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47 hours to be on a plane to Cape Town :clap:

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Flying tonight. Will not be active here during my absence but will contribute when I get the chance. Don't miss me too much! LOL!

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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BON VOYAGE

Tx, mate

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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(Quoted from The Love of Siam, as a reminder "to all the loves that bring us to life")

Tong:

You are alone. Aren't you lonely?

Mew:

(Pause and sighs) Frighteningly lonely.

Tong:

What do you mean "frighteningly lonely"?

Mew:

It's like when we were younger, we were so lonely because we didn't have a lot of friends. And now that we are grown up, loneliness seems, just so much worse.

Tong:

Why is it so bad for you?

Mew:

I don't know how to explain it... It started during the summer when I was in 8th Grade. Papa took grandma somewhere for several days, and the day she came back (she died soon after.) It's not easy at all, because the longer my grandma is gone, the more I miss her.

So I have one question; if we can love someone so much, how will we be able to handle it (that) one day when we are separated?

And if being separated is a part of life, and you know about separation well; is it possible, Tong, that we can love someone and never be afraid of losing them?

At the same time, I was also wondering. Is it possible that, we can live our entire lives without loving anyone at all?

That's my loneliness.

I have lived with it now for 5 years, I know just how bad loneliness feels. I fear it will continue to get worse.

Tong:

Mew.

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*dies a little inside*

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- It's always darkest before the dawn.

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Turning crazy!!! Why must two content intensive module be tested on consecutive days! My brain got no more space to memorize alr!!! I hate memorizing....

I feel for you man. I was also damn demoralized by my two core papers. Now kowtowing to non-existent God of Bell Curve.

For those feeling lost and weary. Don't lose faith. tumblr_me3wb7byyk1rk0bpyo1_500.gif

Thank you!! I need it!

Amazed that someone going for Univ Scholar Program can tell me "... sch starts Aug, so Apr got orientation...". How can such people be a recipient of a scholarship?!?

Just don't mix around with them - then you will be sane without them.

안녕하세요.

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Just don't mix around with them - then you will be sane without them.

Haha. Wishful thinking.

An older lawyer friend of mine used to say :-

"You want to smoke...must also know when+how+who to smoke. Otherwise, you end up blind and with lung cancer."

Btw, haven't seen you on the Meows for a while. :)

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The news about the gay couple repealing 377A did get me thinking for a while yesterday.

Are we really ready for it to get repealed? Will we stand to benefit from it entirely at our current state?

What do we have in store for us when it gets repealed?

Yes we may be proud of who we are, we may be able to hold hands

But it does not necessarily means we will be happy when the root of sadness is within our gay circle, where true love is deemed hard to come by

And..

It doesnt mean the public will no longer judge us by our behaviors.

It doesnt mean our family and friends will be able to accept entirely

At least not at the current state.

While the couple is fighting hard for the law to get repealed, they're the only one. ONE couple is not enough to change the laws, there should be more long lasting couples to stand out together to voice out against it, but just how many are there?

The problem currently does not lie with the law, since they indeed don't pro actively arrest and apprehend gays. The problems are the attitudes of gays in relationship and the judgement of gays by the public. If these 2 issues cannot be addressed, attempts to repeal the 377A will only prove to be harder than it is. Or even to be considered to be 紙上談兵

(Laws do label us a criminal. But laws such as piracy laws also already label all of us criminals anyway LOL /absurd optimism)

Don't get me wrong. I'm very glad that a couple is seeking a repeal for 377A, but it saddens me when I realize their attempt may be futile because of the state of things in Singapore.

I personally think while repealing 377A is really important, it shouldn't be the first priority. It is more important in the meanwhile to work together as a circle to bring about change in the society slowly instead of using law as the weapon and final say. Because even if we may win, they wont concede to defeat.

Repeal 377A so that we can build a better gay circle?

or

Build a better gay circle so we can repeal 377A as a whole? (This is what I think should be ideal)

Pardon me, such an idealist talking around here >_>

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Can I wait for you until you're back? Why do you mindfxxk me so much

Getting increasingly tired... and maybe bored of my life. What is my purpose? Why am I the way I am? Killing myself with these dumb thoughts. I just want to see you so badly but I don't even have the balls to tell you that I miss you. Because I'm so scared I'll annoy you. Because you have some fxxking exams.

Can I turn my humanity off, just for these 2 months? Live range coming this week... probably should really focus my mind, but all I see when I close my eyes is your face, and all I hear is your voice, and all I remember are your words, and your smile.

Please. Please save me.

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