HendryTan Posted February 19, 2007 Report Share Posted February 19, 2007 05/18/98 18:13:19Name: Nick69 My URL: Visit MeMy Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: 69Your Fav Body Type: Asian Your Nationality: SGComments:Looks like hotel 81 is doing well.Met this real cute guy at the beach over the weekend.The weather being so unpredictable we decided to book a room at 81.Thank goodness...as we entered our room it poured heavily.It got very cold in the aircon room so we d cided to heat things up first by taking a hot shower together.As I soaped his strong tanned thighs I saw his beautiful organ grow and stiffend.So I gently placed me lips on his cock head and made his harder.We couldn't wait so we walked and dried ourselve quickly.As I lay invitingly on the bed he slowly brought his hot wet tongue all over me....it was so hot and sensual and you get this tingly feeling cause the bed and room is so cold.We ended up doing a 69 with me enjoying his sweet huge cock in my mouth And when he came..he sighed so erotically that I couldn't help but suck him dry.Making sensual love on a cold stormy day in a nice cosy room.Cool...is all that I can say, he was so experience...I loved it when he brought his wet tongue along the crack of y butt and when it touched my wet pick asshole.You guys should try it sometime.$50 for 4 hours of pleasure is worth it.05/18/98 17:49:25Name: bruceMy Email: Email MeComments:ok, thank you for your heartfelt thoughts...so we'll agree to disagree...and on that note, we'll close the topic.... i now return you to your regular transmission...05/18/98 15:47:27Name: discoverkidMy URL: Visit MeMy Email: Email MeComments:Maybe it is tim for me to post some of my stories to make this page lighthearted a bit. Last week, went to EC and probably went a bit too early and find that there wasn't much activities and so after a while I decided to change location. The weather was kind of hot so I bought a bottle of drink at the stall and sit down to quench my thirst. While I was enjoying my drink, I felt that there was a pair of eyes watching and so I turn around and saw this cute guy was looking at me and when he aw me looking, he flashed a smile and walk over and strike up a conversation with me. After a while he invited to do it with him and want me to follow him. He brought me to one of the toilet at katong shopping centre but something tell me that it wasn't afe there and so I told him to switch places and just when we went out I saw one security guard came in and check. So, he decided to went over to the opposite shopping centre and we found a quiet toilet but just when we wanted to start some action, sudde ly there came of group of youngsters talking and shouting at each other like nobody business. Finally, we are sick of looking around and we settled in a hotel room (2 hours kind of stuff) and once we entered the room, he immediately strip to his birthday suit and start reaching for my dick and giving me head... Wow, we have a sweaty and fun two solid hours together. Before I leave he took down my number and probably he will call me again this coming week..05/18/98 13:45:44Name: bicep My URL: Visit MeYour Fav Sextivity: blow job Your Fav Body Type: muscularYour Nationality: SingComments:This page is very interesting and I enjoy reading it daily.05/18/98 10:09:37Name: THE EVIL TWIN!My Email: Email MeComments:OK guys!!! I think we should stop harassing actionkid and leave his lifestyle to his own affairs! it is not any of our business to preach or impose ideal or perfect lifestyles as it is a free world and country!!! We should go on with the original nature of this website. All other views on morals and "A Perfect World" should be posted in Newsgroups or the social culture newsgroups for local forums!!05/18/98 10:01:52Name: LyndaMy Email: Email MeComments:ACTIONKID, OOOOHHH IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND KNOWS ABOUT YOU, I THINK SHE MUST [1] UNDERSTAND YOU VERY MUCH [2] LOVE YOU VERY VERY MUCH!!! YOU'RE SUCH A LUCKY GUY!!!!AND YOU'VE GOT THAT MUCH TO BE APPRECIATIVE ABOUT!!! TAKE CARE!!!..LOVE!!05/18/98 01:39:25Name: ahboiComments:now, is this ironic or what. actionkid, u sure know where to throw your punches, doncha ? hahahha. here i'm getting the 'f' issue dropped and u have to choose the same time to out my 1-m-f lifestyle. heheheh. naughty boi. anyway, (presently) happy to repo t : yeppy yep, spent the WE with cc and it was really 'nice' (loosely translates as less sex, more chat). guess our liaison is (eeks) maturing. i'm just enjoying the ride while i have it. and yes, yes, i'll keep on the look out for 'fresh' reports to post here. the things i'd do for u. :-) gotta catch a flight to kul and will tok to u guys when i get home tonite. be good now.05/18/98 01:08:23Name: actionkidComments:hehehe.. ahboi... why dun you start the ball rolling by sending in some more of your sexcapades? Or have you affirmedly become a one-man-fxxk?05/18/98 01:07:39Name: actionkidComments:bruce.. I believe in the idealogy of marriage and I believe in its sanctity as well as staying faithful to one's partner. And I know that some day, I will come to a point where I will give up this lifestyle.. people grow up, and people mature. But it take a long period of adjustment and acceptance. It is this time that I am seeking.. and not the acknowledgement of the fact that I wish to remain this way. *sigh* Trust me.. it is not easy grappling with all these conflicting interests.. I am still not marri d, and hence, I've still got the choice. What about those who are? I think you have to acknowledge that it is tough for them living that double lives. And the last thing they need now is for someone else (who has no idea of what they're going through) to penly criticise their actions and their choices. As EvilTwin said.. we've already got problems of our own and we are already trying our best to cope with them. Why burden us further with your ideals? I dun think this line of conversation is healthy for th upkeep of this page... can someone please send in some sexciting, cumlicious, oozepumping stories to lighten things around here??05/18/98 00:59:55Name: ahboiComments:look at it this way, fidelity is just another f-word. its all well and fine if one subscribe to it with passion. but it does not give anyone carte blanche to roll over differing views with self-righteousness. can we please close the subject by having a mo icum of trust in that the fundamental human decency of wanting to do the right thing shall ultimately preside ? and zen_guy, don't do this to yourself. if u are somewhat aware of your inclination and is not comfortable with accepting it, u are in a denial or confused phase. its not a nice time of being. i know. nonetheless, u will want to refrain from questioning your self-worth; this inclination does not make you any lesser of a being. for once, i'd follow my head first and then my heart.05/17/98 23:04:47Name: bruceMy Email: Email MeComments:Alright, just humour me and think about it, carefully, and truthfully to yourself...is fidelity in marriage really so difficult to justify? is it really so old-fashioned no one believes in it anymore? is it really not worth upholding as an ideal, even as e sometimes fall short of it because we are only human, and have our failings? Most rational people liberated enough (we're not talking radical liberals here) have the philosophy that you can do anything as long as you dont hurt others.....now, even they ill like to believe marriage is worth fighting for....why? simply because someone does get hurt if his/her spouse is unfaithful...just like you cant go out and kill and rob somebody and simply justify it as "I did it because it's my personal choice"....my point is this --- you can do whatever you want, but with marriage comes an added reponsibility and consideration - your spouse. if you find this too heavy a responsibility to bear, the answer's simple -- dont take the marriage vow, and you can do whatever you desire, and still not hurt anyone (well, not your spouse, anyway, since you wont have one) you get what i mean? .... still not convinced? ok, this is the final litmus test...what if the tables are turned? you come home from work one day and your dear weet wife comes up to you and say "Honey, you've been neglecting me these few days, so i've decided to have another lover, just like you do!"....then wat do you say? say "no way, hozay!" and be totally guilty of double standards?...........gentlemen, your call05/17/98 16:45:22Name: jeffMy Email: Email MeComments:hey lynda! you are almost there about the 'types of gay' but then i still think that there will always be somebody somewhere inbetween...... anyway, i am what you described as a bi.....gals attract me as much as guys..... though i had not had a long relat onship with any gfs of mine and am currently single..... evil-twin..... hmm what an unique name but think i still prefer jeff's evil twin.... sounds like we are related or sumthing!! late you might have to explain the name..... wah.... you people ar too fast for me..... just a while and there are so many messages orlady!! i am getting a little confused now.... donno what else to say..... think that will be all for now, folks! see ya tomorrrow!!05/17/98 14:29:23Name: ZEN_GUY My URL: Visit MeMy Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: ORAL?Your Fav Body Type: DI CAPRIO Your Nationality: S'POREANComments:Hi everybody, Hear this confused guy speaks. He has absolutely no interest whatsoever in girls, he is fixated at the level of performing oral sex with a guy. And though he does not fall over every handsome guy on the streets, he hope to find a like-minded person to spent the rest of his life. Is he gay? Oh God is this dumb or what?05/17/98 12:55:31Name: ahboiComments:goodness. all these (marriage and other commitment) virtues aired in virtuality should best be left virtual, doncha think ? from the various postings, looks like u guys already know how u will want to deal with the subject. so just let it be. let's not in ulge in self-righteousness. ultimately, we all have to cross our own bridges. and howdy doo lynda. glad u can join us. ah, any manhandling techniques to share ?05/17/98 12:07:15Name: actionkidMy Email: Email MeComments:hmmm... Lynda.. it is actually quite refreshing to have another gal who actually understand (or at least have an idea..) of the gay psyche. Yeah.. I think your three classifications are general enuff, though they may take some different permutations.. for example, some straight guys actually prefer straight looking gays, etc. I would say I fall in the third category. And yeah.. my gf knows everything about me.. even the orgy bit (she's put me through a celibacy period now, hence the lack of sexciting stori s for your enticement..;P)But as eviltwin put it.. I will be practising abstinence and I'll see what happens when the time comes. The good thing about this homepage, based on my observations, is the fact that the guys here are more tolerant of the various 'alternative' lifestyles within our alternative lifestyle.. here, bisexuals, married ones, and the confused ones are all accepted without being slammed down immediately. and we can talk openly about cruising, and ONS without getting criticised. I think th t's great, coz in oing so, we do not lose our zest for life. It was only in time that a woman might actually stumble into our territory.. hence, Lynda.. you needn't really feel unwelcome, as long as you behave yerself..;P This is our private sanctuary, an it'd help if you keep what you read here to yerself, esp the places that we frequent, etc.. we do not want anti-gays or the police to haunt us at our very own haunts..;P And EvilTwin.. I'm really touched by your concern.. thanx.. It's not often that some ne show concern to another person having met him first. Trust me, I am trying real hard not to get addicted to that orgy thing.. it is shallow and you leave the place gaining nothing. And jeff.. I dun think I can beat that record either.. we used to play his game to find out how sexed up I can be. First, it was five times in 24 hours, then it hit six.. and then that ultimate of 7 in 20hrs. But of course, prior to that, I had to remain celibate for around 4-5 days...;P I recall my dick having a strange tin ling sensation.. it became quite sore actually, coz it had to remain hard for so long. And my head was actually in quite a daze, coz all that orgasm can leave you quite out of touch.. hehehe..Lastly, to Confused.. love can happen under the weirdest circumstances. It is not abnormal to fall in love with a social escort. But you must be sure that it is not a one-directional emotion. Your partner must have the same feelings for you. There are tim s when you have to make certain sacrifices.. if both of you love one another and have it clear that the commitment will hold despite all else, I dun think the fact that he is a social escort would dentrimentally affect the relationship. I have dabbled in his social escort stuffs when I was yougner.. and trust me.. it is really no big deal. Most of the guys who desire to pay for your services are actually quite undesireable in the first place, and they only want you for your toyboy appeal. At that time, I as young and naive and it seemed like easy money.. but after a few tryouts (which I backed out of for various reasons), I decided that it felt totally wrong and not worth the effort. Your friend may look at it as being strictly business.. he may be able t differentiate sex from love. Of course, it is best that he leaves the 'profession' coz there will be lots of enticement, and you can never get a full grip of him. Nevertheless, you can never know if it will work if you do not speak to him about it first. Thus, before you get all confused and depressed, please talk to him about it. Express your feelings and hear his side of the picture. Love is blind.. but you do not have to be a slave to it. I wish you luck, friend.. and remember to always keep your head p.05/17/98 10:48:56Name: The EvilTwinComments:I shall be known as THE EVIL TWIN from now on, dropping the jeff suffix!!!!...the jeff part was just a transitionary stage...heh heh heh...[i think jeff should be pretty happy, now that he has his identity back!!...sorry but thanks!! Well, i think actionkid is or will be going through a lot within himself, so we should just be supportive of whatever he does [ except the indiscriminate orgy stuff] and help when he needs it!... Actually, i think the problem with actionkid is that he is OVERSEXED!!!...You see he does it seven times in 20 hours, coming every 1-3 hours, and that was when he was younger, then these days, he goes to public sex parties in JB, and as if that is not eno gh!! he has frequent escapades at the stadium, east coast, and after he's done with the guys! he also goes back to his girlfriend for more!!!PHHEEEEWWWWWWWWW!!!.... WAH!!!!!! SO MUCH STAMINA!!! Bet we all know which muscle he works out most!!!! Anyway, we're here for you actionkid, just mail us!!.... p.s. please let me know if you feel that it's getting too personal! i'll refrain...05/17/98 10:21:55Name: LyndaMy Email: Email MeComments:Hi it's me again!!!...just ignore me ok guys!!....like i'm not around...I've been around, just that i didn't want to startle anybody with my prescence, it's ok I've got lots of gay friends and am open to the liefestyle or culture which a lot of asians jus want to sweep under the carpet and act like it is non-existent!.. Correct me if I'm wrong, actiokid, or jeff, but I have come to the conclusion that there are 3 major categories of Gay Mentality. They are firstly , the Effeminate 'Sister' mentality, where the guys are effeminate in nature, and think of themselves as wom n,[of course a more severe form of it would be the tranvestites, but that's another story!]They only like straight like Macho or basic looking guys and may not like gays themselves, but straight guys out for a little fun. Secondly, we have the manly looking guys, who would go for similarly manly looking guys, they could be gay too. They love the 69. Straight guys wouldn't find this group interesting at all as they look as straight as themselves, and would have to be gay to want to try any thing with them. Thirdly, we have the Bi's [dear actionkid] They are very male, even gets the gals a fluttering, they like fellow gays for sex, or gals. Of which they would be attracted to the gays for the physical, 'alternative sex for a change' thing and gals for a more emotional attachment. As they are multi directional, they are usually pretty busy keeping double lives. I doubt if their gay friends or partners would mind that they are bi [some might even find it sexy!] but i doubt if many gals will appreciate that fact Actually, I ame out into the forum page to find out who belonged in which category!...If I am not wrong, I think actionkid and jeff might belong to the second or third category, otherwise both of you wouldn't be so polite, but hurl abuses at me and throw e out for intruding into your privacy. Anyway, please ignore my prescence and enjoy yourselves, but if you ever need an alternative 'point-de-vue' ! I 'm here!!! love and kisses....actionkid and jeff!!05/17/98 08:41:45Name: jeffMy Email: Email MeComments:wah.... actionkid, that record will be rather difficult to break!! i felt tired and my dick *oops! lady's around!* raw after that..... how did you manage? anyway, lynda think i won't mind having you around after some getting used to....will not be used t it now!! don't dare to say much infront of a lady!!05/17/98 04:07:53Name: Confused My URL: Visit MeMy Email: Email Me Your Nationality: singaporeanComments:Dear Friends, I have been following the stories in this section, and found that most of you are very open. I have a personl dilemma now: I fall in love with a social escort. I know to many it seems a crazy thing 'cos it is a pointless relationship. But I just could 't help myself. Is there no true love possible? But I must admit no one in his right mind will 'don't mind' his partner to be sleeping with other man (for $), right? Pse e-mail me so I can share more. Thanks.05/17/98 01:27:21Name: actionkidMy Email: Email MeYour Nationality: SingaporeanComments:Hey, jeff's-evil-twin.. you're SPOT ON in your views!!! Yeah.. those are exactly what I am going through, and waht I feel, except for that last bit about the old man part.. I'm trying my best to avoid that. It is not about marriage, etc.. but our own pers nal self.. we need to get the demons within us and keep them in leash.. through abstinence, careful consideration, etc, instead of shelving them and shutting them out of our lives. And jeff.. my record is still 7 times in 20hours..;P. heheheh.. it was one major long session in which I came almost every 1-3 hours.. and it was straight sex (ie with a girl.. those were the days back in the hostel..*sigh* ;P). Lynda.. I'm not sure about the rest, but I dun mind your presence here at all. As for having that ren ezvous.. well.. it's been a really long time since I've slept with another girl, aside from my gf. It doesn't look too possible at the moment.. sorry. Anyway, welcum to the club, nonetheless..;P *smooches* heheh...And George.. thanx for your comments. You can always drop me an email if you wanna chat about things.. To the rest of you sexy babes.. keep on croooooozing!!05/16/98 18:32:25Name: Lynda My Email: Email MeYour Fav Sextivity: licking, sucking,fxxking, Your Fav Body Type: nice abs, nice buns, nice phallic muscles...Your Nationality: exotic and uninhibitedComments:Hi Guys! Can I check in here too!? do you you all accept gals?...Hmmm maybe I can have some fun with actionkid!!...are you a hunk? mail me!05/16/98 18:30:52Name: LyndaMy Email: Email MeComments:Hi Guys! Can I check in here too!? do you you all accept gals?...Hmmm maybe I can have some fun with actionkid!!...are you a hunk? mail me!05/16/98 18:23:29Name: jeff - the evil twin mixComments:Dear actionkid, I have some assorted humble views which I would like to punctuate your exciting discussion on GAY SEX AND THE MARRIED MAN. 1. I think we all know that 'gayism' or being gay is a natural sort of instinct, which is really hard to control. If it could be, some of us would be turning straight and getting married or at home, and not cruising doing the most unproductive stuff while cruising!..