The.Intrv. Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 The.Intrv, you are just making things difficult. I'm not gonna complicate things any further. Just hope that you will learn to grow up instead of lamenting yourself forever.Right. So now my lamenting has a link with a rational explanation in a "random thought" post. That's ... What lamenting is now? I hope you can be a little bit more relevant before you say that I'm trying to make things difficult here. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 Ambivalent about this.While you are correct that this kind of message is major turn-off, exposing the identity makes it look like you're not only shaming the act but the person as well.The focus is not directed properly.And so it was posted into the "random thought" thread, and not a "stone-that-sinner" thread. Uncertainty does not justify one's irrational rebuttals. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 And so it was posted into the "random thought" thread, and not a "stone-that-sinner" thread. Uncertainty does not justify one's irrational rebuttals.While you are right that this is not an shaming thread but this is a forum.There will always be views here that runs contrary to what you believe in. If you cannot take opposing opinions, justified or not, then you better if you leave the internet.Anyway, that was my random thought about your random thought. We don't need to justify anything to anyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 (edited) While you are right that this is not an shaming thread but this is a forum.There will always be views here that runs contrary to what you believe in. If you cannot take opposing opinions, justified or not, then you better if you leave the internet.Anyway, that was my random thought about your random thought. We don't need to justify anything to anyone.Now there is a certain difference between an emotionally charged rebuttal and an opinion. Yours was an opinion; there were no negatively charged emotions. Thank you for your input, to which I will humbly dissent. That, too, was my random thought. Edited January 3, 2013 by The.Intrv. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 Right. So now my lamenting has a link with a rational explanation in a "random thought" post. That's ... What lamenting is now? I hope you can be a little bit more relevant before you say that I'm trying to make things difficult here.Hey I was trying to be nice to you. Yes, you are free to lament here (although I feel that excessive lamenting won't improve anything including your life). I was already making myself relevant earlier on, just that you failed to notice. I have already pointed out that you shouldn't expose them in your lamentations. Lamentations and exposing them are two different things. You could lament about anything but is there really a need to expose them? Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 Now there is a certain difference between an emotionally charged rebuttal and an opinion. Yours was an opinion; there were no negatively charged emotions. Thank you for your input, to which I will humbly dissent. That, too, was my random thought.That was hardly "an emotionally charged rebuttal" but lolkays. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 Hey I was trying to be nice to you. Yes, you are free to lament here (although I feel that excessive lamenting won't improve anything including your life). I was already making myself relevant earlier on, just that you failed to notice. I have already pointed out that you shouldn't expose them in your lamentations. Lamentations and exposing them are two different things. You could lament about anything but is there really a need to expose them?I believe we have a totally different perception of the word "lament" here. I will not justify mine, and neither will I try to rebut yours. Bless you. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Friskie Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 A response to all that is above:Meow. That is all. =) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 OMG, F.I.R. concert on 26th Jan!SAKJSALKDJLA/dies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anglodude Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 It wouldn't be deemed as exposing when such lewd requests are being blatantly expressed. Think about it. These same words have probably been BCC-ed to tens of guys out here. Retrospectively, I was doing them a favor by helping spread their messages of love to the others. Love? More like lust hahaha Quote Best of both worlds? Pretty much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kunshinji Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 Love the current DP. Haha!And this was what I heard going on at another table, while sitting at the cafe earlier today."Look here, let's face it and get done with the white elephant in the room. Both of us are gay." samsara 1 Quote - It's always darkest before the dawn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 Seems like I just stepped into an aftermath of a storm that just happened. loool Quote It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 Treat people the way you would be treated. Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kunshinji Posted January 3, 2013 Report Share Posted January 3, 2013 "Look, I find some of what you teach suspectBecause I'm used to relying on intellectBut I try to open up to what I don't knowBecause reason saysI should've died three years ago"No other roadNo other wayNo day but today Quote - It's always darkest before the dawn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anglodude Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 Some people need to learn how to be calm and just chill iamziz 1 Quote Best of both worlds? Pretty much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 samsara 1 Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anglodude Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 Old GC. Haha Quote Best of both worlds? Pretty much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 TGIF Quote Toro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 (edited) i'm excited abt the start of new term soonNO OFFENSE TO THE OTHER UNI PEOPLE BUTTTTT IT'S REALLY LIKE A CRAZY ROLLERCOASTER RIDE ALL OVER AGAIN 8D Edited January 4, 2013 by Slynn Quote "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 i'm excited abt the start of new term soonNO OFFENSE TO THE OTHER UNI PEOPLE BUTTTTT IT'S REALLY LIKE A CRAZY ROLLERCOASTER RIDE ALL OVER AGAIN 8DHAHAS. Not with exams in two weeks time. ._.But a random thought:Which came first- Thought or desire?Thinking that you want something, thus making you want it; Or you inherently wanted it, which caused you to think that you want it.Is there a clear dichotomy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 (edited) - Edited January 4, 2013 by warlock88 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anglodude Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 kids these days need to grow up.messages send from a chub is LEWD. you know what your own reasons were when you post that.thank you.How is it lewd? Just asking The.Intrv. 1 Quote Best of both worlds? Pretty much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 How is it lewd? Just askingreferring to above. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anglodude Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 referring to above.I don't fathom, but ah well. Life goes on. No point harbouring hate and negativity Quote Best of both worlds? Pretty much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 Just a few more hours to go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 Will love to go back late..Alone and lonely Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 1st trip in 2013 might just take place sooner than expected. If God gives green lights :yuk: :clap: :hat: - Dubai-Cape Town-Kenya-Bangkok happening later this month (next 2 weeks). Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slayen Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 How obvious do I have to be?! Quote Here's to us, Here's to love, All the times that we messed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 Did I say it was directed at you? =Phahahaha let a man dream!saw this status on someone's Trevvy profile,"dun be ugly and fat. at least be ugly - go gym"lol... not sure what to think of thatanyways, POP LO!!!! Keep hearing that BMT is your most carefree period of your 2 years of NS. which makes me kinda worried about posting and unit life but I hope it goes well. I'll miss my platoon and platoon commanders a hell lot though. Good bye Gryphon platoon 4 04/12! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 hahahaha let a man dream!saw this status on someone's Trevvy profile,"dun be ugly and fat. at least be ugly - go gym"lol... not sure what to think of thatanyways, POP LO!!!! Keep hearing that BMT is your most carefree period of your 2 years of NS. which makes me kinda worried about posting and unit life but I hope it goes well. I'll miss my platoon and platoon commanders a hell lot though. Good bye Gryphon platoon 4 04/12!Congrats!Enjoy block leave first! The rest will settle themselves :> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 Congrats!Enjoy block leave first! The rest will settle themselves :>thanks. hope i'll enjoy the block leave like how i planned it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 Me when playing motion capture games: Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 Whatever I do will never be enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 sometimes i look into the mirror and i see my fat, flabby disgusting unappealing body, then i look at my face. this is the face that people say, "oh you're really cute", this is the fact that made people mistake me as a "hunk" (only to be sorely disappointed and some angry afterward) and it makes me wonder...wouldn't it be better if i were just an ugly fxxk? an ugly face, with an ugly body... is a good combination, then i can give up on myself, stop all the effort that doesn't seem to work and just die. so much more convenient than having to put up a fight with myself every day; struggling to "be the best", to "work for myself" to reach "that level of perfection" that seems further and further away as each day passes. let some random dude who has potentional for a hot bod to have a cute face, a garbage like me doesn't deserve this.i just really hate myself at times. i just hate how i have to do everything alone. i just hate how the world doesn't seem all that fair... i hate i hate i hate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 (edited) i hate i hate i hate.That's the root of your problem right there. Edited January 5, 2013 by EasleyLim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anglodude Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 sometimes i look into the mirror and i see my fat, flabby disgusting unappealing body, then i look at my face. this is the face that people say, "oh you're really cute", this is the fact that made people