble pie thus what more about other AJs who are just plain looking or at best just of the same standard as you are.

Now, this is not exactly humble, is it, my friend?

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I think you are fishing for compliment lah... :whistle:

yup..cheap publicity.....

what if everyone start putting up their photos and asking others to rate?

This poster already has a bf and yet still wanna do this cheap stunt....

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Everybody please sometime reading what I'm writing here, first of all I started this post out was so simply because I was bored. I did mentioned on the very first post :) second, I'm not fishing for compliements, I did mentioned simply put ugly if I'm ugly, no point for you to post a comments and start a augment right? Lastly, I was perfectly fine till someone actually said I'm cheap when I've a bf/hubby, still doing this kinda post, I just you all to know I share this post to my hubby every night. He knew everything I wrote here.

Come on everyone here, stop saying things that could hurt other when all this here was started out suppose to be happy and just some passing time thing okie.

I don't know how and what to say anymore and I'm out of BW...

By the way, I appreciate those who commented and was nice. Infact I managed to make a few nice friends here in BW I'm thankful and as for those who are still wandering around I pray for your happiness even tho your words are hurtful...

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Not trying to start an argument. Correct me if i am wrong, but this is how i interpret your post.

You think you are quite good looking but because you know there are others who are more handsome than you are, you decided to be humble and call yourself ugly. You, therefore, think even you have to eat the humble pie thus what more about other AJs who are just plain looking or at best just of the same standard as you are.

Now, this is not exactly humble, is it, my friend?

Hi, I wish you could spend a few mins in reading the last post I posted. I've explained everything. Please don't assume what im not... Don't worry no argument just wanted to say was before I knew this is happening, I was simply a happy person but now I'm really upset because we AJs are not supporting each other in our very own country...

Thanks for commenting.

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Ugly to some, handsome to others.

What is more important is the beauty within.

Question is how many think ugly, how many think handsome. I always wonder too.

I think you a little above average only.

Like in marketing, talk so much all no use. Depend on so many factors. Go sauna and display yourself, see how many want to buy. There's always somebody for somebody so getting 1 or 2 customers not difficult.

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Question is how many think ugly, how many think handsome. I always wonder too.

I think you a little above average only.

Like in marketing, talk so much all no use. Depend on so many factors. Go sauna and display yourself, see how many want to buy. There's always somebody for somebody so getting 1 or 2 customers not difficult.

Thank you for commenting on my pointless post, appreciate much :)

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Hope we could just stop hurting each other here in this forum...

Agree with you :thumb:

create peaceful days please not bitching each other

Alle thanks for adding me at your facebook

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It's more of self confidence at your age ... if you really want to compare what is ugly, me who is balding and old is ugly... he he ... you are fine. :)

Trust is more important than monogamy. - Savage Garden, Affirmation

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Let's all chill. For all we know, we'll never be able to ascertain his motive for doing this, so let's just give him the benefit of the doubt. And although some of the guest comments might be from himself, let's not think too much. For me, you are average looking, and not ugly(answering your question). Personality and charisma is so much more impt than looks. I know of a guy who is handsome but has no friends because, let's just say he has an "anti-charismatic" personality, to sum up his "gayness", weirdness, etc. Many popular people aren't even good looking for that matter, so when we talk about chemistry, looks are indeed secondary to charisma.

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Let's all chill. For all we know, we'll never be able to ascertain his motive for doing this, so let's just give him the benefit of the doubt. And although some of the guest comments might be from himself, let's not think too much. For me, you are average looking, and not ugly(answering your question). Personality and charisma is so much more impt than looks. I know of a guy who is handsome but has no friends because, let's just say he has an "anti-charismatic" personality, to sum up his "gayness", weirdness, etc. Many popular people aren't even good looking for that matter, so when we talk about chemistry, looks are indeed secondary to charisma.

I'm not sure if you will believe me but the guest comments are totally not done by me or what you assumed them suppose to be.

By the way, thanks and i do believe looks is a secondary thing, i know you might think why am i doing this since looks is secondary...

I'm doing it because i was bored and i did mentioned my hubby is always with me all this while.

In case you think my hubby is a fake, i've no choice too... But just want to let you know, everybody including my family they all have accepted him and me.

We staying together too, i've nothing to hide because i am proud of being gay because we all deserve better...

