How Old When You Had First Gay Sex + First Sexual Experience (Jo, Oral, Anal) + Whom Did You Lose Your Virginity To? (Compiled)

[mango_juice]

Means u have to start slow... Try fingering urself with 1 finger first den 2, 3... Once u can get used to the feeling u may wan to try with some others like smaller butt plug/toys etc...

[KiwiBear]

Means u have to start slow... Try fingering urself with 1 finger first den 2, 3... Once u can get used to the feeling u may wan to try with some others like smaller butt plug/toys etc...

Nvr try to put my finger in my... 0_0

Arent it abit dirty? ><

[GachiMuchi]

Nvr try to put my finger in my... 0_0

Arent it abit dirty? ><

Those pages of texts before your post was there for a reason. You only need to follow the pages to the 1st page and read. Is that so difficult? Lazy bum.

And if you can't keep your asshole clean, of course it will be dirty when you stick your finger in. Little boy, stop asking stupid question can? This is not a chatroom that requires you to answer questions immediately. Please think before typing your question.

[Guest Guest]

Those pages of texts before your post was there for a reason. You only need to follow the pages to the 1st page and read. Is that so difficult? Lazy bum.

And if you can't keep your asshole clean, of course it will be dirty when you stick your finger in. Little boy, stop asking stupid question can? This is not a chatroom that requires you to answer questions immediately. Please think before typing your question.

He is typical newbie. Want to try and excited by the thought yet worried.

He is asking all these to get excited and stimulated by the replies like talking dirty.

You uncle top don't know how to spot these type of newbie btm meh? Must have patience then sure can Makan one.

[KiwiBear]

Those pages of texts before your post was there for a reason. You only need to follow the pages to the 1st page and read. Is that so difficult? Lazy bum.

And if you can't keep your asshole clean, of course it will be dirty when you stick your finger in. Little boy, stop asking stupid question can? This is not a chatroom that requires you to answer questions immediately. Please think before typing your question.

Seems this thread almost dead so i bring it up

I dont think i m doing wrong @@

He is typical newbie. Want to try and excited by the thought yet worried.

He is asking all these to get excited and stimulated by the replies like talking dirty.

You uncle top don't know how to spot these type of newbie btm meh? Must have patience then sure can Makan one.

Maybe u r the one of them?

[mango_juice]

Excuse me....... U dun wan to put ur finger in cos it is dirty.... And u expect someone to put his previous cock in??!!?? I can't believe this.....

[GachiMuchi]

Seems this thread almost dead so i bring it up

I dont think i m doing wrong @@

Yep, you done nothing wrong. You were just being a lazy noob. Asking things without reading through previous posts.

[iscool]

I had my first anal sex last weekend... n now i want more...

[passby]

I had my first anal sex last weekend... n now i want more...

Tot u are top ?

[iscool]

Tot u are top ?

yes but now i flex..

[Guest region]

First time isn't that painful as my partner's dick isn't that huge.

It's quite comfortable and pleasurable even though the feeling feels like shitting :/

Definitely make me hornier and hornier.

[Guest sprite]

Hi all,

As indicated, am gay and virgin at 30..Just curious whether in the modern society, do I belong to an extinct breed...?

And if so, what old might you be when u first lost "it"?..Care to share?

[bullet78]

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[Marineboy]

[Guest Guest]

Hi all,

As indicated, am gay and virgin at 30..Just curious whether in the modern society, do I belong to an extinct breed...?

And if so, what old might you be when u first lost "it"?..Care to share?

define male virgin, you might have overestimated.

[Guest sprite]

Well, my definition of virgin is of someone who has yet have any form of sexual interaction with another person (and/or creature?)..whether oral or anal..whether kissing , hugging or penetration sex...

Am I correct about it?

(haha..personally, am even uncomfortable friendly- hugging a stranger..)

[Speedos]

Based on your definition, I lost my virginity at the age of 14.

[vin8tan]

Hi all,

As indicated, am gay and virgin at 30..Just curious whether in the modern society, do I belong to an extinct breed...?

And if so, what old might you be when u first lost "it"?..Care to share?

I really don't think you should worry so much about whether you're a virgin or not. Being gay or simply liking another human being of the same sex doesn't mean that you need to have sex with another him/her. It's a warped perception that the community have. There's no need to prove one's sexuality by having sex. Love is love and should never be confused with feelings for another person.

[evianguy]

Are you a virgin by choice and what prompted you to make this choice?

[Speedos]

I know of some gay guys who are still virgins at 40... they are Catholics/ Christians who can't get pass the notion of sin. Haha!

