novacek Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 i just want to meet someone and have us be just like the movies. just to make myself feel better about my life. then i can go back to the real world with a smile on my face. Quote peace.love.music Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SomeGuyInSg Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 These 3 days I've been very tired emotionally. What a huge guilt trip. Someone I wasn't close to and not very popular in camp had invited me to his birthday party on Thursday. I agreed to his hopeful expression, assuming some mutual friends from the unit would be there. But I found out on the day itself that few were attending. I did not want to show up empty-handed at a party of someone I don't know well and awkwardly have a free meal alone. But I knew the guys he invited were all planning to not turn up, and he seemed so happy talking about getting food and cake for everyone and I felt so guilty I would play a part in his disappointing party. My best friend broke up with his boyfriend on Friday. I was the one who got them together, and the one mediating their fights all these while. It's not the first time they tried breaking up. I met the bf for supper, and he wanted to drink in sorrow and sleep at absolute overnight. I listen to both sides' stories and give advice to both but I've grown weary. What should I do for a relationship that is falling apart between 2 guys whom I'm both close with? I'm doubting the efforts I've done to keep them together. I'm doubting if they belong together. And I'm most guilty for doubting if my friendships with them will survive their breakup. I finally got to meet a friend after 4 weeks today. He's not totally a friend. He started off as someone who dated me. We could understand each other so well, it was everything he wanted for a relationship. But I didn't feel the same towards him and had rejected him. It was painful, but he had accepted the rejection and became 'just friends' with me. Or so it seems, all this while, as he continued to like me while pretending he is okay with being just friends. And today he ended our friendship. He confessed that he fears his secret love would one day ruin both him and me. Why have I been so oblivious to his pain, as I naively thought we could be friends. He said it's for our best to get our distance, and I agreed. Tonight, I feel like a sinner. Quote 23 chn 173 63 trevvy/planetromeo same username up for friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest IamPineapple Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 The Hill at Sembarwang Airbase, If you are lucky enough to have any friend who's posted to Sembarwang Airbase, they should notice that small path which leads up to the Officer Mass on top of the hill. Although i assume it's not documented in Singapore history, my seniors says it serves as a WW2 Hospital on top of the hill which comes with a mortuary ( that was thankfully demolished due to huntings ) claimed by some early contractors who's building the Officer Mass. Half way tru the hill, there's a bunk, well you did be thinking nothing much about the bunk but it resembles a 3 story Christian Cross ( when view from above ) with 2 toilets linking to the end of the shorter cross. Dark figures and shadows are seen almost every night on the bunk. Side note, i do hope those posted to Sembarwang Airbase to be prepared to see some huntings... dark shadows on the pavement etc... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blissfull Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 These 3 days I've been very tired emotionally. What a huge guilt trip. Someone I wasn't close to and not very popular in camp had invited me to his birthday party on Thursday. I agreed to his hopeful expression, assuming some mutual friends from the unit would be there. But I found out on the day itself that few were attending. I did not want to show up empty-handed at a party of someone I don't know well and awkwardly have a free meal alone. But I knew the guys he invited were all planning to not turn up, and he seemed so happy talking about getting food and cake for everyone and I felt so guilty I would play a part in his disappointing party. My best friend broke up with his boyfriend on Friday. I was the one who got them together, and the one mediating their fights all these while. It's not the first time they tried breaking up. I met the bf for supper, and he wanted to drink in sorrow and sleep at absolute overnight. I listen to both sides' stories and give advice to both but I've grown weary. What should I do for a relationship that is falling apart between 2 guys whom I'm both close with? I'm doubting the efforts I've done to keep them together. I'm doubting if they belong together. And I'm most guilty for doubting if my friendships with them will survive their breakup. I finally got to meet a friend after 4 weeks today. He's not totally a friend. He started off as someone who dated me. We could understand each other so well, it was everything he wanted for a relationship. But I didn't feel the same towards him and had rejected him. It was painful, but he had accepted the rejection and became 'just friends' with me. Or so it seems, all this while, as he continued to like me while pretending he is okay with being just friends. And today he ended our friendship. He confessed that he fears his secret love would one day ruin both him and me. Why have I been so oblivious to his pain, as I naively thought we could be friends. He said it's for our best to get our distance, and I agreed. Tonight, I feel like a sinner.We need to meet up soon. >: hugs. Things will get better when you've been through the worst. Quote "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magicerife Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 never understood the mentality of those who claim to be finding love, and actively finding them in the establishments that spell sex. NUSFlex88, Jeremy Willus and The.Intrv. 3 Quote ---Dignity is a facade we wear to hide our ignorance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SomeGuyInSg Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 We need to meet up soon. >: hugs. Things will get better when you've been through the worst. Thanks, I really need support right now Quote 23 chn 173 63 trevvy/planetromeo same username up for friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indolant Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 It is almost in a sheer plight I read words Words can convey so much It pierces and then it hits people. Why can't we be more than just what we both want? Quote x Wind in Sympathy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 smokey 1 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 That time when Glee was actually funny... Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
