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Tho it might b random, i have to ask..

lets say a friend of yours is a cosplayer, dons uniforms of ww2 military characters and goes for events. And then the uniform he/she wore is 2x his body size and made him looked overly fUnny. And some person comes along and steals that picture and pastes it on a forum and everyone (practically the whole community) trolls him as his/her fave is there as well. What advice would u give to the 'victimized' cosplayer whose pic had been stolen n person has been made fun of?

Need to know what advice can be given.. (reason for doing so? Pm me :( )

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Tho it might b random, i have to ask.. lets say a friend of yours is a cosplayer, dons uniforms of ww2 military characters and goes for events. And then the uniform he/she wore is 2x his body size and made him looked overly fUnny. And some person comes along and steals that picture and pastes it on a forum and everyone (practically the whole community) trolls him as his/her fave is there as well. What advice would u give to the 'victimized' cosplayer whose pic had been stolen n person has been made fun of? Need to know what advice can be given.. (reason for doing so? Pm me :( )

Dont hav any advice to giv :x but your fren can email the admin of that forum to have his photos remove first.

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Are you willing to provide the link here so we can take a look? The age of the internet is really the internet, open, and anything goes. Until you go and curse about the gahmen or want to plant a ...., then you'll be traced and questioned.

Nobody likes to be ridiculed, but there are enough idiots in the world that it will never end. As long as we have some sort of a social life, there's really no avoiding it. I know how annoying it can be, but the law says you can't go around shooting these people in the head, maybe starting with the leg, to the kidney, to the shoulder, hear some begging, before the head, without being punished.

I don't have a miracle to even lessen the pain you feel, it takes a lot of effort on your part to feel better about this. Three portions, Feelings, Thoughts, Action. The feelings cannot be changed, you will feel anger, sadness, the thoughts that you don't deserve this, they should have their face slapped. Only the Thoughts/Actions you can change. How to change, will really depends on how much effort you are willing to put into, remember, it is not others who is making you feel miserable, it is what thought/action you take that makes you feel bad. For example, if you keep going back to the forum and see bad comments, and you feel bad, change that action.

Sharing my personal experience, long time ago I had a car accident, my car actually flipped over in the CTE tunnel, blocked the entrance to the CTE. One day a friend actually asked me if the picture of a car was mine that was posted in some forum. The title is something like, "Car turned turtle in CTE". Basically where the car flipped over, it cut all traffic going into CTE tunnel till the ambulance cannot come in. (The entry at Chinatown outside Lan Kwai Fung). From the picture, it looks like one of the cars that was stuck in the tunnel that took it (a few cars behind). Was it an appropriate thing to do to take such a picture? Did it stop the person from taking the picture? I can't change the fact the picture was taken and posted online, but I can choose to think otherwise and not let it bother me.

I hope I have given you a positive perspective with my little long-winded story and wishing you all the best in your experience now, that you will look back and provide very good advice to someone later in life.

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First week of term: Firework - Katy Perry

Mid-term: The Lazy Song - Bruno Mars

Week before Finals: Russian Roulette - Rihanna

Day before results: The Edge of Glory - Lady Gaga

Results day: The One That Got Away - Katy Perry

Holiday: Till The World Ends - Britney Spears

LOL!!!

I AM TITANNNIUUUMMMMMMM (random)

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#randommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmFactsAboutMe

I hate people giving empty promises. Its like you said this and you either did the opposite or did not do at all.

I mean why you wanna promise since you know you yourself cant accomplish it.

So think before you say "I WILL" or "I PROMISE". Cause i will remember clearly what you said.

And I'll see how you gonna deal w it.


"I love the way you lie."

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"... I don't know where we went wrong,

But the feeling's gone and I just can't get it back"

(2:12 of the song)

It's all gone with the wind...

Hihi

Care to b frens, chat, fun buddy, long term relationship n mit up?

I'm sincere guy here, I'm not here to fool around...

Hope u r sincere too...

Life Time Relationship / Partner is still the main priority among wat I'm seeking...

