How Old When You Had First Gay Sex + First Sexual Experience (Jo, Oral, Anal) + Whom Did You Lose Your Virginity To? (Compiled)

[Seedrick]

20

[Guest stbrianud]

18

[DreamerBoyy]

Haven't!

[SEPTIE1234]

Still a virgin.

[VansonLefredo]

Tomorrow

[RatedG]

17 haha

[trevorcantona]

12

[Rumint]

just not YET

[merlinkun]

19

[funnyboy]

Still a virgin

[Guest Uh-oh]

Oops, me also a virgin (either role)... at 41... :oops:

[Guest ParkYJ]

I tried experimenting by using a pen at the age of 18. Did this count?

A real experience happened one year later by my classmate at the chalet.

[ahwen91]

Okay guys. Gonna be a un-virgin soon....

So seeking advise on how to make myself comfortable during my very first sex..

Anything that i need to take note of etc.

Please enlighten me & deeply appreciate.

God bless 

[Guest tribepeople]

Prepare a white cloth large enough to lay it over the bed.

When he deflowers you, your virgin ass will bleed to stain the white cloth.

He will then bring it to show his friends and relatives waiting outside the room.

When they see the blood stain, they will sing, dance, cheer with the drums bitting.

[kys0n]

consider the size...if it's real huge, i advice generous amounts of lube and a LOT of fingering lol...and pray he's a good top or you're in for a world of hurt.

[Guest wenn]

Prepare a white cloth large enough to lay it over the bed.

When he deflowers you, your virgin ass will bleed to stain the white cloth.

He will then bring it to show his friends and relatives waiting outside the room.

When they see the blood stain, they will sing, dance, cheer with the drums bitting.

OMG. REALLY WILL BLEED ? * SHRUDS * 

[Hammy]

Enjoy!

Edited May 2, 2013 by Hammy

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

On the physical side of things well just made sure you do a enema a few hours before the act and have more condoms and lots of lube on standby.

Also lots of time and privacy as well.

On the emotional side if you are in a relationship try to relax and feel love and that emotional bond with your special someone.If it is just casual primal sex then try to muster up all your horny lust and anticipation of being penetrate.

Ps dont make fun of ts lah.

Damn bad.. Haha

[Guest Guest]

big or small is not important, safe sex is a must, to protect yourself esp you are a btm.

[Guest youngfolks]

what is enema btw guys ? 

[kys0n]

big or small is not important, safe sex is a must, to protect yourself esp you are a btm.

Big or small is quite important for a first time actually...big will be real painful unless the top is very good haha...since the btm will be clueless, the top has to be experienced and able to do everything right for the btm. If the top is small, at least the amount of work needed is less

 

But yea protection always important regardless.

[kys0n]

what is enema btw guys ? 

 

it's a process used to flush water into your ass to clean it. google it.

[Hammy]

consider the size...if it's real huge, i advice generous amounts of lube and a LOT of fingering lol...and pray he's a good top or you're in for a world of hurt.

Actually, What is huge and what is small.. i think TS needs to know this since his is a first timer. Hope You got an exoerience one!!!

[Guest snowball]

1. Safety first. There’s no such thing as totally safe sex, but you sure can be safer. Make sure he’s wearing a condom.

2. Don’t have too-high expectations. Sex generally improves as you get to know someone and become more comfortable with each other’s bodies. So don’t feel pressured to make it the best night ever, because this is just the first of many.

3. Breathe. First-time sex can be tense and nerve-wracking, not to mention painful sometimes. Taking long, deep breaths can help you relax and let go.

4. Don’t forget to enjoy foreplay. All the stuff that leads up to intercourse — kissing, touching, oral sex — is part of the sexual experience; it’s not just about penetration.

5. Make sure you’re amply aroused before intercourse. Not only do you want to be genuinely turned on, you want to be sufficiently lubricated. If you’re too dry, he’ll have trouble entering you, you’ll feel discomfort, and the friction can cause the condom to rip. So, keep water–based lube on hand just in case.

6. Speak up. Let him know what feels good, and what doesn’t. Guys crave feedback, so don’t be shy about clueing him in.

7. Don’t assume he’s the expert. He may be getting a lot of his information about sex from porn and the tall tales of his buddies in the locker room. And, even if he is experienced, every sexual encounter is unique. He’s just as worried about pleasing you as you are about getting him off.