[i know I will]As such it would really be difficult for any gay guy who has been happily crusing and enjoying it to stop a natural urge entirely. I suppose abstinence would be a better solution than total absence. 2. It depends on whether the partner is aware of the guys prefernces and whether she can accept it [i don't know, but from the looks of actionkid's dialogue, his partner seems to be aware of his preferences and little pastimes...issit tru?..actionkid?]Som times they subtly ccept it by feigning ignorance, because they love the guy so much,....and since it isn't another woman...can lah!! 3. the guy has to want to do it enough to stop it, he might not do it because of his partner but he might for himself, because he is tired of living a double life...this is more evedent when he becomes a father. With the birth of his son/daughter, he migh suddenly want to come clean and stop it all....what would junior say!!! I feel that it would not be the 'sanctity' of marriage, the partner or anyone else that would change his lifestyle, but the person himself. And one day, you might just have to be one of those Old Men at the toilets or in dark places, not because you have lost your charm, your body or your dashing good looks, but the fact that you can no longer flash yourself around, because you need to engage in your pastimes incognito.05/16/98 15:50:56Name: jeffMy Email: Email MeComments:yes.... have to agree...... sex IS good!!!! i cummed five times over a period of less than 48hrs..... wow!! such sensation!! now i am very tired and wanted to rest..... enjoy ! ciao!!05/16/98 15:13:13Name: actionkidComments:I'm sorry.. but I dun feel too comfortable about the current line of thoughts. Marriage, as an institution, is an ideal to begin with. Every marriage will come with its share of problems and it is up to the individual to know what's the right thing to do nd what's not. I believe in love, truth, honesty, trust and devotion. Perhaps I practise them differently.. and am more on the unconventional side. Nevertheless, these things will always stay true in my hearts.. and I know that my gf can see that too. As said.. sex IS sex... it is really no big deal to me. But love.. that's a different thing. Thus, I hope we can let this thing rest. Noone's perfect in this world.. and I know for a fact that I am far from being a saint. But, hell... I need to live to stay alive, as well as stay sane amidst the chaos.05/16/98 14:48:01Name: jeffMy Email: Email MeComments:hmm.... being married does not mean that you have to forget that you are a bi..... i just mean to say that one have to stay faithful if you are married and gay marriages are difficult to work in this country of ours. we cannot possibly forget that we are is after we get married but we must try to stop the pre-marriage behaviour of cruising and casual sexual encounters..... i am thinking of this not just in terms of the gay/bisexual world but it also applies to the straight world as well...... if one is no sure that he or she can remain faithful after marriage, then it will be much better to either not get married or slowly aclimate to married life before getting married..... well, anyway, it is always easier to talk and more difficult to do..... i won't k ow how i will behave until i have reached that stage.....so people, this is just an exchange of ideas, no bad feelings, ok?05/16/98 09:05:23Name: bruceMy Email: Email MeComments:This issue about staying faithful after marriage, I share jeff's sentiments totally....its conventional and some may slam it for being conservative....but in my opinion, marriage vows are not to be taken lightly and it's the only decent and right thing to do to stay faithful after making a promise...if a man cannot keep his promise, what else can he do? ....straying from a marriage is not an option --- whatever the orientation, conventional or alternative....just like all well-written contracts, the marria e one does not come with loopholes that one can just justify away as denying or forgetting your past...and even though an adulterer (yes, after marriage, the status quo would have come to this) would like to think he is unscathed by all this, it is likely to drain his marriage of everything it stood for...everything short of making a mockery of the sanctity of something born of love, trust and honesty...if someone comtemplating the big step of committing to someone else is not sure, the answer's very simpl ... dont do it...if the bride/groom cannot make you want to give up everything for her/him, then that you have just not found the right person yet or need to work on the relationship more --- marriage should not be on the cards at such a point in time --- its as simple as that05/16/98 07:50:47Name: GeorgeMy URL: Visit MeComments:Have been visiting this site for a long time & found actionkid to be very impressive! Perhaps, he may one day become a good writer. Well, actionkid, would like talk to you personally. I very well agree with your views on bi & appreciate your personal stan on it. Though, I have slightly different views, I would be glad to talk to you. I am myself married & struggling to avoid being a gay. Though, in the past 5 years, things have not exploded, occassionally, I feel very disturbed. Would talk to you, if you are interested. (I am 30years, Indian from India.)05/16/98 04:42:53Name: actionkidComments:ahboi.. hahahah.. man.. you're gonna kill me one of these days..;P Hey, bud.. how about meeting up for tea or sumthing one of these days, huh?05/16/98 04:35:07Name: actionkidComments:jeff.. I disagree strongly with your views about bisexuals and marriage. How can a guy turn around and suddenly disown everything that has happened in the past and become a totally new person? We are what we are and we cannot change the genetic and intell ctual aspects of our soul. The only thing we can do is control, moderate, whatever. You cannot just tell a person.. hey, you're married.. so please act straight from now on. We're NOT acting, and it is not a matter of putting up a front. If I am to stop h ving gaysex completely upon marriage, and if I make the absolute resolution to stop being gay.. well, I know for a fact that there will come a time when I'll just snap and everything will come tumbling down. You cannot just STOP. It is a long process of a cepting, sacrificing and putting things in perspective. You cannot tell me to stop... coz I will not.. I have to safeguard my personal sanity as well as the feelings of the other people whose lives I will affect... and to do that, I will just have to cont ol what I do, instead of forming a pressure cooker of suppressed sexual tension which is bound to explode and cause more damage. Its shitty, isn't it? Whoever says bisexuals get the best of both worlds??? 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HendryTan Posted May 9, 2007 Author Report Share Posted May 9, 2007 05/16/98 04:24:21Name: ahboi Comments:if u ask me, i'd say form follows function. if one chose to relate from a servitude echelon having auto down-level oneself, then nick69's observation will come as no surprise. nonetheless, it remain questionable if self-worth should intrude into sex, gay r not. if one set out to retrieve pleasure by first giving it, fine and well and go get it. its a form (pleasurable sex) supported by the function (enjoyable service). the idea is not to bundle guilt into it. the bed is an effective social leveller. rich r poor, old or young, all start horizontal. as for the age-old question of age, yep, its sobering to imagine how one will respond to the day when all that physical attributes is gone. but look at it this way, one may not have the mind to bother with the l ss anyway. nature have a way of taking care of things. it is not meant for a young mind to decipher the ways of the old. we won't comprehend it since we have yet to trod the path. meanwhile, enjoy posterity from the posterior.05/16/98 03:49:51Name: jeff My Email: Email Me Comments:wow.... all this in one night? was busy last night and now, we have the actionfamily and the debate going on.... thanks david for the comment, david right? *blur* anyway, personally think that though gay love and gay ltr is possible, it is very difficult in this society.... with no public means to express the love and sinceriety, one tends to lose track after awhile and then what happens? they are attracted by the slightest temptations..... life sucks, right? anyway, i do believe that once married to a wo an, a bi must stop gay sex.... just like stopping seeing other women for the straights..... me vely the old fashion hor?? anyway, who asked how i got sucked through the cubicle wall one hah? forgotten already, but here's how..... the toilets have a par ition (the wall) that is elevated such that when you kneel down, you can comfortable shove you dick over..... the toilets at suntec even better.... the elevation so high, you just have to bend down slightly...... ;p ok..... vely the tired.... gotto rest.. .chiao05/16/98 01:48:21Name: actionkid Comments:Nick.. you've just introduced another preconcieved idea that those average or below average guys are expected to perform better, that they will 'serve' better in sex and that they will, in a way, be the submissive sort. I agree in that looks is not everyt ing, and that those non-lookers can actually be gurrreat in sex. But at the same time, it would be wrong to say that the non-lookers are always ready to please. We're all human, and we do things to our own advantage. But that doesn't exactly define the pe ple that we are. To be honest, I personally feel guilty or abusive whenever I get someone who is so ready to please me to the extent that they'd let me fxxk them and all, just becoz they feel 'indebted' or 'privileged' that I was willing to go with them. t becomes a different ball game, and instead of enjoying the passion, you feel as though you're 'using' him. I dunno.. that's the way I feel. I think we've all got our own defence mechanism. We may not be the typical hunk, but hey.. we survive and we can till remain happy. Looks are not everything.. but at the same time, I do count my lucky stars whenever I look in the mirror, and I do thank Him for making me look the way I do. David... despite my