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glad for the meet up.. now i finally see his true colors and clear my thoughts.

i realised he's not worth it, no matter how nice he is as a person, how talented he is in his field, how amazing he is to hang on with his family life, he is just f-up as a gay.

好男人很多都是烂男人。

对每个人直接,坦白,不是不想他们受伤,而是不想收拾自己留下的烂摊子。

对感情的退缩不是因为对你没有感觉, 而是因为自己还没玩够。

对每个人都好不是温柔, 而是當自己孤單時,隨時可以有人陪。

对每段爱情来者不拒不是体贴, 是为自己留条后路。

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Greetings from South Africa

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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this is the N-th time i heard a nice chaser gives up on wanting a relationship as he has encountered a playful chub that broke his heart.

why must things goes this way?

if he's not into you, let go and move on. why blame it in the name of love.

and the players out there, you idiot, play with NSA, dun play with their hearts!

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Stop playing with me. One moment you say you are straight. Then gay. Then bi. Why are you winking at me, smacking my ass, flashing your dick at me for the last 4 months and then coming with -.- reasons?

What the hell are you thinking?

And yes, i did tell you that we will never work out. I believe so too. Cancers and Capricorns can never work out. But a small part of me just wants to hug you and keep you from going away. A tiny lil small part.

You are one of the reason why i dont want to remain in my unit any longer. I dont want to see you, so that i can forget about you.

Sianz.

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Hey guys my aunt's shop (the one I work in) is having a Christmas sales. I helped out in making this promotional picture (which you can see in our FB page https://www.facebook.com/ForestSingapore).

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Working alone in the shop this Saturday and Sunday. :P

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I had this crazy thought:

I will pack stuff that will last me for 5 days, head to the airport, asks for a random affordable air ticket to a random country.

Get there with no plans of what to do, no plans of where to go, no friends, nothing but only my stuff and I. Explore the place without the tourist bits, get to their local neighbourhood. Take photos, chat people up.

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omg i had this thought also! whenever i feel so alone at home

It's better than I ever even knew.

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Stop playing with me. One moment you say you are straight. Then gay. Then bi. Why are you winking at me, smacking my ass, flashing your dick at me for the last 4 months and then coming with -.- reasons?

What the hell are you thinking?

And yes, i did tell you that we will never work out. I believe so too. Cancers and Capricorns can never work out. But a small part of me just wants to hug you and keep you from going away. A tiny lil small part.

You are one of the reason why i dont want to remain in my unit any longer. I dont want to see you, so that i can forget about you.

What a sick person!

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Dear mom & dad,

I'm so sorry. Saw my brother's profile on Jack'd, got so freaked out I deleted mine right away... now both your sons are gay ugh wtf is this... but I'm bi. And I'm dating a really nice guy now. But maybe I should find a girl, get married and have a family in the future?

Because it'd suck so badly to disappoint you...

on another note, finally fit into 38" jeans. bye my ex 40-44" waist!

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Dear mom & dad,

I'm so sorry. Saw my brother's profile on Jack'd, got so freaked out I deleted mine right away... now both your sons are gay ugh wtf is this... but I'm bi. And I'm dating a really nice guy now. But maybe I should find a girl, get married and have a family in the future?

Because it'd suck so badly to disappoint you...

on another note, finally fit into 38" jeans. bye my ex 40-44" waist!

What about the feelings of the guy you are dating?

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Here's a "Dear Mum and Dad" I wrote a few years back.

Dear Mum and Dad,

Don't be surprised, but remember when I started to stay by myself in (location), and I told you that I was alright? It wasn't, and had never be.

It WAS alright. Something happened, and eventually started seeing someone, though I wouldn't even call it a relationship then because there was no intimacy, plus I thought it was what really good friends do, including just being comfortable and hugging each other to sleep.

It wasn't judged upon in school, though we didn't talk about it nor "show any signs", it really seemed like two good friends - and you even thought that Q was a nice chap, especially for someone who was of that age.

Lately the term "imprinted" came up in our conversations because of some dumb movie and the cousin was all buzzed with excitement while I showed utter disgust. Well, Q imprinted on me and I was very upset when we had to call it quits because he graduated from school and I had another 2 years more. I didn't last the next year and had to take half the year away.

That was when I had the chance to think things through; and with B over MSN (who came out to me), I started to think and deeper I fell. Until this dumb little girl (S) emailed me and I thought it was something I can look forward to.

BUT we called it quits after two years because we were in different places. I sank again, and B was at a loss what to do to me. I know it sucked to have a good friend and room mate. I had and one thing led to another and I decided that I should just call it as it is - I am gay. And here I am, hoping to have this sent to you while I'm away in Taipei.

No.

I don't sleep around, neither do I go for pride parades like they do in other countries, and I am obviously not as stick-thin like I used to. (FYI, plump people can be gay too.) So here it is. I am gay.

Gay. Gay. Gay. Gay. Gay.

Chances of me getting a girlfriend - wow-ingly low, unless I find another girl like S. Neither am I seeing anyone now. I quite kind of like singlehood - and guess what, I'm moving out once I return from Taipei.

We'll talk when I return.

So nostalgic. I returned home and kept the letter in my box and decided to just stay home.

- It's always darkest before the dawn.

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Dear mom & dad,

I'm so sorry. Saw my brother's profile on Jack'd, got so freaked out I deleted mine right away... now both your sons are gay ugh wtf is this... but I'm bi. And I'm dating a really nice guy now. But maybe I should find a girl, get married and have a family in the future?

Because it'd suck so badly to disappoint you...

on another note, finally fit into 38" jeans. bye my ex 40-44" waist!

hey, the offspring mentality needs to be gone.. dun think too much.

and yes, maybe the parents will be disappointed, but then it's our lives. we try our best to be the best sons but the off spring thing is just something out of our reach.

if you meet someone good, just stay with him, guy or gal. dun give it up due to this.

and to my parents, i'm sorry that your daughter is les and your 2 sons are gays.

but hey, this proved that it's either bad parenting or it's in the genes.

:P

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Sometimes i just need someone, anyone in fact, to be the oil to keep my fire burning. Giving people care, concern support has been a thing i have always been doing coz i deeply believe caring is sharing. However, i feel like my fire is going to be extinguished soon... I wonder if anyone is going to be the oil to keep me burning because .. i am really in need of it right now..

-The Small Boy

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Sometimes i just need someone, anyone in fact, to be the oil to keep my fire burning. Giving people care, concern support has been a thing i have always been doing coz i deeply believe caring is sharing. However, i feel like my fire is going to be extinguished soon... I wonder if anyone is going to be the oil to keep me burning because .. i am really in need of it right now..

-The Small Boy

Are you a social worker of some kind? Maybe re-reading some thank-you messages from people you've helped could get you going again. You know, to remind you that your actions has a real impact on people.

 

 

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