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You be my poison, yet you be the antidote too. The wound you left on me from six years ago still rends incessantly to date. I've exhausted all means to heal it.  it has never healed and it will never ever heal. This feeble man-child is running out of coping mechanisms too.

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For these flaws I lament.

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Wondering if a human box or something can be created for gloryhole? Meaning for example; I invited a Cute Hot Yummy BTM to the Hotel. Once he is arrived he be instructed to wear tight fetish blindfold outside the door and knock the door. I bring him strip him and put him in the covered box. The boxes will have holes on it. Then invite 2 others Top/Verst to join...once he choke deepthroat..open the box bang bukake him n breeding haha if successful can invite more haha. 

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On 3/18/2021 at 2:26 AM, The.Intrv. said:

You be my poison, yet you be the antidote too. The wound you left on me from six years ago still rends incessantly to date. I've exhausted all means to heal it.  it has never healed and it will never ever heal. This feeble man-child is running out of coping mechanisms too.

 

Take care. It took me 9 years, still sucks, maybe always will, but life will have worthy distractions now and then. I wish you great health and happiness despite what happened

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Have u ever had fun with someone who u remember fondly all of a sudden, someone meaningful, for no reason?

 

I had someone in late teens 20s years ago, who was a single child from a single-parent household. We met a few times and then his parent passed away. I remember him crying, remember cuddling him to sleep cos I thought he needed the intimacy, the warmth to make his mood better. It was surreal, it's the only time I supported a guy who I met initially for fun by going to the parent's wake cos he says very few ppl are at the wake.

 

Yet now, I cannot recall his name or face already, it was so many years ago. He must be older n more mature now. I hope he is doing well.

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It seem that there is high interest of gay and bi going for staycay this July.... interesting...we might bump each other and haha (when there is a will there is a way)

 

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I almost decided to not continue living.

 

but I'm still standing because I believe that there is a better way around my problems, and ignoring the shit around it.

 

And you can too. 

I don't know anymore.

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Helplines

(If you know someone who may need help, share this with them too)

 

National Care Hotline: 1800-202-6868 
(8am-12am daily, from 1 Sep 2020)
 Mental Well-being
- Fei Yue’s Online Counselling Service
- Institute of Mental Health’s Mental Health Helpline (6389-2222)
- Samaritans of Singapore (1800-221-4444)
- Silver Ribbon Singapore (6385-3714)
 Marital and parenting issues
- Community Psychology Hub’s Online Counselling platform 
 Violence or abuse
- Big Love Child Protection Specialist Centre (6445-0400)
- HEART @ Fei Yue Child Protection Specialist Centre (6819-9170)
- PAVE Integrated Services for Individual and Family Protection (6555-0390)
- Project StART (6476-1482)
- TRANS SAFE Centre (6449-9088)
 Counselling
- TOUCHline (Counselling) – 1800 377 2252

 For other Helplines and mental health-related support

- go.gov.sg/hotlines (BELLE, Beyond the Label helpbot)

- www.msf.gov.sg/Pages/Contact-Us.aspx 

Everyone need a little help sometimes. 

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I cant shake off this feeling that despite being married and all, one of our local politicians (famous for this running shots, tiktoks, selfies and all) is actually one of us. Could be bi or bicurious. 
 

He actually follows quite a few gay personalities on Instagram. Too many to pass as coincidence. 
 

But of course, I don’t mean to slander him lah. He has done considerably good work as an MP and politician. But if he is indeed one of us then …. 

Sianz.

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On 11/21/2021 at 1:01 PM, topLTR_93 said:

I cant shake off this feeling that despite being married and all, one of our local politicians (famous for this running shots, tiktoks, selfies and all) is actually one of us. Could be bi or bicurious. 
 

He actually follows quite a few gay personalities on Instagram. Too many to pass as coincidence. 
 

But of course, I don’t mean to slander him lah. He has done considerably good work as an MP and politician. But if he is indeed one of us then …. 

I’ve picked up that vibe mmm

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On 11/13/2021 at 12:43 AM, thedoctor said:

I almost decided to not continue living.

 

but I'm still standing because I believe that there is a better way around my problems, and ignoring the shit around it.