novacek Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 These 3 days I've been very tired emotionally. What a huge guilt trip. Someone I wasn't close to and not very popular in camp had invited me to his birthday party on Thursday. I agreed to his hopeful expression, assuming some mutual friends from the unit would be there. But I found out on the day itself that few were attending. I did not want to show up empty-handed at a party of someone I don't know well and awkwardly have a free meal alone. But I knew the guys he invited were all planning to not turn up, and he seemed so happy talking about getting food and cake for everyone and I felt so guilty I would play a part in his disappointing party. My best friend broke up with his boyfriend on Friday. I was the one who got them together, and the one mediating their fights all these while. It's not the first time they tried breaking up. I met the bf for supper, and he wanted to drink in sorrow and sleep at absolute overnight. I listen to both sides' stories and give advice to both but I've grown weary. What should I do for a relationship that is falling apart between 2 guys whom I'm both close with? I'm doubting the efforts I've done to keep them together. I'm doubting if they belong together. And I'm most guilty for doubting if my friendships with them will survive their breakup. I finally got to meet a friend after 4 weeks today. He's not totally a friend. He started off as someone who dated me. We could understand each other so well, it was everything he wanted for a relationship. But I didn't feel the same towards him and had rejected him. It was painful, but he had accepted the rejection and became 'just friends' with me. Or so it seems, all this while, as he continued to like me while pretending he is okay with being just friends. And today he ended our friendship. He confessed that he fears his secret love would one day ruin both him and me. Why have I been so oblivious to his pain, as I naively thought we could be friends. He said it's for our best to get our distance, and I agreed. Tonight, I feel like a sinner.that's horrible. i hope you're doing fine. it sucks having to always put other people's needs in front of your own. but we do it because we know it will all be worth it some day. keep your chin up yeah? Quote peace.love.music Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
novacek Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 this is beautiful. every city should have a practice like this. Quote peace.love.music Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 merlinkun and Slynn 2 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 Gotta be the most inclusive TV show in all of time and space. Can't wait till I reach series 7 where they feature an inter-specie crime fighting lesbian couple. Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 sugar-coasted misery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 (edited) my idea of afternoon tea time always involve coffee, cakes/bread. book on one hand, and holding someone else's hand with the other. Edited May 26, 2013 by luke84 kunshinji 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kunshinji Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 When things get out of control, I breathe really deep.Then I exhale and scream, "WHAT IN HEAVENS ARE YOU DOING?!?!?!?!?!" Quote - It's always darkest before the dawn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPANther Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 There we were on plaited field,Our feet trails to a distant home,To a world beyond misery and toll,Where we smile, we laugh, we love;... And till that day comes,We, children, hold our varied stories -Clandestine love, glistening hopes for a future -Together.Of smothering stream in celestial night,And ardent romance under Athens's shroud,We gather in unmuffled anticipationOf a dawn,Where lovers sit on plaited field -Unabashed. Quote I want to hug you like that .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RealityCheck Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 And I'm back to being numb in square one! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 26, 2013 Report Share Posted May 26, 2013 Greetings from Cape Town. I thought I would share this pic of a painting in a cafe/bar here. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Where are you FROM? Kage 1 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Razorblade Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Chocolate .. Strictly Pancake !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Singapore and Malaysia made news in a gay newspaper in South Africa : The Pink Tongue and a design for health promotion for men Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acedia Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 and i told youthat i wanted the salt of your earthto be the taste of our kissesand the stars of both our skinto form maddeningly complex constellationsyou told me that you wanted the same.but you just didn't have the words. Quote "Honey, the best things in life are worth looking for over and over again 'Till your eyes just can't see no more." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 looooooool omg this made my day. Quote "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kunshinji Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 (edited) So rather than let chance take meI'll take a chanceI'll take a chance on leavingIt's that or stay and dieI loved you once and thoughYou love me still I knowIt's time for me to flyI loved you once and thoughI love you still I knowIt's time for me to goAnd so, goodbye ------- Feels like being in a sinking ship. Edited May 28, 2013 by kunshinji Quote - It's always darkest before the dawn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qiye Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 please stop staring at my bright short shorts. unless u want to get into them. if not, stop staring. kthnxbai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kunshinji Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Looking at all the hypocrites posting "supports" and being happy over nothing, just know this - you practice what you preach alright. Don't come tell people to make moves when you yourselves don't do the same, and cry yourselves a river. Nobody cares, and you know what, if you think your options are close, you're just as well right about dying anyway. Fancy being social, yet so locked up in your own frame of thinking. You're like some broken record, YOU FREAKIN' KNOW