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Yesterday in the lift at the supermarket, a Malay lady couldn't stop complaining saying hijab cashiers are always slow. I just looked at her and smiled. I know that cashier. She pays attention to details. That Malay lady must be one impatient bitch. Now in this taxi on my way to the office the taxi driver has finally stopped complaining about non-taxi drivers after I glued myself on my phone. Yes. We are very unhappy people. The research published last week telling the truth. Just like what Dalai Lama said not in the exact words - we have good stuff but we become unhappy and less humane.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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A young boy came into shower area after his lesson to change. He took a look opposite and picked right beside me. He gave me a glance over and slowly start to get changed. As he changed his eyes were fixed opposite. Can tell that he haven't reach puberty from his smooth pubic region. At some point in time, I felt like smacking his head and tell him to go on home to learn piano or play some computer games. The two elderly uncles showering with hardon was meant for me, not you. I was feeling all guilty he was watching all this but he obviously was entertaining himself with no restrictions. Kids these days! Sigh...! 

 

P/s: my house kept cleaned so it won't be stain with dirt. not expecting guest/s arrival. :)

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Managed to stay as psuedo-Bff with a straight friend I once fell for and continues to love today, albeit as a friend.

And yet, I find it so hard to remain friends with an ex.

Perhaps human relationships are like a mirror. You can piece them together but there's no getting back to the times when things were...normal. 

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I really don't know where to park this thought-piece of mine, especially since it might become a lightning rod for controversy. But I am not one to bottle my feelings up. 

 

I am not the manliest guy around - for example, I do have a slight diva streak, and my interests are more towards the side of domesticity such as cooking. I just don't deviate too much from the norm in terms of how I carry myself and my mannerisms. Recently though, I realised that so many gay men are ...very effeminate. Be it some of the YouTube gay couples or real life, its just so prevalent!  And yah, whatever floats your boat but seriously it becomes so frustrating when this personally undesirable trait invades my dating pool. 

Limp-wristed, the need to adopt feminine postures (like a flower pose wtf?!) in EVERY single photo opportunity, the drawn eyebrows, LONG and COLOURED hair, being loud and expressive like high-pitched squeals of laughter in public, need to go for facials every 2 weeks.... the list goes on. 

Why do I want to date you when you are even more feminine than some of my girl friends?! Ewww. Man up, please. 

Sianz.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Don't get why some ppl are in a rush to get attached and settle down, especially those who really wanna have a partner for the sake of it. Nothing good will ever come out of something that is unspontaneous and forced in a r/s. Why can't they understand this simple logic since time immemorial ._.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Somehow, life never gets simple even as things slowly fall in place. During the year 1 and 2 days, the worry was mainly on the academic rigour of the honors year mods. By year 4, the job hunt became the real problem especially when one has to think about what he or she wants to do for a living, knowing very well how your first job really affects your perception and well-being of life. Now that my studies are done and dusted, and having secured a nice cushy job in the private sector that pays well (at least for a social science degree), the worry becomes one of whether I'll excel at my job and whether I get to undergo masters studies in the future. 

 

Problems in life have this nice way of catching up with us; when one problem disappears, another never fails to pop up. This however, is what makes living interesting I guess instead of one full of dullness, banality and monotony. 

 

C'est La Vie indeed. 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Do you realise that quite often you try to do something, even struggling to do it - not for yourself but to prove to others they are wrong? You become miserable and sometime depressed when you fail? Probably time to stop that. Stop proving to anyone but do whatever you need to do for yourself. To genuinely smile and genuinely be happy. Even if that progress is slow and the achievement is just little. The power of self love is too important to discount it. I am reminding myself as I say this. People are going to talk. Let them have the joy to be assholes while you have the joy in making life better for yourself - minus assholes in the equation.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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