Girls Trying To Flirt With You

[whenitrains92]

Makes me feel kinda uncomfortable when a girl comes close to me and flirt with me. :oops:

I'm always trying to be nice and sort of try to 'play along' with her, but that made it worse.

And when she asked for my number, I was kinda reluctant but i gave it to her anyway.

cos' i dun mind being frens wif her, but nothing more than tt pls.

What do you guys think? How do you respond when a girl tries to hit on you?

[Atrapada]

Hit her back hard on the face physically! jkjk >=-)

Well I feel it's important try not to give out the wrong impressions at the start to prevent unnecessary

complications ba.

[whenitrains92]

Hahaha! hey, no matter gay or str8, it's wrong for a guy to physically hit a girl... lol.

ok unless she tries to kill me or smtg to defend myself.

anyway... give out wrong impression as in? lol for now i just 'play along' lol.

which i think is not right and it also makes me feel even more uncomfortable,

i scared ltr she got feelings for me then tt'd be quite difficult already leh.

shud i tell her the truth? haha

[Guest Bankai]

For me, I don't know why...I just get naturally 'disgusted' when girls try to flirt with me...the more they try to flirt with me, the more turn-off I become...my male colleagues actually asked me why I'm frequently surrounded by girls (as they said that I'm so lucky)...but to me, i'm unlucky... :-(

[suckmenao]

Makes me feel kinda uncomfortable when a girl comes close to me and flirt with me. :oops:

I'm always trying to be nice and sort of try to 'play along' with her, but that made it worse.

And when she asked for my number, I was kinda reluctant but i gave it to her anyway.

cos' i dun mind being frens wif her, but nothing more than tt pls.

What do you guys think? How do you respond when a girl tries to hit on you?

UGH!!! I really hate that to the max. Especially when the bitch tries harder and harder when I intentionally gave no response at all when she touches her hair or start taking out her cellphone to show how busy and important she is, and walk around me...the worst would be when they're with the friends and giggling nonstop (I feel like bitchslapping them one by one) trying to get my attention, or the disgusting gesture of accidentally rubbing their hand against mine in the cinema (makes me wanna say, if you really want me you can just go down and suck, I'll pretend you're a man). I hate those attention seeking bimbos!! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

[Atrapada]

Hahaha! hey, no matter gay or str8, it's wrong for a guy to physically hit a girl... lol.

ok unless she tries to kill me or smtg to defend myself.

anyway... give out wrong impression as in? lol for now i just 'play along' lol.

which i think is not right and it also makes me feel even more uncomfortable,

i scared ltr she got feelings for me then tt'd be quite difficult already leh.

shud i tell her the truth? haha

hahax yea it's nt right ah, was kidding!!

As in.. the playing along part, giving hope to the other party. I think it's quite straight out

maybe it's 'alright' to play along coz in another respect it feels 'good' to have someone or a girl

hitting on/ of flirting with you. Sure is, but girls are a tad complicated bit messy if not snipped

at the bud though. See how man if you think she can get the message subtly through how to react to her.

Fastest way like u said is being direct lor hahax. the art of rejecting! >=-)

[Guest Jonty]

UGH!!! I really hate that to the max. Especially when the bitch tries harder and harder when I intentionally gave no response at all when she touches her hair or start taking out her cellphone to show how busy and important she is, and walk around me...the worst would be when they're with the friends and giggling nonstop (I feel like bitchslapping them one by one) trying to get my attention, or the disgusting gesture of accidentally rubbing their hand against mine in the cinema (makes me wanna say, if you really want me you can just go down and suck, I'll pretend you're a man). I hate those attention seeking bimbos!! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

haha....! this is funny. they feel itchy seeing u lah....