8. Don’t expect to have an orgasm. Of course, it’s great if you do. Orgasms come with a sense of comfort and specific knowledge of each other’s bodies, and that takes time.

9. Don’t fake it. If you do, you’ll only be cheating yourself. Letting him know you came close and want to get there with him will keep him motivated.

10. His penis may malfunction. Guys get anxious too. Premature ejaculation and erectile difficulty are common the first time a man sleeps with someone. If he has a problem, don’t make a big deal out of it or worry that there’s something wrong with you or your connection. More than likely, it will work itself out.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/first-time-sex

[Guest Guest]

1. Safety first. There’s no such thing as totally safe sex, but you sure can be safer. Make sure he’s wearing a condom.

2. Don’t have too-high expectations. Sex generally improves as you get to know someone and become more comfortable with each other’s bodies. So don’t feel pressured to make it the best night ever, because this is just the first of many.

3. Breathe. First-time sex can be tense and nerve-wracking, not to mention painful sometimes. Taking long, deep breaths can help you relax and let go.

4. Don’t forget to enjoy foreplay. All the stuff that leads up to intercourse — kissing, touching, oral sex — is part of the sexual experience; it’s not just about penetration.

5. Make sure you’re amply aroused before intercourse. Not only do you want to be genuinely turned on, you want to be sufficiently lubricated. If you’re too dry, he’ll have trouble entering you, you’ll feel discomfort, and the friction can cause the condom to rip. So, keep water–based lube on hand just in case.

6. Speak up. Let him know what feels good, and what doesn’t. Guys crave feedback, so don’t be shy about clueing him in.

7. Don’t assume he’s the expert. He may be getting a lot of his information about sex from porn and the tall tales of his buddies in the locker room. And, even if he is experienced, every sexual encounter is unique. He’s just as worried about pleasing you as you are about getting him off.

8. Don’t expect to have an orgasm. Of course, it’s great if you do. Orgasms come with a sense of comfort and specific knowledge of each other’s bodies, and that takes time.

9. Don’t fake it. If you do, you’ll only be cheating yourself. Letting him know you came close and want to get there with him will keep him motivated.

10. His penis may malfunction. Guys get anxious too. Premature ejaculation and erectile difficulty are common the first time a man sleeps with someone. If he has a problem, don’t make a big deal out of it or worry that there’s something wrong with you or your connection. More than likely, it will work itself out.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/first-time-sex

 

lol this is written in the perspective of a girl right?

 

what about first time top? are there people who actually top on their very first sex?

[Guest Guest]

lol this is written in the perspective of a girl right?

any much different?

[kys0n]

lol this is written in the perspective of a girl right?

 

what about first time top? are there people who actually top on their very first sex?

 

First time top? Use protection...uhhh learn how to finger ur btm properly and pleasure him. Don't force ur cock in immediately. Take time to ease in slowly. Take cues from the btm's ease. After putting in ur cock head, keep it there and let the btm get used to it before u slowly slide in a bit more if he's inexperienced.. Stimulate his nipples and cock as u're entering him. Don't start with hard and rough fucking, go slow and build up rhythm. Rhythm is more important. Only do deep and full length thrusts after the btm is used to ur cock. 

 

Have the courtesy to tell or signify to the btm if u're gonna cum...some like it on them so u gotta take out and shoot on them...some want it inside (with or without condom)...generally don't cum before the btm...let the btm be super shiok and cum first before u release, unless he wants to coordinate it together or if he explicitly wants u to cum first.

 

And if you suffer from premature ejaculation...god save u...just be a btm

[Guest Guest]

lol this is written in the perspective of a girl right?

what about first time top? are there people who actually top on their very first sex?

your cock must be in ok size, else even you already inside, he still can't feel and keep waiting

[Guest tannedbod]

1st oraln kiss  when i was 12 w my elder brother...

my 1st anal as top when i was 21yo.. cruised by an older guy from river valley swimming pool, went to his place, he sucked me n thereafter just slided his ass onto my dick.. cummed within 5 strokes cos the feeling was too good..

my 1st anal as a btm to the same guy who i top but he was too forceful so didnt enjoy the session

[Guest Guest]

1st oraln kiss  when i was 12 w my elder brother...

my 1st anal as top when i was 21yo.. cruised by an older guy from river valley swimming pool, went to his place, he sucked me n thereafter just slided his ass onto my dick.. cummed within 5 strokes cos the feeling was too good..

my 1st anal as a btm to the same guy who i top but he was too forceful so didnt enjoy the session

 

oral with ur elder bro? thats incest man.

