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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I posted on Facebook maybe I should change my status to married. A friend said ''Ziz how do u marry yourself? U mean this world is so sad...so many choices and no one good enough for u?''

 

I wrote a reply:

 

Too many people fell in love for the wrong reasons.

Too many people falling in love for the wrong reasons.
Too many people anything goes.

Too many people used and using loneliness to be in relationships they are not ready.
Too many people used and using loneliness to be in relationships they shouldn't be in.
Too many people got stuck in unhappy, depressing relationships.
And the list goes on.
Of course it is nice to have someone.
It is beautiful to love and be loved.
It is beautiful when romance and intimacy become the equations of our lives.
Till that day comes, we look after our own heart.
We look after our own joy.
Until we can love ourselves well enough, we can't love others properly.
You see,
Self love is so important.
It makes us appreciate ourselves more.
It makes us to appreciate others better.
Marrying myself sounds sad and crazy, or some said stupid but in actual fact prepares me for a better relationship should I be lucky one day.
I love myself.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Self Love Is Actually More Self-Acceptance and Self-Forgiveness, and Learning To Be More Aware And Ethical.

 

Beyond your own little concerns

is a world of other 'you's'

Most of which are like you:

Self absorbed, self aggrandizing, self loathing.

"I love me, I hate me, I'm the best, I'm the worst"

On and On.

 

And all the little you's are living in a social world

where there are a very few not-you's at the very tippy top

whom all the little you's do not see...but have your lives dictated to

I mean ask yourself:

How was it even possible for one scrawny sized shrimp of a man to make millions of people murder and harm others and one another at his orders?

(So many names come to mind: Hitler, Kim Jong Il, Mao Tze Dong...)

 

So many you's told yourselves "I got no power to stop this, or do anything in this big, big world"

and you are right. you have no power.

Because

 

you gave away that power.

that was always in you but you got lied to and you believed in the lies

 

Because

you got

 

Self absorbed, self aggrandizing, self loathing.

"I love me, I hate me, I'm the best, I'm the worst"

On and On.

 

"Love me, oh love me, oh!" is your daily and nightly mantra, your prayer, your life goal.

Make yourself tower over other you's 

so as to make believe you are more powerful and better

so that you can be loved, finally!

 

so we get a world as fucked up as it is now

and you are not at fault

except for not knowing

and not caring

for all the other you's

who also do not love or care for you and just want what you want

 

to tower

over others

and be loved

by others

 

which makes no sense

you do not love those that have taken away your dignity and laud it on themselves

so how in heck is this supposed to work

 

when YOU do it?

 

So the invisible power people at the very tippy top managed to make you 

and all the other you's

chase your own tail

and bite everyone else's

 

How cool is that?

Change the world?

Be the change you want to see in the world?

 

Or is it better to just give up the stupid fight 

and just be yourself?

 

 

...and then see what happens next.

 

 

- Mother Cat, Jan 2015.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I have never stop loving you korkor. You know that. But i also know that our love is impossible. 

Sometimes just let me hide from this world and thank you for protecting me.

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Humanity is still very much in its underdeveloped stages of evolution.

If we use a model like Maslow's or more recently detailed ones like the Spiral Dynamics map

we can see most of the species have yet to even begin to reach anywhere we can call useable range of peaceful and generally okay wways of living and sharing.

 

We are just not an okay species. Not yet. 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I was browsing through Grindr on fine day and then I came across a 'sapiosexual' (of course I was too afraid to approach it... I mean you can't be too sure how it would react).

 

And I paused to ponder: What do Sapiosexuals do in bed? 

 

Do they 'mind fuck' each other with theories? Or maybe break down socially constructed notions of 'sex' ? How about scrutinizing their partner's body hoping to find the next breakthrough to publish in Nature?

 

"Sounds pretty intense," I thought to myself. 

 

Of course, I could potentially see the problems a Sapiosexual would face. For example. sitting in a lecture theater and getting a hard on because the Prof did such a 'mind blowing' seminar. Plus, how would he define intellect -given that (I believe) everyone is smart in their own niche? Would that give him a hard time sifting the few billion men in the world? 

 

Given their 'plight', I guess I shouldn't discriminate against them by screaming "PRETENTIOUS FUCK!" in my head. "Be nice, you creature!" I told myself.  

 

And so I moved on with life... scrolling through Grindr and browsing the 'Washboard' ads (are they for sale?).     

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I was browsing through Grindr on fine day and then I came across a 'sapiosexual' (of course I was too afraid to approach it... I mean you can't be too sure how it would react).

 

And I paused to ponder: What do Sapiosexuals do in bed? 

 

Do they 'mind fuck' each other with theories? Or maybe break down socially constructed notions of 'sex' ? How about scrutinizing their partner's body hoping to find the next breakthrough to publish in Nature?

 

"Sounds pretty intense," I thought to myself. 

