EasleyLim Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 Saddest thing would be that they only realize that when it's too late.Or they don't, at all.You can discover the cure for cancer or solve world hunger but goddammit, all they're gonna remember about you is that you're gay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 You can discover the cure for cancer or solve world hunger but goddammit, all they're gonna remember about you is that you're gay.Sadface.jpg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 i believe i have made the right decision every time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 You can discover the cure for cancer or solve world hunger but goddammit, all they're gonna remember about you is that you're gay.that is very sad :mellow: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 I love finding people to have sex with because it's so easy & it's so, free? Anyway no one really likes me so might as well go all out & be a sex tool to other sex tools. That my friends, is the sad truth of life - that true love doesn't exist and is a mere fairytale... yep. So all gay couples disgust me as well... a certain foolishness in their eyes as they believe they would be together, but trust me, nothing lasts forever, much less something as intangible as love. samsara 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 Don't shove your beliefs up our asses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 HELP!!!!! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 I love finding people to have sex with because it's so easy & it's so, free? Anyway no one really likes me so might as well go all out & be a sex tool to other sex tools. That my friends, is the sad truth of life - that true love doesn't exist and is a mere fairytale... yep. So all gay couples disgust me as well... a certain foolishness in their eyes as they believe they would be together, but trust me, nothing lasts forever, much less something as intangible as love.So jaded wor, lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeowPrince Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 Ewww. One look at some stupid threads and I really wonder do those idiots really hate Singapore that much? Quote Instagram @the_meowprince Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 Ewww. One look at some stupid threads and I really wonder do those idiots really hate Singapore that much?The ones about the White Paper? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 Thank you, Internet, for allowing me to discover the Junjou series. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeowPrince Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 The ones about the White Paper?Horrible right? Bleaah Quote Instagram @the_meowprince Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 Horrible right? BleaahLe sigh. I know where they're coming from, I understand why they would think that way but... aiyah, they're so consumed by anger that they fail to look at the big picture. I only wish they would be more, eloquent about their demands. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeowPrince Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 Le sigh.I know where they're coming from, I understand why they would think that way but... aiyah, they're so consumed by anger that they fail to look at the big picture. I only wish they would be more, eloquent about their demands.Anger makes them dumb. And dumber to allow anger to cloud themselves.Won't be surprised should they think they are "mature"/"smart" enough to post such nonsense.Oh well, just have to make sure such people do not end up in positions of power/decision. That'll be really really bad. Quote Instagram @the_meowprince Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StupidBoy Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 I want to do well, but yet my "well" have no limit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 (edited) 寝たほうがいい！ Edited February 2, 2013 by sean_sean Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 this morning during RT, my PC said I'm very fat & punched my tummy (playfully). yesterday afternoon another of my PC told me I'm not chubby, I'm "cute".okay, now to transfer these mindsets to this community and all will be perfect... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topLTR_93 Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 So, my Encik decides to make my life difficult by not approving my Exit Permit for CNY. Not due to Ops/Manning requirements or anything - just purely that he dislikes me.I flatly refuse to LLST. We will see how the game goes. Quote Sianz. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kage Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 All these bloody hypocrites. Saying a thing and doing yet another. If you're afraid of teaming with a mate that will bring disadvantage to you, just simply say so. I mean it's just that simple. Rather than coming out with a bunch of excuses like, "Oh I'm resting now, maybe later." or "My game room is full." etc etc. Bitch please. Maybe I'm sort of being overly sensitive but ya, can't believe that I actually initiated to try da play games with such insincere bastards.And when I finally thought that woo, there's someone I could actually play with, the same thing happens again. Seriously? No matter what game, my friends have never done that to me, maybe that explains a lot. Quote You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takahome Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 Sian think really lonely life. Argh merlinkun 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 Sian think really lonely life. Argh#ForeverAloneClub Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgbb Posted February 2, 2013 Report Share Posted February 2, 2013 All for the wrong reasons. Quote <span style='color: #ff0000'>It's the thought that counts. </span> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blissfull Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 Haven't slept at all. Need to travel to the other side of Singapore now. Good night on the bumpy train ride. I am giving no old man or preggie any seats. Hopefully I can wake up before I reaches that place. Quote "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ice.ice.boy Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 aimless Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 the issue here is not about having too many things.. it's having to fit things into my small small room! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 I think hanging around the gay community is poison. All these while, I've been feeling so pressurized about looking good, about needing to fit all the criteria of the "perfect gay man" to have a boyfriend... feeling so ashamed of myself and filled with so much anger and hatred... and what for?It was only when I enlisted into the army and got to know these straight men... normal guys, that I realized we're all but young people. Most of them don't have a girlfriend, or have never been in a relationship, so what makes me so special that i need to have one now? Because I'm gay? But that's really ironic, no...?I think I've figured out what I need to do, and I think I know which way I should go."You see? That's the problem with people these days. They lose their faith, and by losing faith, they forgot who they should fear." Kiseki, FirsTimer, kunshinji and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 pain! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 I think hanging around the gay community is poison. All these while, I've been feeling so pressurized about looking good, about needing to fit all the criteria of the "perfect gay man" to have a boyfriend... feeling so ashamed of myself and filled with so much anger and hatred... and what for?It was only when I enlisted into the army and got to know these straight men... normal guys, that I realized we're all but young people. Most of them don't have a girlfriend, or have never been in a relationship, so what makes me so special that i need to have one now? Because I'm gay? But that's really ironic, no...?I think I've figured out what I need to do, and I think I know which way I should go."You see? That's the problem with people these days. They lose their faith, and by losing faith, they forgot who they should fear."It's not limited to this community, straight guys can be more vain and desperate than gay guys, but we do emphasize a lot more on physical appeareance.Why do you care so much about what others think? Why do you compare yourself to others? Why do you allow yourself to play by other people's rules? Why do you even bother to give a fuck about what other people think? It's your life, and no one but you, will be the one living it. Do you REALLY want to live as someone else's expectations? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 Do you REALLY want to live as someone else's expectations?No. I've been having self-conflicts about this the longest time... and I think it's really stupid to live by people's expectations but there are times... just moments when you feel if you don't you're gonna end up alone. And I don't mean alone as in "single", I mean alone as in "being by yourself". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 No. I've been having self-conflicts about this the longest time... and I think it's really stupid to live by people's expectations but there are times... just moments when you feel if you don't you're gonna end up alone. And I don't mean alone as in "single", I mean alone as in "being by yourself".I find life a lot more bearable once I stop giving a shit about things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BranLim Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 No. I've been having self-conflicts about this the longest time... and I think it's really stupid to live by people's expectations but there are times... just moments when you feel if you don't you're gonna end up alone. And I don't mean alone as in "single", I mean alone as in "being by yourself".In fact, I respect and like a person more if they just be themselves. As my signature puts it, I rather accept someone with all their perks and quirks than to accept someone who tries to be all perks. Individual uniqueness is what I call sexy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 thank you guys. I will strive to stand as my own. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aXdannyXa Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 thank you guys. I will strive to stand as my own. Somethin' for ya. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 (edited) If you're living a really happy life, you shouldn't have to keep flaunting your happiness. It's as if you are insecure and you need to constantly remind yourself just how happy you are by talking about YOU, YOU YOU non stopAnd the worst part of all, you are hurting some other people. Edited February 3, 2013 by Slynn Quote "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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SeannyShortcake Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 Socially awkward me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schmuckisms Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 (edited) ^^ oh gawd what did i just read. 20x worse than sherlock x watson Edited February 3, 2013 by schmuckisms Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 Valentine's curse. Quote It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 HAHA OMG how would someone photoshop a badly drawn portrait, XDDDD; SeannyShortcake, warlock88 and merlinkun 3 Quote "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 At first I thought it is about Pac Man then I realize it wasn't and I got a bit sad. Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 hopefully tmr is a better day! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 Socially awkward me.You socially awkward is like me being socially awesome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted February 4, 2013 Report Share Posted February 4, 2013 (edited) I've been thinking about what happened between us. I don't think I've explained myself well enough when I ended things with you so abruptly. I would talk to you through our usual medium but that would break my own rule. But I figured you'll read this thread so this is the best I can do.You asked me once what I liked about you and I said I didn't know. Now I do. I like that you're strong, both physically and mentally but at the same time, there's a certain air of sadness around you too. You might be built like a fucking ox and your arms are probably thicker than my thighs, and you could, quite literally, punch me through a wall if you really wanted to but that's not what really attracted me though; it's your mentality. Despite all the shit that your family gave you when you came out to them, you still loved them like, well, your family.But that tinge of vulnerability was always there, and it jas been quite a while since I last felt like I want to take care of something but I guess that's just my problem. You cared equally for everyone, never once being judgemental and you truly BELIEVE that people are inherently good. You can really walk the talk and you're like everybody's best friend.Maybe that's why I feel insecure about our friendship.I yearn for depth but breadth is all you offered. Granted, you had no obligations to fulfil (and I, no rights to make that kind of demand) but it really made me felt like I'm nothing more than just your whatsapp bitch. None of this is your fault though, I suppose, since I didn't tell you anything.And another thing, my unrequited feelings for you. I know perfectly well we will never get together yet I explicitly chose to remain by your side. "If I can't be his lover, maybe I can be his friend," I thought. But I've grossly underestimated my ability to suppress those feelings. Everytime you complain to me about your r/s problems, I just sit there going, "What is wrong with that guy?! You're an $!