[Tampguy79]

I had mine when i was 12yo w my uncle.

Came in when i was sleeping n begin to suck me n wake me up n make me suck him back.

N the rest is history.....

[Guest -GUEST-]

^

 

u sure it's not a fantasy...?

[oscar88]

Me on 17 with 15 dude

[gstc82]

about 9. i was molested and got my cock sucked by a dirty old filthy man. I don't even know what sex was than.

[Guest Guest]

about 9. i was molested and got my cock sucked by a dirty old filthy man. I don't even know what sex was than.

serve you right. must be a dirty old man wearing white shirt and white pant or as in The Old Man?  hahaha

[gstc82]

serve you right. must be a dirty old man wearing rwhite shirt and white pant or as in The Old Man? hahaha

your obsession with MIW and a certain political party is so strong that you can dare justify the molest of a child..

[devildevil86]

Prepare a white cloth large enough to lay it over the bed.

When he deflowers you, your virgin ass will bleed to stain the white cloth.

He will then bring it to show his friends and relatives waiting outside the room.

When they see the blood stain, they will sing, dance, cheer with the drums bitting.

HAHA.. this sounds like some royal family practise sia. haha!!!

[Mbee]

My first time experience was with my child hood friend and school mate at age of 14.

he like to suck me and ask me to anal him.

second partner is my room mate in school of signal

two of us stay in one room.

he come onto my bed in the early morning between 3 to 4am.

he like to suck me and ask me to anal him too.

[winston]

when is your first time interact with sexual intercourse ?

 

are you gay for the first time ? or have you sex with female before you felt it's not the right feeling and go to gay instead?

 

how old are you when you first get anal'ed or first time touched another male body parts?

[Guest Terry Tay]

My first experience was with an older caucasain who had a huge tool. I was only 14 and he only managed to put in 2 inches as I found it hard to accommodate him.That pain and discomfort put me off anal for many years.

Then I relaxed and the pleasure was damn good! That was when I was in my late 20s! Now I am a mature btm (in 50s) and still hungry for more tools in my greedy manhole! 

[Butterscotch]

My first time engaging in sex (though unexpected and non-anal) was disappointing. If only there are ways to scrub that memory off my mind.

 

My first proper sex was with my ex. That was fun.

[Clickclock]

well, my very first sexual experience was with an incredibly nerdy guy that I met through this forum. Lesson learnt: profile pictures are really misleading.

I really regretted meeting up with that guy, he had seriously awful social manners and he was totally not my type, but then again it was my first time tasting cock, never knew it would taste so much like Phlegm 

[wombathallow]

By today's standard I think I was rather late...

 

So 3 years ago I chanced upon *the* app after finally switching to a smartphone.

This guy chatted me up for a few weeks, then we decided to meet up for a movie.

Really unassuming guy, told me he works near Funan so I assumed he sold electronics. Turns out that he was a lawyer *faints*

After a Mac's meal we watched a movie - still remember it was Tangled, and he grabbed my hands when the song "I See The Light" was on.

After the movie, I took a cab home, thinking that he wasn't interested in a sleepover.

Boy was I wrong - he messaged me shortly after and took another cab to my place. Fortunately my parents were overseas at that time.

So I brought him around the house and as I showed him my parents' room, he grabbed me and hugged me from the back.

We ended up on my bed, he took off my clothes, and I froze as it was my first time, didn't know what to do or expect.

Gave him one of those condom samples and we tried to do it, but I was errmmm unyielding. So he lost the mood...

As we took a shower, it all happened in a blur, in no time I was on the floor and he was soaping my crack.

Wouldn't recommend this but we did it bare with soap on the bathroom floor. Fortunately he wasn't a mammoth so it wasn't painful. It was my first time, and I guess nothing else can replicate the first time.