 

Of course, I could potentially see the problems a Sapiosexual would face. For example. sitting in a lecture theater and getting a hard on because the Prof did such a 'mind blowing' seminar. Plus, how would he define intellect -given that (I believe) everyone is smart in their own niche? Would that give him a hard time sifting the few billion men in the world? 

 

Given their 'plight', I guess I shouldn't discriminate against them by screaming "PRETENTIOUS FUCK!" in my head. "Be nice, you creature!" I told myself.  

 

And so I moved on with life... scrolling through Grindr and browsing the 'Washboard' ads (are they for sale?).     

 

I don't think you understand what sapiosexual are, lmao.

 

 

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Grindr and I don't have a good ''relationship.'' My pictures in speedos or boxers or underwear so often get rejected but many guys still can get away with it. I was surprised my picture (same as in my profile now) approved. While Hornet rejected it. Been getting messages on Grindr ''You have a big package.'' I responded with a  :D or  :)

 

Johnny blushing.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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A friend wrote last night he is saddened one of his favourite pianists took his own life recently. He was battling depression.

 

A friend was watching a BBC documentary about the last moments of a person who committed suicide. He shared with me what the documentary highlighted. I told him a person who committed suicide didn’t want to take his own life. He loved his life. He didn’t want to leave his loved ones behind. He knew they would be devastated. But. He was in so much pain. Emotionally. I don’t like to use the term mental pain as it is perceived very negatively by those who don’t understand depression or who has never been in one. A depressed person loses his motivations very easily. The person who committed suicide tried his very best to get out of the pain. He failed repeatedly. If he succeeded, it was just a brief victory. You know who actually killed him? Not himself. People. People actually killed him without them realising it. How? By pushing him when what he needed was that human touch to tell him ‘’I care.’’. People tortured his mind and soul by calling him a loser. People ran away from him as he was labelled a toxic person. And many others thought to be inspiring and encouraging but were not. Because many people who thought they were much better in their lives with good jobs, good bank accounts, good lifestyles etc felt such people who happened to be their friends or loved ones were ‘’gone cases’’ – useless to continue helping them getting out from their dark world. So, the person who committed suicide spoke to God and said ‘Dear God, I tried and I failed. I am sorry.’ He took his last breath himself.’’

 

Depression is real. If you can’t help, don’t torture those who are battling in one. A smile. A hug. A sincere one. Least the gift you could offer to one.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I never should have let you kiss me that night. You stole my heart with your excuses 'Just once.' And I allowed you even though I know you're attached (yes unhappily attached, whatever) and because I've always had the hots for you after knowing you better. You guys broke up because you finally found out about his cheating ways -- You came to me for comfort, you used me, you led me on and I let you because I foolishly made myself believe that there was a chance for us. You made me believe in that. And I would never let some boy make me feel this way, but I thought -- Let's take a chance with him. Everyone told me I deserved better. Everyone was upset that I fell for you, and they wondered why I would throw everything away for someone this vile, who treated me like I'm some bootycall, some piece of flesh whenever you're upset.

And then you told me to forget about you, and oh how you're atraight now and how you never be with another guy ever again.

And now you're back with him or was that a series of guys, or whatever.

Damn, I dodged that bullet. Thank God. I'm better for it, and I'm done.

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I never should have let you kiss me that night. You stole my heart with your excuses 'Just once.' And I allowed you even though I know you're attached (yes unhappily attached, whatever) and because I've always had the hots for you after knowing you better. You guys broke up because you finally found out about his cheating ways -- You came to me for comfort, you used me, you led me on and I let you because I foolishly made myself believe that there was a chance for us. You made me believe in that. And I would never let some boy make me feel this way, but I thought -- Let's take a chance with him. Everyone told me I deserved better. Everyone was upset that I fell for you, and they wondered why I would throw everything away for someone this vile, who treated me like I'm some bootycall, some piece of flesh whenever you're upset.

And then you told me to forget about you, and oh how you're atraight now and how you never be with another guy ever again.

And now you're back with him or was that a series of guys, or whatever.

Damn, I dodged that bullet. Thank God. I'm better for it, and I'm done.

Hugs...

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In my life, I have given a fuck about many people and many things. I have also not given a fuck about many people and many things. And those fucks I have not given have made all the difference...


I DON'T GIVE A FUCK!

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Usually I won't cry because of grades and other school related stuffs. But today feel like crying so much, I'm not the kind to study for exam yet for this module i went to revise for it. I was like WTF when I saw the questions, so  fucking difficult, none of the shit I revised come out.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Need to stop developing crush on my ex crush who had fun with Me.

In love with your face first den your body. Now I want to fall for your character.

 

If you keep developing crushes on your ex crush, how can he be your ex crush? Or does it mean he's your quantum crush, as stated by the uncertainty principle?

 

 

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