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after staying long enough,

my comments for some are :

they feel that people are choosy, not sincere into committing friendship, making many hi-bye friends

however, when asked, most are forever reluctant to go out, last minute fly kite, unwilling to travel, unwilling to confirm the gathering and only agreeing last minute.

conclusion: most only wanted sincere friendship with you if you are better than them (in terms of looks at least). so that the friendship may developed into something more.

Reflections: I sometimes act like this people, must reflect and tell myself, it does hurt to be the less popular, so I shall not be the same.

People's unwillingness might have stem from their insecurities at not looking handsome or having hot bods. God knows it's already hard enough to be accepted straight peoples, don't even talk about the notoriously superficial gay community. It could also be that they simply can't make it to the outings due to unforseen circumstances that life throws at them; suddenly boss calls for meeting or mom decides to have family dinner etc, so don't fault people too early on that. Shit happens and can disrupt even the best organized plans. Another possibility is that you guys simply don't click. Just because both are gay doesn't mean you guys can, and will, immediately become best of friends. Different people have different interests and personality, so it's only natural that sexual orientation becomes secondary when looking for friendship. In light of all those possibilities, do you think that your conclusion might have been done a tad too hasty? Edited by EasleyLim
 

 

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Three bewildering moments today:


1) My new tutor made everyone in the class do a little introduction about themselves. One of the questions he posed was what do we intend to do after we graduate from polytechnic. I said I hope to be admitted into NUS FASS but wish I could go overseas if I get a scholarship or have a sugar daddy to sponsor me. To which he quickly jumped in, "or a sugar mummy. It's not too late yet."

2) I was hanging out with a female friend after school. As we came up the escalator at bugis+ a promotor of a bridal company flash out a flyer and asked in chinese, "Are you prepared to propose?"

 

3) Later as I was walking around with the same female friend in bugis junction, a young man approached us to sell us a $10 voucher for a food chain (that sells chicken) which the proceeds go to underprivileged children. In persuading me to buy, he kept repeating the line "buy for your girlfriend". I was laughing in the inside. I did buy it. $10 for about a minute of stand-up comedy?

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Three bewildering moments today:

1) My new tutor made everyone in the class do a little introduction about themselves. One of the questions he posed was what do we intend to do after we graduate from polytechnic. I said I hope to be admitted into NUS FASS but wish I could go overseas if I get a scholarship or have a sugar daddy to sponsor me. To which he quickly jumped in, "or a sugar mummy. It's not too late yet."

2) I was hanging out with a female friend after school. As we came up the escalator at bugis+ a promotor of a bridal company flash out a flyer and asked in chinese, "Are you prepared to propose?"

 

3) Later as I was walking around with the same female friend in bugis junction, a young man approached us to sell us a $10 voucher for a food chain (that sells chicken) which the proceeds go to underprivileged children. In persuading me to buy, he kept repeating the line "buy for your girlfriend". I was laughing in the inside. I did buy it. $10 for about a minute of stand-up comedy?

Intersting day . Haha I ....

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right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

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Besides the need to learn English before he flies to Australia, he needs to get his eyes to read not his dick to read profiles.

 

One of the idiots in BW who ignores profile contents and making a fool of himself. He should be glad I am not exposing his stupidity by revealing his username here.

 

Want to do 'an Singaporean'. WTF!

 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

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It irks me when some people acts selfishly and insensitively, and then they think they're being cool or individualistic.

I should probably give some sarcastic applause the next time I encounter another prick like that. 

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well, how can a big frame guy, even after trying his best to slim down, be accepted

when your eyes are fixed only on lean tone guys?

 

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