I'm no longer with this guy - but he holds that special place as my first.

[nothinglah]

All these talk makes me horny, but I am still a virgin.

I always believe that the first time is the most impt, but somehow my curiosity has been battling with my patience. I bj-ed some guy before but it wasn't the most pleasant experience cos he wasn't like in his photos but I just wanted to try it. The experience was good but I felt disgusted sometimes cos it was like a polite Bj cos i didn't want to disappoint him.

Then again the real thing is something that is of importance to me, yet I feel like I want to try it for the sake of fun. Does this make one cheap?

[wheeze]

By today's standard I think I was rather late...

 

So 3 years ago I chanced upon *the* app after finally switching to a smartphone.

This guy chatted me up for a few weeks, then we decided to meet up for a movie.

Really unassuming guy, told me he works near Funan so I assumed he sold electronics. Turns out that he was a lawyer *faints*

After a Mac's meal we watched a movie - still remember it was Tangled, and he grabbed my hands when the song "I See The Light" was on.

After the movie, I took a cab home, thinking that he wasn't interested in a sleepover.

Boy was I wrong - he messaged me shortly after and took another cab to my place. Fortunately my parents were overseas at that time.

So I brought him around the house and as I showed him my parents' room, he grabbed me and hugged me from the back.

We ended up on my bed, he took off my clothes, and I froze as it was my first time, didn't know what to do or expect.

Gave him one of those condom samples and we tried to do it, but I was errmmm unyielding. So he lost the mood...

As we took a shower, it all happened in a blur, in no time I was on the floor and he was soaping my crack.

Wouldn't recommend this but we did it bare with soap on the bathroom floor. Fortunately he wasn't a mammoth so it wasn't painful. It was my first time, and I guess nothing else can replicate the first time.

I'm no longer with this guy - but he holds that special place as my first.

 

Wait, so how old were you then? I'm wondering what's considered "late" nowadays. 

[wombathallow]

Wait, so how old were you then? I'm wondering what's considered "late" nowadays. 

I'm mid 20s now. Not saying that there's an exact definition for "late", but seems that the out crowd is getting younger these days.... 

[Simple84]

First time was 15 with my longest friend who is of the same age to date from an online chat room, met up at bugis and both were curious and horny and went to the staircase of Bugis Junction leading to the roof top garden and we mutual masturbated and sucked each other off haha

[Guest Terry Tay]

When I was flexi, I cruised a quite hot Ah Beng. As I fondled his front, he removed my hands and place them on his hips. 

We had a good fucking time. Later I asked him in Hokkien how he became btm.He said some str looking acquaintances whom he didn't know was gay spiked his drink.

When he woke up, his arse hurt. So he knew he was being used.

But when they came to see him again, he was quite unresistant and gave in. Now he loves being screwed! 

Pity I lost contact with him soon after!

Though I am now pure btm... 

[Yas1950]

When I was flexi, I cruised a quite hot Ah Beng. As I fondled his front, he removed my hands and place them on his hips. 

We had a good fucking time. Later I asked him in Hokkien how he became btm.He said some str looking acquaintances whom he didn't know was gay spiked his drink.

When he woke up, his arse hurt. So he knew he was being used.

But when they came to see him again, he was quite unresistant and gave in. Now he loves being screwed! 

Pity I lost contact with him soon after!

Though I am now pure btm... 

Some how I always had the misconception that all Bengs were tops.

Some kind of macho thing.

I was taken by a Beng before and he turned out to be flexi.

I was surprised.

He was tight, however, and I managed to satisfy him twice.

But that was a long time ago.

He lived near where I worked in the Chinatown area in the 1960s. I saw him quite

often whenever I went about my work but he always avoided my glances

whenever I passed by his place, especially when there were his friends

hanging around drinking coffee with him.

I bumped into him a couple of times when I finished work late and as there

was no one else at his place, he invited me in.

However he did not allow me to do him again. So I ended my trysts with him.

[Guest Cumming]

Guys,

Can you still vividly remember your very first Cummings?

I remember when I was 13 year old, it scare the shit out of me when I suddenly cum so much of sticky substance when I was fondling my tool..

The feeling is great and magical.