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if you look under the hat of the graduation bear, the back of the picture that was framed up... you would have seen how much i love u.

it's not that i dun want to openly express my love, it's just that i hope that one day, if we are still together, i can give u a surprise over how strong our love was..

too bad this day never come

~a note for you that i should have written 1.5 years ago~

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I know this part is going to hit me sooner or later.

I told myself not to be too attached to him because he's going back to Australia for school in the later part of January and he won't return till December. But sometimes emotions catch us unaware.

He went to another country for a short holiday and he had just returned today. Of course, I wasn't bothered about it because we would still have a fair bit of time to spend together when he comes back. Little did I know, he came back with a bittersweet announcement. He'll start school in a weeks time and I have only 4 days left with him.

It's funny, both of us knew this would not be easy and I told myself not to get too attached because I know myself, and I know that I would break when he's gone. I just cannot bear having nights in the future when I'm by myself, and somehow I start thinking about him. Wondering, is he thinking about me too? Yes, we can skype. Yes, we can do whatever it takes with the current technology in terms of communication. But nothing, nothing, ever beats being able to see him face to face. Nothing beats being able to feel him near me. Being able to see his smile and not the pixels on a computer screen. Being able to feel his warm touch. Being able to embrace him.

So...I know this is from a song, but I never thought I would ever feel this way.

This is my confession, I try to quit, but I'm aching, all tangled in you.

More than a soul connection, I am caught and under your spell.

Don't leave me here without you near, I need to feel you breathing.

Every moment without you is too long.

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Bought shaver for bunk to shave their 'botak' heads, save money, in the end some anonymous person spoiled the cap. And following week become IC for checking people's hair, facial hair and finger nails.. got a feeling gonna sign guard duty like the previous IC of the same task..

Art makes the world go round! Love is the entirety of it!

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I know this part is going to hit me sooner or later.

I told myself not to be too attached to him because he's going back to Australia for school in the later part of January and he won't return till December. But sometimes emotions catch us unaware.

He went to another country for a short holiday and he had just returned today. Of course, I wasn't bothered about it because we would still have a fair bit of time to spend together when he comes back. Little did I know, he came back with a bittersweet announcement. He'll start school in a weeks time and I have only 4 days left with him.

It's funny, both of us knew this would not be easy and I told myself not to get too attached because I know myself, and I know that I would break when he's gone. I just cannot bear having nights in the future when I'm by myself, and somehow I start thinking about him. Wondering, is he thinking about me too? Yes, we can skype. Yes, we can do whatever it takes with the current technology in terms of communication. But nothing, nothing, ever beats being able to see him face to face. Nothing beats being able to feel him near me. Being able to see his smile and not the pixels on a computer screen. Being able to feel his warm touch. Being able to embrace him.

i know how you feel. got to know so many great guys here at Shanghai who could very well potentially be my bf... my first bf (lol), yet, I know i'm gonna come back to Singapore on March 3rd, and the next time i'll be back would be 2015 for uni (and that's not even confirmed)...

it sucks having to force yourself not to feel anything. at least yours is only about a year. please hold on

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My heart was suffused with warmth as my gaze landed upon the young - probably between 15 to 17 years of age - couple. There they were, sitting together on a bench at a secluded part of Bedok Reservoir. As one of them lay his head on the shoulder of the other who placed an assertive arm across his partner's shoulder, they exuded an insouciance so characteristic of youth to the social norms that would frown upon such affectionate behaviour between males.

Perhaps not. After all, they were situated at an isolated area that wasn't too accommodating to the public eye; as I ran past them, there was a subtle shift in their demeanour - were they wondering if I was friend or foe? A silly grin crept onto my face as I, being a romantic at heart, basked in the pure unadulterated bliss of their adolescent love.

Oh young lovers, I hope fervently you will cherish each other, to stay true to the relationship. The test of time by itself is an arduous one but there are so many obstacles in your path. Let not ambiguous intentions nor superficiality nor cynicism nor societal pressure taint your feelings. You have been brave enough to embark on so treacherous a journey so early in your life, for your sake I pray you will stay together.

Like Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."

Everyone has opinions but whether they are justifiable is another issue.

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