mistake me as a "hunk" (only to be sorely disappointed and some angry afterward) and it makes me wonder...wouldn't it be better if i were just an ugly fxxk? an ugly face, with an ugly body... is a good combination, then i can give up on myself, stop all the effort that doesn't seem to work and just die. so much more convenient than having to put up a fight with myself every day; struggling to "be the best", to "work for myself" to reach "that level of perfection" that seems further and further away as each day passes. let some random dude who has potentional for a hot bod to have a cute face, a garbage like me doesn't deserve this.i just really hate myself at times. i just hate how i have to do everything alone. i just hate how the world doesn't seem all that fair... i hate i hate i hate.Turn this self hatred into motivation to get fitter and trimmer! Self hate is never good, man. All the best! Quote Best of both worlds? Pretty much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 Turn this self hatred into motivation to get fitter and trimmer! Self hate is never good, man. All the best!n-th time i heard something like this... but what's the point if i have to do all these alone? really wish someone would think I'm doing something and give me a chance but no i don't anyone really gives a fxxk and that's what annoys me all right. i'm super afraid of getting left behind; of being someone whom no one gives a shit about That's the root of your problem right there. unfortunately that's the easiest thing to do now, no? i'm sick and tired of putting up a fight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 Oh Cap'n.You've been hating for as long as I know.Keep training hard after POP bah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 I have learned patience can be rewarding though it is a pain in the ass. Been wanting to go to East Africa. Got tixs. 2 weeks of travelling. Dubai-Cape Town-Kenya-Bangkok in 2 weeks time. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 n-th time i heard something like this... but what's the point if i have to do all these alone? really wish someone would think I'm doing something and give me a chance but no i don't anyone really gives a fxxk and that's what annoys me all right. i'm super afraid of getting left behind; of being someone whom no one gives a shit aboutunfortunately that's the easiest thing to do now, no? i'm sick and tired of putting up a fightPffht, living your life for someone else's validation is the saddest thing ever.Have fun moping around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 (edited) As I lay in my coffin, staring at the blackness around me, the lushness of serenity settled within me. Edited January 5, 2013 by XiaoMessy Quote How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 Ahhh I want to go travelling again although my school's starting in a week's time. Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted January 6, 2013 Report Share Posted January 6, 2013 Shit happens - Villain's storyXD Quote "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted January 6, 2013 Report Share Posted January 6, 2013 I've realized I'm still just a child, throwing tantrums over the things I couldn't get.Time to grow up... before I fall deeper into the trap I've laid up for myself. iamziz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irkandar92 Posted January 6, 2013 Report Share Posted January 6, 2013 I'm thinking of you. I don't care if you don't think of me... I Miss You! Quote If you’re in love then there is no short, tall, fat, or thin only i love you and you love me.If you have love nothing can get in the way. If roses weren’t red and violets weren’t blue i’m pretty sure i would still love you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted January 6, 2013 Report Share Posted January 6, 2013 (edited) I've realized I'm still just a child, throwing tantrums over the things I couldn't get.Time to grow up... before I fall deeper into the trap I've laid up for myself.人总是想要的很多 得到的嫌太少黑与白都一样好 没有谁绝对重要偏偏人就爱比较 受的苦全自找It's normal to feel that way, there's no shame in it. Just learn to manage it properly. Edited January 6, 2013 by EasleyLim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted January 6, 2013 Report Share Posted January 6, 2013 management... think that's the thing I need to learn, haha.once upon a time, there was a British guy who was working in the USA, who messaged me on PlanetRomeo. we exchanged emails and chatted a bit on Google Talk. Recently he told me he's coming to Singapore and we exchanged our Facebooks. For some reason we hit it off pretty well & he said he really likes me. And he's flying over this Thursday.Now I'm not one to believe in fairytales, nor do I believe the sweet words of people whom I've never even met before. But, maybe I should put a little faith in my future, because after all, what could get worse? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slayen Posted January 6, 2013 Report Share Posted January 6, 2013 Think. What went wrong? Time to review mistakes and restart. Quote Here's to us, Here's to love, All the times that we messed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted January 6, 2013 Report Share Posted January 6, 2013 there's two sides of me.. maybe i should let the darker side takes over more often Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted January 6, 2013 Report Share Posted January 6, 2013 Do you some time wakes up and think: irkandar92 1 Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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