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the thing is, we may have yelled at each other, but at least we let it all out.
and we still want each other.
and we still love each other.

but now we know better than to hurt each other.

"Honey, the best things in life

are worth looking for over and over again

'Till your eyes just can't see no more."

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I saw someone posted in his status about wanting something to be little better. Rather a few things. I feel sorry for him as his confidence seems to be hiding somewhere. Too often we are looking for that little thing in hoping it will make things better for us and too often we get disappointed, at times depressed as we go around looking and waiting for that little thing and it is just not arriving. We ask ourselves where do we go from there? Too often that little thing brings us down and too often that little thing means a lot bigger than it is in helping us to move forward, to grow. That is when hope comes in but when we wait for too long for a little thing that possibly will never come, that little thing could diminish our hopes. That little thing seriously should not have been asked or waited but the pressure given by society that make us wanting, hoping for it to come. That little thing.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Single...unwanted..

Tried so hard...

7 years and counting...

Am I that undesirable?

Maybe I just have no fate in this circle.

 

:mellow:  :unsure:  :wacko:  :blink: ~Say also Never Listen, Listen also Never Understand, Never Understand also Never Ask, Ask also Never Do, Do also Do Wrongly, Do Wrongly also Never Admit, Admit also Never Correct, Correct also Not Happy, Not Happy also Never Say~ :huh: ^_^  :o  ;)  

 

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Someone from Switzerland checked my profile in Planet Romeo. He said I am sexy. I thanked him. 

 

He replied with 'You are welcome. Do you find me sexy too?' and attached 4 other photos of his body. No face.

 

My profile states I will respond to messages from those in Singapore or visiting Singapore and everybody else, Thank you. Since it was a compliment, I responded with a ':-)'. 

 

He replied saying he felt disrespected to just receive a ':-)'. As I was having too much of time in my hand this morning, I responded 'I am sorry I didn't mean to be rude. Doesn't a smile indicate a positive remark? Have a good weekend.'

 

Fishing for a compliment not the way to do it dude!

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I got to admit that I miss him. Don't think he feels the same. But I'm ready to let go of this friendship since it just seems as if I'm the only one in it.

"In fearful day, in raging night,
With strong hearts full, our souls ignite,
When all seems lost in the War of Light,
Look to the stars-- For hope burns bright!"

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Maybe because you tried too hard?

 

I just told an old acquaintance this after he asked me if I help guys find boyfriends:

 

''Many out there in search for a partner but while hunting for one, they become depressed, a lost person torturing themselves emotionally. Hence, the term 'forever lonely' invisibly tattooed in them. Enjoy life dude. Meet people for no agendas. Make new friends. You never know when that stranger could be a friend or your special someone. Stop looking for one.''

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I just told an old acquaintance this after he asked me if I help guys find boyfriends:

 

''Many out there in search for a partner but while hunting for one, they become depressed, a lost person torturing themselves emotionally. Hence, the term 'forever lonely' invisibly tattooed in them. Enjoy life dude. Meet people for no agendas. Make new friends. You never know when that stranger could be a friend or your special someone. Stop looking for one.''

 

Gives off a certain desperate vibe.

 

 

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Gives off a certain desperate vibe.

 

One of the 'best' places to see/read/feel this kind of vibe is Blowing Wind!

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Second time bump into the candy at tpy safra pool in the evening... awww how I wish I can talk to him. KEKE.

:mellow:  :unsure:  :wacko:  :blink: ~Say also Never Listen, Listen also Never Understand, Never Understand also Never Ask, Ask also Never Do, Do also Do Wrongly, Do Wrongly also Never Admit, Admit also Never Correct, Correct also Not Happy, Not Happy also Never Say~ :huh: ^_^  :o  ;)  

 

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ever since my last relationship.. i don't how to initiate chats, don't know how active/ enthu should i be.

 

he told me "sometimes i received your msg, though it might it just once a day.. i just ignore it as i do not want to reply"

 

so now.. i dun dare to initiate.. guess that's a phobia.

(not pushing blames, but just stating one of the cause)

I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake
A smile, a laugh everyday of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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“You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,

Love like you'll never be hurt,

Sing like there's nobody listening,

And live like it's heaven on earth.”

 

 

― William W. Purkey

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Having Chin Chow 

 

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and Home cooked dinner

 

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While smiling and laughing reading BW threads. I hope I will not choke reading some of the comments there.

 

I wonder in this life I will see gay men working towards improving the community life or continue to become 'shadow' ministers in 'ruling' the country or bitches with 'canes' caning people for everything they don't agree in upholding their self-acclaimed title 'I am always right'.

 

Nice chin-chow. 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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From a distance you look like my friend,
Even though we are at war.
From a distance I just cannot comprehend
What all this fighting is for.

 

From a distance there is harmony,
And it echoes through the land.
And it's the hope of hopes, it's the love of loves,
It's the heart of every man.

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Having Chin Chow 

 

Glass+jelly.jpg

 

and Home cooked dinner

 

533692_408852742558778_272342594_n.jpg

 

While smiling and laughing reading BW threads. I hope I will not choke reading some of the comments there.

 

I wonder in this life I will see gay men working towards improving the community life or continue to become 'shadow' ministers in 'ruling' the country or bitches with 'canes' caning people for everything they don't agree in upholding their self-acclaimed title 'I am always right'.

 

Nice chin-chow. 

 

Wha lao, got chin chow never share :(

 

 

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Wha lao, got chin chow never share :(

 

Bought a pack from Aunty Lucy (U know Lucy from Fairprice). A friend taught me how to make into a jar. Didn't know so simple. Cannot e-share else I will send you 2 glasses.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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