scepticism, I do believe in gay love and I do believe gay relationships can last. But it takes two really devoted and sincere individuals to make it happen. Perhaps the problem with gay relationships is the fact that it is not widely acknowledged, and hence, there will always be the subconcious in our head s ying that, because of this non-acceptance, it is not meant to be something permanent. If all the gays are able to push away that social stigma and place unto themselves to take their relationships seriously, I do believe that there is the chance of a gay marriage' that will last a lifetime. It does not need a certificate or a tea ceremony or whatever to define a marriage.. what's important is that the two individuals feels strongly in becoming one, and they set their hearts and mind to maintaining that bo d. It is possible.. though hard to achieve.. but one can always hope. As for my direction once I settle down with my gf.. well, to be honest, I have no idea. I am just taking things as they come. I am fortunate to have someone who undersatnds me as being ho I am, and does not impose her own judgement or force on me to suppress my true nature. It is a liberating kind of feeling and with this, I can afford to remain me, without any feeling of being suppressed or inhibited. It does help me in a way, coz I am more aware of things around me, instead of being so concerned about trying NOT to be gay, and it pushes me to be doubly careful not to hurt the people around me, esp those I care about. For sure, I will be toning down on my gay lifestyle.. but I dun think I will make the concious effort to shut it completely out. Hell.. I dun plan on becoming one of those deprived dirty old men who hang around toilets! That would be horrendous!! If this gay thing fizzles out, so be it.. if it remains a part of me for the r st of my life, then I'll just have to remain discreet and concientious. That's real life... the way I see it... nothing is in black and white.05/15/98 17:42:47Name: Nick69 My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: 69 Your Fav Body Type: Asian Your Nationality: SG Comments:Looks do count, we have to face it.But just a week ago I was at fort roaf when this great looking guy jogged by.I'm chubby 28 but guys say I've a friendly look.We exchanged smiled and ended up at hotel 81 making passionate love for 4 hours.I asked him why he chose me being chubby and avergae looking when there were so many fit great looking guys there.He said:" I've met a lot of good looking guys but the sometimes seem to be choosy and are average in bed.We loose touch easily too.But with the average looki g guys they so eager to please and self concious and faithful.They give the greatest friendship and ..SEX.We've met 3 or 4 times and sex was great and I've met 2 other average looking guys and they were great in bed too.Looks do count, but you'll be surpr se whatthe average looker can do!05/15/98 16:50:11Name: david My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: kiss, hug, suck Your Fav Body Type: lean and mean Your Nationality: s'porean Comments:well, had been following the exchanges for a few weeks and thought that you guys sure sounds fun(sorry it took me weeks to discover that, no offences intended!) anyway, the sexual experiences by ahboi, actionkid, jeff and a few others were truely exciting never expect to find such things 'live' on the net. but i was wondering, anyone out there truely believe that a gay relationship would work out? all these ons sounds fun but what happens after that. i mean when you're old and unwanted, what happens. i'm y no means a greenhorn, being 27 this yr with lots of sex behind me but it's that once you past the age of say 25, you starts to panic(or do you not?) really would like to hear you views on this. as for actionkid, being bi, are you going to carry on your ay sex after marriage? just wondering. sorry to you guys if i sound serious. hey! i could provide more exciting mails in future!05/15/98 16:43:19Name: Eugene My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: XXXX Your Fav Body Type: Smooth Your Nationality: Singaporean Comments:say any one acre to know realli cool eurasian call me/ drop me a line at 7921261...perhaps we can get to know one another better and chat!!!!!05/15/98 05:44:15Name: actionkid Comments:aaaaaaaarrrgh!! DADDY.. whatcha doing here???!!!05/15/98 05:28:45Name: ActionMan! Comments:Hi!...I'm ActionMan! [with exclamation mark] just thought I'd drop by to say hi!...I'm here if you need me....Oh! and I see my kid's in here too!...heh heh heh ...aren't you a little young for this sort of thing?...boy?.....heh heh heh05/15/98 05:20:07Name: actionkid Comments:just a quickiedie note to all your lovely sexy people (Chee Kin included..;P) Hehehe.. I can't stay away for too long.. Just a short one.. Chee Kin.. I understand perfectly your predicament and I agree totally that someday, we will come to a stage whereby guys will no longer want us. Hell.. I do feel it now already.. coz somehow, after going past 25, some dudes seem to think that I've gone beyond that 'desireable' stage. Fortunately for me, though.. I still look below 25.. Still.. that is the reality. Bu , if you close your eyes and look at things with your heart, it doesn't matter how you look or how you dress. If everyone does that, ultimately, it is your personality and the personal belief in yourself that will bring out the true you, and it is that th ng that people will ultimately fall in love with. Yeah.. sure, I can get sex easily.. and I can hook a good looking hunk anytime. But it is a shallow and empty conquest. If I am truly gay, and if I plan on leading a gay life, with someone to love and take care of me, I doubt I will indulge in so much cruising. It is your own choice.. and you control your life. In a way, I'm not in the same boat as some of the other true gay guys... I'm in a sampan, actually... very fragile and can easily sink. But, hey.. t at is my choice.. and I'm just gonna keep on rowing it as far as I can...05/15/98 03:10:20Name: ahboi Comments:hey actionkid - u do say the darndest thing why, thank you for the nice adjectives! it feels nice to be missed. hahahah. and j(eff)et - don't be so holey moley abt ze wall. go check it out. and cum back with ze firsthand report. ah, chee kin, what can say man. inspite of your low self-appraisal, were u not still able to score ? remember your JP joust ? so chill out man, go with the flow. and gayhood is only as narrow as u imagine it to be. no doubt, physical beauty had been celebrated throughout the e istence of mankind. some are destined to lead, others follow. its perfectly ok to follow. If there is no diff, all be alike. how very the boring. i believe He can be fair if u are fair to yourself first. why ? only u can decide for yourself what u choose o believe. look through the eyes of love and u'll see love. the worst disservice one can do to oneself is to seek the company of blame. peace brutha'.05/14/98 17:24:57Name: jeff's evil twin Comments:Hi my twin, but did you say you got sucked through the walls?..meaning,...the walls had holes in them?....05/14/98 16:11:38Name: Chee Kin My Email: Email Me Your Nationality: Malaysian Comments:Hello everyone, this place is still as interesting and getting better as the first day I got here. I noticed that last week, this nearly turned into an Aunt Aggie Column, unfortunately, I wasn't able to write in as I was having my exams. Very interesting omments, views and questions. Anyway, I realised I'm getting more and more envious of the regulars who are always able to get into encounters which I thought only occur in sleazy p--n movies and stories. Tha fact that everyone single human being is born the way one should be, I have s opped grumbling to Heaven about how unfair He has been. But I always reckon that something else in life makes up for the loss in physical beauty. I hold this belief strongly: this is a fair world; He is fair. Agree? It's very hard for people to accept this fact especially in gayhood where physical beauty determines how 'successful' you are in the circle. Sometimes, I wish I'm not gay, though it's impossible at all that I become straight. To me, being gay is not of ch ice but of what I am since I was in my Mum's womb. I feel very annoyed when some of you post very humiliating comments about the fat, old and ugly gays though sometimes I know it's not intentional. Bear in mind, you will be old and ugly and maybe fat one day. When that day arrives, you will understand how people like us feel. I'm not old, just 21 and I feel old. Worse still, adding to the fact that I'm fat and ugly too. How sad!05/14/98 10:06:35Name: jeff My Email: Email Me Comments:hi there, my evil-twin!! ;p glad that you took it with a pinch of salt!!!...... just dropping by and decided to say hi...... i just came back from JP and was sucked off by 2 guys through the toilet cubicle walls...... the ah pek at one side is good and th boyboy at the other side is also good at sucking!! well.... it will be heaven if the people walking into the toilet will wait for me to cum first!! anyway, just recieved a call from a fellow u/g saying that he wants to meet up with me..... most probably nd up with sex..... he says he will try to get a room...... or else we will do in a toilet in, yes, campus.....anyone here also have sex in campus? care to share with me the experience? i know you had had, actionkid..... ;p05/13/98 16:01:27Name: actionkid Comments:thanx for your concern, jeff's-evil-twin... I'm touched. I appreciate it and you can rest assured that I shall not make this thing a habit. Anyway, I've sorta sworn celibacy for the next coupla weeks. (Man.. I hope I get through it alive!! I'm already beg nning to sweat and shudder at the thought...) NO SEX at ALL! eeeurgh! ahboi dearie.. one of the reasons why this page is so utterly fascinating is your presence.. heheh.. it won't be the same without your short-n-sharp anecdotes..;P So, you have to keep t em cumming, okay? Actually, I was thinking of asking you to accompany me to that place the next time I decide to visit it.. but since you're more or less a one-man possession.. I guess that'll have to be cancelled... sigh. Okay