THAT? Go do what you need to do, disappear or just be happy about things around while you get your shit worked out. Fuck your life all you want. Nobody cares. Vent all you want, but practice what you preach. And you know what, you were an awesome person until you started this tirade about looking a certain way, wanting a certain person and meeting marketable standards. Frankly, I didn't think you'd want to make yourself sound so cheap, but yeah, go fuck yourself and get your shit in place. We all struggle within ourselves, I don't see why you need to harp on it. I don't understand why you need to make everybody feel so awkward when you and those people talk like other people won't listen. And to those who crave control - NOBODY CARES. You're just some insecure person who needs to play everybody around like chess pieces. You know what? If you like to be played, then fine - but I doubt you like people to play your very own game on yourself. And so anyway, move on. Quote - It's always darkest before the dawn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Seems many people had a bad day today o.O Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slayen Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 No need to be so self-righteous errmahgad. Quote Here's to us, Here's to love, All the times that we messed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest IamPineapple Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 I'm leaving on a one way trip jetplane from here at 11pm, bye BW... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leibniz Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Once one said a person who is intelligent and deep is rare. Quote “Do the things at which you are great, not what you were never made for.” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 qiye 1 Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPANther Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 I want to sniff out all the skinny guys and hug them till they suffocate. It's just so easy to wrap my arms around a skinny boy. Quote I want to hug you like that .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blissfull Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Let's get over it, no one practises what they preach. No one is so perfect. Quote "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blissfull Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Even when you're correct, you are wrong if everyone thinks that you're wrong. You can do a million things against the law, but you're not deemed a criminal unless you're caught. Quote "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robbiepass Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 Some people still asked me when am i going to be straight again. Like uhh, hello. Didnt my words got through your thick skull? Quote Hello..? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 a few weeks ago, as I was opening the barrier for a car to leave my camp, the driver suddenly stopped & said, "See you tonight!" I was so surprised at that, so I looked up & saw a LTA in Air Force No.3 driving. I was so confused, I shouted, "HUH?!" damn loudly, and he heard it, cos he reversed, stopped next to me again and asked me something about who he needed to approach if he wanted to spray paint something on the floor... I didn't think much of him, or that incident, until last week when I realized he was one of the pilots in the fighter jet squadron in my camp. So well, friendly nice pilot... not a surprise. Then this morning, I was on sentry post, and usually no one gives a shit about the sentries, and the checkers are the one whom the base personnel smile to if they want to. That same pilot drove in, stopped next to my checker friend, wound down the window to show his camp pass. Then he drove, stopped next to me, and said "Thanks!" with that really cute smile... so I said thanks back, and he said bye to me. Firstly, it's gonna be out of this world for me to have this random thought... but wow it'd be nice if he was interested in me, hahaha. Although the thought of someone interested in me is really wrong... a pilot at that, and maybe he's just really friendly, but hey.. that made my morning Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RealityCheck Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 my throat is recovering but it's so itchy. DIE THROAT DIE. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 A Thai love song with a gay twist https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=653000718050645 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 The light above the wine glass is the one and only bathhouse in Cape Town. I am enjoying a glass of wine at the door watching the activities outside the house I am staying. It is a chilly rainy evening. 8.45pm now.Last night a man was not sure if he had gone to the right place. A staff at It's A House asked him if he wanted to go to It's A House or Hot House. The man said 'Hot House'. The staff told him 'Here.' Pointing to next door. The man was going to Hot House - the sauna. It's A House is a bar/cafe/creative house. I looked at both of them and laughed. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 But these worries, these inhibitions, these fears, these flaws, these...--*whispers*: Shut it, and drink me up; I'll take them all away for that few hours. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BranLim Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Stressed and super tired! Damn this internship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 these few weeks have been baddddddd indeed. How does it feels when the boss you respected so much, cos of her belief in camaraderie, her belief in teamwork,just tell you that"Seriously, I dun trust anyone. not even anyone of you here!" and there was 4 people there with her, me, a newbie, her right hand man and her most capable worker. i think words really hurts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RealityCheck Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 When do I die, and where do you begin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 If u need to laugh Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 TGIF Quote Toro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ricky999 Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Over-thinking kills. JUST LIVE THE DAMN MOMENT ( reminding myself too) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kunshinji Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 What's the point of working so hard? Quote - It's always darkest before the dawn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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