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After reading the blog post.. i wonder if its talking about me..

If its me.. Does it mean that people thinks that i am not putting in any effort in Friendships and brotherhood??

So am I someone who assume i know everyone v.well..?

I personally dont feel i know anyone VERY WELL in particular.. Everyone wear mask when talking/communicating with me.. I do not understand anyone very well actually.. I am trying to, or WAS trying to..

Really tired in doing all those kind of things..

Depressed on a Christmas.. What is this..

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My past few relationships don't last more than half a year because I was not exactly the best bf candidate then. It has been years since I dated any one. It doesn't help that I have a very small group of friends and don't meet new people. In 2012, 3 of my friends got hitched. So it's xmas eve and I have nothing to do and nobody to do it with. I am starting to ask myself if I am unloveable. Having been single for so long, I am getting to be real good at it and very used to doing things my way. Which means it will be difficult switching back to "compromise" mode when you are in a relationship. I would like to cut down on gratuitous sex with complete strangers but even finding a friend with benefits seems like mission impossible, much less someone to just hold and cuddle. Am I doomed?

welcome to the club! it's called growing up..

even though I'm fearing for my life, for the loneliness ahead..

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not really happy when used as a wet blanket.

friend wanna go clubbing, asked me along

i dun want to club,

friend used my name to tell bf we are just drinking

friend then asked me to come back at 2am to pick him up, else his new found friends won't let him leave early..

so hey, the wet blanket is here.. wtf...

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I'd always believe charisma > looks. If you have the looks but you speak like some cheap local gangster or country bumpkin, your uncivilized manners has already nullified your charm. However if you don't look extraordinary but you speak sensibly and is amazingly sociable and sincere enough, it'd balance out the look part. Because eventually the physical charm will fade as days goes by, it's the charisma that keeps one attractive.

That's my lousy analogy and theory. But I'd still believe in it even though looks makes a large part of the first impression. But things aside, just saying. No comments since I've neither, sucks to be ugly and talkative or sometimes, too loud. :(

It's better than I ever even knew.

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My 6 years favourite playmate told me he is getting attached. While I am saddened of losing him I am also happy he has found someone to love and be loved in return. He has 'my blessings'.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Tis a bitterwseet feeling, is it not? :/

Yeap it is.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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New Year Eve in Kuala Lumpur! Just spent $375 SGD for the return flights and 2 nights accommodation.

Can get street Nasi Lemak as I get in early.

Awwww!

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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New Year Eve in Kuala Lumpur! Just spent $375 SGD for the return flights and 2 nights accommodation.

Can get street Nasi Lemak as I get in early.

Awwww!

Forget about your sadness and fully enjoy your trip + nasi lemak in KL!

Btw, kinda expensive for the flight n accommodation...

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Forget about your sadness and fully enjoy your trip + nasi lemak in KL!

Btw, kinda expensive for the flight n accommodation...

Thanks, dude.

Surprisingly flights still ok. Flying on Jetstar on 31st and back 2nd Jan all at $109 plus taxes return tix,

Staying at the service apartment at Berjaya Times Square for 2 nights and I am paying 280 RM a night.

Total for both $375.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Sometimes when you're sad, you gotta go around listening to sad stories . It may tear you up a lil here and there but it doesn't make you feel worse. Instead, you'll realize there are sadder stories around you and you know if those people can survive, you've gotta stand up and fight for your life too.

It's better than I ever even knew.

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Thanks, dude.

Surprisingly flights still ok. Flying on Jetstar on 31st and back 2nd Jan all at $109 plus taxes return tix,

Staying at the service apartment at Berjaya Times Square for 2 nights and I am paying 280 RM a night.

Total for both $375.

It's quite a expensive if convert to RM, haha.

Oh, you staying at BTS, should told me earlier as if i can get a staff discount for you, lol!

Remember don't get addicted to nasi lemak as gain in calories, haha.

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Everyone is posting emo stuff here, but here i am all cheery eating ice cream from a tub.

Stay happy everyone!

Only Ben and Jerry's. Anything else is unacceptable, hurhur.

On another happy note, I finally got my dragonforged weapons after using all the curatives I can carry to kill a drake with 8 health bars lol.

 

 

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