dudes.. time to check if my chastity belt is buckled up tightly.. seeya'all!!05/13/98 15:47:26Name: jeff Comments:hi Actionkid, I'm the other jeff's evil twin...heh heh heh.I just wanna say....please take care and be careful about such places and practices....you seem like a nice guy, i don't want you to get hurt....05/13/98 10:43:02Name: jeff My Email: Email Me Comments:well, i am really glad that no one has taken any offense..... yet! i read what i had posted and i feel like apologizing..... i mean anyone who follows anyone who is not interested in him is being irritating...... man, let him have the fun and maybe he wil want you one of these days...... ;p...... thanks ahboi for the info, will be going for a trip in july......most probably either australia or hk.......so, any info please pass over to me..... thanks a million!! keep them cumming!!05/13/98 10:22:31Name: ahboi Comments:it never fail to fascinate me how this page becomes more interesting > a brief absence. actionkid - looks like u are in the modus of " i don't look like how i look but i know who i was ". if u ask me, there's no need for apology as we all have our pref rences and to each his own, i say. and what a stimulating account ! alas, it will have to remain a fantasy for me as i can only handle one dick at a time. *winK*. and jeff, if u are hitting sydney, try out the Midnite Shift on oxford street. its a disco f lled with young, hunky and white bois. in fact, the whole oxford adjoining paddington is one long joint of bars and discos. if u like, u can also eat and sleep right in the midst of the action as many quaint eateries and hotels are sited here, for obvious reasons. plu knows how to live it up. and when in doubt, ask. ozzie males at oxford are generally a friendly lot. u'll have to be very 'sway' to encounter any of paulie's henchmen. as for timing, october (sleazeball) and march (mardi gras) are good plu ti e to visit. hahahah. so, enjoy and come back with your tales.05/13/98 08:17:39Name: actionkid Comments:one last thing.. I have no personal grudges towards that guy who followed me. What I did not appreciate was the fact that he stuck to me like a leech and even pushed away some of the other fellows (who were quite droolsome) just so that he could have me a l to himself. I was polite enuff to let him do whatever he wanted with me.. but please.. you can't control me, man!! Thus, it is really not about him being fat.. not at all. If some guys became offended with regards to this matter, I apologise profusely. ll of us are entitled to cruise, and in being gay, we come in all shapes and sizes.05/13/98 08:08:33Name: actionkid Comments:hey jeff.. thanx for that advice.. I appreciate it. But don't forget, I DO have a life aside from this cruising shit. I've got my gf whom I see almost every other day, if not every single day, my friends whom I meet up every other weekend, and of course, y work, which I spend a helluva lot of time on..;o I try to live life to the fullest.. coz this is the only time where I'll get to do such stuffs. And safe sex is a must. I've never had any STD, and neither do I plan on getting infected.. and definitely n t with HIV. I'm clean, and I hope to stay that way. As for the addiction bit.. well.. I admit.. I'm itching to do it all again. But I just tell myself that I have exceeded my quota of gaysex for the week (or is it the month??) and it is time for me to foc s on other things, like work, and my gf, for example.. she's quite unhappy about what I did.. . Thus, I doubt you guys will see me at ECP this weekend.. or hear of much sexciting stories for the time-being. I'll survive... a lil discipline can go a long ay..;P. Yeah.. one more thing.. so.. you've decided to go global, eh, jeff? too bad I dun have any stories from HK or Ozland...still, good luck in your globe*wink* trotting, man!05/13/98 06:48:08Name: jeff My Email: Email Me Comments:oh, almost forgotten..... anyone with info on Auatralia can also mail me ..... thanks a billion!!05/13/98 06:44:54Name: jeff My Email: Email Me Comments:hmm.... actionkid, don't get addicted to the 'mass orgy' thing..... it can be very addictive and it can also be very dangerous.... look out! ;p...... talking about 'fans', do you notice that 'fans' are almost always the fat old guys??? no offence but do y u think that following people around makes people want you? almost always these 'fans' spoil the fun and the sexitment of cruising...... again no offense please!! anyone know about anything in hongkong? please mail me if you have any info on gay places i hongkong....thanks!!05/13/98 03:07:31Name: actionkid My Email: Email Me Your Nationality: Singaporean Comments:Okay.. here is my blow-by-blow account, by special request. But firstly, I'd like to acknowledge that what's written here is based on a first time experience, and I will keep it all strictly factual. Blowing Wind has already included his personal experien es in Bangkok and I think those are truly great proses which, in a way, is basically what you'll read here again. I've never been to Bangkok, and hence, there's no comparison for me. Anyway, it is still an experience, and quite a shocking one too, knowing that it is actually so close, in our supposedly more 'morally suppressed' neighbouring country. So.. here goes.. RYU Members' is basically a sex club which runs in the same vein as those in Bangkok.. like babylon, etc, though perhaps much much smaller and cosier in style. The exterior is totally unassuming. All you see is a coffeeshop with big Coca-cola signs and next to it, you see a lil stairway with two dragon heads above it. That is the entrance. As you make your way up the dinghy staircase, there is t e sudden dingdong sound to announce your arrival. As I went through the small door, I was greeted enthusiastically by this rather chubby friendly guy. He was all smiling and pleasant and asked if it was my first time. In my excitement, I said yes and fum led around in my bag for the money. The charge is RM25 entrance fee, plus RM20 for the one-off membership fee for first timers. I was so excited that I handed him a RM2 instead of the intended RM50. Immediately, he gave me a cheeky smile and called on his other receptionist friend and together, they came out, said that RM2 is only worth their own personal services, and immediately started 'molesting' me all over! heheh.. I guess that sorta set the tone for the night! I immediately took out my money, just s that the two of em could release me. I said thanks, gave them a wink and told them that they can always join me later.. which drew an enthusiastic laugh..;P Upon payment, I was handed the keys to my locker. I went over to the locker room, and changed int the towels that they provided. And then, the exploration begins! Near the reception, there is this mini bar which serves soft drinks (RM2), coffee and tea (which is on the house) and an MTV.. just around the size of a HDB bedroom. And next to it, you see this really cool gym with fairly good apparatus. But you only see one or two guys working out there, in their towels..;P On the other side of this first floor, there is a nice lil japanese style mini garden where people can just sit around (that was where this rather plumpish dude saw me, and he followed me everywhere thereafter..;( ). And there is a small sauna, a shower room and the toilets. Everything is quite space-constraint.. but it suits me fine. And then.. there is the stairwell which leads to the econd floor. And it suddenly becomes a whole new world! There is a reading lounge, for people to get a breather in between all that action. To its right, you see the dark corridor, leading to the airconditioned darkroom (the aerobics room, actually). On t e left, is the larger darkroom sauna, and the showers. And just next to the stairwell, is the jacuzzi. When I say dark.. I do mean jetblack! I couldn't see anything as I went in and I tripped over several naked guys in the room. But none of them took any ffence. Instead, they grabbed at my legs and tried to get me to join in.. some even sucking my cock as I walked by them! The sauna was steaming and sizzling with action. There were a lot of sweaty guys caressing one another and giving blowjobs, etc. As I alked, I could see that some guys would always be eyeing me, or assessing me. And if they're interested, they're not shy to just follow me closely and as soon as we got into any of the dark places, they'd immediately rip off my towel. I had to push away s me of the advances, coz it got a bit out of hand for me at times. I've had like 4-5 people going all over me in the dark, and there were still many hands groping every exposed part of my body. Even in the open jacuzzi, I had guys trying to twiddle with my dickie.. and that fan of mine even went to the extent of going underwater to give me a blow..;P I had to take quite a lot of breathers.. just to cool it off. I walked in and out.. and everytime, there was something happening.. and the sounds were extremel erotic.. a lot of moans and groans. It is quite ironic, coz despite all that mass participation, the ultimate sexual experience I had there was a one-to-one with this chap I saw at the gym (refer to earlier posting). But it was definitelly sexually fulfi ling and I can understand why some guys can get so hooked on all this sex clubs. One advice, though.. regardless how inviting the environment is, it is always good to be safe. I've had a few guys shove my dick in their ass while I was in the sauna, but so ehow, with this kinda place, it never hurts to be safe. That's all folks. I'm sorta having a hangover right now.. hence the serious tone. Maybe will be better later.. ciao!05/12/98 16:12:18Name: actionkid Comments:barebutt... I never really mean to sound obnoxious.. I guess it was all said out of a moment of frustration. I hope noone was too offended by it. ECP is not hard to find. Once you get to FR, just follow your nose and eyes and I'm certain you'll get to the beach. Maybe I'll seeya there one of these weekends, eh, barebutt? I kinda enjoy being close to nature myself.. got this habit of leaving my trunks behind as I go dipping in the sea..;P Okay all you sexy people out there.. I need to go for my