 

And you can too. 


For those who reached out, I thank you. I am fine and was sharing how I turned away from the negativity.


cheers,

thedoctor

 

I don't know anymore.

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a BIG MAC meal doesn't cost you $7.95 perhaps

It costs your health if you ain't careful!

 

NETFLIX doesn't cost you $17.48

It does costs your time!

 

SOCIAL MEDIA ain't free either

It costs your focus! 

 

BEWARE of the HIDDEN COSTS.

It's either MAKE you or BREAK you! 

 

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On 1/25/2022 at 8:24 AM, bbmly said:

I dont get why some bottoms are jerks to other bottoms. Do they see others as competition or simply it’s just an attitude issue 

Attitude (and up bringing)?

 

We see that in some tops, women and straights too. ;)

 

PS: Btw you look hot. 

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On 12/3/2021 at 11:16 PM, kinkienips said:

Wonder if I can find a bf before I turn 31… which is this month TT

Someone special doesn't show up as you wish... he shows up when you least expected... At least this is what happened to me, I thought he was here on business trip, it'll just be another ONS for me... He changed his flight after he left 2 days after we met and celebrate my birthday, before he fly home, and promised and booked a ticket to come back within 2 weeks we met.  ...it's been 11 years.

 

Just don't give up, think positive.

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On 3/18/2022 at 1:51 PM, Le Petit Chinois said:

Someone special doesn't show up as you wish... he shows up when you least expected... At least this is what happened to me, I thought he was here on business trip, it'll just be another ONS for me... He changed his flight after he left 2 days after we met and celebrate my birthday, before he fly home, and promised and booked a ticket to come back within 2 weeks we met.  ...it's been 11 years.

 

Just don't give up, think positive.

Omg you found a prince. Good for you. 

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I created my present account on BlowingWind 12 years ago, when I was an 18 year old boy. I remembered that I was studying for my A-Levels then. 

 

Time really flies. 

 

BlowingWind really helped me connect with alot of gay men in SG. Yes, most are toxic and I have been let down over and over again by the sheer fixation on sex and buff bods. But I have also made some really good friends and connections here. 

 

Just a random thought. But thank you, BW, for journeying with me. 

 

Sianz.

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Date: 8 Sep

I was in the MRT this afternoon. Seated next to me was an elderly woman. As I sat down the seat, she turned to me and told me that ...(i quote) "Nowadays, young persons do not give up their seats to older people. They even sit at the reserved seats" Bleah, bleah bleah. Next to her was another elderly woman (but younger than herself) in the reserved seat. She mistaken she was a young lady and told me that she should not be seated there. I told her to take a good look. She may not be as old as her, but she definitely fits the requirement to take the reserved seat. She realized she has made a mistake and tried to change topic. 😁

Then, she told me that she is actually 90 years old and her doctor told her that she looks like 75yo. She also told me she managed to look like 75yo because she has a great husband who loves her so much and took care of her and the family.

Later, she complained that younger generation speaks Singlish, not proper English. I told her, IMO, it's perfectly alright to speak Singlish in Singapore. We, Singaporeans, are good with switching code when the time calls for it. She was not convinced and not happy, of course. 😏

Before she got off the train at Dhoby Ghaut, she said she speaks proper English because she was from CHIJ. Very proud moment lor. 😆🤣😂

I said to myself, wow, what a fiesty old dame she is. She must have been an "Empress Dowager" character during her heyday. 🫅

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#TrueStory

Last Sunday i met someone online.

 

works at S.G.H.

manager or in Snr Management 

has 4 older sisters 

has 4 niece/nephews

is gay & his Mom doesn't know

 

he is local Malay, i chatted with him for 5days, i did something embarrassing:

                                                                 

i told him:

"Sorry if i sound Racist but my assumption is MOST MALAYS RESIDE IN THE EAST rite?"

                                                      

he laughed & replied," Yes, in BEDOK."

             

[Self advertising post in signature removed by mod]

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For today,

 

1. Just realized I'm a true gym addict, when Shopee sent notification that my new set of gym tanks is out for delivery and am I as excited as a kid with a new toy.

 

2. (While driving) Driving a car is very much emotional as it is mental.

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