[whenitrains92]

UGH!!! I really hate that to the max. Especially when the bitch tries harder and harder when I intentionally gave no response at all when she touches her hair or start taking out her cellphone to show how busy and important she is, and walk around me...the worst would be when they're with the friends and giggling nonstop (I feel like bitchslapping them one by one) trying to get my attention, or the disgusting gesture of accidentally rubbing their hand against mine in the cinema (makes me wanna say, if you really want me you can just go down and suck, I'll pretend you're a man). I hate those attention seeking bimbos!! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

Whoa! LOL. well tts really annoying man... i mean.. at least the girl hu wants my number knows im not interested cos' i rarely reply her msgs so she stopped already.

lol.. ur admirer very persistent ar.. :clap:

shud take tt as a compliment, u must be very good looking

Edited March 5, 2011 by whenitrains92

[Guest Bankai]

UGH!!! I really hate that to the max....the worst would be when they're with the friends and giggling nonstop (I feel like bitchslapping them one by one) trying to get my attention... I hate those attention seeking bimbos!! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

I guess that these 'bitches' must be really attracted to your appearance...Luckily for me, the girls who tried to chat me up are pretty decent and just 'flirt' by asking very personal uninvited questions like 'What do you do on weekends?', 'How come you are so eligible, but have no gf?' blah3...sorry, I guess they are just interested in my personal life, and may not be flirting...but I just get 'disgusted' when they tried to team-up with me, on work-related matters, whenever opportunities arise, even though these matters do not need so many of them to be in my team...Arggg...

[suckmenao]

Whoa! LOL. well tts really annoying man... i mean.. at least the girl hu wants my number knows im not interested cos' i rarely reply her msgs so she stopped already.

lol.. ur admirer very persistent ar.. :clap:

shud take tt as a compliment, u must be very good looking

I'm above average only. But very sexually appealing I guess.

[subarucap]

Makes me feel kinda uncomfortable when a girl comes close to me and flirt with me. :oops:

I'm always trying to be nice and sort of try to 'play along' with her, but that made it worse.

And when she asked for my number, I was kinda reluctant but i gave it to her anyway.

cos' i dun mind being frens wif her, but nothing more than tt pls.

What do you guys think? How do you respond when a girl tries to hit on you?

i just act like i dunno.

[chrishaha]

just dao and be cold to her until she get it......

[waterballoon]

What u need to do, is to make urself look like u have a girlfriend already.

[whenitrains92]

What u need to do, is to make urself look like u have a girlfriend already.

never tot of tt actually! I could just lie to her and told her tt I'm attached lol.

yeah, I find these girls annoying, but sometimes I kinda understand how these girls feel.. It's like how we tend to cling onto the str8 guys we like, u see.. so I dun wanna tell them off or reject them on the spot.. But then again it's like we're cheating their feelings sia if like tt lol. :s

[whenitrains92]

Hmmm.. Well I think the best thing to do is to act blur, ignore so they'll find us uninteresting/boring to flirt with or do things tt'd be a turn off for them lol like digging ur nose in front of them or smtg

[waterballoon]

never tot of tt actually! I could just lie to her and told her tt I'm attached lol.

yeah, I find these girls annoying, but sometimes I kinda understand how these girls feel.. It's like how we tend to cling onto the str8 guys we like, u see.. so I dun wanna tell them off or reject them on the spot.. But then again it's like we're cheating their feelings sia if like tt lol. :s

Just lie that ur attached. It's seriously better than mincing ur words and coming off as too nice!

[fab]

Sometimes lying that u r attached may not help if what she seeks is only ons.

One of my class girls is pretty daring. Whenever we had to stand in group randomly, she would always use her chest to lean against my back.

[abang]

I am unfortuantely, a woman's magnet.

Being sociall-adept, I tend to be the centre of attraction every now and then although I dont purposely demand it...

Just over the Chinese New Year, my colleagues and I had a dinner and in order to stay in the background of things, I wore black round-t-shirt over a pair of old and faded jeans.