rest and rec very..;P seeya in the morning!!05/12/98 16:05:36Name: actionkid Comments:Phewey!! I did it again!! I actually went down to JB and gotten myself into one of them truly lecherous, disgusting, immorally extravagant debauchery! BTW, welcum back, Singuy... surprised to seeya again after that long absence.Also, I've always known of his Ryu place.. it caused quite a stir when it opened some months back in the gay scene and it is quite hard to miss. But I've never really bothered checking it out, coz firstly, I needed someone to show me how to get there. JB is not exactly my playgroun .. can get lost or raped (if I AM capable of (being raped), that is.. ).. you never know..;P Anyway... I went, I did it and OH MAN!!! It's sizzling HOT! The only bummer was that I happened to be the object of desire of this rather 'fat' and overly insis ent, possessive chap who kept trailing me everywhere, making my cruising experience there quite unsavoury and restrictive at times.. But.. man.. I could see so many hot looking dudes! And everyone seemed to be hungry for manflesh.. it doesn't take long o get a suck at all! And I had to go in and out of the steam room several times just to cool off coz the action there was really sizzling! It was dark and as soon as you enter, someone would rip your towel off and give you a good blow! And some of the guy 'd actually stand by the doorway so that they can see who they're sucking up to.. And when it got too hot, I immersed myself into the jacuzzi.. only to get some other guys joining in to play footsie with my dickie! (Of course, my fan followed me everywh re I went..sigh) And there was this darkroom, airconditioned and perfect for that final touch.. which I indulged in after over three hours of foreplay and being blown etc. Heheh.. A hunky stud actually led me there and as soon as I got in, he locked the d or, so that my fan couldn't get in.. And whew! We did almost everything in there.. except for that fxxking thing, coz neither of us had a rubber. There was a nice mattress and man.. I've never shot SOO MUCH!!I was fxxking steamed up!! Man oh man oh man!! 'm sorry if my report seems a bit dishevelled.. sheesh.. I AM dishevelled! I look like a sexcrazed-dildo-after-its-first-vibration!! I'm sure that when I wake up in the morning, all this will appear like a dream.. a VERY WET one! MAN!!.. I'll try and writ with greater sanity tomorrow morning.. MAN oh MAN!!! I can't think.. totally BLOWN away!! help!05/12/98 16:03:57Name: barebutt My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Nationality: SG Comments:actionboy, did not mean to get you all flustered over this issue. A sincere apology for all that fuss. I guess you are right about this getting out there and finding the place. A little out of touch I must say. Anyways to all you guys out there, if you see a new butt, that most probably me. K if you read this well I guess I have answered your mail. Hope to see you there soon. BB05/12/98 14:04:04Name: Metaman My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: versatile Your Fav Body Type: trim and toned Your Nationality: sporean Comments:Shopping in SC on my off-day, I "chanced" upon this cute guy who crossed my path at the supermarket - our eyes met, if only briefly - but there was something definitely there. I followed him around the ground floor, at a distance but too shy to make the f rst move. I could see his eyes following me - but alas! I just could not make the first move.I sensed some mutual interest there too. My regret..so if you were that cute guy at Carrefour, at about 6.30pm (Tuesday) - you'll know who I am. Email me if you a e the one - this time I'll be faster! (Tell me what you wore, for confirmation) Cheers - Metaman05/12/98 09:41:22Name: SinGuy My URL: Visit Me Comments:I am surprised nobody really knew about this place in JB before - RYU Members Suana if thats the one that is being talked about - Nah, havn't been there myself but had heard about it from a guy from JB I had met once.05/12/98 07:30:51Name: actionkid Comments:umm.. I dun mean to sound curt or rude, but honestly.. it is not difficult to find the ECP beach at Fort Road... Check out the street directory.. look for Fort Road, and follow the map. It's there, just make your way to the roundabout at the end of the EC service road, get to the reclaimed site and just follow the path that goes south towards the beach. You're bound to hit it! I shall not post any more further details as to how to get there coz I think we should just safeguard these places so that the inf rmation do not get to the wrong people. And I'm sure you guys should understand... it is quite exasperating having to give the same instructions over and over again. No pain no gain, man.. GET OUT THERE and EXPLORE! BTW, barebutt, you should check out the beach too.. it's private enuff for some bare-butting, with enuff cruisers to appreciate them too.. 05/12/98 03:41:11Name: barebutt My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Nationality: sg Comments:Sorry, I did not write exact e-mail the address. This should work for those who tried to e-mail me. Still hoping someone will e-mail me on my request. barebutt05/11/98 10:51:38Name: Toro My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Comments:Hi Ahboi or Actionkid, could you guys pls tell me how do I get to ECP or Fort Road beach. Many thanks in advance.05/11/98 09:48:47Name: ahboi Comments:was @ lot1 this morning to catch a movie with my cc. aiyoh, very the cruisy mall. lotsa #s milling around altho' most are seen to be in pairs. and while waiting for cc to draw $ fr the atm, in q was a daddy and his little boi boi who was pawing his daddy' chubby body, tracing daddy's delicious curvy contour all over with the atm card. at one point, daddy's polo shirt was lifted by junior to briefly reveal a smooth round mound. have to swallow my saliva many times. yum yum ! dat lucky little devil. i think cc caught me in my reverie as when he finished his atm transaction, he gave me a dirty look and a tight pinch at my abs. ouch. as a compensation, we fooled around a little in the semi-darkness of the cinema and rushed back to his place to round 'it' off. he things one do for lust. what more can i say ? hey actionkid, had heard much about the sauna in jb but had not checked it out yet. please post details soon. needless to say, we want a blow by blow account, u hear ? :-)05/11/98 02:21:52Name: actionkid Comments:hey ahboi.. you were at Katong Pool? Hmm.. sooner or later the two of us WILL cross paths.. or perhaps, we've already done so, without our knowledge..;P I can't write much right now, but I think I just wanna let you guys know.. I've finally checked out Ta oo last week and well... umm.. I'll talk more about that next time *wink*. Also, a friend of mine is bringing me to one of them gay places in JB. Its supposed to be like Babylon in BKK. I haven't been to any of these places and hence, I'm kinda curious. I ll keep you guys posted. Hey.. I'm doing all these for the benefit of you people out there who's still kinda shy about jumping in..;P heheheh.. call me your personal cub reporter/ guinea pig, whatever.. As some of you might've noticed.. why the hell am indulging so much of these gay stuffs lately when I'm supposedly 'not gay'? Umm.. maybe there is a subconcious. Let's just say that if ever I have to get out of this lifestyle, I wanna look back and say that "I've done it all and made my peace".. So.. PE CE!!05/10/98 16:12:27Name: Nick69 My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: 69 Your Fav Body Type: Asian Your Nationality: SG Comments:Hey its a long weekend and i couldn't help but feel horny again, especially in this cold weather so I risked taking a walk along Elizabeth walk late last night.It was incredibly cold near the merlion and I decided to take a rest there.Suddenly out of nowh re came this young looking guy smiling.Hey..I knew we were both looking for the same thing so I smiled back.He gestered me to follow his to a dark corner and as I leaned against the wall the slowly unzippped me.God with the cold wind blowing it felt great We couldn't get enough of each other so we booked a room at hotel 81.We took a nice shower together ,soaping each other till he was hard again...then in the cool quiet room I slowly nibbled his nipples and brought me hot wet tongue to his balls.It was soo oo satisfying.No worries...a nice cool bed and doing the 69 .We both came 3 times and he tasted so fresh and warm.He was so sensual.standing behind me kissing as we stood in front of the mirror.It was erotic as hell.Can't wait till the next long weekend.< > 05/10/98 12:25:04Name: ahboi Comments:aiyoh jeff ah, 40% success rate cannot be the same difference as 10% ! it is 300% better than my track record leh ! take my hat off to you man. btw actionkid, i was down at katong pool after lunch and was quite thrown off when this guy came up to ask if i was interested in following him 'somewhere'. my look so the obvious meh ? gave him the cold shoulder man; altho' i later regretted (little bit lah) when i saw he have a cute dick (while in the shower stall). anyway.... and don't be miffed with labels lah. they are quite meaningless one. don't think jeff(2) mean any malice. no doubt he do have a point. u seemed to be immensely enjoying your manly pursuits. go get 'em man. i'm meeting cc tonite for u-no-wat lah as he had just returned from outstation. hmm , i hope he missed me very the much cos' i'm horny like hell when i think of him man. *winK* . oh be4 i go, nick69 - yummy contribution, i enjoyed imagining how it was like to be on the bench receiving head. looked like your getting off work was in the ni k of time. all the best and hear more from ya. 05/10/98 12:09:05Name: actionkid Comments:okay.. let's be frank here. The success rate in cruising is about 20-30% on the average and if the guy is exceptionally good looking, it might even be less than 10%.. even for me. Thus, if the rest of you guys seem to be 'troubled' by our apparent overwhe ming success in getting a fxxk.. well, dun despair. Its not that easy and I've had my lousy days too (which I never mention in this homepage, for obvious reasons..;P)... As ahboi sez.. go for