[Blacque]

I don't know much about the guys from the older generation... but I know that youngsters nowadays give in to temptations easily.

[Guest wine-appreciation]

Hi all,

As indicated, am gay and virgin at 30..Just curious whether in the modern society, do I belong to an extinct breed...?

And if so, what old might you be when u first lost "it"?..Care to share?

Don't worry, one day your Mr. Right will open you like a bottle of old wine. He will hold "it" close to his eyes, look at "it", say: "1982 ... hmmm", open "it", smell the cork before enjoying "it". LOL

[Guest Ian]

i will be waiting until i meet the right guy and i guess the right guy will be around mid 30s? i don't like a wide age difference so i'll be celibate till then.

i still use my hands as often as i can though, alone.

20 now.

[Guest Sprite]

I really don't think you should worry so much about whether you're a virgin or not. Being gay or simply liking another human being of the same sex doesn't mean that you need to have sex with another him/her. It's a warped perception that the community have. There's no need to prove one's sexuality by having sex. Love is love and should never be confused with feelings for another person.

Hi vin8tan,

Thanks for sharing your perspective.. Which I will bear in mind.

But as Age catches on, I guess the sense of being an "outcaste" slowly grew within me.. Esp since my fellow gay friends n buddies are either attached or sexually active..

Their constant queries n pestering to "try things" aint helping either I guess .. Hah

Anyway, thanks for sharing your thots..

[Guest Sprite]

Are you a virgin by choice and what prompted you to make this choice?

Hi evianguy,

I guess u can put it as being by choice. As with many out there ( assuming I am rite), would prefer saving the first time for that special someone:)..

Btw, I think I'm a decent enough chap ( not requiring any verification.. Hah)

[Guest Sprite]

I don't know much about the guys from the older generation... but I know that youngsters nowadays give in to temptations easily.

Hi blacquenoir,

It does seem so, doesn't it? Which is why out of curiosity Ihave asked the second qn:)

[Guest Sprite]

Don't worry, one day your Mr. Right will open you like a bottle of old wine. He will hold "it" close to his eyes, look at "it", say: "1982 ... hmmm", open "it", smell the cork before enjoying "it". LOL

Hi wine appreciation,

That is quite the analogy.. Hah

I guess I need to ensure I can age with grace then..

So what time of "wine" have u Savoured? Care to share?

[Guest Sprite]

i will be waiting until i meet the right guy and i guess the right guy will be around mid 30s? i don't like a wide age difference so i'll be celibate till then.

i still use my hands as often as i can though, alone.

20 now.

Hi Ian,

Gd for you!

Hope u can be hands free soon.. Hah

Meanwhile, Pple like me are also hand-happy too;p

[Phil]

Don't worry, one day your Mr. Right will open you like a bottle of old wine. He will hold "it" close to his eyes, look at "it", say: "1982 ... hmmm", open "it", smell the cork before enjoying "it". LOL

Nice metaphor! :clap:

[Guest infared]

I'm 27 this year, and have never experienced dating, kissing, love or had sex. In that aspect, I really am a true virgin.

Sometimes, I wonder if there's something wrong with me, but friends have assured me otherwise.

I'd like to think that I'm holding out for that special someone, but where to find that special someone and whether or not I get to meet him is............. a different matter altogether. When it comes to matters of the heart, I belong to the old school of thought that fate plays a really important part.

-infrared-

[doncoin]

There is nothing wrong with you at all. It is a choice you've made. Don't dwell too much into it. If losing virginity is so important to you, you would have lost it long time ago.

[Guest Can't Register]

Paraphrasing The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, you're gay by theory.

[innocense]

I'm a virgin too and I bet there are many other gay guys who are older than you but still a virgin.

I have the feeling that, like me you never thought of having any intercourse with men but only want intimacy with them.

Edited June 8, 2012 by innocense

[Guest Verging]

Are you ugly or religious by any chance? Also, I don't know if being with a mature virgin before a relationship would work actually. My sense is that virgins tend to have very strict and rigid ways of doing things and extremely high expectations. it can make communication tough.

[Guest -infrared-]

I'm a virgin too and I bet there are many other gay guys who are older than you but still a virgin.

I have the feeling that, like me you never thought of having any intercourse with men but only want intimacy with them.

for me, i can't say i have never thought of having intercourse with them, but yes, i guess it's a different feeling i'm after. intimacy might just be the word that sums it up best.

-infrared-

[TheAntisen]

If it's something you want to work on, then you really do have to just throw yourself out in to the world and see how it goes. Are you fearful of rejection?

[Guest V2]

Hi all,

As indicated, am gay and virgin at 30..Just curious whether in the modern society, do I belong to an extinct breed...?