^*| delight to be around with. Wtf!" Being around you but not being able to be WITH you is just exhausting.It's so mentally exhausting trying to be your friend yet wanting to your lover at the same time. I dread seeing your msgs popped up even though it made me happy at the same time. I didn't even realize this friendship, if you can even call it that, has become toxic until we argued and stopped talking for a while.I stop fretting over your msgs. I even stopped listening to sad emo songs about unrecipocrated love for that few weeks lol. I had forgotton about you and I've come to miss how liberating it was when my world didn't revolve around you. And when you msged me again, that was when I realize I couldn't - and I won't - continue this facade of a "friendship" any more. I've always to wanted to try your tiramisu but I guess it's never gonna happen. Anyway, that's why I have to cut you off. But I'll say this (since you tend to overthink everything), there's nothing wrong with you. Don't let this affect your future r/s kay? Edited February 4, 2013 by EasleyLim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kage Posted February 4, 2013 Report Share Posted February 4, 2013 (edited) I've been thinking about what happened between us. I don't think I've explained myself well enough when I ended things with you so abruptly. I would talk to you through our usual medium but that would break my own rule. But I figured you'll read this thread so this is the best I can do.You asked me once what I liked about you and I said I didn't know. Now I do. I like that you're strong, both physically and mentally but at the same time, there's a certain air of sadness around you too. You might be built like a fucking ox and your arms are probably thicker than my thighs, and you could, quite literally, punch me through a wall if you really wanted to but that's not what really attracted me though; it's your mentality. Despite all the shit that your family gave you when you came out to them, you still loved them like, well, your family.But that tinge of vulnerability was always there, and it jas been quite a while since I last felt like I want to take care of something but I guess that's just my problem. You cared equally for everyone, never once being judgemental and you truly BELIEVE that people are inherently good. You can really walk the talk and you're like everybody's best friend.Maybe that's why I feel insecure about our friendship.I yearn for depth but breadth is all you offered. Granted, you had no obligations to fulfil (and I, no rights to make that kind of demand) but it really made me felt like I'm nothing more than just your whatsapp bitch. None of this is your fault though, I suppose, since I didn't tell you anything.And another thing, my unrequited feelings for you. I know perfectly well we will never get together yet I explicitly chose to remain by your side. "If I can't be his lover, maybe I can be his friend," I thought. But I've grossly underestimated my ability to suppress those feelings. Everytime you complain to me about your r/s problems, I just sit there going, "What is wrong with that guy?! You're an $!^&#*| delight to be around with. Wtf!" Being around you but not being able to be WITH you is just exhausting.It's so mentally exhausting trying to be your friend yet wanting to your lover at the same time. I dread seeing your msgs popped up even though it made me happy at the same time. I didn't even realize this friendship, if you can even call it that, has become toxic until we argued and stopped talking for a while.I stop fretting over your msgs. I even stopped listening to sad emo songs about unrecipocrated love for that few weeks lol. I had forgotton about you and I've come to miss how liberating it was when my world didn't revolve around you. And when you msged me again, that was when I realize I couldn't - and I won't - continue this facade of a "friendship" any more. I've always to wanted to try your tiramisu but I guess it's never gonna happen. Anyway, that's why I have to cut you off. But I'll say this (since you tend to overthink everything), there's nothing wrong with you. Don't let this affect your future r/s kay? Makes me think of the things I've been through. Although different in a sense but fundamentally the same. I feel you. Edited February 4, 2013 by kaze Quote You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kunshinji Posted February 4, 2013 Report Share Posted February 4, 2013 I bought a gift for you. Though we don't seem to be moving this *points to both him and I* relationship, or what-should-we-call-this; at the least I'd be glad that I got you a nice gift as a mark of possibly the last time we're meeting.No birthday card either, because I don't want to remember it so vividly. But happy birthday anyway. Quote - It's always darkest before the dawn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kunshinji Posted February 4, 2013 Report Share Posted February 4, 2013 A bunch of colleagues were guessing my age."21!""Hmmm... 19?""23 la.. Just grad not long ago, right?""XX"Everybody looked at the last colleague shocked. I pat him and went, "Yes, I'm XX years old."Like sheesh, is it that hard? Quote - It's always darkest before the dawn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted February 4, 2013 Report Share Posted February 4, 2013 bye ‘’cinderella''! Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melvinlam90 Posted February 4, 2013 Report Share Posted February 4, 2013 had a bloody red bean bun for dinner-.- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted February 4, 2013 Report Share Posted February 4, 2013 I'm just like any other person in the crowd. You'll never spot me. Quote It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illumaNova Posted February 4, 2013 Report Share Posted February 4, 2013 don't be desperate in finding love all the time, it will come to you one day when your mind is clear and when you are more mature in mind FirsTimer 1 Quote .......Inner Peace....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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