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Should I Get Married? + Will U Bow Down To Family Pressure To Marry + Marriage Of Convenience (Compiled)


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If they are still having sex, that means they are still aiming for a son. Unsurprisingly, their homes will look like a harem of the maharaja, with all the daughters, the mother hen and the rooster. When they go out, they strut proudly like stars of Sex And The City in horizontal formation.

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Some will bound to end up like the Kardashian sisters - with sex tapes, an up and coming victoria's secret model, a post-op transgender father and a younger brother spiralling into depression.

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Church of our saviour will sponsor a new show called "Focus on your men (and forget your girlfriend!)".

Faith community baptist church's gateway entertainment will produce a movie called "Focus on Man(hood) (forget bromance!)".

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Mediacorpse channel u will 死灰复燃 and suddenly outsource a entirely new show called 恩情, while Mediacorpse will come up with a another lame show called 真情, while 钟琴 will be hosting a new hybrid "matchmaking game talkshow" called 爱配对,才会赢 to push the no-so-secret agenda of focus on the family, choices and liberty league - their three sole sponsors. Exodus international will have then secured a contract with mediacorpse to market and air this show in US cities with chinatowns or significant chinese enclaves.

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I won't bow to social pressure to marry a straight woman or to carry on with the family line.

I don't want to ruin an innocent woman life. Imagine she devoted her heart in you and all you think is another guy

I don't want to feel unsatisfied or treat it as a routine activities to have sex with the woman.

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I dated girls before, really really no feelings even they are pretty ...sigh ... Being single and be truthful to yourself is happier than to face someone you have no feelings and you get married probably to have children ... unless you are bi , then things probably would be more tolerant ...

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Unless you're telling me the woman is a lesbian and you're both "partners-in-crime", I think it's really sad and especially unfair - not just to the poor woman, but to you, too. Worse still, the kids. Just imagine.

How are you going to face relatives on a regular basis? Again, unless you're telling me both the man and the woman are "partners-in-crime" aka. this is sorta like a sham marriage (even then it would be exhausting), it would be truly draining to "live" with the relatives of someone who you don't have any romantic feelings for.

Sounds like a miserable and lonely life to me. Whether you raise children with the wife or not, one can never be truly happy living a lie.

If this is about having children, OP, I'd rather adopt or go the surrogacy. Would be better if you have a partner to raise the child(ren) with, but to me, it's single over a sham marriage any day.

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Unless you're telling me the woman is a lesbian and you're both "partners-in-crime", I think it's really sad and especially unfair - not just to the poor woman, but to you, too. Worse still, the kids. Just imagine.

How are you going to face relatives on a regular basis? Again, unless you're telling me both the man and the woman are "partners-in-crime" aka. this is sorta like a sham marriage (even then it would be exhausting), it would be truly draining to "live" with the relatives of someone who you don't have any romantic feelings for.

Sounds like a miserable and lonely life to me. Whether you raise children with the wife or not, one can never be truly happy living a lie.

If this is about having children, OP, I'd rather adopt or go the surrogacy. Would be better if you have a partner to raise the child(ren) with, but to me, it's single over a sham marriage any day.

It's easier if they are both bis and they share partners and become the secret envy of the entire humanity. If it's a 100% lesbian and gay, they will allow each other full freedom to play outside, only to reassemble as a family "unit" when dining with friends and during festivals and weddings.

They may be secretly enjoying such arrangments. We gays think they are suffering. They may be laughing it off instead as we do not know better. Don't judge lol

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It's easier if they are both bis and they share partners and become the secret envy of the entire humanity. If it's a 100% lesbian and gay, they will allow each other full freedom to play outside, only to reassemble as a family "unit" when dining with friends and during festivals and weddings.

They may be secretly enjoying such arrangments. We gays think they are suffering. They may be laughing it off instead as we do not know better. Don't judge lol

I wasn't. That's why I mentioned "Unless you're telling me the woman is a lesbian and you're both "partners-in-crime" ". You can definitely be correct.
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HDB FLATS IS A HUGE CARROT, 377A THE STICK (with all its accompanying accoutrements and ramifications) when it comes to this issue.

I say just go ahead, join the pack and claim your government benefits at the same time avoiding 地狱人间 if you can ignore neither the carrot nor the stick. I see at least one such couple on every level of my HDB flat. After having their children, they have as much sex as the 80 year old grandma sitting downstairs. Passion fizzles out. Theirs can be either 兄弟情,姐妹情,母子情 or 父女情,closer to 真爱, so not at all surprising to me if they can 天长地久直到天荒地老,海枯石烂!

They may not have 男女之情 between them, but what lasts between and sustained them is their symbiotc dependence and 恩情, in some cases which may be even uni-directional, as only one is gay (another could be faghag or bisexual - this of cos can go the other way round). Emotional support and camouflage cover all these years for each other, they developed true love, outlasted everyone (especially the gays) and had their last laugh. Lol
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Pragmatism rules here so it's bound to be common practise here. More common than you dare to imagine in your wildest dreams. According to Chinese professor Li Ying He, 80% of China gays do that. And like gay sex, it's not even illegal in China. How far ahead in terms of human rights you think Singaporeans are compared to China? You do the extrapolation and maths.

Unethical and immoral.

 

Cuz it's totally unfair to that straight woman, unless she willingly wants to marry a man who's not truly into her. Pun intended.

What if it is an 'arranged marriage' for example, Vietnam or Hainam wife, an arrangement that is money rather than love oriented?

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