the kill!! And you might end up with a good thrill.. Which wa what I did today.. (MAN.. I AM SUCH A SLUT!!!! I think I have to accept that fact without a doubt..;P) I actually went down to the exact same spot that I went to last week, hoping to bump into the two scrumplitious cyclists that I missed last weekend. An waddaya know.. they were there again! And this time, I made up my mind that I'm going to hook one of them, at least! Mmmm.. but that was the tough bit, coz they were so fxxking straight looking, and it was difficult to get one of em alone. And they were ust too good looking it became quite impossible for poor lil old me to get at them. Also, there were all these other guys.. and they were practically showing everything they've got just to catch the attention of these two hunks!.. hummmph!! Fortunately fo me, though, one of em (the same one who tried to get my attention last weekend) actually acknowledged my efforts and he gave me a wink, a quick smile and a gentle squeeze on his crotch. Heheheh.. you can't imagine how ecstatic I was! (I know.. I'm SOOO P THETIC!!) I felt much more relaxed thereafter and just lay down on the beach again knowing that he was a lil bit interested in me..;P Also, I could see that he didn't show the slightest interest in all the other chaps.. haha! Coz he seemed to 'flick' them aside with his looks.. quite painfully obvious. Meanwhile, there were lots of other guys who were also cruising around and trying to get at me too.. sheesh... ECP is terribly busy during weekends!!! And in cruising.. a lil may be as much that you can get. Just coz I couldn't get him doesn't mean I've failed.. Hey.. I'm happy.. btw, jeff.. was that your evil twin or sumthing?05/10/98 09:22:53Name: jeff My Email: Email Me Comments:uhh..... there is another jeff izzit??? someone else wrote the message about you being a gay and not a bi, actionkid...... not me.....i am the jeff that still owe you a lunch ;p ..... anyway, not that i am against that guy or something but could that jeff kindly change the nick or include a number or sumthing after 'jeff' so as not to create confusion? *thanks!!* and ahboi, about the 10% success rate during cruising, don't worry, cos think mine is about 40% only..... so, not much of a diff!! as long as one enjoys the process and not being misled........uhmm.... donch know what i am saying..... blah, blah, blah...... anyway, still got the report to finish in two weeks!! *gasp!* so, enjoy yourselves, guys!05/10/98 03:45:59Name: ahboi Comments:just got home and thot i'd say hi be4 going out to lunch with mom. its mom's day u know. actionkid - hmmmmm, new meaning to reaping rewards huh ? guess u must have sowed a good deed or 2 (other than oats i.e.) in the past. otherwise, how cum can dapat thi lobang ? hehehheh. anyway, the return of 50 bucks can come in handy as an excuse for a rerun or should i say replay ? *winK* and jeff, the angmoh deal was kinda like having pieces falling together and these always turn out to be the more enjoyable episo es. i wasn't out to crooze in the first place. really. cross my heart. and my croozing record is dismal : for every one successful hunt, there's ten (if not more) failures. success rate -10% ! but u-no-me lah, never say die one. hahahahha. who knows, i may get lucky again at lunch today. i feel good. yeah.05/10/98 03:26:10Name: actionkid Comments:well.. jeff, I think I'd rather not label myself as anything. Yeah.. sure, I'm gay, by ahboi's definition.. I'm just trying to get the best out of life and be happy as I live. Nuthing wrong with that, right? So.. anyone heading down to ECP today?05/09/98 20:39:38Name: jeff Comments:Aiyah! Actionkid ! from the experiences you have been having I think you can give up calling yourself Bi olreadi lah!!!...You are a honest to goodness GAY!!! he he he Congratulations! sis!05/09/98 14:57:03Name: Nick69 My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: 69 Your Fav Body Type: Asian Your Nationality: SG Comments:An interesting thing happened just last night.I had finished work and was walking back along Tampines avenue 9.It was about midnight and I decided to walk back as it was cool after the rains.Anyway as I passed the new park near blocks 450s this handsome l oking hunk jogged past and smiled.I stopped further up along the park to rest my weary leggs and he came up again in his skimpy soft shorts and tank top.He stopped in front of me and bent forward to tie a loose lace and wow...he wasn't wearing anything an was huge.In a few mins we were under the shelter...me in my tie and business suit and him unbuckling me and taking all of my erection into his soft wet lips.After I came he turned round and started rubbing his butt against my semi hard cock...I couldn't elp it...I did him doggie style and came again but I wanted to thank him so I slowly made him cum into my mouth as he laid back on the park bench.It was a perfect ending to a tired and boring work day.05/09/98 07:48:10Name: actionkid Comments:hahah.. ahboi.. yep, we're both sluts..;P Anyway.. lemme continue with my prose.. (had to go for a meeting earlier...) And so we were on the floor. Isn't it amazing how our body react naturally at coping with weight when we're in heat? He was hunky and mu h heavier than I am, yet I didn't feel at all burdened as he lay on top of me, with all his kisses. And after a while, he brought me to his boudoir.. and we started dropping our clothes along the way, making quite a mess of his living room.. But who car s!? We got onto the bed and didn't waste anytime in going for the sex. He was a good sucker and nearly made me cum several times.. stopping just at the right moment. He was smooth and i had a fine time licking all over his sexy hard bod, admiring all the urves and lines. I blew him and he even prodded me on to suck on his balls and rim his ass with my tongue. He was pulsating with pleasure and it turned me even more. And just as I was about to slobber him further, he suddenly grabbed me and practically th ew me onto my back. He told me to turn around, and since I was feeling exceptionally slutty that night *wink*, I turned and offered him my bubble butt.. But instead of rimming or fxxking me, he actually took out some massage oil and started spreading it on my back. I could feel his strong hands giving me a good rub down.. erotic and warm. I've never felt so relaxed before and was already beginning to give soft moans of pleasure. It was also then that he took out a piece of rubber and asked if he could go inside me. Ummm... well.. I sorta gave a scrunched up expression and I guess he undertsood that I'm still pretty much virgin butted and have reservations about getting fxxked. He was sweet and told me it was okay.. Instead, he asked if I can give him a assage. Heheheh.. I guess it has gone one circle. And he taught me how to do it.. which I thought was quite cool! And yeah.. somehow, it did seem kinda erotic. And then, whilst still lying on his front, he flicked the rubber packet at me. I guess that was an invitation.;P~ heheh.. and well, I rimmed him further, to make sure that he was really wet in there.. As he lay there.. he looked so strong, yet soft.. and as I slid into him, it felt like fire going through me. I continued to give him a massage as I f cked his tight pair of buns. I could see him enjoying my gentle movements and moaning, interspersed with words which I failed to recognise as I got totally lost in my actions.. . Everytime, I felt like cumming, he'd tell me to go slow, coz he really wan ed to prolong the whole thing. I gues it was only around 1 and a half hour later that I finally came. By then, I was so steamed up that I shot buckets! heheh.. all contained in the rubber, though. I blew him further and after a while, he took over and st rted jacking himself till he came, as I carried on nibbling at his earlobes and breathing heavily there.. He was orgasmic..;P And we lay there for another ten minutes or so, before proceeding for the showers. And sheesh... I later realised that it was pas 12.30am and I had to go to work in the morning! But that pal of mine is kewl and he offered to drive me home. But since it was out of the way, I declined. I told him I'll make my own way home.. Anyway, after my shower and all.. and after I reached home.. I actually found a fifty dollar note in my bag... with an accompanying note which said that it was for payment for the earlier services.. and given with goodwill. Hmmph.. We'll be meeting again next week or so, after his trip to Australia, and I think I' l return the money to him... The things I get myself into sometimes!!!05/09/98 05:36:29Name: ahboi Comments:last evening turned out to be an affirmation (of sorts) of what i had feared. i am a slut. no doubt about it. the evening got off to an impatient start. we (barely) made our way to the room and was already shedding our rags the moment the door shut, amids groping and tongue-ing. it was hot and we were wet with sweat inspite of the air conditioning. he's hirsute and his belly was one fuzzy mound, with his dick poking out from his pubic bush, looking like a little (yea, little) pole with a nazi helmet right on top. he admired (?) my smooth and taut bod and caressed it with both his hands and eyes. i felt desire and desired and it turned me on. we fell onto the floor and was soon in the soixante-neuf position and filled our mouth with each other's manhood. hi prick has a mild vodka taste to it. funny. dunno how and when, we ended up on the bed and he lifted me on top of him. he wet his dick and lodged the head at my anus. i stopped him. don't wanna go there, i said. on hearing that, he turned around and offer d me his arse. i put on a rubber and lubed it and proceed to go where i was invited. it was a pleasant and smooth entry. i lingered without stroking and grabbed his tits. his nipples were hard (unusual for an angmoh, i'd tell u) and i kneaded them gently nd began my strokes. long, slow and gentle. no moans, nothing. silence except for the squiggy sound of entry and exit. my time to unload soon arrived and i let it go. he felt my shudders and waited for me to withdraw before he turned to face me. i took hi hard member and gave him a handjob while