Guess what, they (the char-bos) gathered around me and talked about my wooden frame spectacles... I tried to look nerdy but you see, the women cannot leave me alone!

[Guest Guest]

ah..now i know why they say women and gay men are best friends..they are instinctly attracted to u

[suckmenao]

I think this is the main reason why gay guys can thrive when it comes to the job/business that caters mostly to female clients.

[darkflame]

I think this is the main reason why gay guys can thrive when it comes to the job/business that caters mostly to female clients.

Especially when aunties are involved.

[suckmenao]

Especially when aunties are involved.

The best part would be when they brought their daughter along next time.

[sgstr8fun]

If u are gay, just tell them u are gay. Case Close. If u are BI like myself, I'll upz them without thinking too much.

[simontang]

UGH!!! I really hate that to the max. Especially when the bitch tries harder and harder when I intentionally gave no response at all when she touches her hair or start taking out her cellphone to show how busy and important she is, and walk around me...the worst would be when they're with the friends and giggling nonstop (I feel like bitchslapping them one by one) trying to get my attention, or the disgusting gesture of accidentally rubbing their hand against mine in the cinema (makes me wanna say, if you really want me you can just go down and suck, I'll pretend you're a man). I hate those attention seeking bimbos!! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

omg u r so funny... lol! but it;s true

[ryuin]

ill just ell her i aint attarcted to her and i would just prefer to be friends, then give her the cold shoulder, like youre freaked out by her or something. and if she still dont get it. spell it out to her. " I M G A Y" she will get it, unless she is blone. =P

seriously, girls sometimes think that im just playing hard to get and acting cool. ugh. hahaha

but usually ill just tell her im seeing someone. =)

[ryuin]

ill just ell her i aint attarcted to her and i would just prefer to be friends, then give her the cold shoulder, like youre freaked out by her or something. and if she still dont get it. spell it out to her. " I M G A Y" she will get it, unless she is blone. =P

seriously, girls sometimes think that im just playing hard to get and acting cool. ugh. hahaha

but usually ill just tell her im seeing someone. =)

[derryfawne]

There's a girl I knew for about 2 months sometime back in Jakarta. Whenever we're both online on Messenger, she'd call me to chat. Just about a couple of weeks ago she called me again. She flirted playfully and I was just taking it easy... she finally confessed her feeling, dropped me a phone number, and I think it was supposed to be my turn to return the signals (I didn't), because the next thing I know she deleted me from Facebook and never called me on Messenger again.

It's nice to know that someone's into you. But don't proceed if you cannot hold a commitment. I tried before back in my sec school days, it was a two-month fiasco with her.

[TheVisitors]

The trick is make them feel very small, without the need to offend them in the first place.

I seems to get it all the time when I hang around in straight joins with my straight friends.

Really hate it when they poke your butt, poke fondle your chest, press your biceps, or ruffle your hair when I really hate my head to be touch by strangers. Hate it they think you are a piece of meat which they can fondle at their whims and at their liberties

What you do is to act indifferent to their approach and then talk to them about much prettier,classier, sexier, smarter girls you have met before.

They will get the hint that they are not up to your standards and they are not good enough and they will leave you alone.

Also in that way simultaneously, you have not said anything directly sensitive that hurt them in anyway, which gives them a small loophole to get even at you later.

Thats being equal yet being smart when playing the game with them.

[Guest Guest]

if you dun want them to get the wrong idea and make the situation worse, then you must act indifferent from the start. after awhile they will get bored and leave you alone. no need to feel bad or what, cos decent girls wont do all these and i rather make friends with sweet decent girls.

[Guest boitube]

I love when girls come onto me... It makes me feel like a MAN! LOL

Never feel bad for not giving someone something you don't wanna give.... You are gay honey and she must DEAL!

:twisted:

[Guest Guest]

i am having this problem as well. acting indifferent or 'proud' doesn't do the trick as the girls think that im okay with it. telling them off makes yourself look bad, i am sure some guys will know what i mean.

the worst are those who have looks but are bitchy, daring and have big mouths.

