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Flying in a few hours and back tentatively mid-June. Will be less active here during my absence but will make an effort to contribute whenever I get the opportunity. Till then, Keep Smiling guys and be nice to everyone you meet.

 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Someone texted me this morning telling me that my photo was in the Strait's Times post about Pink Dot. I do not wanna see the newspaper. No no no no no.

"Honey, the best things in life

are worth looking for over and over again

'Till your eyes just can't see no more."

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Hmm over the recent months, some friends and online friends were surprised in

noticing that I have put topless pic on my profile and app. Mayb it has appalled some

individuals as they knew me from from awhile back. A person that was did not

believe in having fun or sex before having a bf or soul mate.

Over time I realise that love/other half is not found through our deeds, it is not

something that cn be earned. Happinness such as a relationship with another individual

occurs unexpectedly. Mayb i would not be attached in this lifetime, so why not

feel free and experience what we are given, to b able to enjoy with others.

Sex is not a bad thing definitely, I feel it is a good time fr myself to loosen up from

my usual uptight nature I have almost always been entrapped in. See what comes along.

Art makes the world go round! Love is the entirety of it!

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I feel that it is important for one to pursue what they want without considering the looks of others. Do what you want. Seek for your happiness. As long as you're happy and you won't bring unhappiness to others, you're just.

You can complain that roses have thorns, or you can also rejoice that thorns have roses

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To what measure of extrovertism makes one an extrovert, while how much to a degree is upbringing influential to a child's development into a socially-healthy and active person?

 

Sometimes life is what we make out of it, while half the time - are we paying for what our parents put into us instead of foraging ourselves? Did you not felt slight pain when you felt a live wire, or were you just told not to touch anything electrical to learn that bare wires are not to be messed with?

 

The caveat for our minds have to be lowered to be open-minded enough, yet raised to allow a certain level of thinking to reach us; think about it - did your parents raise you up to think like that? Or was it influenced, or education that told you so?

 

Ponder.

- It's always darkest before the dawn.

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When my frens and i was outside zouk drinking, i took out my mobile and played some music. And they were like can u pls stop playing AJ music - remixes played in PLAY club! and i was like.. thats nice wad.. but we were all afraid that ppl know that we are AJ! and the fact is.. we were there pointing at guys and kept saying that he is AJ.. LOL..

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Blowing Wind Main Forum:

 

BlowingWind Bulletin Board Without An Attitude. A forum for mature Singapore GAY man.

 

Yet I find many members who are in their late teens and early twenties.

 

Not that I mind, but when they cruise me or I cruise them, they say sheepishly they're not into older men.

 

Man, that's why I left Grindr and Trevvy and PlanetRomeo and whatsapp to be a member here with my own kind who will not mind each other for their maturity and age ...

 

sulk sulk

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Blowing Wind Main Forum:

BlowingWind Bulletin Board Without An Attitude. A forum for mature Singapore GAY man.

Yet I find many members who are in their late teens and early twenties.

Not that I mind, but when they cruise me or I cruise them, they say sheepishly they're not into older men.

Man, that's why I left Grindr and Trevvy and PlanetRomeo and whatsapp to be a member here with my own kind who will not mind each other for their maturity and age ...

sulk sulk

Aj community is superficial as hell. If you got a hot bod and handsome face, there's no reason why they would say not. That said, I like older guys. There's something charming about men and not boys.

 

 

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Greetings from Cape Town

 

I thought this article might be of interest to some of you:

 

A guy got dumped because he has a small dick:

 

 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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"I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close."

 

Pablo Neruda

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Life's not worth a damn 'til you can say,
"Hey world, I am what I am!"

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According to God-chosen high moral person April Hyak I am on-par with being a murderer, prevert and rapist just by sitting on the chair and doing mundane things. I would laugh if her son or daughter turn out to be gay.

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Random pondering

 

1. I am always found skeptical when someone tells me they have found true love everywhere and anyhow else, except "in person".

 

2. What is "hope" really, if all we do is sit back and wait for things to happen?

 

3. Tell me again, how is your heart broken once again by an individual after a few weeks; and yet you tell someone who got dumped after a long term relationship that there are "many fishes in the ocean, plenty of flowers in the garden, loads of sand on the beach"?

 

4. Enough about these "you-shaped" wreckages/holes/emptiness/hurt/scars that only "that someone" can fill or even inflict. Ever thought if these crevices/scars/wounds were self-inflicted?

 

5. Hate to be judged, yet judging others. What more?

- It's always darkest before the dawn.

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It's only after a while, we learn the difference between holding a hand, and falling in love.

You begin to learn that kisses, don't always mean something. And promises can be broken just as quickly as they are made.

Welcome to Life.

"Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own."

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I long for the day when "White Writing" is no longer applicable.

White Writing by Carol Ann Duffy
 

No vows written to wed you,
I write them white,
my lips on yours,
light in the soft hours of our married years.

 

No prayers written to bless you,
I write them white,
your soul a flame,
bright in the window of your maiden name.


No laws written to guard you,
I write them white,
your hand in mine,
palm against palm, lifeline, heartline.


No rules written to guide you,
I write them white,
words on the wind,
traced with a stick where we walk on the sand.


No news written to tell you,
I write it white,
foam on a wave
as we lift up our skirts in the sea, wade,

 

see last gold sun behind clouds,
inked water in moonlight.

No poems written to praise you,

I write them white.

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Life's not worth a damn 'til you can say,
"Hey world, I am what I am!"

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