Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 LOL!!Wow Lumarstone, you dawg, you son of a gun, how in heavens did you turn carts and beoome adviser? :smokin:No, I'm just being logical here. All of a suddenly we are talking about how a guy who registered on this forum before turning 18. Now, some of you may care but I certainly don't! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 No, I'm just being logical here. All of a suddenly we are talking about how a guy who registered on this forum before turning 18. Now, some of you may care but I certainly don't!Age Restrictions in Blowing Wind Forum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 (edited) I suppose this forum is indeed bound by the laws of this country. But "Currently it is illegal to have sex with children (male or female) under 16 years of age. In future where there is payment for the sex (prostitution), the legal age will be revised up to 18 years old for male and female." Please do enlighten. I really want to know. Edited November 21, 2011 by Lunarstone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 I suppose this forum is indeed bound by the laws of this country. But "Currently it is illegal to have sex with children (male or female) under 16 years of age. In future where there is payment for the sex (prostitution), the legal age will be revised up to 18 years old for male and female." Please do enlighten. I really want to know.It's not that complicated.Simply put, BW imposes a minimum age of 18 years before registration is allowed.Another one who registered in BW before he turned 18 is ketcase. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 It's not that complicated.Simply put, BW imposes a minimum age of 18 years before registration is allowed.Another one who registered in BW before he turned 18 is ketcase.Ok, ok, hold up. I'm confused here. The link you sent was for sex not using of forums so how does that give? And from that quote, it says under 16 years of age NO SEX AT ALL whatsoever right? Ok. Then for 18 years or older, male/female it's for paid sex right? So how does it connect to registration of this forum?Unless, if you're talking about the part where this forum cannot stop underage members from having sex with adult members; will this forum be held responsible? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 The link that was provided handles the registration of users. The subsequent link within the link governs sex with minors.The one that's relevant is the former one. “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 (edited) OH! So this restriction is to protect the child, the adult or both? And what then if you discover an underage member here? Delete his account and allow him to register again upon 18? Edited November 21, 2011 by Lunarstone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blissfull Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 I am also feeling very insecure. Getting fatter every year. Going to be like a ball soon. "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 I am also feeling very insecure. Getting fatter every year. Going to be like a ball soon. Is that you in that picture? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blissfull Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Is that you in that picture?Ya "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 YaYou're not fat. My mom's fat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 i'm fat and not handsome at all, i've doubts at times, but what can we do - instead just adopt a healthier lifestyle and love yourself. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 It sounds far fetched and unlikely and definitely unrealistic but I've ahd nightmares of me dying alone as a poor old man in some rented flat in some ulu part of Singapore. Does it mean something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 i don't think that will happen if you were to do something bout it. friends, family? Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 i'm...not handsome..love yourself.As an amateur travel and people photographer, I observe there is beauty in everything... the curly eye lashes of a beggar on a Sri Lankan street or a tattered poster on a Peruvian wall.chubblion, count your beauty spots, my dear! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 i don't think that will happen if you were to do something bout it. friends, family?Well, only 2 people in this world know about my sexuality and they are my closest of my close friends. I'm faced with the stark choice of coming to my family or not. Sometimes I sense that my parents already know that I'm gay. I intend to move out of this country for good anyhow. And that's one small reason why I feel insecure; I'm always worried or fearful that people will know about my dark secret without me telling them on my own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 thanks Marad44, i'm finding my inner self, trying to do what matters more, even though i envy of relationship. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 thanks Marad44, i'm finding my inner self, trying to do what matters more, even though i envy of relationship.I'm envious of relationships too. I'm scared to go down to bars or clubs, knowing that I'll see more couples and I'll be FOREVER ALONE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Well, only 2 people in this world know about my sexuality and they are my closest of my close friends. I'm faced with the stark choice of coming to my family or not. Sometimes I sense that my parents already know that I'm gay. I intend to move out of this country for good anyhow. And that's one small reason why I feel insecure; I'm always worried or fearful that people will know about my dark secret without me telling them on my own.Dark secret? Why in the first place you look at it as a dark secret? It's your choice, everyone fears the truth yet wanted to find it out, if it bothers you so much as to confess to your parents, why habour the thought? Been gay might not be a good to thing to begin with, but what can you do? Deny it? i doubt so. If people were to find out, why are you worried about something that you are? if you're into guys - you're into guys. it's alot better than into drugs. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 who will be there to stop you from getting a relationship. it's just a matter of time and who. sometimes, it's nice to daydream alittle. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Friendly Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 The beauty of the heart is more important then the beauty of the face. LOVE stands for Lots Of Voluntary Effort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 sometimes, results will come bit slower even after loads of effort. but i have faith. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Dark secret? Why in the first place you look at it as a dark secret? It's your choice, everyone fears the truth yet wanted to find it out, if it bothers you so much as to confess to your parents, why habour the thought? Been gay might not be a good to thing to begin with, but what can you do? Deny it? i doubt so. If people were to find out, why are you worried about something that you are? if you're into guys - you're into guys. it's alot better than into drugs.Homosexuality is far more complicated than that. It goes in really deep. It's not so much about people finding out but more so on what they'll do after finding out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Homosexuality is far more complicated than that. It goes in really deep. It's not so much about people finding out but more so on what they'll do after finding out.What will they do? Expose you? kill you?What are you really afraid of? Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Isn't it stereotyped that homosexuals, especially gay guys and to a lesser extent, lesbian females, are very shallow and I think people in general are repulsed when ugly people mention anything that seems sexually charged. When gays find out you're gay, they start judging you on another level. When you are gay the demand for you to look hot is increased 10 fold. Someone said, "You also need to be hot, ugly people are not allowed to be gay, I can't stress that enough." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 What will they do? Expose you? kill you?What are you really afraid of?They can do much much worse. Did you watch Glee? Or those stories of people committing suicide because they were outcasts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Hahaha.About time someone found out.You think the appropriate authorities didn't know about it meh?Still need your sexposure.Sorry for hijacking your thread :3Gonna head out nao. Please do stay! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 since when? Since when it's a criteria for hot guys to be gay and ugly to be straight, you're decieving yourself all these while. you just yet met the right group of people, with my friends, no one look at others differently, gay or not, it's nothing. Stop making up stories to make yourself pathetic, you will never understand if you keep lying to yourself. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 whatever you heard is a handful of them, those who made those decision are merely not strong enough or doesn't believe in themselves, once again it comes back to you and what you wish to be. If you want to be hiding from the fact that you're gay and you're so afraid of the truth then don't seek it. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 (edited) since when? Since when it's a criteria for hot guys to be gay and ugly to be straight, you're decieving yourself all these while. you just yet met the right group of people, with my friends, no one look at others differently, gay or not, it's nothing. Stop making up stories to make yourself pathetic, you will never understand if you keep lying to yourself.By calling me pathetic just shows how cruel this world can be. Not surprising that so many people die everyday by suicide due to thoughtless comments. Maybe you just want to shove it straight in my face that I'm wrong but at least for now, that's all the people whom I've met.whatever you heard is a handful of them, those who made those decision are merely not strong enough or doesn't believe in themselves, once again it comes back to you and what you wish to be. If you want to be hiding from the fact that you're gay and you're so afraid of the truth then don't seek it.Not only do I accept the kind of person inside that I am but I'm also concerned about my safety. I'm not about to go on the streets right now and start Singapore's first ever gay pride float march. Being concerned for one's own safety does not equate to not being accepting of your sexuality. Fine by me if you choose to be more open, but that's your life, not mine. Edited November 21, 2011 by Lunarstone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Pathetic - refers to someone who have no faith in yourself, you are always putting fear into your own mind, no one scares you but yourself. the world isn't full of posies and love, it's reality. If you chose to afraid of your own perception, don't whine when you feel insecure - you're your own insecurities.If you don't want to accept yourself and fears being found out, why would you even bother to tell your parents, confessing to your family is far worst than starting a march. If you're afraid and you choose to be afraid then don't blame the insecurities - blame yourself. You are your own fear. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 (edited) Pathetic - refers to someone who have no faith in yourself, you are always putting fear into your own mind, no one scares you but yourself. the world isn't full of posies and love, it's reality. If you chose to afraid of your own perception, don't whine when you feel insecure - you're your own insecurities.If you don't want to accept yourself and fears being found out, why would you even bother to tell your parents, confessing to your family is far worst than starting a march. If you're afraid and you choose to be afraid then don't blame the insecurities - blame yourself. You are your own fear.Tell me honestly, have you ever been bullied because you were gay? Did it ever occur to you how much I've been through? To you, I'm just a whiny little bitch on this forum, hiding behind my computer and my inferiority complex. You don't know me; not the least bit. If only you know about my past, then you would realize that it is never so simple.To live each day in fear is no better than a prison, a prison that I did not create. No, not me. This world I'm living in did. Too bad that I've got to figure out how to survive. Being gay at school meant that, in addition to the growing pains that all teens suffer, they suffered additionally at the hands of a homophobic education system, and of their classmates.Why not you just tell me straight from the beginning to shut the hell up? Since that would be so much better. Edited November 21, 2011 by Lunarstone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 you know how to call it past, let me ask you how certain are you that this past will reoccur, how much do you want to change this feeling of insecurities at all? Yes, i may not know you at all.it got nothing to do with inferiority complex or whatsoever. Bullied, it was far worst than that. You don't know me at all, so don't even think im living in a better world.it's not how to world affect you, it's how you think it will affect you.if you're so unhappy being gay, then quit it. If you can't, live with it.Anyway, if you ever feel like you're living-out someone elses life, you're probably not being very honest with yourself.Obviously, if you're aware of the fine details it would take for you to successfully live out such a life, it is not a life worth living for you.Life is a puzzle and if you're just sitting there admiring an easy-a$$ (though completed) puzzle while everyone else is piecing together beautiful and complicated jigsaws you will, in the end, be the definition of wasted life. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 (edited) How do you "quit" being gay? Being gay isn't a choice. Sometimes it gets better– but a lot of times it doesn’t get any better. Telling people that they have to wait for their life to get amazing–to tough it out so that they can be around when life gets amazing– is a violent reassignment of guilt. There is no infrastructure to catch you when your family reacts poorly. There is no truly benevolent queer family, waiting to catch you, ready to sacrifice so you can thrive. For a lot of folks, coming out doesn’t only mean that your parents will promise to hate your lovers– it means violence, homelessness, abuse. Promoting the illusion that things just “get better,” enables privileged folks to do nothing. How can you tell kids it gets better without having the guts to say how. Edited November 21, 2011 by Lunarstone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 it seems that you wanted the truth yet am very afraid of it. Then why not, put down this thought and just wait till you're more comfortable. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 it seems that you wanted the truth yet am very afraid of it. Then why not, put down this thought and just wait till you're more comfortable.I just feel SO pressured! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blissfull Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Pathetic - refers to someone who have no faith in yourself, you are always putting fear into your own mind, no one scares you but yourself. the world isn't full of posies and love, it's reality. If you chose to afraid of your own perception, don't whine when you feel insecure - you're your own insecurities.Yes, I am so pathetic. "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Anger is a manifestation of a deeper issue... and that, for me, is based on insecurity, self-esteem and loneliness. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Anger is a manifestation of a deeper issue... and that, for me, is based on insecurity, self-esteem and loneliness.For you personally? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 nope for you. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 It really is a vicious cycle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 For good and evil, man is a free creative spirit. This produces the very queer world we live in, a world in continuous creation and therefore continuous change and insecurity. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 For good and evil, man is a free creative spirit. This produces the very queer world we live in, a world in continuous creation and therefore continuous change and insecurity.You sound like a monk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Telling people that they have to wait for their life to get amazing–to tough it out so that they can be around when life gets amazing– is a violent reassignment of guilt.Well, that's the lesser of the evils. Beats crumbling down or escapism to destructive lifestyle, really.Sometimes it's not so much about waiting; if you don't like where you are now, someone will have to steer the wheel to a better road right?Life is a mixed bag of the amazings and the awfuls, what you choose to surround yourself with will drag you further down into it. For me, I try to focus on things that make me feel happy instead of torturing my mind with endless sadness. “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubblion Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 The task we must set for ourselves is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurity.be true to yourself, lunarstone. Each one of us requires the spur of insecurity to force us to do our best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imchaser Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 (edited) Hahaha. About time someone found out. You think the appropriate authorities didn't know about it meh? Still need your sexposure. Sorry for hijacking your thread :3 Gonna head out nao.Sorry to hijack this thread too. But wth the current discussion above are quite lame anyway. DB, I think if the mods didnt ban u it would be very unfair to Waterballoon who was being banned recently. Whats worse, is that u seems to not aware what u did was wrong even now and still dare to be so loud.. better start thinking of a new nick if im u. Edited November 21, 2011 by imchaser Volunteering for the underwear association for third world countries. Please donate your used underwear to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 How do you "quit" being gay? ...Wow what a power-packed delivery! You are a forceful writer Lunarstone!. Have a blog? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Wow what a power-packed delivery! You are a forceful writer Lunarstone!. Have a blog?I do have a blog but it's just somewhere for me vent my frustrations. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lunarstone Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Love that Dr Seuss quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 21, 2011 Report Share Posted November 21, 2011 Sorry to hijack this thread too. But wth the current discussion above are quite lame anyway. DB, I think if the mods didnt ban u it would be very unfair to Waterballoon who was being banned recently. Whats worse, is that u seems to not aware what u did was wrong even now and still dare to be so loud.. better start thinking of a new nick if im u.These younglings are so brazen about rules these days. You can tell heir complete disregard for rules. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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