licking his nipples. when his breath quickened, i rushed to finish him off. and he was very vocal with his orgasm. we held for a moment and dozed. i was awaken by my hardening dick. that's another episode which i' l relate when i get home tonite. later. BTW astro - your chim question have a simple answer : wisdom is best delivered in silence. whatever u chose to believe in, don't allow it to be self righteous or worse, self congratulatory. gay, if not slanged, mean joy. for that, u need only to feel. its all lost if u think that there is a higher meaning to it all. it doesn't have to be. 05/09/98 03:16:02Name: actionkid Comments:ahboi.. I'd definitely kowtow to you for your forwardness..;P I should seriously look at you as being my worthy opponent!!.. hmm... But I think the fundamental difference in our styles is that I tend to be the 'on-the-spot' kinda guy.. I usually avoid mak ng plans, etc.. it involves less commitment and emotions that way. Can't have it any other way, man... Also, you're more entitled to the men than I am.. if u know what I mean... Aaanyway, I recieved a really weird page yesterday. After work, someone p ged me and when I called back, he introduced himself.. I totally have no idea who he is. But he seems to know me and he said that we've never met, but he's heard quite a bit about me. DUH!! Anyway, he asked if we could meet up. I was hesitant and asked hi lots of questions. After sometime, I more or less figured out that he sounds sincere, and he definitely sounds straight too, and his voice had a certain manly charm in it. (another weakness of mine..;P) And so it went... He told me he'd pick me up near m place later in the evening. I didn't have anything better to do anyway. All I had to do was look for a red car... and yeah... he turned up punctually.. in a red jaguar! I wasn't even sure coz the guy driving it was actually a stud.. the sort I would defi itely lust after..;P It just seemed too good to be true but he smiled at me and asked to confirm my name. And sheesh.. he told me to get in..I suddenly felt overwhelmed by insecurity.. hmm.. what was his expectations?? But strangely, it wasn't as tough.. oz this guy is suave and he was friendly and talked with total ease. After a while, I relaxed and we were chatting like old friends.. and it was also then that I found out that someone had given him my number telling him that I'm one of those massage boys with extra services!! Yikes!!! I suddenly felt real cheap and angry, in a way.. I told him to stop and let me out. I'm not for hire, man! But well.. he felt quite bad about it and told me that he didn't mean it to come out that way. And he's not overly de perate for a massage. Somehow, he persuaded me to stay and when we finally reached his apartment (rather nice bachelor pad at HV), I was all calm again. He got me a drink and we chatted a lil bit more.. I found out quite a bit about him and for a 31yo guy he sure as hell accomplished a lot! And not to mention, looking really young and studlicious..;P Yeah.. after a half hour or so, I was drooling. heheh. His lights were dim as we sat in his living room and he had this kewl music on(Chris Spheeris, I think . one of them new age stuff..) the atmosphere seemed so right somehow, and soon.. he was over me and we were lustily groping all over..;P His hands felt around my buns and gently caressed them as he kissed me on my neck and nibbled at my lobes. I was feel ng around the tight muscles on his bod and stroking his hair as he slobbered over me. I could feel his hardening cock against me and it got me real hard too.. We were there in an embrace for almost a half hour or so.. from the sofa and, later, onto the ca pet... with the music playing softly in the background... (to be continued..;P)05/08/98 15:39:33Name: jeff My Email: Email Me Comments:wah ahboi! you are good man!! so fast got a date already!! well....... good luck and have lots of fun! and, actionkid..... you too! have lotsa fun!!...... i will be very busy these few days and so i cannot spend time for a good cruise.... ..... so you g ys have a good time, ok??05/08/98 11:18:33Name: ahboi Comments:yo. was out at OPH earlier today for lunch at Modestos and was promptly croozed by a delectable angmoh the moment i got out from my boss's car. the eye, the come hither smile was all too obvious. even my lunch guest (italian) noticed the flirtation and as ed whether if it was because of my gucci knit top which i wore frontally exposed from chest to navel that sent the wrong signals. duh. fact is i didn't dare to tell him that the signals were not wrong at all. i was born to kill and have to dress for it *w nK* i speeded up our passage to the cafe and when the drinks were ordered, i excused myself begging a loo call. of cos' i took a detour instead to check out the angmoh. and was a tad disappointed when he wasn't where he was. when i got back to the cafe, m guest noticed my (cresfallen?) expression and prompted me to look towards the patio, and there was the angmoh! and looked to be on his own :-) i was distracted throughout lunch and was struggling with holding a coherent conversation while discreetly snat hing glimpses of the angmoh. my heart was pumping double quick time and i feel flushed. i'd just have to do him there and then, i told myself. otherwise i'll just explode. arrrrggghhhhh. i started to squirm. i saw him stood up. for no reason, my heart san . and he looked in my direction and smiled ! that was it. i excused myself and caught up with him at the lobby (yeah, he was waiting, he knew, that bastard). we have a date tonite. *sigH*.05/08/98 10:42:06Name: barebutt My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: anything goes Your Fav Body Type: well buit Your Nationality: sg Comments:I am trying to find the exact spot at FR to get a good tan. I love wearing g-strings to tan but cannot find a good place. Any one has a good idea for me. Just cameback from sin city bangcock....Babylon was really a good place. mmmm had lots of dicks and could not believe I spent 6 hours there just f..king & s..king barebutt05/08/98 07:08:31Name: SHUN My URL: Visit Me Your Fav Sextivity: MAN Your Fav Body Type: WELL BUILT Your Nationality: INDONESIAN Comments:I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW MORE FRIENDS.IF INTERESTED PLEASE PAGE ME AT 92809233.05/08/98 03:07:37Name: actionkid Comments:hey astroboi... congrats on your be-earlied graduation! Yeah.. it does feel kinda lost once you've finished with the exams. Even now, I still miss the University life.. lots of good times there and life was easy. I wish you luck in your job seeking. Anywa , about your questions.. wah.. why so chim one?! There is really no right answer to what being GAY is about. This all boils down to the socio-morality aspect of our society. We have been exposed to a culture that accepts heterosexuals and frowns at homose uals as being deviants. Thus, in a politically correct and pro-heterosexual world, it is hard to BE gay completely. Instead, we have various grades of gayness. We have closet gays, fairies and queens, macho marys, shy and reserved gays, bisexuals, 'social gays, gay-friendlies, the unlabelled, etc. A true gay would be one who feels totally connected with his emotions and he knows for a fact that his other half can only be another man. This will include the social, emotional and sexual aspects. It should no just be becoz of physical looks and mannerism, or SEX. But then again, you can also ask a similar question.. what is being Straight about? Is there such a thing as someone who is completely straight? Once we get to be more exposed to the various alternat ve lifestyles, there is bound to be a mix in the culture. The lines separating us all will get dimmer and there will no longer be a black and white... just the various shades of grey. Thus, as I said earlier, there is no fixed answer. We are what we are a d we live as we think we should.. why delve into something which we know not nor have any control over? Hmmm.. all this heavy talk is making my head spin in orgasm..;P Heheh.. hey, about your fave body type.. why Billy's bod? I'd rather pick his personali y and his smile *sigh* ;P anytime! (Yeah.. I've got a terrible weakness for personalities and esp SMILES.. .. can make me really weak in the knees... ) Okay.. time to get back to work. BTW, jeff, I've always known about the MRT toilets. I discovered it w en I was still in school.. there were lots of these 'dirty old men' there who were always trying to play with me. ... but I dun really like doing it in toilets.. only when I'm in one of them really impromptu, horny moods..05/08/98 01:12:10Name: astroboy My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Fav Body Type: ally mcbeal's billy Your Nationality: sg Comments:hi to all, just finish my exam. never felt so relax in my life as I HAD GRADUATED...... no more books.but i felt so lost and boring now. maybe i'll check out those hot cruise spot mentioned here!!!! Anybody had a job for me??????? anyway...i have a chim question to ask . what's the definition of being gay? sex or love or fun......can you be gay only sexually and not emotionally? what's if a person if only interested in emotional attachment and not SEX? sounds strange isn't it. i think the ultimate GAY is being emotional, sexual and spiritually gay.05/08/98 01:07:59Name: astroboy My URL: Visit Me My Email: Email Me Your Fav Body Type: ally mcbeal's billy Your Nationality: sg Comments:hi to all, just finish my exam. never felt so relax in my life as I HAD GRADUATED...... no more books.but i felt so lost and boring now. maybe i'll check out those hot cruise spot mentioned here!!!! Anybody had a job for me??????? anyway...i have a chim question to ask . what's the definition of being gay? sex or love or fun......can you be gay only sexually and not emotionally? what's if a person if only interested in emotional attachment and not SEX? sounds strange isn't it. i think the ultimate GAY is being emotional, sexual and spiritually gay. whereas for me , i think i'm only seasonally gay. kinda like menstral cycle. Am i talking COCK? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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