kunshinji Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 We've not even met but we agree there's a connection. But what if we both don't like what we see? Quote - It's always darkest before the dawn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 it's gonna be a busy day ahead! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 Lost and lost and lost. Quote How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 Monday Blue.. Quote Toro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 (edited) The surge in attention deprived adolescents is absolutely nauseating. Immaturity just seems to to transcend all age groups. Edited December 9, 2012 by The.Intrv. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 (edited) when you have reached working world..you are too busy to meet strangers, especially if you have a few cliques of close friends from both straight and aj world.then meeting strangers will be the last priority that you will only agree the very last minute if you are really damn free..(and maybe the driving cause is horniness, or wanting to find LTR, consciously, or sub-consciously)sighz.. Edited December 10, 2012 by luke84 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mickey_mouse Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 Missing my best buddy since high school Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 (edited) "Why does looks matter so much for some people when it comes to only friendship?"Got my answer today! ;-;The stimulus-value-role (SVR) theory, as developed by Bernard Murstein, has identified the following three stages that apply to both making friends and connecting with potential partners:1. Stimulus stage: In this first stage, other people measure you up in terms of external factors, such as your appearance and behavior. You also do the same to them.The average person isn’t looking for the most attractive friend or partner, however. Instead, people tend to be interested in those in their “league”—that is, people who are close to their age, level of attractiveness, and so on. This is because one part of the process for both people is determining how likely it is that the other will return their interest.The second part of the stimulus stage assessment for each person is figuring out how likely they are to benefit from a future friendship or romantic relationship with the other. If each person feels that the other is likely to be interested in them and that the relationship will be positive, they will move one step closer to making friends or becoming lovers.2. Value stage: As the name implies, this stage in the process of making friends is all about checking for compatible values. Based on this information, both people can better weigh how much a potential friendship or romance would benefit them.Here, it’s important to remember that your values determine your future, and the same is true for other people. If you don’t understand your values, it’s hard to check whether they would be compatible with those of others.Once both people determine that their values are compatible enough, they move on to the last stage of making friends or establishing a romantic relationship.3. Role stage: Finally, this is the part where others try to figure out the role they could play in your life, and you do the same with them.People do this by participating in activities together, taking on roles that hopefully match up. There are many different roles a friend could play, for example, from casual drinking buddy to close confidant. Trying various things together while making friends helps set these roles up.The role stage isn’t “happily ever after,” since friends and lovers keep reevaluating each other in terms of stimulus, value, and roles throughout each relationship. However, being successful in this stage does mean that two people have found a way to fit into each other’s lives. Edited December 10, 2012 by Slynn Irodorido 1 Quote "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 "Why does looks matter so much for some people when it comes to only friendship?"Got my answer today! ;-;The stimulus-value-role (SVR) theory, as developed by Bernard Murstein, has identified the following three stages that apply to both making friends and connecting with potential partners:1. Stimulus stage: In this first stage, other people measure you up in terms of external factors, such as your appearance and behavior. You also do the same to them.The average person isn’t looking for the most attractive friend or partner, however. Instead, people tend to be interested in those in their “league”—that is, people who are close to their age, level of attractiveness, and so on. This is because one part of the process for both people is determining how likely it is that the other will return their interest.The second part of the stimulus stage assessment for each person is figuring out how likely they are to benefit from a future friendship or romantic relationship with the other. If each person feels that the other is likely to be interested in them and that the relationship will be positive, they will move one step closer to making friends or becoming lovers.2. Value stage: As the name implies, this stage in the process of making friends is all about checking for compatible values. Based on this information, both people can better weigh how much a potential friendship or romance would benefit them.Here, it’s important to remember that your values determine your future, and the same is true for other people. If you don’t understand your values, it’s hard to check whether they would be compatible with those of others.Once both people determine that their values are compatible enough, they move on to the last stage of making friends or establishing a romantic relationship.3. Role stage: Finally, this is the part where others try to figure out the role they could play in your life, and you do the same with them.People do this by participating in activities together, taking on roles that hopefully match up. There are many different roles a friend could play, for example, from casual drinking buddy to close confidant. Trying various things together while making friends helps set these roles up.The role stage isn’t “happily ever after,” since friends and lovers keep reevaluating each other in terms of stimulus, value, and roles throughout each relationship. However, being successful in this stage does mean that two people have found a way to fit into each other’s lives.well.. i'm not sure if order matters or not..but what i felt is that sometimes many goes into the "roles" stage after the stimulus Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 can i quit? Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 My superiors on Mondays: Kage and Irodorido 2 Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robbiepass Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 insomnia. Quote Hello..? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 insomnia.*Brings out hammer* Quote How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 I am exhausted.. Quote Toro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 I want a LTR ... with a Pug. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 well.. i'm not sure if order matters or not..but what i felt is that sometimes many goes into the "roles" stage after the stimulusyea, that happens! and then it'll feel like something's missing i guess X_X people not gauging the values to see if they are truly compatible or not Quote "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 (edited) what a huge idiot. :angry: Edited December 11, 2012 by warlock88 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eeegz Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 noooo i am not a social worker, juz a student... A 2pidly helpful student >< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eeegz Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 Feel like banging my head on the table, but i am sure my small head wont be able to take it >: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slayen Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 I need to sleep a little more... Quote Here's to us, Here's to love, All the times that we messed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robbiepass Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 totally no mood to even start doing the assignment that is due tomorrow. :< Quote Hello..? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kage Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 I will crush your reality. Quote You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 MSN Messenger's getting superseded by Skype; I don't know how to operate this Skype thing. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 (edited) Edited December 11, 2012 by SeannyShortcake Kage, Irodorido, raizermocha and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 potato chips are yummy! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 I think you're hot. Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 Hoping to bump into my strong and protective other half who shares my quirky fashion sense. Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 cum twice? lol! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 Sorry if I'd been a disappointment time after time, meetups after meetups, years after years. Quote It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 many things to do before flying off..eg..planning my itinerary... melvinlam90 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melvinlam90 Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 I want mcspicy badly!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slayen Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 Back to work tomorrow! Seeing familiar colleagues and part-timers (That I don't know) LOL Quote Here's to us, Here's to love, All the times that we messed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gammaray Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 12.12.12 and I'm still alive Quote high frequency | biologically hazardous | penetrating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 (edited) I may often make mistakes of facts, but i rarely make mistakes of my feelings. Edited December 11, 2012 by Slynn MinWoo 1 Quote "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MinWoo Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 我吻过你的脸，虽然你不在我的身边，我还是祝福你过的好一点。 Quote Too fast to live, too young to die. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eeegz Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 I am tired of taking initiative for ppl. Why cant ppl take initiative for me sometimes...? Dont they know its tiring to always be the one to take initiative. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 working life is so sianz! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eeegz Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 Today is one of the day i feel bitchy =,= Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 12.12.12 is special! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eeegz Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 Whats the point of having good results when you have no true friends and no true happiness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 Yes good. Exynos 1 Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 tomorrow is the busiest day i supposed! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MinWoo Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 did something sinful today. Quote Too fast to live, too young to die. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 don't hurt yourself! love yourself! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 Helping a friend if you could help to vote for this cutie. Click on the link. Txhttp://promotion.binkd.com/Contest.aspx?id=5666&eid=235539 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 Helping a friend if you could help to vote for this cutie. Click on the link. Txhttp://promotion.bin...5666&eid=235539Looks like someone isn't sleepy enough tonight. Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest disillusioned Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 Don't think so much you silly boy. Just know that I'll always be here for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 Looks like someone isn't sleepy enough tonight.LOL! Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robbiepass Posted December 12, 2012 Report Share Posted December 12, 2012 having a blog is great. Quote Hello..? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeowPrince Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 Hmmmm.... I see someone familiar.... Quote Instagram @the_meowprince Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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