[SeannyShortcake]

Entertaining them is no use because some girls don't know when to give it up.

Drop the "imma gay" bomb on them early.

Because if you know they'll fend that one off,they won't be content just having a 'gay bestie'.

[Guest region]

Will be ignoring them, at first, if they don't seems to be that nice.

If they happen to be nice girls, i'll just tell them that i'm gay, straightforward enough though.

I feel uncomfortable when some girls touch me, as in a friend type of a physical contact.

.. Weird :/

[Crimson87]

Don't mind flirting with girls, if they try to touch me... I will try to distract them.

But if they are starting to fall in love with me, I will hint to them that I'm attached and don't mind being friends with them.

[Guest Blaidd_drwg]

It depends:

slutty girl/guy flirts: I turn them away. I'm not into that kinda attraction or "class".

average girl/guy flirts: I may consider where things can go.

I do not limit myself to guys specifically. I believe there is no such thing as natural homosexuality or natural heterosexuality. Anyone and everyone can go either way. These roles are merely figments of mental-social conditioning and imagination. If you have more homosexual experiences, you tend towards it. If you have more heterosexual experiences, you tend towards it. People tend towards the familiar.

But of course when I am attached, flirts become part of acquaintance engagement and nothing more. Light flirting is a core component of social interaction afterall.

Heavy or slutty flirting is a different thing, which is a huge turn off when I'm attached or when, if not attached, I do not know the person close enough or do not have mutual feelings of attraction.

[khanomjeen]

Have you met a pscycho girl stalker? It was a horrible experience.

[Guest Straight]

Some girls are just FAN JIAN!

Straight guys give them attention, flowers and all, they ignore them

Gays don't give them a single fxxk, not even insert the cucumber for them, and yet girls try so hard to get their attention.

[thaiboyz]

Chit chat and crack jokes with them are ok but if they make advancement such as trying to get intimate or touch here and there, I would tell them to respect themselves. I will tell them there's is a clear line drawn between males and females. I believe they should get my message by then.

[Guest Guest]

Have you met a pscycho girl stalker? It was a horrible experience.

 

read you are bi. why was a female stalker bad?

[hturtdekan]

On the one hand I'd rather not have to reject people unnecessarily, and on the other I somehow get jealous when other guys in the office get the attention of the ladies :/

[Guest Guest]

I can only accept no less than textbook style pretty girls flirting with me... any 'thing' else I will feel... very insulted AND DISGUSTED.

[Guest Guest]

I can only accept no less than textbook style pretty girls flirting with me... any 'thing' else I will feel... very insulted AND DISGUSTED.

In fact I enjoy and feel super flattered if the girl is considered quite pretty and classy and doesn't behave annoyingly or fake

[PaterTenebrarum]

I flirt with girls and they flirt back. Nothing wrong with that, really.

[cutejack]

then y u got married to a guy in canada?oh please!

[PaterTenebrarum]

Because it is just flirting and/or light banter. I know nothing will come out of it.

[Guest Guest]

Makes me feel kinda uncomfortable when a girl comes close to me and flirt with me. :oops:

I'm always trying to be nice and sort of try to 'play along' with her, but that made it worse.

And when she asked for my number, I was kinda reluctant but i gave it to her anyway.

cos' i dun mind being frens wif her, but nothing more than tt pls.

What do you guys think? How do you respond when a girl tries to hit on you?

 

Carry with you some cucumbers, pass them one when they hit on you.

[Guest Guest]

Pinge her tits and she will either run away or ask for more.

[Guest Guest]

Some girls are just FAN JIAN!

Straight guys give them attention, flowers and all, they ignore them

Gays don't give them a single fxxk, not even insert the cucumber for them, and yet girls try so hard to get their attention.

 

"not even insert the cucumber for them"

 

LOL