And if so, what old might you be when u first lost "it"?..Care to share?

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[Guest Guest]

define male virgin, you might have overestimated.

I don't know much about the guys from the older generation... but I know that youngsters nowadays give in to temptations easily.

Hi R u referring to yourself u r youngsters hor?

Only 20 yrs old hor.

[3quarks]

Well, my definition of virgin is of someone who has yet have any form of sexual interaction with another person (and/or creature?)..whether oral or anal..whether kissing , hugging or penetration sex... Am I correct about it? (haha..personally, am even uncomfortable friendly- hugging a stranger..)

Man, that's a lot courage and self-control to resist a basic human urge (anyway, as long as you are happy:) For most people, sexual awakening starts even during preadolescence. So it's not surprising to know people lost their virginity when they're 14-15yo (yeah that includes me.. to a girl:) when the hormones are raging mad. It wasn't planned or something. I guess just part of growing up, which was obviously dependent on the environment, the opportunity to experience and stuff...

[Guest Sprite]

If it's something you want to work on, then you really do have to just throw yourself out in to the world and see how it goes. Are you fearful of rejection?

Hi theantisen,

Its really not the fear of rejection that deter me from gg ahead.. More like strict principles tipped with the stubborn (and perhaps naive -to some) mindset that one day the special someone will come into the picture.. And that's when I will choose to let go..

Anyway, judging from the response , I can tell I'm not alone with similar thots which is pretty encouraging:)..so to those who's holding strong out there, 加油n all the best..!!

(n for the cynics out there, I'm really quite a decent pple in terms of looks n personality.. With my share of being stalked.. Hah Xp)

[Guest Sprite]

Man, that's a lot courage and self-control to resist a basic human urge (anyway, as long as you are happy:) For most people, sexual awakening starts even during preadolescence. So it's not surprising to know people lost their virginity when they're 14-15yo (yeah that includes me.. to a girl:) when the hormones are raging mad. It wasn't planned or something. I guess just part of growing up, which was obviously dependent on the environment, the opportunity to experience and stuff...

Hi 3quarks,

Thanks for the sweets words. Anyway, yr childhood appears to be enviable.. Hah

Being the Typical scorpio, there come the frequent bouts of lust.. But fortunately (or not), I have managed to keep them under control for now..

[Guest hello]

I don't know much about the guys from the older generation... but I know that youngsters nowadays give in to temptations easily.

i think the ability to give in to temptation has not changes. its the exposure to temptation that has increased.

[basalisk]

I think it is good if you want to reserve your first time to someone important to you.

[EasleyLim]

[Blacque]

LOL!

[Blacque]

Hi R u referring to yourself u r youngsters hor?

Only 20 yrs old hor.

Hahaha i'm just saying what I've observed from the community lah...

So if I say older guys have a much higher risk of getting ____ cancer than teenagers, does it translate to you getting the ____ cancer soon?

Sorry for the digression.

[Guest -infrared-]

Hi theantisen,

Its really not the fear of rejection that deter me from gg ahead.. More like strict principles tipped with the stubborn (and perhaps naive -to some) mindset that one day the special someone will come into the picture.. And that's when I will choose to let go..

Anyway, judging from the response , I can tell I'm not alone with similar thots which is pretty encouraging:)..so to those who's holding strong out there, 加油n all the best..!!

(n for the cynics out there, I'm really quite a decent pple in terms of looks n personality.. With my share of being stalked.. Hah Xp)

i have a fear of rejection, but other than that your post pretty sums up my sentiments. here's to all!

-infrared-

[TheAntisen]

Hi theantisen,

Its really not the fear of rejection that deter me from gg ahead.. More like strict principles tipped with the stubborn (and perhaps naive -to some) mindset that one day the special someone will come into the picture.. And that's when I will choose to let go..

I actually believe that as well. Some of my friends reprimand me for being an introvert, but it's just something that I am and I don't see why I have to change it. I guess it won't hurt to try to be more socially active so that I can meet more people instead of hoping for some encounter that will have me falling head over heels... but I don't know.

If anything, I'm prepared to get a pet cat so that I don't end up being forever alone lol

[koolkai]

Hi all,

As indicated, am gay and virgin at 30..Just curious whether in the modern society, do I belong to an extinct breed...?

And if so, what old might you be when u first lost "it"?..Care to share?

No you are definitely not extinct to be a virgin! You are doing the right thing by not having casual sex as the number with STD or HIV has been increasing nowadays. Stay virgin till you find the right person!

[Guest first]

When was the first time you sucked cock?