It up to you to believe because i've bother to even explain.

Enjoy this week long weekends.

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Seriously, your looks is very average, where can be found easily along the streets, in the mrt, which is not impressive that can be easily forgotten.

We have no idea whats your height, your body structure, your waistline, your overall skin texture, whether you have a nice pair of muscular legs, skinny as a chicken, or thick as the African Baobao tree. Or do you have a body odour.

We have no idea if your body frame is proportionate, or do you have a Julian Hee's face stuck onto the body of one of Snow White's midget.

Its like Julian with a Chihuahua body.

Now, like Ameriacn idol /British Got Talent series, and since you are the one who asked openly and said you are receptive to any comments from anyone, then have the decency to show some bravery. maturity to their comments, instead of retaliating subtlely with some loser, cannot make it bitchy comments to people.

Because the fact you think you are goodlooking, therefore you dare to start this poll thread.

Looks is something not what you think you have. It is when there people telling you, you are cute/goodlooking/have a nice bod, or if people do turn back and give you a second/third look and smile at you etc then you know where you stand, without getting your head swell, as thought you are developing a seriously huge tumor in your brain.

Confidence is what you really lack in handling the comments here.

We are not interested with your personal history unless asked. We are not interested about their family, what your hubby thinks, or whether if your Chihuahua can do cartwheels.

Make some sensible and wise comments here, if you want to be remembered well by people, other then about your looks, because there is more interesting subjects to discuss and talk about, other then about you you and you.

Its boring and I begining to wonder if your boyfriend is getting bored with you.

Before you want to discuss about your looks, you really need to grow up first.

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Just wanna also educate other AJs in Singapore to be a little humble.

AlleRandy

You obviously have no clue to the severity of this statement and the insult u hurled at Singaporeans in general, gay or not.

Like what SO SO had said, I too, felt distinctly you thought yourself as good looking, but because of the fact that this is a public forum, you had to put on a show of humility in the hope of garnering favourable views from readers here.

Honestly, which sane individual, who genuinely thought himself as not having benefitted from god's artistry, wud post such a self-aggrandising poll?

And your reaction to the results have been predictably bi-polar too - happy and chirpy when complimented, turning nasty and bitchy when told otherwise. Does this sound like a person who wants genuine feedback or one that is only out fishing for compliments ?

The fact that could not stand by your conviction of accepting all criticisms shows a malleable character.

Do some soul searching before you even try to educate us on anything, least of all, humility

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There is a saying..."One never looks as bad or as good as one thinks". So the next time you feel down because you feel do don't look good enough or if someone makes you feel like you're ugly...don't feel so bad as it's not true. Or if you think you're ultra gorgoeous...think again, you're probably wrong too.

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Hi Everybody!

take a look at my pics in facebook,

comment if i am ugly or not?

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/profile.php?id=725486115

Don't worry I'm fine with all the comments, just wanna know how peoples think about me when i'm walking on the street?

Am i fxxkable or piece of pile! wahahahaha

P.s i'm bored that why~

Cheers,

alleRandy Toh

I felt that you had painted yourself into a corner. I guess you must have been really bored.

Do I need you to teach me (a Singapore AJ) humility? I think not.

You really need to engage your brain more before you let ur fingers do the typing, especially in a public forum.

Removing your post is not the wises move because ppl can still see your post.

Just wanna also educate other AJs in Singapore to be a little humble.

What you could have done is to humble urself and apologise to fellow Singaporeans for those words you had said about them.

Don't forget ppl can still see your pic on Facebook.

http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com

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There is a saying..."One never looks as bad or as good as one thinks". So the next time you feel down because you feel do don't look good enough or if someone makes you feel like you're ugly...don't feel so bad as it's not true. Or if you think you're ultra gorgoeous...think again, you're probably wrong too.

I always think neutral. Handsome and Ugly are not in my vocabulary. Some said I am gorgeous/cute. Others called me ugly.

To me , I could not be bothered. It's my face and I am at peace :}

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Hi Everybody!

take a look at my pics in facebook,

comment if i am ugly or not?

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=725486115

Don't worry I'm fine with all the comments, just wanna know how peoples think about me when i'm walking on the street?

Am i fxxkable or piece of pile! wahahahaha

P.s i'm bored that why~

Cheers,

alleRandy Toh

You look cute. I will take a glance at u if u walk past.

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